Chance of girl encountering

Bruticus said:

An old friend of mine has a huge freakish cock (no, I never asked how big). He's one of the most insecure people I've ever met-- and a clingy pushover in relationships.

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wow having a huge dick must really suck.....







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I think his point is just that having a big dick isn't some golden ticket to tons of women and confidence. The sooner a guy figures that out, the happier he's going to be.

stridge said:

I think his point is just that having a big dick isn't some golden ticket to tons of women and confidence. The sooner a guy figures that out, the happier he's going to be.

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Was it that obvious? :s

stridge said:

I think his point is just that having a big dick isn't some golden ticket to tons of women and confidence. The sooner a guy figures that out, the happier he's going to be.

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Suprisingly.. if you are decent looking.. and you're packing i dont see why you cant have any chick you want in the bedroom.. confidence would be through the roof



Would a guy with a 10 inch cock be so upset about his size, that he would swap it for a 5 incher?


I dont think so..

You're just assuming that though. There are plenty of guys with average or even smaller penises that have all the confidence in the world and get laid like gnagbusters. Likewise, I'm sure there are plenty of hung guys that are too shy to even talk to women or are simply assholes and always get shot down.

Nobody's saying anybody would be upset with a great size, what they are saying is that dick size isn't some golden key to happiness and confidence with women. Believe it or not, not even all women are even looking for a really big size - most are more than happy with average and many don't care at all. Don't forget that only a minority of women even orgasm with vaginal intercourse. It's a male fantasy that every woman is looking for a huge dick.

I Guess I is in the assholes group lol

am i inclined to agree?? ha


i seem to be the first thing, too shy for my own good

Don't forget that only a minority of women even orgasm with vaginal intercourse.

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... from a normal dick.

There's a thread around from something more than a year ago about the relative time to (vaginal) orgasm from different sized members. From average sizes it was like 23 minutes. With stuff in the 8" range it was more in the neighborhood of 6 minutes.

There's some 'motion to the ocean' arguments to be had there, but don't be insane to think that at an equivalent level of skillfulness the average could hang (no pun) with the large. Women who have had both will also be aware of that difference. (in fill-itude, in pleasure, in reduced time to orgasm). Here's another tip, someone who's average will hear "No, size doesn't matter" or "Your penis is just fine." While large people hear stuff more like "OMG your cock Rocks!"

Is it more important than personality or whatever random feature-set the woman imprinted upon as a child? Usually No.

Is it "unimportant"? ... Don't be crazy. It's the thing that they don't have that tends to define sexual Maleness. (!)

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im gonna speak from my own experience. out of all the locker room guys that are larger all of them get more.. its just a fact. why would u be shy to talk to a girl if u got a 10 inch dick. thing is they arent.. most guys that are over 8'' natrually are cocky as hell and overconfident. not shy..



and if you can t pleasure a woman with ur dick then ofcourse she will be pissed off.. if you cant get her to orgasm .. will she be like


Oh he was great ill call him again.. or will she try find a bigger dick

Asanon said:

... from a normal dick.

There's a thread around from something more than a year ago about the relative time to (vaginal) orgasm from different sized members. From average sizes it was like 23 minutes. With stuff in the 8" range it was more in the neighborhood of 6 minutes.

There's some 'motion to the ocean' arguments to be had there, but don't be insane to think that at an equivalent level of skillfulness the average could hang (no pun) with the large. Women who have had both will also be aware of that difference. (in fill-itude, in pleasure, in reduced time to orgasm). Here's another tip, someone who's average will hear "No, size doesn't matter" or "Your penis is just fine." While large people hear stuff more like "OMG your cock Rocks!"

Is it more important than personality or whatever random feature-set the woman imprinted upon as a child? Usually No.

Is it "unimportant"? ... Don't be crazy. It's the thing that they don't have that tends to define sexual Maleness. (!)

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I think this is a pretty relevant idea. I think a girl who can't orgasm with an average-sized penis will probably have a better chance with a bigger penis up to a certain point. I know for a fact when I'm not fucking my girlfriend all the way she doesn't orgasm like she normally does from full penetration. She also doubts she'd be able to orgasm like she does with me with any average guy.

Asanon said:

... from a normal dick.

There's a thread around from something more than a year ago about the relative time to (vaginal) orgasm from different sized members. From average sizes it was like 23 minutes. With stuff in the 8" range it was more in the neighborhood of 6 minutes.

There's some 'motion to the ocean' arguments to be had there, but don't be insane to think that at an equivalent level of skillfulness the average could hang (no pun) with the large. Women who have had both will also be aware of that difference. (in fill-itude, in pleasure, in reduced time to orgasm). Here's another tip, someone who's average will hear "No, size doesn't matter" or "Your penis is just fine." While large people hear stuff more like "OMG your cock Rocks!"

Is it more important than personality or whatever random feature-set the woman imprinted upon as a child? Usually No.

Is it "unimportant"? ... Don't be crazy. It's the thing that they don't have that tends to define sexual Maleness. (!)

.

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I'd be interested to see this study, but I'm not sure I buy into it 100%.

In the first place, nearly everything I've read about female preference states that around 8" is actually at the very outside range or beyond what they prefer in terms of length - despite the impression we get around here and other corners of the internet, not every woman enjoys ultra-deep penetration or having their cervixes thottled, whicn in many cases 8" is more than enough length to cause this to happen.

And, so far as being able to deeply penetrate is concerned, most studies show that women are more concerned with girth and friction over deep penetration. The vagina feels sensation after the first few inches, but it's roughly equal to how it feels to touch a part of your body that has gone numb from lack of circulation - there's a sensation of pressure, but nothing specific or distinct. Some women obviously enjoy the stimulus of feeling a deeper pressure, but as I mentioned before, most of what I've ever seen regarding female preference pretty clearly states that they're not looking for ultra-deep penetration.

Thirdly, I'd imagine that there is some sort of anatomical convergence here, meaning that vaginas that fall within the average range work fine with penises that fall within the average range. I promise you there are a good number of women that, if they do get off vaginally, and keep in mind that many who do are still orgasming from clitoral friction, they can easily do so without having their vaginas filled to nearly beyond capacity (lengthwise at least).

Also, the female orgasm is very much a psychological enterprise as well as physical. I'd say it's a very narrow view of how sex works and what makes it successful to suggest that simply inserting a longer member will automatically result in better and faster orgasms in any woman, which is part of what is being suggested here. If 8" is always better, I would just put out there that many MOS posters have linked articles stating that the best selling dildos purchased by women are always in 6-7" range, and in fact when women masturbate very few report penetrating themselves very deeply if at all. While this doesn't mean that deeper penetration isn't pleasurable for many women, it also strongly suggests that it's not the ultimate solution to abundant and easy orgasms, as many guys around here seem to think.

Ultimately I think that a woman's arrousal level, her attraction to the guy, his skill and stamina in fucking, and her comfort level, have a hell of a lot more to do with producing the orgasm than just the basic length of the penis, and in terms of physical factors I'd say girth is more important than length for most women.

Like I said, I'd be curious to see that study and I'm a little dubious as to how such research could even be accurately and reliably reported, but I'm not passing judgement yet. My point is simply that it seems pretty sili to me to suggest that a jump from 6" to 8" will somehow magically cut down orgasm time in by 2/3 - so does a 7" penis on average cut it down to 13 minutes? What about 7.5"? 11 minutes? Matching female sexual satisfaction strictly to the size of male anatomy just gets pretty sili when you start breaking it down. There are so many other factors involved. No doubt it's visually impressive and interesting for women, but some kind of magical orgasm solution and a skeleton key to any woman's pleasure? No way.

MissionPossible said:

im gonna speak from my own experience. out of all the locker room guys that are larger all of them get more.. its just a fact. why would u be shy to talk to a girl if u got a 10 inch dick. thing is they arent.. most guys that are over 8'' natrually are cocky as hell and overconfident. not shy..



and if you can t pleasure a woman with ur dick then ofcourse she will be pissed off.. if you cant get her to orgasm .. will she be like


Oh he was great ill call him again.. or will she try find a bigger dick

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Man, I've read your posts on this subject in this thread and others, and I just wonder, have you not had a lot of experience with women? Who are these women that you hang out with?

I'm trying not to judge, but you're so extremely negative about women that I have to wonder if you've had some sort of bad experience with them or something. Everything you have to say seems to come from a pretty intensely mysoginistic viewpoint that all women are cock-hungry whores that use men for sex and reject any guy that isn't hung.

As I've said before, who are these women you know? I don't really know any that behave in the manor that you seem to assign to nearly all women. I get the feeling you're angry or pissed off or something and are just seeing what you want to believe about females. Not every woman is a slut that only cares about penis size, in fact I'd say that particular sort accounts for a very small percentage of the women out there.

stridge said:

Man, I've read your posts on this subject in this thread and others, and I just wonder, have you not had a lot of experience with women? Who are these women that you hang out with?

I'm trying not to judge, but you're so extremely negative about women that I have to wonder if you've had some sort of bad experience with them or something. Everything you have to say seems to come from a pretty intensely mysoginistic viewpoint that all women are cock-hungry whores that use men for sex and reject any guy that isn't hung.

As I've said before, who are these women you know? I don't really know any that behave in the manor that you seem to assign to nearly all women. I get the feeling you're angry or pissed off or something and are just seeing what you want to believe about females. Not every woman is a slut that only cares about penis size, in fact I'd say that particular sort accounts for a very small percentage of the women out there.

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I don't have too much experience thats for sure, I'm only 18 but the kind of women im talking about is the ones at parties that just feel like having sex at the time, no relationship bullshit or something like that. Sure if you want a girlfriend and she loves you, she'll be happy with any size. It's not just the dick that counts, i know that lol but the women im talking bout in general is at parties/clubs.. etc.

MissionPossible;266521 said:

im gonna speak from my own experience. out of all the locker room guys that are larger all of them get more.. its just a fact. why would u be shy to talk to a girl if u got a 10 inch dick. thing is they arent.. most guys that are over 8'' natrually are cocky as hell and overconfident. not shy..



and if you can t pleasure a woman with ur dick then ofcourse she will be pissed off.. if you cant get her to orgasm .. will she be like


Oh he was great ill call him again.. or will she try find a bigger dick

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I disagree. Can't stare, or talk to a chick for five minutes without leaving to do something else. Sucks.

well the only way a huge cock is worthy is when you get the crowd knowing it, then the girls just need to see it....

I think it's more likely for a woman (or man) to encounter a 5" penis that is claimed to be "8 inches"

I hate how women say they've done someone with an 11 inch penis. That's extremely rare. She probably thought an 8 inches was 11 inches.

keepingitbig;402822 said:

I hate how women say they've done someone with an 11 inch penis. That's extremely rare. She probably thought an 8 inches was 11 inches.

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When I was 6" I dated a woman who swore I was "at least 9 inches!" Tis why you don't hear of many female carpenters, they don't know shit for eye-balling measurements.

keepingitbig;402822 said:

I hate how women say they've done someone with an 11 inch penis. That's extremely rare. She probably thought an 8 inches was 11 inches.

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Yes you hear that alot when you chat on the net and wanna fuck her, so they evade the fuck by saying that you have a dick that is below what she is used to...of course she is lying!
Say ones that you have a 10 inch cock, and wait for her reply...