I think it is a very different situation when it comes to men/women and sex, for example, the average guy will get more respect the more sex he has where as the average woman would get disrespect the more sex she has and would probably be called things like 'slapper', 'whore'...etc.
 
I feel that she should have told my friend in a different way, but none the less, she should have told him either way! It would of been tragic, if they got married, and had a kid, then he found out about her ����� past after all that! I think she did right in telling him, but her method was not very thoughtful!

As for male ���� stars not having a hard time finding lasting relations. I read somewhere about Lex Steele never being able to have a long term relationship! Seems that once he meets a girl, and they hit it off, and she finds out his line of work, they drop his ass!!!
 
girthius said:
I feel that she should have told my friend in a different way, but none the less, she should have told him either way! It would of been tragic, if they got married, and had a kid, then he found out about her ����� past after all that! I think she did right in telling him, but her method was not very thoughtful!

As for male ���� stars not having a hard time finding lasting relations. I read somewhere about Lex Steele never being able to have a long term relationship! Seems that once he meets a girl, and they hit it off, and she finds out his line of work, they drop his ass!!!

Girthius, How the Fuck Did you Get a picture of me for Your Avatar?!?!?!?!?
 
I don't think women would be turned on by a guy if he was in ���� films. I don't think women would like that one bit.

That story about the girl putting on the ���� then leaving the room was fucked up. It shows you a little bit how some women think. They think that since they are "honest" that they are exempt from being wrong. That was definitely the wrong way to break the news to that guy. I think I woulda felt sick and left too... especially if I had already fucked her. It almost seems sadistic what she did... sitting him down and turning on the ����� movie. That's fucked up.

Honesty isn't always the best policy. I think sometimes I'd rather not know about some chick's past, cuz nine times out of ten I ain't gonna like what I hear. Chicks will hide behind honesty all the time as their excuse for hurting people's feelings. They do that so in their own mind, they're right...and not the dirty whores they are. They also use "honesty" to put the blame on you when you got a problem with it. In their mind, they're being "open and honest"...so how could the guy possibly have a problem with her then?? It's a Catch 22. Unless you like feeling like shit, avoid women like this at all costs.

It's hard to "leave the past in the past" when the past won't GO THE FUCK AWAY. Or in this case, when the past is forever preserved on videotape.

It all depends on how you feel about the girl. If you're not in love, and you're just fucking her, then it shouldn't really be a problem. Once your feelings get involved, it's one big mess.
 
Godsize said:
when the past is forever preserved on videotape.

Especially if she is lieing to you by saying you have the biggest dick she has ever seen but you have a video in your stash of her doing a DT with LEX and __________:D
 
Godsize said:
I don't think women would be turned on by a guy if he was in ���� films. I don't think women would like that one bit.

I totally agree with that. I think many people in the industry date people within the industry, as I can imagine that is the most normal relationship most of these folks can find.
 
This probably deserves a separate topic, but it is relevant to this line of thought and I am not sure where to post it.

In light of all the opinions on how clean ��������� are:

Darren James has just tested positive for HIV. He apparently contracted it in Brazil on March 10th. He tested negative on March 17th ( after being positive) and worked with several girls since then. Apparently in a lot of anal scenes as well. He tested positive on April 8. This not only affects the girls he worked with, but also all the men and women they worked with ( 2nd generation). This includes at least 30 performers or so. All these people are under voluntary quarantine.

Basically the entire ���� industry has been shut down for at least 30 days, with many calling for a halt of all production until at least June 8th when 60 days have passed.

The reality is if you have sex at all ( IMO even with condoms, as I think the whole condom=bulletproof idea is bullshit, though it helps), especially with multiple partners ( in ���� or in regular life) you are at risk for HIV. And getting tested regularly is not going to prevent the contraction or spread of HIV, especially if you ever have sex with someone who has not been tested - recently or had sex with someone who had sex with someone who was not tested,etc. Since there is a 75% rate after 30 days and 99.5% after 60days, you can have an HIV test every month and you could still have it and not know for upto 2 months.

This is also scary considering the company thats runs ���� HIV testing previously allowed Mark Wallice to suBathmateit forged testing documents and allowed him to keep working and infect others when he had HIV.

So my opinion is unless you like Russian Roulette dont fuck any ��������� and also dont fuck random people in your personal life.

more info on the HIv scarecan be found at avn.com and mikesouth.com
 
Wow BBNT, great post, and incredibly sobering! There'd be a great documentary in all this somewhere..!
 
He apparently contracted it in Brazil on March 10th.

Brazil has an awful HIV rate.

The reality is if you have sex at all ( IMO even with condoms, as I think the whole condom=bulletproof idea is bullshit, though it helps), especially with multiple partners ( in ���� or in regular life) you are at risk for HIV.

True. However, everything I've read says that condoms make a tremendous difference. If I'm not mistaken, your odds are several thousand times better with a condom.
 
penguinsfan said:
Brazil has an awful HIV rate.



True. However, everything I've read says that condoms make a tremendous difference. If I'm not mistaken, your odds are several thousand times better with a condom.


You are correct. But I would not knowingly fuck anyone with HIV, even with a condom.
 
That Video tape thing sure is fucked up, but i back them blokes up 100% who fucked off when they find out about there girl being in ����. To be honest if i loved the girl a lot and she felt the same way and i found out about her past ���� expereicnce i guess id try and make it work, but when id think about it, you cant settle down with a girl with a past like that, its savage.
 
This might end the "debate", todays news...

HIV Scare Shuts Down California ���� Productions
Industry Puts Itself Under Two-Month Moratorium After Two Actors Test Positive
By ROBERT JABLON, AP

LOS ANGELES (April 16) - An AIDS scare prompted adult movie companies to halt production and bar dozens of performers from
the set after two actors tested HIV-positive.

At least 45 actors and actresses were under a voluntary work quarantine and about a dozen companies were adhering to a
voluntary two-month moratorium until new HIV tests are completed, industry experts said.

''It's very scary,'' said Mary Carey, a ���� star who ran for governor of California last fall. ''This is kind of a wake-up
call for everybody.''

Carey said she had not worked with the infected actor but as a precaution, she was canceling a lesbian ���� shoot.
The last industry HIV scare was in 1999, when a male actor tested positive for the disease. He no longer performs and no
other actors were infected. Before that, a male actor infected five women in 1998.

A nonprofit health group was trying to identify performers who had sex with the two HIV-infected actors as well as a
''second generation'' who slept with their movie sex partners. Dr. Jonathan Fielding, director of public health and health
officer for Los Angeles County, said the agency did not consider the HIV case a threat to public health ''at this point.''

''I think in general, they've done an appropriate job in terms of the quarantine measures taken,'' he said.

Sharon Mitchell of the nonprofit Adult Industry Medical Healthcare Foundation said the male performer apparently contracted
HIV last month while filming in Brazil. He tested positive for HIV on Friday and a follow-up test on Monday confirmed it.

On Thursday, Mitchell confirmed that one of about a dozen women the man had sex with in U.S. films also had tested
HIV-positive.

It was unclear how much impact the work stoppage would have on the $4 billion to $13 billion-a-year industry, which is
centered in the San Fernando Valley and cranks out 4,000 movies annually.

The ���� industry's largest company, Vivid Entertainment, told The Associated Press in a statement that it would continue
production, arguing that they already have safety measures in place. However, Adult Video News late Thursday posted a
statement from Vivid spokeswoman Ellie Reeve on its Web site, saying the company had decided to cease production.

Jill Kelly, a former adult performer turned producer, said she was delaying about eight movies.

''It's going to hurt some people (financially) but who cares?'' she said of the moratorium. ''It's about safety now and
about people's lives.''


04/16/04 08:35 ET
 
Oooops..just noticed bigbutnottoo posted alot of this info already
 
suhreel said:
Oooops..just noticed bigbutnottoo posted alot of this info already

Yes, but you scooped me on the update that a female has now tested positive. She is a Canadian newcomer named Laura Roxx
 
bigbutnottoo said:
You are correct. But I would not knowingly fuck anyone with HIV, even with a condom.

Nor would I. If you know for certain that the disease is there, don't chance it. But given that only a small number (I'm sure far less than 1%) of the population has AIDS, you might not get it even with an infected partner if you're lucky, and a condom increasing your odds by several thousand time, it's not something I ever worry about. Fear of AIDS does not influence my behavior, because I just view it as right up there with fear of dying from terrorism or lightning, in terms of percentages.
 
man reading this makes me so stinkin glad I am married and have done it up right. before marriage was a virgin and so was my wife. niether of us were with someone else ever and plan on keeping it that way. Just the way God had intended it for man to be since the beginning of time.
 
Yeah the swedish newspaper said something about all the ���� in has stopped, because they want to HIV/AIDS test 6000 actors/acresses.
Because of Lara Roxx and Darren James, have been tested postitiv on the HIV tests.
Darren James believed to have gotten the HIV under a filming in Brazil.

Swedish newspaper says:

"����������� actor Darren James was probably infected under a movie-shooting i Brazil.
Back in the U.S. he did a job with Lara Roxx, that just started in the business.
Accordning to Los Angeles Times she had just been with two or three males in ����, when she this thursday find out she have been tested postitive in the HIV-test."

45 men and women, have put themselves in quarantine, because they have had sex with the two pornactors.

So now the whole industry is put on hold.
 
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