Dublindude

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I got my Bathmate about a week ago. I've encountered a few problems with it, well, a lot of problems.

The main problem is, I can't get hard when using it. I position it correctly, make sure it's full to the top, then put it on and make sure it's fully on. I think I have it on the right way because I can feel the suction on my penis vigorously. The problem is that it's simply not getting hard, at all! Just a lil' bit bigger, like when you're slightly aroused, but nothing like semi-hard, etc.

The other problem is that when I've it on, not only does it not work, but it is very painful. I have my pubes shaved and balls trimmed, it's just the penis that feels some pain. It's durable, but awkward and I'm wondering could this be the cause of the failure to get erect using Bathmate, or is it something you must put up with?

I'm reserving my judgement until I can get my penis hard and I've went over the information with the Bathmate tentatively. I'm doing all the right things, but to no avail.

I'm sure this question has been asked by newbies a plethora of times, so forgive me for being lazy and not just looking around for the info.

Thanks.
 
OK, maybe I asked stupid questions so that's why I didn't get a response, but hear's another one.

I used Bathmate today and got an erection using it. However, the hot water runs out quite quickly so I only had the Bathmate on for about ten mins. Is that enough or do I need to reach around 18-19 mins?
 
Try going in erect or with 3/4 erection. Sometimes I have a difficult time with suction if I go in super hard, so I usually do 3/4 erect.

other than that, i'm not sure why the water would run out, if you get a good suction then not even a drip comes out, at least for me. I get the best suction if I put the top of my dick up against the top of the Bathmate, as opposed to centering it in the tube.
 
wakingdream;455057 said:
Try going in erect or with 3/4 erection. Sometimes I have a difficult time with suction if I go in super hard, so I usually do 3/4 erect.

other than that, i'm not sure why the water would run out, if you get a good suction then not even a drip comes out, at least for me. I get the best suction if I put the top of my dick up against the top of the Bathmate, as opposed to centering it in the tube.

Na, mate. Not that anything drips out of Bathmate. I mean the hot water in the shower only lasts about 15 mins. So, is having the Bathmate on for around 10 to 15 suffice?
 
Grab a bucket and recycle the water! Fill with hot water and reuse through your session. Also, to get better expansion you should do super-sets using the Bathmate for 5 minutes than jelq for 5 minutes and repeat 2-3 x, this will bring your best expansion. After sessions use a latex cockring to hold pump.
 
You can do this mate, think about all those hot Irish gals that will love your fatter longer Irish charm wand!
 
REDZULU2003;455148 said:
You can do this mate, think about all those hot Irish gals that will love your fatter longer Irish charm wand!

Yup:)
 
doublelongdaddy;455137 said:
Grab a bucket and recycle the water! Fill with hot water and reuse through your session. Also, to get better expansion you should do super-sets using the Bathmate for 5 minutes than jelq for 5 minutes and repeat 2-3 x, this will bring your best expansion. After sessions use a latex cockring to hold pump.

Man, you're talking to someone with no knowledge of the world of penis enlargement, ha. I'll look up those things you've mentioned.

I don't know, for some reason, I still just don't feel I'm using it correctly. Sorry If I'm coming across as annoying, it's just I want the value for money.

Another thing: As soon as I take the Bathmate off, my penis goes flaccid straight away. Now, it hangs much lower than it normally would soft, but is that normal? Should it not be erect as soon as I take Bathmate off? Perhaps I'm doing something wrong?
 
REDZULU2003;455148 said:
You can do this mate, think about all those hot Irish gals that will love your fatter longer Irish charm wand!

Ah, they already love me, ha joke. Hopefully. I'm not looking for a huge improvement, just another inch up to six would do me perfectly. Also want to increase stamina. During intercourse, my cock is indefatigable. But for some reason, if I'm not pulling or she's not, it goes soft, very quickly. That's what attracted me to the Bathmate. Would love to just keep a hard erection or even semi during sex. It has nothing to do with nerves or anything, I love sex and I'm quite dominant and talky during it. It's annoying and it's been affecting my sex life, ever since I was 16.

Anyway, I'm digressing. Thanks for the encouragement. Hopefully I'll be on here in a few months wanting to kiss the guy who made Bathmate.
 
"Another thing: As soon as I take the Bathmate off, my penis goes flaccid straight away. Now, it hangs much lower than it normally would soft, but is that normal? Should it not be erect as soon as I take Bathmate off? Perhaps I'm doing something wrong?"

I have been using the bathamate for a few months now. When I come out of the Bathmate i am flaccid as well. Not sure why and honestly I dont car that much haha. I think it is normal. Mine is "flaccid" but semi erect.

Also as to trying to get hard going into the Bathmate I have found using a cock ring very vlaluable and almosta must. This is not a metal ring however. It is a "rubbery" ring so when you get max expansion and or massive fluid build up like I have done a few times you can safely remove it without visiting the emergency room and the embarrasment! With the cock ring I can get more hard, usually not 100% erect but maybe 70-85% and then pump. Also as DLD mention wear a ring after the session, but if you already haveone on then youdont need to put one on :)

Also the Bathmate does feel "weird" when you use it, the suction feels different that anything you could possibly feel with any other device or woman for that matter! Hang in there. Any more questions and we will try to help!
 
baldsmeagle;455539 said:
"Another thing: As soon as I take the Bathmate off, my penis goes flaccid straight away. Now, it hangs much lower than it normally would soft, but is that normal? Should it not be erect as soon as I take Bathmate off? Perhaps I'm doing something wrong?"

I have been using the bathamate for a few months now. When I come out of the Bathmate i am flaccid as well. Not sure why and honestly I dont car that much haha. I think it is normal. Mine is "flaccid" but semi erect.

Also as to trying to get hard going into the Bathmate I have found using a cock ring very vlaluable and almosta must. This is not a metal ring however. It is a "rubbery" ring so when you get max expansion and or massive fluid build up like I have done a few times you can safely remove it without visiting the emergency room and the embarrasment! With the cock ring I can get more hard, usually not 100% erect but maybe 70-85% and then pump. Also as DLD mention wear a ring after the session, but if you already haveone on then youdont need to put one on :)

Also the Bathmate does feel "weird" when you use it, the suction feels different that anything you could possibly feel with any other device or woman for that matter! Hang in there. Any more questions and we will try to help!

Thanks.

I take it the red dots appearing on my penis are just blood vessels stretched from the pump? Is there anything to worry about?
 
I do not believe the little red dots are anything serious. I get them as well when I have a fairly intense session. I am sure others will have a more detailed explanation as to what the red spots actually are, how they happen, are they dangerous, permintent etc.
 
Little red spots are just burst capillaries, a sign that you're putting effort into your Penis Enlargement ....uh....efforts.
Nothing major to be concerned about.
They'll typically disappear in a day or two without Penis Enlargement, or if you reduce the intensity of your Jelqing or use less vacuum in the Bathmate you should see them subside.
A lot of times this happens when guys jump both feet and a pecker into Penis Enlargement without giving their penis proper enough time to get conditioned to the new demands put upon it.


As far as maintaining you full erection in the Bathmate; as you become more comfortable using it you'll free up some brain space to devote to thinking some nasty thoughts. Your brain is where sex takes place after all.
So don't forget to get it in on the game too.

Practice a little before your next Bathmate session; think yourself into an erection. With a little practice you'll be surprised just how easy it becomes.
 
Staying hard in the Bathmate:

Just pretend you are in Opera's ass:)
 
Now any time I use the Bathmate I'm going to think of Oprah's ass and it will not help, ha.

Well, it's been I'd say two full weeks using the Bathmate. I've missed about 3 days in those 2 weeks. I've grown 10mm which is fantastic and I'm delighted.

The erections are fine now. I get fully erect. A concern(I know, another) I have is the time it takes to get erect. I try and speed up the process with the thoughts, as you do, and it normally takes around 8 mins to get erect. Is that normal or too slow?
 
Dublindude;458784 said:
Now any time I use the Bathmate I'm going to think of Oprah's ass and it will not help, ha.

Well, it's been I'd say two full weeks using the Bathmate. I've missed about 3 days in those 2 weeks. I've grown 10mm which is fantastic and I'm delighted.

The erections are fine now. I get fully erect. A concern(I know, another) I have is the time it takes to get erect. I try and speed up the process with the thoughts, as you do, and it normally takes around 8 mins to get erect. Is that normal or too slow?


Sounds like you have mastered it and are getting gains, great progress. As far as the erection question I am confused, what do you mean exactly?
 
hi DLD,
I recieved my Bathmate couple of days before
I dont have a bath tub and hence i am using it in shower
I enter the the Bathmate flacid
However of pressing it against my body, i am not able to experience any suction at all
Kindly let me know what am i doing wrong
And what should be the best way to use it in a shower
 
First off try and get into it when erect as it makes it alot easier to get sucktion plus you want to be maxed before you start pumping anyway.

this will also help get a better seal, next you need to determine where you are loosing suction, the best thing to try is to move the Bathmate up away from your balls and more onto your stomach and make sure you have it round the right way one side of the base is sloped and this goes on the balls area.

Are you using the X-40 or X-40? what girth are you?
 
I have a similar problem. I can get hard, but before entering the Bathmate, it starts to subside. So, I just go with what it is.

The main problem though is that the head sticks along the upper side of the glass. I feel as this impedes stretch. I tried some lube, but since you have a tube full of water, that is instantly gone. I've seen people mentioning going in lower or higher in the Bathmate. I really don't see how that is possible. There is only so much room at the opening. You can't move it that much.

Anyway, I'll keep working on that.
 
doublelongdaddy;458788 said:
Sounds like you have mastered it and are getting gains, great progress. As far as the erection question I am confused, what do you mean exactly?

Sometimes, it takes nearly 8 mins to get a full erection. Last night took about that time. But some nights, I can get hard in about 4 mins. Could that be to do just with the way I'm pumping?

Another thing. I've become quite accustomed to pumping and it isn't really hurting anymore, no matter how much suction I pump while fully erect. Is there any danger that I could do damage even though physically, I'm not feeling anything? Could the lack of pain be transitory if I really pump to the max as soon as possible? Around the last few mins, I create as much suction as possible and leave it there for a min or so. Is it OK, or should it be discouraged?

Other then that, no complaints. Cock is fine. Cock feels much fatter as well which is good. I haven't taken down measurements like some of you guys or set certain targets, I'm just going by the measurement on the Bathmate itself and hopefully, trying to create a stronger erection. The latter being the main imperative.
 
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