How did your Girlfriend/Wife react on your PE Training

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herr röhrich

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Hey,

I startet Penis Enlargement a few weeks ago and I'm willing to reach a 8 x 6'er as a long term project.
My BPenis EnlargementL so far is about 6,6 and the EG about 5,1.

So I doing twice a day a streching and a grith routing and already see some progress (beneth the nice feeling that a fresh jelqed and claimed dick gives to you).

My girlfriend and I having a relationship over a long distance and in die Semester(we are student's) we only see on some few weekends.

But now the Semester comes to the end and we will spent the whole holidays together, so my question ist:

What are usual reactions of your girlfriends/wifes when you confronted them with your Penis Enlargement Training. Do you train I front of them. I mean it's some kind of difficult because most people didn't what to know the they are doing Penis Enlargement. We have a very goog relationship (lots of good sex, and we speak about everythink) but I don't know how she will react I tell her about my plan.

Please post your experience, tell me the reaction of your GF/wifes, or your opinion to this point.

Thanks

Mr. Röhrich

(to the experts: by the way, I knew I could use the search funktion but I you answer my original question please write also your opinion about REST DAYS. How often, are they neccesarry??)
 
I didn't tell my wife until a few years into Penis Enlargement and I had already made good gains and I had been journaling her responses to my increases.
I did this because I didn't want any pressure to gain and I didn't want false statements made to appease me.
When I finally did share she was like "Wow!" It was fun for both of us.

But after I told her I still do Penis Enlargement in private. Also as I continue I had to deal with questions, "How big are trying to be?" or an attitude like, "You're doing that again?" But she eventual settled down.

On the flip side when I do disappear for my exercises and my kids say, "Dad's in his bathroom" she knows to tell them to leave me alone.

Of course we have been married for quite awhile and having private alone time is not an issue.

I wouldn't change how I went about it. I would say keep it to yourself for awhile as you gain.
If my wife saw the things I do to my dick I know she would worry, needlessly but it looks worse than it is.
 
Welcome Herr Rohrich,

To answer your question on rest days; It has been documented that it is healthy to P.E 7 days a week, as many do on the forrum.

personally, I go 6 days on, 1 day off. The day off serves as a break from P.E and as a day to take that weeks measurements! Good luck in your journey!

Yours Truly,

Simyan
 
It really depends on your relationship. If your girl is prone to jealousy she is more than likely going to have some penis envy and this is toxic in a sexual relationship If she is an open and progressive in her own life she may be fine with it and even fuel your efforts. It is a tough choice to make. I say keep it a secret and bask in the compliments.
 
Hey,

thanks for your answers. But how do you all manage to do your exercises about 45 min to 1 h(or even longer if u do a seperate streching/grith session over the day) that your GF's/Wife's didn't notive it?? Seems a miracle for me.

I'm pleasant for any tips.
 
I have pe'd since 2006ish were I was 6month dedicated.. Then kinda slacked were I went months without pe'ing..

But just this month I have got back into and told the new gf about it..

She is fine with it.. Just worried incase I damage it.
 
icecam;388802 said:
I have pe'd since 2006ish were I was 6month dedicated.. Then kinda slacked were I went months without pe'ing..

But just this month I have got back into and told the new gf about it..

She is fine with it.. Just worried incase I damage it.
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It is very, very difficult to damage your penis. The worst I have heard of in thrombosis, broken blood vessels, stretch marks and bruising...and all of this is pretty much temporary.
 
i think i was with my GF for about 3-4 weeks before i told her about it, she just said, "Why do you do it? its big enough as it is" and just said she aint bothered, now i do it almost every day in front of her, from pumping, jelqing to hangin!

brit
 
If you don't tell her she will know soon enough. I guess if you used the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] right before sex she would REALLY NOTICE!
 
My wife has been very supportive. She's known of my Penis Enlargement for about 5 years now :)

She's seen me hang weights from it, squeeze the hell out of it, pump it, stretch it and still kept coming back. ;) I knew she was a keeper! She really just sees it as another type of body modification. People do that all the time nowadays. Plastic surgery, working out for bigger muscles or less fat, body sculpting, breast enhancements, liposuction, botox, face lifts, bla bla bla.
 
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I just started Penis Enlargement a couple of days ago, but decided to tell my wife in passing very quickly that I was going to do some Penis Enlargement. I didn't tell her what it consisted of or anything. She just kinda rolled her eyes and headed off to work. This was the response I was hoping for, cause I don't think she's really taking me seriously. I think she thinks I'm going to be taking some pill or something. Now I can make gains almost under the radar, but if she finds my hidden [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] or my [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?83577-Length-master-official-order-thread-now-shipping-06-16-2014!!!]LengthMaster[/words] (on the way), I can always say "I told you about that".

I'm thinking that Penis Enlargement will be a good thing as its never a bad thing to increase your "market value" in your SO's eyes. I can't help to admit that its also a lil tool in the every present relationship power struggle.
 
My wife's only concern has been that I don't hurt myself. I've showed her exactly what I've been doing...even when I was hanging weights I let her watch me. She's asked things like ''does that hurt?'' She once saw me hang a case of beer from my penis and asked if that hurt. Ok, it wasn't really a case of beer but close in weight....27.5lbs. LOL. She knows that I know what I'm doing. She supports it. As I think I said above, she's quite open minded and knows it's just another type of 'body modification'. Hey, at least I'm not irreversibly stretching out my earlobes to ridiculous sizes. ;)
 
ILOVEMYDICK;389500 said:
but has anyone here hide that u are doin Penis Enlargement and wait until your girl says Hydromaxm... your penis feels bigger
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ME! I went six months until Jen started to ask if I was growing again....
 
My girlfriend already loves me as I am and I have no doubt that my penis satisfies her a lot. None the less, when I told her I was doing Penis Enlargement she was quite supportive and even said "uhhhh, I like the sound of that". So, basically, what I get from her is the kind of attitude where she's like "I love your dick and you are more than big enough to satisfy me, but if that Penis Enlargement thing actually works, than let's take it and have some fun with the results". Oh, and one more thing, I feel like the more I'm into Penis Enlargement, the more she get's a kick out of making me hard in public rofl I can tell you having a boner or a semi when you're at the beach wearing trunks can be quite awkward, but she seems to laugh her ass off with it :P

Anyway, this is my personal experience. If you're really concerned about what she might think of it, try to imagine how you would react if she'd tell you she was taking a Natural Breast Enlargement programme. You love your girl, you both have good sex as you said, so she's fine for you the way she is now. Would you be supportive of her natural breast augmentation goal? Try and figure out how you'd feel about it and work your decision from there. :)
 
Well, if I have a gf now. I will not tell her anything about Penis Enlargement and will keep things low profile. It's better to let her notice by herself when we're having sex.
 
I'd say just go with what most people are saying. If you feel comfortable enough in your relationship to tell her about it, go for it, but dont go into detail too much.

If not, just keep her in the illusion that you are growing again, which, well, you are!
Your choice man. I haven't told my girl, and she told me about a week ago that in her opinion, I was too big. Mainly cause she whacked me on the dick with a sandal by accident, and she said it was my fault that it was in the way :)
 
bluetard117;390077 said:
I haven't told my girl, and she told me about a week ago that in her opinion, I was too big. Mainly cause she whacked me on the dick with a sandal by accident, and she said it was my fault that it was in the way :)
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Ouch and ROTFLMAO rofl
 
I didn't tell my last gf I did penis exercises and she asked me was it possible to grow when ur older. I old her it was last spurts haha..

The current gf nos I do it but only knows about jelqing.. Not stretching or tht I use to hang weights of my dick, clampy dick and owned a pump lol...

And she notices a difference in size..
 
This subject was tossed around a while ago. I started using a pump and had it in a night stand drawer. She found it! My wife called me at work and asked what it was and I said I'd show her that evening. She got all excited and after nearly ten year of pumping she still is fine with it. She jokes that my dick is plenty big but never complains!
I went from around 6" to a solid 7.5 now. Since finding this forum I'm loosely trying some of the exercises and have found some more improvement. I have never ever had erection problems except occasionally right after pumping. But with that solid Viagra found thru this site there is no problem maintaining a huge pumped up erection. btw I'm an old guy nearing 60 yrs.
 
icecam;390082 said:
I didn't tell my last gf I did penis exercises and she asked me was it possible to grow when ur older. I old her it was last spurts haha..

The current gf nos I do it but only knows about jelqing.. Not stretching or tht I use to hang weights of my dick, clampy dick and owned a pump lol...

And she notices a difference in size..
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That's funny because my wife asked me the same thing before I ended up telling her about Penis Enlargement.
 
The best compliment you can get, "Is your penis still growing"
 
My wife and I had a threesome last night in the shower. ME, HER, and [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words]. Twas a hot time indeed :)
 
stillwantmore2;390160 said:
My wife and I had a threesome last night in the shower. ME, HER, and [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words]. Twas a hot time indeed :)
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Nice:)
 
The best compliment you can get, "Is your penis still growing"
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Yes but how to keep it a secret till she noticed? We share the same room, and we will be on a road trip through europe for 2-3 week sleeping in a tent.

Is there a short (20-30min) routine that could help me over the time??

Otherwise I've to tell her.
 
Fuck, Fuck Fuck!!!

I told her yesterday on the phone, and her reaction wasn't so nice. She thinks it is completely ridicolous. She said I behave like a 15 years old teenager and she hopes that she did not had this in mind now every time we have sex. She said men are idiots because we all think it is all about penis size, and that there is more in life than this. She said I don't need to do this, and she is already satisfied. Also she said I'm an idiot because I always get into stuff I found in the internet. And she don't want me to tell her ever again somethink about it or see me doing some exersices.

After all she was very angry about my plan.

Can't tell you why her reaction was this like. Perhaps she is jealously, perhaps she sees thinks completely differnet than men do (we see think a more functional way). I don't now.

I told her its like doing a chiptune for an car. If you can get 30 PS of extra power for a cheap price, why not doing it??? But she didn't get the point.

She also said in words: "Penis size doesn't matter." I don't believe that and I think she only is worried that it really works (if it does't matter why being jealous??? But I keept that to myself)

Fact is I need a new shorter routine ;-) If you have any suggestions please answer here: http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?58408#post

Greetings

Mr. Röhrich
 
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I don't think she understood that you're not doing Penis Enlargement for her, you're doing it for yourself. Letting her know was just courtesy on your behalf, you don't need to get the nod of approval from her to make Penis Enlargement OK.

I think if she thought about your reasons for wanting to do Penis Enlargement she would draw the conclusion that she is being a bit hypercritical when compared to aspects of her own life. Has she ever dieted or feels she has to maintain a certain weight? Has she ever contemplated breast enlargement? Does she have perfect teeth? Any of these things she doesn't need to do, but I think given the option she would agree that they would make her life that much more pleasant.

It's your life, run with it.
 
Tell her that Penis Enlargement is like going to the gym, you don't have to do it, but you are only improving yourself for yourself.
 
Jords;390289 said:
I don't think she understood that you're not doing Penis Enlargement for her, you're doing it for yourself. Letting her know was just courtesy on your behalf, you don't need to get the nod of approval from her to make Penis Enlargement OK.

I think if she thought about your reasons for wanting to do Penis Enlargement she would draw the conclusion that she is being a bit hypercritical when compared to aspects of her own life. Has she ever dieted or feels she has to maintain a certain weight? Has she ever contemplated breast enlargement? Does she have perfect teeth? Any of these things she doesn't need to do, but I think given the option she would agree that they would make her life that much more pleasant.

It's your life, run with it.
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Exactly, I totally agree.
 
Just jam it in her bigger every night and she will get the message
 
Lol mike..

And to the OP..
Penis Enlargement I another form of body modification. Like going to the gym to get bigger/toned etc etc
I'm sure your gf(like every women on earth) has considered cosemtic surgery. Be it their teeth, breast, nip and tuck, wrinkle removal etc etc

people who want to increase the size of their penis came here for a reason.. They are self conscious about their size, had a bad previous relationship issue regarding size, feel more manly etc etc..

We all don't do it to throw it around the town for the world to see.. My gf is the only person to no I do this and she is fine with it. No one else will ever have my penis as I'm gonna marry this women..


she is being very hypercritical..
 
icecam;390397 said:
Lol mike..

And to the OP..
Penis Enlargement I another form of body modification. Like going to the gym to get bigger/toned etc etc
I'm sure your gf(like every women on earth) has considered cosemtic surgery. Be it their teeth, breast, nip and tuck, wrinkle removal etc etc

people who want to increase the size of their penis came here for a reason.. They are self conscious about their size, had a bad previous relationship issue regarding size, feel more manly etc etc..

We all don't do it to throw it around the town for the world to see.. My gf is the only person to no I do this and she is fine with it. No one else will ever have my penis as I'm gonna marry this women..


she is being very hypercritical..
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That it and [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] offers all of the above. We have almost 40 forums spanning the entire body, mind and future for every man to use. really quite amazing when you think of it.
 
She didn't accept it. We had several very intensive conversations about it but she won't accept it. The deal is so far that she doesn't what to hear see and notive anythink about my exersices. So I have to stay 30 min in the bathroom and do my Penis Enlargement in secret. Just to mention the topic makes her very very angry. She think the is no reason to do this and that this is just some kind of being to obbessed into sex. She is fine with our sexlife and the fact that I'm doing somethink makes her think that there is something wrong or that I'm planning to cheat on her. I tell her all the arguments, it's no big deal just some nice side effects for 30 minutes work per day, so on ....

No way for a deal. I have to do my session in secret and during the time she isn't in town(we live in diffrent cities) more intensive.

So don't tell your girlfriend if you are not sure how she reacts!!!! Really, for women the topic seems to be more sensitve as for us. I didn't understand all the reasons why she is so fucking angry about it, so it is more complicated that I though. Think twice to tell your GF.
 
There is no need for them to know. Penis Enlargement should be on a need to know basis and most women do not need to know.

Penis EnlargementNIS ENVY...The biggest relationship killer
 
If she ever notices any difference and compliments you in the future, you can always try and tell her it's the result of your Penis Enlargement "obsession".
Also, you could argue that Penis Enlargement isn't only for growing your penis, it is also a way to maintain its health. Jelqing and the Testicle Health Massage are two great routines one can do just for the sake of a healthy penis.

If you see that she still is against it, then you'll probably have to make a decision and see what you find is more important to you: having a bigger dick, or having a peaceful relationship with the woman you love?
If you see these 2 things are conflicting with each other, then you have to make a choice. And if you choose your girl, all is fine, because at 6x5 inches you are already above average and you have a great girth, which is mostly what pleases women physically.

Good luck, man!
 
Just keep it between yourself and us. She does not need to know and it bothers her to know so keep it secret.
 
Hey,

yeah I perhaps should have listend to you DLD. But she knows it now and is fine with it as long as she is not mention anythink of my exercises. What I'm trieing is to get more TIME and PRIVACY for my sessions, but in that way she feels set aside I think, and that makes her angry. So it it like in international politics, we will see how many minutes per day the "balance of power" will allow me to do my Penis Enlargement. At the moment I'm able to do 30 minutes.

By the way, I'm not native speaking english, so please excuse my spelling and grammatic errors.
 
well my girlfriend seen my order of extra rods for my [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]extender[/words] and got pissed off because she says she can barely take me right now, and she doesnt want me to get any bigger, i dont believe that for a second and i'm still using my [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]extender[/words] when she starts taking my big dick then she will change her mind lol
 
Dick slap her ! :) You can never be "too big" hehe
parker06;398499 said:
well my girlfriend seen my order of extra rods for my [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]extender[/words] and got pissed off because she says she can barely take me right now, and she doesnt want me to get any bigger, i dont believe that for a second and i'm still using my [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]extender[/words] when she starts taking my big dick then she will change her mind lol
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herr röhrich;398132 said:
Hey,

Your english is fine :)
yeah I perhaps should have listend to you DLD. But she knows it now and is fine with it as long as she is not mention anythink of my exercises. What I'm trieing is to get more TIME and PRIVACY for my sessions, but in that way she feels set aside I think, and that makes her angry. So it it like in international politics, we will see how many minutes per day the "balance of power" will allow me to do my Penis Enlargement. At the moment I'm able to do 30 minutes.

By the way, I'm not native speaking english, so please excuse my spelling and grammatic errors.
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She was/is turned off by it. If I am wearing the [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]extender[/words] and she tries to cuddle me and notices it, hurts my chances later in the evening. She insists shes fine with my size, and I am sure she is. I have no worries about her leaving me. I've explained this is completely self-improvement for MYSELF.

She thinks I have an issue with viewing myself in a negative way, which to be fair, Shes right. Same goes probably for all of us.

She always insisted growing your penis was bullshit(motivated me even more to stick to a routine. I hate being told I can't do something when I know I can),
that it worried her about me hurting myself. Now she views it as a hobby I have, because it makes me happy.

However a month ago she said. "If you get much bigger it is going to be uncomfortable for me." Implying she noticed gains. Was pretty stoked about that.

Stick to your guns guys. Your the one who is making this monster.
 
I was told to stop doing my length exercises as I'm too long so asked what about girth andshe said just a lil more.

Told here te other day I have no money until payday to get my [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] and she just giggled so I'm in the good books
 
You know, I don't understand women that insist men to quit Penis Enlargement. Believe me... IF women could grow their breast naturally (without too much effort), they ALL would do it!!!
They care way more about their appearance. They enlarge their breasts, wear make up, wear a push up bra, buy fake nails, buy the most exclusive perfumes and the TONS of beauty products ect.
I think when they have penis envy, it paired with not trusting the partner. You do not need a bigger penis do cheat on someone.
 
Hello all...
First of all I am glad that I found this forum. Second of all I am not a native English speaker so sorry for my bad English.

I chose to write my first post to the man that have problems with his GF. Mane, you have a life and that life is yours and yours alone.
NOBODY on this earth can tell you what to do and not to do with your life. You make it how you want it, because you are a MAN. And a man walks on his path. The women can choose if she want to walk near us, or leave it.

I'm telling you: in the moment you will stop Penis Enlargement-ing because your girlfriend ask you, you will loose all the respect you have from her point of view. She will realize that she can control you how she wants, and this is one of the most unattractive things for a woman.

SHE DID"T HAVE THE RIGHT TO PUT YOU CHOOSE BETWEEN Penis Enlargement AND HER. Why that? You have 1 hour for Penis Enlargement and another 23 with her. is MORE THAN ENOUGHT. For asking you that, she is selfish and immature. I can bet she already asked you thinks like that in the past and you agreed.

The main think is that: she likes you for how you are NOW, not for how you can be after she "Transform" you. And you are a man that wants to be better. She can agree with it or hit the road.

P.S. I am doing Penis Enlargement for a month and a half now. Two week ago I have been with my gf in a vacation and decide to do Penis Enlargement without telling her what i was doing. I just sad that I am doing something for self improvement and I will tell her what after I rich my target . She told me she is curios but she will respect my decision. She then buy herself a book that she read in the time I was Penis Enlargement ing in the bathroom of the hotel room.
 
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P.S.2. In a healthy relationship, your girlfriend/wife/fuck buddy/whatever should pull you up. But in some cases (your case now) the insecurities make that person want to pull you down because she is affrays that you will become better and leave her for a better one. Following this logic you can divide you friends in two categories. Those who pull you up, and those who pull you down or hold you in place. Get rid of the last one and you will become a better person for you and everybody else!
 
My wife never reacted badly to the idea of my doing pe. These days she's positively encouraging me to do it :o)

I'm very sorry that the OP's gf is so against his doing pe. Maybe she thought the idea perverted? I hope she comes round to accepting it and to enjoying the results.
 
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