im about 5 inches long and wanted to ask the others that are this size about sex. i dont have sex because im afraid the girl will laugh and leave, alos i have premature ejac. but i wanted to know do the 5 inch people have sex and regularly? i wanna know what the experiences have been like as far as size is concerened and how the girls have reacted when they saw your penis. i have tried to overcome my fear but the thought of being mocked for my size by a girl well i wouldnt be albe to bear it.
queston for the guys that are around 5 inches
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pitbull;280019 said:
If a woman mocked you she is no woman at all, she is a sick pig. Please do not let these fears keep you from having a happy, healthy sex life. Find the right woman who is not shallow and the last thing she will be concerned with is your penis. At 5", if you have measured correctly as most men do not do a proper bone pressed measurement and eventually realize they were not the size they originally thought, they are larger, than 5" is fine. An average penis falls between 5 and 6 inches. This size is what most women are accustomed to. A penis beyond 6" is more rare than most think. Stop worrying about your perfectly adequate size and start enjoying sex.
I realize that men come here to enlarge their penis and this is something that is very easy. Making an inch gain is what most men experience with the first few months of their training. If you follow my program and remain consistent and dedicated you can make incredible gains but it is important to realize this will not automatically change your self view. It is important for you to put just as much effort into the cognitive portion of Penis Enlargement as you do into the physical. If your mind grows with your penis it is the sweetest victory.
DLD (Mike)
doublelongdaddy;280023 said:
I have really come to believe that this is the key to being happy with your penis. I drive a 2007 Range Rover Sport Supercharged with about 10k of extra goodies (rims and sound). I love cars and didn't buy it to make myself feel better but I did think it would make me feel a little better about myself. Well, it didn't. I love the car but it didn't make me feel like a better person. And material things like a car and penis size won't. I have just begun to realize how little penis size matters to women, and the women that do care are immature and not worth a serious relationship. Women care about being treated nicely and feeling like they are the most special person in the world. For the most part, they could care less about your dick. 5" is plenty for most women and you really shouldn't worry about it. One thing I have learned from being with lots of girls is that confidence is the sexiest thing a man can possess (more than a car, good job, nice house, big dick, etc).
KDAL
Hi pitbull
I'm 5" NBPenis EnlargementL x 4" EG. I'm in my thirties and have a beautiful partner and a lovely daughter. I can please my partner sexual and there has never been a time that she has commented negatively about my size.
During my earlier years of courting women I only ever had 1 female that mentioned I was not that big but she said it in the context of, 'your not that big but you sure know how to use it and hit the right spot'. All the other women I slept with always came back for more so that must tell you that size isn't everything.
Your size is fine and will please most women (except the real size queens but who cares about them anyway) and also what DLD and KDAL have said above is true also.
Have confidence in yourself my friend and keep pulling just as we all are.
All the best.
Manimal
I'm 5" NBPenis EnlargementL x 4" EG. I'm in my thirties and have a beautiful partner and a lovely daughter. I can please my partner sexual and there has never been a time that she has commented negatively about my size.
During my earlier years of courting women I only ever had 1 female that mentioned I was not that big but she said it in the context of, 'your not that big but you sure know how to use it and hit the right spot'. All the other women I slept with always came back for more so that must tell you that size isn't everything.
Your size is fine and will please most women (except the real size queens but who cares about them anyway) and also what DLD and KDAL have said above is true also.
Have confidence in yourself my friend and keep pulling just as we all are.
All the best.
Manimal
thanks for the input and advice guys. i'll work towards building confidence and at the same time my penis. it'll take time i know but i gonna give it a shot and try to find a nice girl. the only problem is there seems to be less and less nice girls these days and more party hugry sluts. hopefully i can find one thats good for me.
Hey its not about the size of the magic wand but the magic you make with it. 
I have a 5 1/2 cock but I make the best of it and still please women. If your so insecure about your inadequacy use that to motivate yourself to enlarge your genitals.
I have a 5 1/2 cock but I make the best of it and still please women. If your so insecure about your inadequacy use that to motivate yourself to enlarge your genitals.
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Hey Pitbull,
I'm new to this stuff as well. I also have not been blessed with much cock. This is not advice but how I have dealt with women in my past and in my current relationship: You can please a woman sexually in a ton of ways. 12 of these ways are (10) fingers, (1) tongue and (1) cock. So your cock is only 1/12 of the equation. Also, when you make a woman cum, the last thing on her mind at that moment is the size of your cock. She is thinking too much about how she feels (and trying to find something to hold onto).
So don't worry about it. Enjoy the moment with her. Live life & be happy.
Az_mike
I'm new to this stuff as well. I also have not been blessed with much cock. This is not advice but how I have dealt with women in my past and in my current relationship: You can please a woman sexually in a ton of ways. 12 of these ways are (10) fingers, (1) tongue and (1) cock. So your cock is only 1/12 of the equation. Also, when you make a woman cum, the last thing on her mind at that moment is the size of your cock. She is thinking too much about how she feels (and trying to find something to hold onto).
So don't worry about it. Enjoy the moment with her. Live life & be happy.
Az_mike
Hey pitbull, stop stressing about your size, its fine. I was about your size once and had a very active sex life, with no complaints. My confidence did not really change as my size increased. Dude I think its 50/50%. 50% in your head and 50% in your pants. If you don't have the confidence in your head, you won't be confident to use whats in your pants. Women seem to like a guy with confidence. work on this I think I will be a big step forward, only my opinion though. Good luck brother.
I'm very close to 6 inches (about 5.8-5.9) and have a girth of about 5.4-5.5, and the last 3 girls I've been with have said it looked small?
The first girl got mad cuz she called me up and wanted some more, but I didn't want to go back and fuck her so then she decided to talk shit about my shit talking about it was a 'short' fat dick.
The second girl I was with was actually in a relationship for a while, and she thought it was small also, but she said the guy she was with before me was huge compared to me. She told me that my dick only looked about 5 inches I length, she also thought my girth wasn't that big either.
The last girl I was with seen my flaccid and she told me it was the smallest one she ever seen! Of course she said though it was a decent size when erect.
I don't know, but like I said I got a very close 6 EL and a pretty solid 5.5 EG, I would say I'm slightly above average. I think I just been picking size queens or something. I also think that my 5.5 EG might make my 6 EL look like a 5-5.5 EL
The first girl got mad cuz she called me up and wanted some more, but I didn't want to go back and fuck her so then she decided to talk shit about my shit talking about it was a 'short' fat dick.
The second girl I was with was actually in a relationship for a while, and she thought it was small also, but she said the guy she was with before me was huge compared to me. She told me that my dick only looked about 5 inches I length, she also thought my girth wasn't that big either.
The last girl I was with seen my flaccid and she told me it was the smallest one she ever seen! Of course she said though it was a decent size when erect.
I don't know, but like I said I got a very close 6 EL and a pretty solid 5.5 EG, I would say I'm slightly above average. I think I just been picking size queens or something. I also think that my 5.5 EG might make my 6 EL look like a 5-5.5 EL
KDAL;280040 said:
I would just like to note though, that the men that have those things usually have them because confidence takes them there. Confidence will get you that job, that will make you the money, to get that car. The more confident you are in yourself, the more your self worth. Sort a speak. (But I'm not saying those things are important). If any of that makes sense to anybody. It did in my head at least:s
My NBPenis EnlargementL is about 5-5.5 inches depending on how it's measured (standing being the lowest and lying on the back being the highest) and I'm sure -some- of the fatpad gets pushed back, but I know I'm not putting in my full length. I'd say at best she feels 5 3/4" inches during the really hard thrust.
Anyway, I've had 0 complaints (only been with one) and she absolutely loves sex with me and compliments me on being "big" and also says I'm the "greatest fuck ever" granted it helps that she loves me I'm sure. I also have a high average girth (which is the real factor) but 5" long non bone pressed should be plenty if she's an average girl. Remember the vagina is only 4" long and the most nerves are in the front. Also the vagina adjust to sizes that's why one girl gets off with __________ taking 8" of his meat but also enjoys sex with the normal 5-6" guy too. And trust me the Premature Ejaculation thing is 100% mental (I went through a little spell where I was cumming to fast).
Anyway, I've had 0 complaints (only been with one) and she absolutely loves sex with me and compliments me on being "big" and also says I'm the "greatest fuck ever" granted it helps that she loves me I'm sure. I also have a high average girth (which is the real factor) but 5" long non bone pressed should be plenty if she's an average girl. Remember the vagina is only 4" long and the most nerves are in the front. Also the vagina adjust to sizes that's why one girl gets off with __________ taking 8" of his meat but also enjoys sex with the normal 5-6" guy too. And trust me the Premature Ejaculation thing is 100% mental (I went through a little spell where I was cumming to fast).
derok;282543 said:
Yeah it was last December or there abouts. I had -thought- I sustained a Penis Enlargement related injury. A T-vein, but it wasn't anything once I researched some more...Anyway I laid off Penis Enlargement for awhile and anything physical and I'm not sure if it was the worry of never getting better or the anxious behavior of not getting any action, but once I felt up to it I start firing too quickly. It mostly happened with the foreplay stuff, not so much during sex, but a few times I went off as soon as she would go down on me. Also it happened a few times during the process of just touching me. Needless to say I was freaking out pretty hard. So I sat down one day and figured out all I could about the T-vein injury I thought I had once I squashed those worries I just stopped thinking about it...kept myself from getting to excited. Then one night we went for an hour or so having sex and after then it all kind of just went on by and I got over the worry and the premature ejaculations too.
Thus my advice and experience lead me to believe that it's 100% mental and most the time you're thinking to much about how it'll feel or oh no I can't cum to fast and you psyche yourself out and into doing it.
pitbull;280019 said:
its really not about what the girl thinks at all, its about what you think. Its easier to place the emotion on outside people or think they are cause for anxiety, but it is from within.. so until you can accept yourself then in your mind no one else will either. Let me stress it is your reality and is your experience, internally you may hav this penis size anxiety... but you are the one causing it on yourself. no one else. not that its something to eb ashamed off, just to let you know that it is in your control and its your responsibility to maintain your own mental health and no one elses...
also.. about the mental thing, we have a way of manifesting our fears. its called a self fullfilling prophecy: you think you will perform bad, you think your penis is gonna be small or limp etc etc,.. then guess what happens when you geti n that situation with woman? you get so anxiety that you cant get it up or pop off too fast... thats how it works. Im not saying to be delusional, but it wouldnt be that bad of an idea to give yourself a break and stop talkign down on yourself. Shit, why not tell yourself " My dick is huge and women love me, im the best they ever have in bed or ever will have"... you might be surprised with the results that come form a positive attitude.. you might actully be able to relax for a second and enjoy the moments you have, because i tell you...in a sexuall situation the only one who is going to be focusing and worring and judging your penis is most likely you... and its possible to ruin the time for everyone. Im telling from experience as well and knowing women: women (in 99%) of the cases arent going to bed wiht you becaue they think your penis is huge and they arent going to leave you because they tthink its tiny...i would say that if its love that 100 percent of the time the woman love you regardelss...
it really is a big part of how you work it, and i dont nessicarilly mean the actually motions of your cock. But it couldnt hurt to go ahead and treat your dick likes its huge.... if you treat yourself negativly and you cant get over yourself, liek i said.. the woman will pick up on it too and you will probably manifest your fears adn ruin the time and feell shame and embarasment... when you dont have to and more importantly you SHOULDNT HAVE TO AND THERE IS NO NEED to feel shame about your own body regardless of size. Its called self esteem for a reason, it comes form within yourself and yourself only. If you need to other-esteem and get it from other people it will never work because it will never be enough and it will never be in your control and the effects just are not the same... its fleeting and you will always chase it. When its inside its always with you. Acceptance really is key and yesit really is hard to do, and no i have not fully accepted myself. All of life is about growth though, its a journey etc etc...,
Anyway, noones perfect at this. No one is in the perfect mental state all the time, we all feel shame, guilt anxiety etc.
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