would you laugh at me?

ballweight;350849 said:

I have to say everyone here is really nice and helpful. I really dont know what to do, I do know guys who have been with a lot of girls. I jsut want to be able to pick up any chick and bang her rather than tell her i got this and that problem, do you get what im saying. About the girl being a keeper I dont know, I dont really want anyone long term for a few years, i want to be with a few girls first. Honestly if you was in my posiiton you understand, its soo depressing, stay awake all night thinking about it. I even cry sometimes when i get to the point like i wanna die, it might sound extreme but iv living with this for years and its so frustrating that i cant be with any girl only cause of this.

One of the guys my friend who is a playa has a dick which is only 6icnhes at most i promsie you since i seen a vid of him gettin a blowjob, im bigger than him but not confident because of my issue <

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friend, i gotta be honest. im a pretty funny lookin guy. i hid behind everything you could think of- drugs,drinking, hobbies,work, but in the end, its all in your mind. yu have to be bigger than your own inner critic. the only thing to be sad about is how lame most people are, but im sure you don't have to fuck em to know that. just gotta find one who's not an idiot. OR , Bang a few idiot broads to come to terms with thr fact that no one cares EITHER WAY! just be PATIENT. you WILL Have a bigger cock and it WILL
make you feel pretty darned good. the best is yet to come!

Girth Hammer;350844 said:

Please dont worry about that. You know how many guys that have fuck tons of girls just to leave them unsatisfied. The worst thing you could do is rush it and fuck someone your really not that attracted to just to do it. Or you will force yourself to do it when your not comfortable doing it and cum in 10 seconds.

It probably better this way. You might find a "keeper" and you two can share a great moment. I truly believe sex can change some people for the worst. I have seen it plenty of time with people losing there virginity to someone who doesnt give two shits about them and they go down a downward spiral.

And imagine when you reach your Penis Enlargement goals and your ready to get some "meow". She will guide you through it and she will love your new size. And body image issues lose them. Will all wish we could fix or change something. Just get on the right track now and it will be a thing of the past.

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Amen to that!

ballweight;350807 said:

If i told you im a 23 year old virgin what would you laugh at me, its not cuz i havnt had girlfriends or have a small dick or am ugly, its because of insecuirities with my body

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Shit i'm 21 and i'm still a virgin and could have sex PLENTY of times but it's a personal choices as to why i havent. To me its my sense of self respect and the first time I go for it I will have reached my Penis Enlargement goal by then so I'll be super happy. Just work on your insecurities, get that body you want/desire and Fuck what anybody else thinks dude.

Bro the only guy knocking you is the guy in the mirror. Forget that! Be confident, you know you're packing some heat in your pants, don't psych yourself up to not being this or that, build yourself up to being confident. Everybody has confidence issues at some point or another, but don't let it bring you down. You can't score a goal unless you get on the field, get out there, go for it and relax.

Frank-Butcher;350860 said:

hello ballweight...
i wouldnt laugh we all have our insecuritys about 1 thing or another!

i was 24 when i lost my virginity so ur not alone im 26 now. u have to understand that when u meet someone that likes you for who u are. there will be nothing to worry about! so u have scars on ur stomach and white patches... if a girl cant see past this then you are better off without them. hey its there loss!

keep ur head up and keep smiling! good things come to those who wait! keep positive bro!

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really many thanks for your reply bro, made me smile my man, I pray to God some day il be able to do what you guys do, just pick up a random chick and bone her

to be honest its not about getting one girl to keep, i want to be with many girls

just want to say to everyone who has replied I owe you guys, you are all like brothers to me, I really feel better after speaking to all of you, i hope i can fix this shit soon but we will see what happens, for now im just concentrating on the big dick issue

22 here and still a V. I don't tell anyone, but I couldn't care less what anyone thought. I want people to respect me for me and not some lame excuse of how I am not a "man" yet. I don't know what women think about this, but I would think they appreciate you that much more.


Don't feed into bullshit, be yourself. Do you. You are safe here.

i know a 32 yrs old virgin, no its not me guys! lol.

I am a 42 year old virgin

doublelongdaddy;351028 said:

I am a 42 year old virgin

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haha come on bro, your just playing with me right? iv seen your vids and you dick is huge and you aint got anythin wrong with your body so I cant think any reason you would still be a virgin.

If your being serious I apolgise man but I would be totally amazed!!!

ballweight;351034 said:

haha come on bro, your just playing with me right? iv seen your vids and you dick is huge and you aint got anythin wrong with your body so I cant think any reason you would still be a virgin.

If your being serious I apolgise man but I would be totally amazed!!!

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You're worrying too much about it man. Just calm down, work on your Penis Enlargement, and enjoy life. When you find the right woman you feel good with and things heat up, you'll be ready.

Phoenix22;351041 said:

You're worrying too much about it man. Just calm down, work on your Penis Enlargement, and enjoy life. When you find the right woman you feel good with and things heat up, you'll be ready.

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Il try to worry less bro but its hard you know, i mean i know i got a bigger than your average guy and whats frustrating is that these other guys who got normal bodies and small dicks can do things i cant, i really appreciate all you guys helping and answering me, I really do appreciate it. I thought u would laugh at me mostly

ballweight;351044 said:

Il try to worry less bro but its hard you know, i mean i know i got a bigger than your average guy and whats frustrating is that these other guys who got normal bodies and small dicks can do things i cant, i really appreciate all you guys helping and answering me, I really do appreciate it. I thought u would laugh at me mostly

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Naw man. We're all here for a common goal. Some of our members are just sluts (nothing but love)

Dude, you will be alright.

It is only bad to be a virgin if you think it is bad. It's okay to be a virgin really.
I have a scar in my pubic hair from an inguinal hernia when I was 16. That's where your intestines push through the tube your testicles drop through and you end up with your intestines in your ball sack.
I have had suicidal thoughts in my past over similar issues to yours.

Most people have insecurities about their bodies or sex or something, and that's okay.

Here's how to get over it:

I know you want to just find some hot piece of ass and plug it in, but that will only magnify your insecurities. The key is to find a good girl, a kind girl, a patient girl who likes you for who you are. Not the girl you're going to marry (necessarily), but a girl you can relax and connect with. THAT kind of girl will help you dissolve your insecurities.

Start slow, as the first couple of sexual encounters may be difficult. You and her may cry, but STAY HONEST. This is when all those 'issues' come to the surface and you must face them in the open. No doubt she will have insecurities too, remember that. Be accepting of both yourself and who she is in that moment. Acceptance of each other will be what ultimately lets those issues dissolve and float away.

From there you can experiment, learn to really get in touch with your body and hers in a sexual way. Learn what works and what doesn't. Insecurities may come to the surface later on, deeper, more hidden ones.

HONESTY and ACCEPTANCE will win you the day (or night ) every time. You may not always "get laid," or have something to brag to friends about, but that's not the point. This process will make you a mentally and sexually happy and healthy person in good time. How soon depends on you, but remember there is no rush.

Remember: going and hunting for a one-night stand or picking up some club ass might get you bragging rights, but finding a girl you connect with is KEY to getting over insecurities and becoming confident. Sex is a byproduct of genuinely connecting with a woman. When you have sex with a woman and not just her body then you will feel much better about yourself in the end.

doublelongdaddy;351028 said:

I am a 42 year old virgin

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!!!!!!!

first there is nothing wrong with being a virgin for as long as you want. I still wish I had waited for that special moment because my experience was hell on wheels literally. As far as your reason for being insecure, completely understandable, but believe me most women are not that shallow or mean. I mean if you meet someone you want to take it to the next level with then you have already gotten to know each other and she will probably understand. If you still feel uncomfortable try setting a romantic candlelight scene. Make sure the candles are behind you and redirect her hands when they roam too close for comfort. That will not only make your first special and memorable but will keep you from having to answer questions you are not comfortable with. When you are ready you can show her and tell her about it. This is just a suggestion. Of course you can wait till you reach your goal and then well she probably won't notice due to the more "pressing" matter

Dld, i read about you calling Jen into the bathroom, boning her for a bit and then being measured. I think it was you anyway!
Heck, ain't no virgin.

On topic: Don't worry about it mate, get a good girl and she'll like you regardless, you can have 10 eyes and 2 noses and someone will still love you regardless.
As has been said before, it's all in your mind.

Remember, out of all the senses we have the one we depend on most, being sight, lies to us the most. I got that quote from a guy that gave me confidence, Mr. Dld Salvini.

Medicating;351941 said:

Dld, i read about you calling Jen into the bathroom, boning her for a bit and then being measured. I think it was you anyway!
Heck, ain't no virgin.

On topic: Don't worry about it mate, get a good girl and she'll like you regardless, you can have 10 eyes and 2 noses and someone will still love you regardless.
As has been said before, it's all in your mind.

Remember, out of all the senses we have the one we depend on most, being sight, lies to us the most. I got that quote from a guy that gave me confidence, Mr. Dld Salvini.

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OK OK I am no virgin but I am sexy

I'd laugh at DLD because of his circus size dick! HAHAHA!

I heard he got into a wreck once cause his penis landed on the gas pedal.