Psychology Mental Freedom from Size Complex.

DLD · Feb 25, 2009

SUPRA is an awesome kid. I wish he could be around more, like he used to but I believe he is still in Iraq. I hope he sees his threads get bumped.

gentlegrow · Feb 25, 2009

doublelongdaddy;331935 said:
My question is how do you get to fuck them to begin with?

maybe u got this wrong i only played a word game ^^. better written: fuck her for the last time and then dump her. It was more meant like a joke ^^.
but i would say its not the worst way to end a relationship in such a way^^.

greetz

DLD · Feb 26, 2009

gentlegrow;331971 said:
maybe u got this wrong i only played a word game ^^. better written: fuck her for the last time and then dump her. It was more meant like a joke ^^.
but i would say its not the worst way to end a relationship in such a way^^.

greetz

I was just playin'

REDZULU2003 · Jul 2, 2009

Great thread - Majority of guys here need to read it with some on the CRITICAL list

elpichon3000 · Aug 24, 2009

Man that was outstanding! But I don't understand how you thought 8x6 is small I just looked at ruler and 8x6 is pretty fuckin impresive.

childwild · Sep 4, 2009

yeh, self confidence its a great work with your brains

Telling the truth, for me to cope by myself with such problem was too hard, I've turned for help to specialist

B-Mac1984 · Apr 6, 2012

This thread was a great read but I have yet to conquer the feelings of inadequacy. I'm only 6x5 and I feel absolutely horrible about my size. I think about it every day from morning to night, sometimes it gets so bad that I have emotional breakdowns about it. I've been to a therapist for a year and stopped going because they couldn't help, nor do the antidepressants I'm on.

A big part of it comes from being gay. Most gay men judge you on your size before they take any of your other features into consideration, and I've had more than my fair share of rejections and nasty remarks despite the fact that I'm actually a damn good looking guy. It makes me feel absolutely disgusting and unattractive.

I've opened up about this to a few of my close friends (who I have messed around with) and they have all told me that my size is perfectly fine, I'm not small and that I have nothing to worry about. However I just don't see it. It looks and feels so small to me, I hardly even enjoy jacking off. I've been using the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] since October and have had noticeable gains, and have had a few old fuck-buds comment that I'm definitely bigger. But it does nothing for me inside. I'm in a constant state of misery because of it.

I'm going to continue with Penis Enlargement because I just can't give up, but I just don't know what to do or think anymore. I truly hate what I have between my legs

DLD · Apr 7, 2012

AT 6 x 5 you are above average and most men would think this was big. You should feel happy about your size.

B-Mac1984 · Apr 10, 2012

The only time I've ever been happy with it was when I was rolling on E and it looked and felt huge at the time. But I can't go through life high every day. I don't know DLD, it really eats me alive inside, even just looking at it.

Lendar · Jul 16, 2012

This is a good an motivating thread. Thanks supra

pUNKY · Jul 17, 2012

great bump!

DLD · Jul 17, 2012

pUNKY;492649 said:
great bump!

Ba-Bump

LONGERDICK7+ · Oct 11, 2014

amazing 8 inches and feeling small that is stupid, i dont have a nice social life, i have a few friends and they are dirt poor just like me, i have no money and im not big, im definitely way too low,evenso im still alive and i want to grow, but at the same time i ask my self why what s the purpose of stretching twisting pulling etc if most things in my life suck! is way too ridiculous and senseless,guys like you and most of the brothers can be happy and thankful about their lives,even when they say they deal whit a lotta bull they have way more chances than i and i feel ok about that, at least i have some Bros where i can learn from.i would like to have a lotta things in my life money a lot, a nice house you know the things that any day dreamer could want and that would give me certain peace of mind and happiness,but i wonder when im gonna have all those things maybe never.maybe soon who knows hahaha

DLD · Oct 12, 2014

shortdick;611880 said:
amazing 8 inches and feeling small that is stupid, i dont have a nice social life, i have a few friends and they are dirt poor just like me, i have no money and im not big, im definitely way too low,evenso im still alive and i want to grow, but at the same time i ask my self why what s the purpose of stretching twisting pulling etc if most things in my life suck! is way too ridiculous and senseless,guys like you and most of the brothers can be happy and thankful about their lives,even when they say they deal whit a lotta bull they have way more chances than i and i feel ok about that, at least i have some Bros where i can learn from.i would like to have a lotta things in my life money a lot, a nice house you know the things that any day dreamer could want and that would give me certain peace of mind and happiness,but i wonder when im gonna have all those things maybe never.maybe soon who knows hahaha

Blessed are the poor for they shall inherit the kingdom of God!

LONGERDICK7+ · Oct 12, 2014

In that given case i shouls die if want to inherit the kingdom of god

DLD · Oct 13, 2014

shortdick;612030 said:
In that given case i shouls die if want to inherit the kingdom of god

No, this means that at any time you can inherit the Kingdom, you only need to go to Jesus and accept him!

LONGERDICK7+ · Oct 14, 2014

God the almighty god..

PurpleOnes · Jan 2, 2015

Again great thing to read at the same time while personally I have made gains I'm not at that happy point of being satisfied with it.

LONGERDICK7+ · Nov 2, 2015

Theres this ""correlation" between penis size confidence n mental freedom...i wonder if my words make sense.

The more i exercise n learn about PE the more confident i think i might get no matter what..

But i still have this ""tendency"" to believe that my state of mind is a great contributor to that everytime i do something wrong means that im going to have a negative effect on my Penis gains..

Sounds sense less but i interconnect that bad situation whit my penis size...WTHroflrofl

DLD · Nov 2, 2015

shortdick;672148 said:
Theres this ""correlation" between penis size confidence n mental freedom...i wonder if my words make sense.

The more i exercise n learn about PE the more confident i think i might get no matter what..

But i still have this ""tendency"" to believe that my state of mind is a great contributor to that everytime i do something wrong means that im going to have a negative effect on my Penis gains..

Sounds sense less but i interconnect that bad situation whit my penis size...WTHroflrofl

No, this makes great sense. I can relate this to my weight loss efforts. The mental freedom I desire, which includes a mate, will not happen for me until I reach 185 pounds. Today I am about 199-200 but the weight is coming off faster now, no idea why. I am hoping to drop 3 pounds a week but we'll see. With penis size I can imagine many men, after they have learned about PE, may get a complex where they think they need to be a certain size before they use it. In many cases this is a huge motivator but in some cases, where the man is already huge, it becomes more of a mental problem associated with Penile Dysmorphic Disorder.

templnite · Nov 3, 2015

Yeah man I get this every time I don't have the absolute best workout. I end up feeling defeated, and want to harakiri myself XD

LONGERDICK7+ · Nov 3, 2015

thats a normal thing most of the time at the end of a session i feel so unsatisfied... not an easy thing to deal whit...

templnite · Nov 3, 2015

Sometimes I feel like I need to redo it, but after the session goes cold its pretty hopeless for me <

. I'll try anyway

Aimingforthetop · Nov 4, 2015

man you gotta let go of the complex. the thing is a complex like that is an energy drainer. you don't want them in your life.

so just let go of it.

everything that sucks the energy out of you. just let go! its not worth it.

i actually had conquered my complex but after i started hitting 19.5cm on bp erect lenght on a few occations i got obsessed again. its not worth it guys.

do Penis enlargement.
but do it for the right reasons.
because you will always want a little bit more. its not worth to live your life like that.

by having a regular stretching scheme and taking care of yourself you can get a bigger penis. just like you can get bigger in the gym.

LONGERDICK7+ · Nov 4, 2015

Aimingforthetop;672482 said:
man you gotta let go of the complex. the thing is a complex like that is an energy drainer. you don't want them in your life.

so just let go of it.

everything that sucks the energy out of you. just let go! its not worth it.

i actually had conquered my complex but after i started hitting 19.5cm on bp erect lenght on a few occations i got obsessed again. its not worth it guys.

do Penis enlargement.
but do it for the right reasons.
because you will always want a little bit more. its not worth to live your life like that.

by having a regular stretching scheme and taking care of yourself you can get a bigger penis. just like you can get bigger in the gym.

true the energy wasted while thinking senseless crap is impressive n is negative bullshit..better start to get that bullsh..off our heads.

DLD · Nov 5, 2015

shortdick;672492 said:
true the energy wasted while thinking senseless crap is impressive n is negative bullshit..better start to get that bullsh..off our heads.

We can see energy like this. In the moment you have 100% of your mental energy potential, this means that 100% of your mental energy is available to you in the moment. Now as we move into the past or future something happens, we give a large percentage of our mental energy away. Energy can not be used in the past or future with any kind of accuracy, only in the moment is this 100% mental energy available. It is also important to understand that living in the past causes depression and living in the future causes anxiety. Living in the moment is where your potential lays ready to be used.

LONGERDICK7+ · Nov 5, 2015

True but is quite hard to do that cause the present is so undesirable sometimes...Energy i need a good amount of it send me some D.i need real power lol

templnite · Nov 6, 2015

doublelongdaddy;672646 said:
We can see energy like this. In the moment you have 100% of your mental energy potential, this means that 100% of your mental energy is available to you in the moment. Now as we move into the past or future something happens, we give a large percentage of our mental energy away. Energy can not be used in the past or future with any kind of accuracy, only in the moment is this 100% mental energy available. It is also important to understand that living in the past causes depression and living in the future causes anxiety. Living in the moment is where your potential lays ready to be used.

THe past is in the past and the future might not come so live well today

DLD · Nov 6, 2015

Well remember my Brother, anytime you dig up the past you get dirty!

templnite · Nov 7, 2015

If you forget the past you're doomed to relive it

DLD · Nov 9, 2015

templnite;672923 said:
If you forget the past you're doomed to relive it

True that. I am starting to suffer again as the seasons changed, the depression was right on time. Trying so hard this year to get through it so I don't have to repeat the Hell I have gone through every winter for 15 years!

templnite · Nov 9, 2015

It'll get better champ you're a smart person, you'll find a way. I'll be around to cheer you on:blush:

Aimingforthetop · Nov 10, 2015

doublelongdaddy;673174 said:
True that. I am starting to suffer again as the seasons changed, the depression was right on time. Trying so hard this year to get through it so I don't have to repeat the Hell I have gone through every winter for 15 years!

i have a friend who is currently fighting depression with a rather.... alternative method.

every morning. 15 mins of dancing around while listening to happy music. and you have to dance like no body is watching. go all out 15 mins! first thing in the morning. it is supposed to release an incredible load of dopamine i think it is.

try it out might help you

im diffently going to try it. just because i like to do crazy shit.

im gonna do it naked with no curtains and while weariung the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]BM[/words] just for kicks

DLD · Nov 10, 2015

Aimingforthetop;673272 said:
i have a friend who is currently fighting depression with a rather.... alternative method.

every morning. 15 mins of dancing around while listening to happy music. and you have to dance like no body is watching. go all out 15 mins! first thing in the morning. it is supposed to release an incredible load of dopamine i think it is.

try it out might help you

im diffently going to try it. just because i like to do crazy shit.

im gonna do it naked with no curtains and while weariung the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]BM[/words] just for kicks

Thanks AIM, I will try but I fear that what I am about go through is inevitable. I pray to God all day to help me get through this this year with grace and have His protection. Makes little difference as far a s I go though, here in the Brotherhood, no matter how sick I get I will be here everyday.

I only ask my Brothers here to pray for me.

GoodLookingNerd · Jul 22, 2017

I've only read Super's comment on this thread. One thing I kind of see to be a trend with all these "motivating"/"inspiring" talk that is somehow supposed to relinquish our inner alpha male and reach the highest echelons of greatness that is possible with this life is that the people who write these actually have large penises. I have not seen one of these written about a guy who is average or below average. Yeah dude, penis size, due to media, has rooted itself into the minds of this generation and now, forever onwards. I am mentally weak for saying this and surely it is not going to matter to many men who are in control of their own mentality. For those I applaud. But I believe those men are of a minor population because in basic human nature, we are a social species and we really do care what others think of us.

This whole idea of just "accepting" what you have and it will never change strikes me with anger. The reality is that we know a guy with a larger penis has an advantage in this life. Physically, but at the very core, mentally. There is something this man can provide that the general masses cannot provide and that is what makes him different and unique among the rest. It does not matter if other men have more capital than him, for he is the one who still has something they may never have, if they did not apply the techniques.

I know I am being a downer but this message that you are trying to register within the minds of fellow brothers would have had more impact, in my opinion, if you yourself were in the category of brothers you were really trying to communicate with.

I apologize to all in advance. I guess I took this to a greater length than what was necessary. I guess by seeing myself as small, I am not seeing the bright side of life. I posted a whole thread on this issue but I have to just keep on going with this negativity just because of this fucking ideology that well endowed men have the real key to success in this reality.

I fucking hate that this overflows my mind. I feel as if I need to reach my PE goals in order to crack this shell of self limitance.

Iceman338 · Jul 23, 2017

GoodLookingNerd;735717 said:
I've only read Super's comment on this thread. One thing I kind of see to be a trend with all these "motivating"/"inspiring" talk that is somehow supposed to relinquish our inner alpha male and reach the highest echelons of greatness that is possible with this life is that the people who write these actually have large penises. I have not seen one of these written about a guy who is average or below average. Yeah dude, penis size, due to media, has rooted itself into the minds of this generation and now, forever onwards. I am mentally weak for saying this and surely it is not going to matter to many men who are in control of their own mentality. For those I applaud. But I believe those men are of a minor population because in basic human nature, we are a social species and we really do care what others think of us.

This whole idea of just "accepting" what you have and it will never change strikes me with anger. The reality is that we know a guy with a larger penis has an advantage in this life. Physically, but at the very core, mentally. There is something this man can provide that the general masses cannot provide and that is what makes him different and unique among the rest. It does not matter if other men have more capital than him, for he is the one who still has something they may never have, if they did not apply the techniques.

I know I am being a downer but this message that you are trying to register within the minds of fellow brothers would have had more impact, in my opinion, if you yourself were in the category of brothers you were really trying to communicate with.

I apologize to all in advance. I guess I took this to a greater length than what was necessary. I guess by seeing myself as small, I am not seeing the bright side of life. I posted a whole thread on this issue but I have to just keep on going with this negativity just because of this fucking ideology that well endowed men have the real key to success in this reality.

I fucking hate that this overflows my mind. I feel as if I need to reach my PE goals in order to crack this shell of self limitance.

Obsessions with penis size is an issue that many men cannot confront in a healthy way. This is largely due to seeing "big boys" in adult entertainment 24/7.

In all honesty, there are times where I'd rather have a the biggest dick on the planet than have zillions of dollars. It's weird how the mind works.rofl

DLD · Jul 24, 2017

Iceman338;735759 said:
Obsessions with penis size is an issue that many men cannot confront in a healthy way. This is largely due to seeing "big boys" in adult entertainment 24/7.

In all honesty, there are times where I'd rather have a the biggest dick on the planet than have zillions of dollars. It's weird how the mind works.rofl

Do not look at adult entertainment to gauge penis size is in no way realistic and it will cause deep, irrational obsessiveness. If you want to see real size without the fluff, go to a nude beach and you will see realistic. With all the work I have done in Mental Penis Enlargement, Brothers here should feel very secure. Just look read the study "Is Everything Really What it Seems" This study alone will bring peace to every man's mind.

Getbiglonger7 · Aug 19, 2018

Re: Mental Freedom from Size Complex.

8 inches n feeling insecure hard to believe but he tought he was small wow i just dont get it i think he finally realized he was way above average

huge-girth · Aug 19, 2018