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georginho, at her tender age, she most likely is telling the truth. She probably has not cum, or, if she has, she is not too sure if she did or not. Women are alot different than us in that respect.
Men seem to be alot more in touch with their bodies as far as sex and self-pleasuring and cumming than women are. Alot of this is cultural. Women are discouraged all their lives from being too sexual. Women who treat sex like men do are called sluts and are usually mistreated and shunned.
Unfortunately, you can't force her to be more at ease with sex and her sexuality. You just have to be patient and allow her to progress at a pace that she feels comfortable with.
Many women that I have been with have said that the first time they really came, it was overwhelming and kind of scary. Apparently, for young women, that first big orgasm feels a little like they are going to lose control of their bladder, so they will try to hold it back.
Whatever you do, don't put pressure on her to cum. In fact, I would say for you to just relax yourself and enjoy the sex and not sweat it. It is not some kind of test where you get higher marks for making your partner cum. Take your time and be sensual and really get into the act, and eventually, when she is comfortable, she will let loose. If you put pressure on her to cum, it will most likely have the opposite effect, and it will be even harder for her to do it.
Also, be sure to vary your technique. Don't just go at her like a tongue juggernaut. That's a very delicate little organ down there, and you can make her feel over-stimulated and ticklish if you just plow into her for twenty minutes straight. Go light, then hard, then slow, then fast, and don't just concentrate on the clit. Women like their inner lips stimulated, as well as the outer lips, and the inner parts of their thighs and buttocks.
I would say, overall, the best way to tackle this problem is to go at its psychological roots. Women are taught that sex is naughty and that they shouldn't be slutty or nasty. Do everything you can think of to make her feel comfortable, relaxed...and most important of all, make her feel beautiful and desirable...If you can Make Love to her instead of just fucking her, she will be putty in your hands.