NoFap no Pornography Accountability Thread

doublelongdaddy;761063 said:
81 days to go. I bet you break by day 8! :)
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let me know what I stand to lose, I mean the major disadvantages of not doing erect stretches. If you win, it would be all because I ejaculate after doing erect stretches since I need to watch adult entertainment while doing the stretches.
 
huge-girth;761122 said:
let me know what I stand to lose, I mean the major disadvantages of not doing erect stretches. If you win, it would be all because I ejaculate after doing erect stretches since I need to watch adult entertainment while doing the stretches.
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Not doing erect stretches? That means you are not getting your BPFSL to become BPEL, or closing the gap between these two measurements. Disadvantage? It is a level playing field, you do what you do and I will do what I do, which is win :)
 
doublelongdaddy;761171 said:
Not doing erect stretches? That means you are not getting your BPFSL to become BPEL, or closing the gap between these two measurements. Disadvantage? It is a level playing field, you do what you do and I will do what I do, which is win :)
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I give up for the love I have for my gains :)
 
huge-girth;761254 said:
I give up for the love I have for my gains :)
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I think it best never to have these contest as the contest gives the opportunity to fuck up. Without this contest over my head I know I will do better. So odd how that happens.
 
doublelongdaddy;761300 said:
I think it best never to have these contest as the contest gives the opportunity to fuck up. Without this contest over my head I know I will do better. So odd how that happens.
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But in all of this I learnt a lesson. Be careful with rules, moderation in everything is best.
 
huge-girth;761396 said:
But in all of this I learnt a lesson. Be careful with rules, moderation in everything is best.
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Saint Pauls said it best "All things are permissible but not all are profitable"
 
In my introductory post I mentioned I am involved in NoFap, and DLD mentioned that he is as well. So I am starting this thread for anyone in these forums interested in quitting pornagraphy, on either a permanent or temporary basis.

The word scandal come from the Greek word skandalon, meaning a stumbling block- something that trips you up on your path. Masturbation and pornography do nothing but get in the way of our goals. And though they may, at times, seem to be more like a boulder than a small block, it can be moved.

With God's help we can quit this. Permanently.

If anyone is looking for an accountability partner hit me up on Kik: WorldSifter
 
My situation is I’ve been celibate for 11 years, I have not been on a date or with a woman in any capacity over this 11 years. Masturbation always seemed like a daily necessity, and for me adult entertainment was needed (for the most part). Today I can go a week or sometimes a month. I do not want to quit, I thinking quitting anything creates a rule and that rule will most certainly be broken. I do not do it because I want to, most times I have to force it, I do it because I begin to get fustrated and easily angered. When I get to that point I find the lesser of the two would be releasing myself.

Understand I am also a minister and I can not teach masturbation is wrong as it is not written to be. (Yes, I know about Owan?) so since God did not speak against it, where He had plenty of opportunities, the 613 laws could simply be 614. Why was it not mentioned in negative light? I think because a single man who has given his life to the Lord needs that release. I know I should like a perverted preacher, and that is just fine? I teach Gods Word as it is written.

With all that said sometimes I can look at very innocent material and take care of business when I find myself in that situation. Problem is it never stays innocent, it almost always leads to full out adult entertainment! So trying to avoid this is where I suffer.

I would be happy to get myself to once a month and work from there. Quitting seems unrealistic for me since I am complete celibate. But getting longer periods would be awesome cause no matter when I do it the guilt and regret is always the same. I refuse to go to God and dump my guilt on Him, Jesus already has completely forgiven me so why would I remind Him of something He has already completely forgiven and forgotten? “I have forgotten your sins as far as east is from west” that eternity! So I am stuck with the guilt and that sting hurts so bad I think twice next time. I will only go to God in praise, glory and honor of everything They have done for me.

So I will start this accountability tomorrow since I have had a very stressful week filled with frustration. Monday is a good starting day. I will be accountable from them forward.

I pray this helps us get to a better place and helps others who want to take part too. Thanks for starting the thread ❤️
 
Also I wanted to tell you that I am a biblical Christian saved by Grace. I do not belong to any religion and I am quite against religion. I rest in the work of Jesus Christ. ❤ I feel laws and rules do nothing but trip me up. Perhaps Voltaire said it best! “Perfect is the enemy of good”
 
AbbeyNormal said:
I am a Christian also. I believe we are saved by grace alone but I also pray the He convicts me in my heart and lead me to do what is right in His eyes.
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Exactly! His spirit is always convicting us of our righteousness, This is why we grieve the Spirit when we do something wrong. It’s simply does not line up with the new creation we are. We know what’s wrong, we need to pray for strength. The apostle Paul tells us “everything is permissible, but not everything is profitable” we have a responsibility to be honest with ourselves to what is right and what is wrong.
 
I'm celibate for the past 9 years, and class myself as something like asexual, but I still have a high sex drive from time to time, but control it with visualization, and the occasional masturbation, but very rarely to adult entertainment, its often out of memories with ex partners.

I've used adult entertainment less and less, but do look at the occasional image, from my xxx folder. Are images bad? I actually prefer them these days to anything movie-like, and more often then not the woman on her own, and partially clothed.

Been thinking of getting a fleshlight to make the experience more pleasurable tbh, and although I have posted in the sex doll thread, I dont have the space or privacy for one, nor the money!
 
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I have owned a since 2007 Fleshlight (not the same one) and i can say it dose make it more pleasurable. But I am thinking of investing in a doll I have a close friend who did and he says it was worth ever penny ($2200). I have a bit in the savings plus my income tax refund wil more than cover the cost and privacy is no issue. But we will see.
 
Good to have you onboard Red! 4 of us accountable to one another...sounds like MOS when we started ?

I do not have a FleshLight, I have my hand?I have been fapfree for 7 days. Shooting for 30 or more.
 
9 days in and I just let one off with no adult entertainment! ? just some YouTube boob video. ? I am going to shoot for another 30 and try with no visuals at all. For some reason it scares me in a strange way, like what should I think? Idk ? I guess I will not know till I try. The reason I slipped up was libido increased a bit this evening, I was watching some TikTok videos and some of the videos were cute girls, and I actually felt my penis getting hard so I took advantage. Slight healthy regret that I did not accomplish the 30 days but I feel as though, in some way, this was a big step tonight without going to porntube or the like. Prayers for me Brothers to give credit where due and improve where I can ❤ Day 1.....
 
AbbeyNormal said:
Yup I have seen those TikTok videos my self, so i understand completely.
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It felt good to have some libido, I could have avoided it but I did not. Like I said some healthy regret and right back on the horse. For me this is like climbing Mount Everest one day you’re climbing up the next day or climbing down but you’re always climbing up in the end. I’m very happy that I did not go to the place that makes me feel so guilty. Although I don’t feel great about tonight I do feel better in the way it happened. Progress is progress. ❤
 
I feel the same. I have found that I always feel way worse masturbating to adult entertainment than my imagination. adult entertainment makes me feel dirty in away.
I have got back into working out and changed my nutrition plus I added testosterone boosting supplements (all legal) and I have had a huge increase in sex drive. So I have to watch out how I direct that energy. If I dont allow myself some realse I can very easly fiind my way back to adult entertainment.
 
AbbeyNormal said:
I feel the same. I have found that I always feel way worse masturbating to adult entertainment than my imagination. adult entertainment makes me feel dirty in away.
I have got back into working out and changed my nutrition plus I added testosterone boosting supplements (all legal) and I have had a huge increase in sex drive. So I have to watch out how I direct that energy. If I dont allow myself some realse I can very easly fiind my way back to adult entertainment.
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It’s a slippery slope and you can go from the most simple image and without control and up in the most disgusting filth. I’m happy that I was able to stop at a certain point but still that’s not attaining what I desire which is to control myself. I have no qualms about masturbation but I do about pornography. I usually do not feel any kind of libido to really masturbate so when it comes up I sort of feel like I should take advantage of it but then when I’m done I always have regret. But this time the regret will fade quickly because I’ve already admitted it to you I’ve asked you to pray for me and when I wake up tomorrow it’s a new day and I’m not gonna spend one minute feeling guilt. On to better stronger more discipline days.
 
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