I wouldn't have done it either. Especially not for your first time. You have a good size. Find a nice girlfriend and lose it to her.
 
I agree with provider, you should wait and lose it to a nice girl. I wouldnt want to lose my virginity to some whore.
 
Yeah man screw that, once you've had sex a few times you'll realize that its great, but it isn't worth compromising a whole hell of alot for i.e.-your not gay, nor do you want to be, therefore you shouldn't have to get sucked by some dude JUST to fuck some slut. Alot of girls will do more for alot less.
I too am in college right now, and while I hook up with relative frequency, it is not the big fuckfest you have bought into. It is portrayed as such, and may be so for a little while. This is probably why fresHydromaxan girls are so easy, because they've been conditioned to believe that they should just let go and go crazy at this point in their lives. Either that or they try to cling to the high school ideal of relationships (I tend to not take them very seriously either way). After a year or so they realize how difficult it is to keep up with this lifestyle and grow up some, or they just turn into crazy bitches lol.
As far as penis size goes, 3 words. Girls are stuuuupid! You probably already know that since you are asian they will already view you as small. Me being white, and below 6 feet tall, they probably decide at first glance that I'm packing small to average (lol wrongo). Then black guys are automatically all monsters right? (lol wrong again...). This is a blessing in disguise, however. First because once you do get with them there is not as much pressure to perform, and secondly it weeds out the stupid bitches for you. All getting with sluts does is fuck with your head, your wallet, and possibly your health. So fuck them they're not worth your time. When you actually do get with a girl, at your size they'll probably perceive you as bigger than your actual measurements (depending in part to your girth I suppose) since they can't estimate for shit!
My advice to you, make yourself a little network of women. This sounds harder than it really is if you know how to play it. Firstly, fuck clubs, pubs, and bars. Yeah there are women there, but only every guy in the damn world knows this and hits those spots up to get laid, and with your perceived confidence issues this is gonna put you at a huge dissadvantage to the hookup artists. There are gonna be 21 year old guys there that can buy the little fresHydromaxan sluts alchohol, and 30 something guys that have money and experience and are looking for dumb, drunk, college slut pussy. Then the regular club-dancer type guys, usually black or hispanic, that like to show off their dancing prowess shamelessly, and usually get to cherry pick the drunk white girls afterward. Not to mention the writhing multitude of guys just like you all scrambling against eachother to get at what's left over. You can skip all this bullshit by playing it smart. First and foremost if you go to a relatively populated University, they will have a huge amount of student run clubs and programs available to you. Find a few you like (or can stand) that have flexible commitments, there you will meet more mature girls, and the ice breaking will be much easier given that you already have something in common. If you do join more than one you will set up a nice little network. Next would be charitable or volunteer type events that are set up by the school. I know it sounds cliche', but this puts something like a 3 to 1 ratio of girls to guys if not more. Not only that, but their generally easier to talk to, and the majority are single (think about it, they would probably be hanging out with their boyfriend if they had one, and if they were total bitches would they be doing something thats not for themselves...no). I know it sounds like alot of work at first, but it is worth it. Besides is it any less work than cramming shoulder to shoulder in a sweaty club with music that blasts out your eardrums because its so loud, just so you can maybe grind up against some slut with heavy liquor on her breath who you won't be able to talk to because its too damn loud, and who you probably won't see again anyway. All dressed up in nice clothes to get beer splashed on your sleeves and go home with feet sore from dress shoes reeking of cigarette smoke and beer. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy parties, and they can be great places to meet girls too, except that their often expecting to get hit on there which could be good or bad, but clubs are just a waste of my damn time. Well I hope that some of that helped, sorry it was so long winded but I just happened to know what I was talking about. Good luck with your Penis Enlargement, your gonna love it, and go bag you some hoes. Just don't let any of them play you, if ever in doubt whether or not a girl likes you, forget about her because she most likely doesn't. If she does it will just make her want you more:) .
 
bIgjOe said:
Yeah man screw that, once you've had sex a few times you'll realize that its great, but it isn't worth compromising a whole hell of alot for i.e.-your not gay, nor do you want to be, therefore you shouldn't have to get sucked by some dude JUST to fuck some slut. Alot of girls will do more for alot less.
I too am in college right now, and while I hook up with relative frequency, it is not the big fuckfest you have bought into. It is portrayed as such, and may be so for a little while. This is probably why fresHydromaxan girls are so easy, because they've been conditioned to believe that they should just let go and go crazy at this point in their lives. Either that or they try to cling to the high school ideal of relationships (I tend to not take them very seriously either way). After a year or so they realize how difficult it is to keep up with this lifestyle and grow up some, or they just turn into crazy bitches lol.
As far as penis size goes, 3 words. Girls are stuuuupid! You probably already know that since you are asian they will already view you as small. Me being white, and below 6 feet tall, they probably decide at first glance that I'm packing small to average (lol wrongo). Then black guys are automatically all monsters right? (lol wrong again...). This is a blessing in disguise, however. First because once you do get with them there is not as much pressure to perform, and secondly it weeds out the stupid bitches for you. All getting with sluts does is fuck with your head, your wallet, and possibly your health. So fuck them they're not worth your time. When you actually do get with a girl, at your size they'll probably perceive you as bigger than your actual measurements (depending in part to your girth I suppose) since they can't estimate for shit!
My advice to you, make yourself a little network of women. This sounds harder than it really is if you know how to play it. Firstly, fuck clubs, pubs, and bars. Yeah there are women there, but only every guy in the damn world knows this and hits those spots up to get laid, and with your perceived confidence issues this is gonna put you at a huge dissadvantage to the hookup artists. There are gonna be 21 year old guys there that can buy the little fresHydromaxan sluts alchohol, and 30 something guys that have money and experience and are looking for dumb, drunk, college slut pussy. Then the regular club-dancer type guys, usually black or hispanic, that like to show off their dancing prowess shamelessly, and usually get to cherry pick the drunk white girls afterward. Not to mention the writhing multitude of guys just like you all scrambling against eachother to get at what's left over. You can skip all this bullshit by playing it smart. First and foremost if you go to a relatively populated University, they will have a huge amount of student run clubs and programs available to you. Find a few you like (or can stand) that have flexible commitments, there you will meet more mature girls, and the ice breaking will be much easier given that you already have something in common. If you do join more than one you will set up a nice little network. Next would be charitable or volunteer type events that are set up by the school. I know it sounds cliche', but this puts something like a 3 to 1 ratio of girls to guys if not more. Not only that, but their generally easier to talk to, and the majority are single (think about it, they would probably be hanging out with their boyfriend if they had one, and if they were total bitches would they be doing something thats not for themselves...no). I know it sounds like alot of work at first, but it is worth it. Besides is it any less work than cramming shoulder to shoulder in a sweaty club with music that blasts out your eardrums because its so loud, just so you can maybe grind up against some slut with heavy liquor on her breath who you won't be able to talk to because its too damn loud, and who you probably won't see again anyway. All dressed up in nice clothes to get beer splashed on your sleeves and go home with feet sore from dress shoes reeking of cigarette smoke and beer. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy parties, and they can be great places to meet girls too, except that their often expecting to get hit on there which could be good or bad, but clubs are just a waste of my damn time. Well I hope that some of that helped, sorry it was so long winded but I just happened to know what I was talking about. Good luck with your Penis Enlargement, your gonna love it, and go bag you some hoes. Just don't let any of them play you, if ever in doubt whether or not a girl likes you, forget about her because she most likely doesn't. If she does it will just make her want you more:) .

Hey man thanks for going into such detail. I dropped the clubs and bar scene after the rents told me about my money going a little too fast for their comfort. I really haven't had an urge to go back to that life of clubbing either. I'm not sure if it's maturity or just generally sick of the bs that go on at the clubs. Also really haven't been drinking much either. I went to a Frat party at my school and it turned out to be a sausage fest with two or 3 taken chicks there. (Stereotype of lots of chicks hooking up with frat guys doesnt seem true when looking at this frat) I think I get a few looks from chicks but then that so called stereotype probably is going through their mind) I haven't really cared much about chicks trying to do well but if a chick does come up that I see is interesting I try for. The ratio at the school are 75% chicks 25% guys. Weird eh that I haven't hooked up? I joined up with something called Peer support and thinking of joining something called the social wellness association. There director is pretty hot and 19) The downside with the peer support is most of the people are either gay,lesbian or some really unattractive chicks (I didn't know this before) I guess I might as well finish it as it will probably help with Law school. The gay guy is also helping me out with the hook up of that director chick. Also anyone thanks for helping me with this shit with chicks. BIg Joe thanks man I will try the volunteer stuff, and try for some more organizations next yr as the registration for alot of the organizations passed on me and also I am still getting used to college work. I'm trying to get into Penis Enlargement more. I will probably order AB and the members area when I get back to home.(probably more likely to order the DVD because of having a roomate next yr) I want to get to 8x6 for sure. I'm still kinda scared of Penis Enlargement because of the horror stories of some of the guys here. I do want to get bigger for sure but want to do it in the safest way possible also.
Kdogg
 
kdogg101 said:
I do want to get bigger for sure but want to do it in the safest way possible also.
Kdogg

Simple streching and jelqs won't hurt you unless you are stupid ( which I don't think you are). You will know when to stop ... when it hurts hum.. anywyas by starting softly, there absolutely no danger.

As for the confidence you should have when hitting on girl... You really have to work on yourself... Not only physically. To me it seems you are hidding (probably subconsiously) the real problem you have, which is poor self esteem. I am sure you know some guy that are so ugly, yet are hitting on every girl they encounter.... And even get laid.

You know that a bigger penis will give you more confidence. Well many other thing will get you some more confidence. Just think about it :S

Oh and on a side note, If you have seen the recent documentary on penis size where DLD apears, some hot french girls (white girls) are saying their favorite size is... 16 cm, which is what you have huh? And guess what, they were shy to say it, probably because they know it's BIGGER than what they really need...

Start going at a gym, read about palmistry, numerology, massage, all those girl magnet things. Those are making good opening as well, which will boost 400% your self confidence that you can approach any girl you want!

Have fun dude, if there is one place made to have fun, it's the dating scene. If you're not genuinely having fun, you DON'T GET LAID. Final :)
 
Some great advices above. Also I think girls don't just pick you on penis size they assume you to have. They look at the 'total-you', many aspects. Although is a percentage of sluts around I doubt white girls in general or most of them to think you're small and turn you down because of cliche's. Maybe it's a fraction who does and it got in your head now. And if it's in your head unconsciously you will find confirmation after confirmation.

At least where I live girls don't exclude possible guys because of what they think their penis size will be. And I'm convinced that even if they would know one's bigger they would not automatically choose him. I've got (goodlooking and decentlooking) white, black and asian friends and neither and it's not like the asian guys have a harder time getting laid than the others. But that's where I live, The Netherlands.

But either way I would fvck what everyone thinks, would think or says and just go for every girl you like.

Good luck with your Penis Enlargement, great starting point.
 
J.J. said:
And if it's in your head unconsciously you will find confirmation after confirmation.

He has a point here. It's a question of perception. If you wake up one day thinking everyone hates you, chances are you will only see people that dislike you. Or if you happen to buy a new piece of clothe, you will probably notice that more people has those clothes than you previously thought.

I don't know if that was clear, but in short, if you think girls are discarding you, then you will only notice "discardation" from girls, even if they arn't in reality.
 
ggogeta said:
He has a point here. It's a question of perception. If you wake up one day thinking everyone hates you, chances are you will only see people that dislike you. Or if you happen to buy a new piece of clothe, you will probably notice that more people has those clothes than you previously thought.

I don't know if that was clear, but in short, if you think girls are discarding you, then you will only notice "discardation" from girls, even if they arn't in reality.

Hey man that question of perception and how I viewed people was very true in HS actually. Namely because I wasn't invited to parties or people wanting to be friends with me. Trivial HS crap like that. Also I have some questions how do I survive the hometown life again? ( have to go back to work to come back to school here) Four months of it and I could barely survive the christmas break<:( It's the rents mainly that hit me at the core. Also the bad isolation of people is still present. (that hs stuff is still there, I just ran away from it) Anyway again thanks to anyone who helped with this thread and threw their experiences in here, you don't know how much you have helped me through the tough times.:) Thanks MOS,Kdogg
 
Sorry, but what's "HS"? I'm not an english speaking person, so that might explain why :s
 
well if you're getting "isolated" by people, that's for a reason 1) You think you are rejected and then only see people rejecting you ( even though they maybe arn't at the beginning or 2) you are behaving in such a way that is saying " I don't want to talk to you"

Try to talk to a girl whom you never seen before, and see how she will be gentle with you, at least she'll do a smile at first. People are all gentle at a first encounter, all you need to do is to stay cool, not agressive, intraverted or something, and chances are you are making a new friend. Now if you think you can make friend with anyone in 5 minutes you're wrong, but then again the attitude of "well if you're behaving in such a way that I dislike, you can go to hell :)" ( notice the smile) is shown by yourself, you,re on the good path.

I think I wasnt much clear... hard for me to explain

Thanks for the HS definition :)
 
slowly I'm trucking thru this hometown life... had some really bad depressing days for sure... I'm finishing an electrican program here, then it's back to the city to see what life has in store for me...haven't noticed gains yet, but I'll keep going, I badly need some confidence. I keep looking down at my pecker, and it seems so small, even though I measure it, and I keep getting the measurement in my sig. How do people psyc themselves out of those thoughts? I'm having a hell of a time with that, and it leads to feeling shitty. anyway thanks to anyone who reads these rants
 
Wow, I have reading this thread going over my past and now laugh at how stupid some of the crap I went through was. I nailed girls, got compliments on my dick (thanks to the community here) and finally figuring out my self-worth. To the Indian guys out there, get out of your head and broaden your circle beyond your Indian group, as it will help a ton with getting girls and finding your path.
Also, bought a Bathmate X30 and been using it for about four months on a 4 day schedule. Now 7x5.4 BP because of the efforts. Glad to be back at MOS and noticed how much the community has changed.
 
kdogg101;701905 said:
Wow, I have reading this thread going over my past and now laugh at how stupid some of the crap I went through was. I nailed girls, got compliments on my dick (thanks to the community here) and finally figuring out my self-worth. To the Indian guys out there, get out of your head and broaden your circle beyond your Indian group, as it will help a ton with getting girls and finding your path.
Also, bought a Bathmate X30 and been using it for about four months on a 4 day schedule. Now 7x5.4 BP because of the efforts. Glad to be back at MOS and noticed how much the community has changed.

Welcome home my Brother! So many are returning! So excited about PE this year.
 
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