kegels suck!

[dee3186]

originally posted by Dld:

Does this technique really help? I would think that while you are in the act of sex, the last thing you want to be doing is kegeling.

Thats y i said i was gonna try to wear it out b4 sex to see if it made a difference

 

[kurthungus]

Any updates on wearing out the PC before sex to see if it cuts down on the urge to cum so fast?

Lately I've been doing a lot of kegel work and I've definately noticed benefits; however, one side-effect is the one mentioned in the original post: it is now difficult to not cum too quickly when having sex.

I mean, it feels -great-, but god d*mn... I've always taken pride in being able to last quite awhile on average and making my woman orgasm multiple times, but now I'm starting to feel like a 3-minute man.

I've tried reverse kegeling, thinking about things which I dislike (such as baseball) and so forth... Mr. Happy is just too damn happy and has none of it, heh.

What I noticed last night during sex is that it is my head which is more sen-si-tiiiive. I can usually hit my gf's cervix and she loves it, but that means rubbing my head around in there a lot and it drives -me- wild now whereas before I could concentrate on how she felt inside as I know what she likes. Now I'm actually having to concentrate on how -not- to rub her so as to not make myself explode immediately. The other thing is I usually go slow, especially when doing the cervix thing so as not to hurt her, but occasionally she enjoys a good old fashioned pounding, and in the past I could do that until either she came or I just got tired and gave up... then I'd go slow, rest and get back at it; rinse-repeat. Now, within 10-seconds of going fast, I can't stop myself from coming given how my head is being stimulated. I'm now having to stop before she cums just to keep myself from cumming which was almost never a problem in the past as I personally don't like it fast (well, doing the whole "Who's your daddy?" thing is fun). I can usually keep going after 1 orgasm (sometimes even 2 if I'm lucky and stay hard), but still... it is way too fast now, and unless I just stick it in and sit there doing nothing, it is too sensitive, heh.

I'll try kegeling a lot before sex if possible and see if it helps. Maybe I can hang some baseball posters or pictures of ugly women above my bed so I can stare at them. heh.

 

[dee3186]

I tried kegaling about 300 times b4 sex and i dont think it had no effect to helping last longer but when i had the urge to come and i usually squeeze my pc to hold back from cumming it felt like it was to weak and made me cum quicker so im not gonna do that no more, only thing i can think of is trying not to squeeze the pc untill you get the urge to cum them it might be strong enough to stop you from cumming ill give that a try.

 

[sensaZn]

yep still making me come quicker, at the moment just edging and not always cummin when i masturbate to train the body and destroy the link between sex and orgasm to gain better control

 

[Splack]

Well kurthungus you seem to be like me all the way down to how you hit your girls cervix (which is the greatest feeling in the world cause you have pussy wrapping around every square inch of your dick). So if your like me you might want to stop the kegeling unless you wanna see what it feels like to be a minute man or less. Also once you build up the PC it takes about a month to get back to normal which means a good long month of embarrasment. This is only a guess but wearing it out shouldn't really work at least not for people like me. I think the issue is that for some the PC just gets much more developed (larger) and pushes on the prostate in my experience there aint jack shit you can do to delay your orgasm once you reach that point (not even getting piss drunk helps).

 

[kurthungus]

I have been able to reverse kegel during sex and it helps get the PC off the prostate for sure, but the problem is that this is difficult for me to do during sex. I don't know if it is the positions I'm in or what, but it's hard for me to reverse kegel and still 'hit it' in the way she likes it. Hopefully I'll learn some better coordination, I don't have a whole lot of experience with reverse kegels outside of using them during DLD Blasters in my workout.

I'm not well-versed in how the prostate ties into all this, but I did want to reiterate that it is definately the head of my penis which is more sensitive now. Even during my workouts nowadays when doing edging or clamp work, if I brush the head too much or in the right way, it is highly sensitive -- in a good way (feels great), but it did not used to be like that at all (in fact, I used to -hate- direct stimulation to my head as it felt weird -- not painful, just uncomfortable -- now it is the total opposite).

It's just one of those messed up situations. I'd hate to stop kegeling as I have noticed benefits from it (such as better and longer lasting erections, something I'd been having problems with the last few months and kegeling always helped me in the past). It almost sounds silly to even bitch about this as my orgasms are so much more intense now... they just happen too damn fast is all, heh.

 

[sensaZn]

yep i got the same feelings. Much more sensitive, hoping it will go back to normal soon.

 

[swolejah]

Kegals fuck with my asshole lol. I can't do them w/o tightening my ass. Is it supposed to be that way? When I was doing my kegal exercises on a regurlar basis I'd feel like I had to do number 2 when I ejaculated, so I pretty much stopped doing them. :-/

I do reverse kegals all the time. Helps me get maximum expansion.

Amen. I'm not good at them, and can't last long. I need to work on it.

 

[sensaZn]

i find if i actually go to orgasm and really apply pressure so it feels like im comin but i dont cum i hav a mini orgasm an i can carry on with less sensation