Comment/discussion on AVERAGE size Penis

I notice how many here say a 6 inch penis is "average". I think we need to reevaluate the use of the word "average".

In our every day lingo, average isn't very flattering. The girl was average looking, your grades are average, average looking car, ad nauseum.

The point is an average sized dick of 6 inches long is BIG enough to please 99% of the women out there. An "average" size dick is pretty big and few women won't feel a high degree of fullness and satisfaction with something that size, as long as the girth is reasonable at 5 inches or greater.

I have had sex with countless woman, if I quoted my estimate most of you wouldn't beleive me...in any event I rarely failed to please them and I was about 6.25 long and 5.5 inches mid shaft almost 6 inches at the base.

I could feel the bottom of a lot of women, a high percentage of them wouldn't sit back, allow me to lift their legs up, etc. as it was uncomfortable.

I am now about 6.5 inches long, but my girth is over 7 inches at the base, 6.75 midshaft and about 6.5 right behind the head.

I can honestly say that it is the girth that impresses them.

So far I haven't had one woman not comment that I was HUGE, the biggest around ever. One girl said she dated a guy much longer but she was nervous and a little scared about me because she was afraid I'd tear something.

She kept staring at it when she unbuttoned my jeans and kept sliding her hand up and down saying "Oh my God it is fing HUGE...so damn big around"

She said she could completely wrap her small hand around the other guy and once she got really wet, she could barely feel it except the length, which wasn't too pleasant. She can't get her MOUTH around my dick without hurting me...it is just too big around for her and her fingers are about an inch apart from completely wrapping around me.

I guess the whole point is, while your length may be "average" in reality, average is pretty big for a vast majority of women to get sexual satisfaction and of all the women I have talked to, had sex with etc it is the girth that they truly enjoy the most as too long can be way more painful than too big around.

Just my 2 cents.

I agree with you Thickestone, girls I dated said lenght is "visually stimulating", but girth is "physically stimulating".

5.5"+ of girth is what women really like, anything less than 5.5" of girth and women are nowhere near as satisfied. My girlfriend REALLY enjoys my new girth but even though I want more, she tells me I was better than someone she has estimated as 7.5" girth.

I think the average penis LENGTH range is between 5.5 and 7 inches.
The average penis GIRTH range is between 4.5 and 5.5

Those would be my guesses.

Thickestone, there was absolutly no reason for this post. It seems as if you made it to gloat about your big penis and how many women you have been with. Did you give one relevant piece of information about average size that hasn't been said before. Not to mention you contradict yourself stating average will please any woman , but then saying how the girl that said you were huge said that the guy she was with before didn't please her even though he was above average length. I doubt someones gonna have above average length with below average girth. So, Id really appriciate it if you'd stop posting unless you have something decent to say, instead of using this forum to read your own words to boost your ego.

On the contrary, I think he brings up a good point, which is that we say "average" like it is a bad thing, when in fact any woman is going to be perfectly satisfied with it. An "average" size penis really is pretty big in the real world, even if it may seem kinda small in our twisted little Penis Enlargement forum. I think you're just perturbed because thick brings up girth being better than length, which is something that I feel is true myself. If I had to choose, I'd rather have an average length cock that's fat than a long cock that's skinny. Oh wait... I do have one. :D

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Thickestone, there was absolutly no reason for this post. It seems as if you made it to gloat about your big penis and how many women you have been with. Did you give one relevant piece of information about average size that hasn't been said before. Not to mention you contradict yourself stating average will please any woman , but then saying how the girl that said you were huge said that the guy she was with before didn't please her even though he was above average length. I doubt someones gonna have above average length with below average girth. So, Id really appriciate it if you'd stop posting unless you have something decent to say, instead of using this forum to read your own words to boost your ego.

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Franchise, You just don't get it. Kong does, as do the others, but it sailed right over your head. I made some valid points. We use the word "average" in an almost derogatory fashion, when "average" is really quite big for most women.

Kong nailed it perfectly when he stated ;

"An "average" size penis really is pretty big in the real world, even if it may seem kinda small in our twisted little Penis Enlargement forum."

Man he really nailed the point I was trying to make.

I never said the above average length guy didn't please her. I stated his above average length wasn't pleasant for her as it hurt her, so that bit of anecdotal information validates my comments on average.

Plus you would be surprised that quite a few men have above "average" lengths but weak girth measurements. Another thing is do the volume calculations and you will see that an average or below average length penis with a lot of girth displaces much more space than a long penis with below average girth.

And all things being equal, girth increases seem to be much more pleasuable and tolerable to the vast majority of women than a super long penis.

As for contradicting myself, let me put it to you this way. I have had many blow jobs in my life, I liked them ALL, but some women knocked my socks off with their skill and technique. They literally blew me away (pun intended).

Point being "average" isn't really small and most women will be satisfied, but an above average penis girth wise is much more pleasurable than above average length for the vast majority of women.

I seem to have hit a raw nerve with you. It's either an age issue or insecurity issue, but whatever don't be afraid to face the truth and look at things objectively instead of emotionally.

I don't post much, but will continue to add my opinions when I think they are relevant and valid. If you don't like them the proper and respectful thing would be to ignore them.

Thickestone...nice post. I think maybe there will be a time when everyone on here will realize girth is the most important thing in penis dimension as it's been stated, restated, and recognized countless times over. But it's always GOOD to have it come up every now and again.

Damn i want some girth now!! lol Anyway good point, if only that view was held in the cultural mindset in which case most of us would'nt be here.

Most surveys I've seen on female values seem to actually split fairly evenly, always with a small advantage to the girth department. Interestingly, a pretty much equal portion of women didn't really care about size that much at all. It has always seemed that a heftier girth is way more common (at least on internet forums) than some serious length, and and I've always wondered how this affects women's preferences. Check this out for a more detailed reading: http://cms.psychologytoday.com/articles/pto-19941101-000022.html

The penis stuff isn't until the second half, but the whole article is interesting. One note of interest: men thought that women would value length over girth, but women selected girth as more important (though the numbers show bya very small margin). However, men underestimated by HALF how many women thought that length was important.

In short, these debates are dumb. Every woman is different, there's no "golden rule" of penis dimensions that's going to sexually satisfy any woman. Girth matters, and length matters. If you think it doesn't, then who here would want a 4" penis, even if you had incredible girth? Likewise, nobody wants a 9" penis that's only as thick as a sharpie marker. Length looks very impressive, makes sex easier, and generally provokes a serious reaction form either sex (why is that __________ character so fetishized on this site and elsewhere? Oh yeah, amazing length. Most guys would take really impressive length, even if it meant a little less girth). Girth appearently allows for more clitoral stimulation during intercourse and increases friction for both partners, so it's a good thing too. It also makes oral and anal sex harder for her, so just like too much length it has drawbacks.

This absolutist stuff is just dumb. I agree that a site like this definately perpetuates a feeling that "just average" isn't any good, when in fact it's very good and just fine for 95% of the women alive. It's also my opinion that most of us here are just average, and that the typical lockerroom environment and associated bullshit factor that comes from a mostly male site like this is what leads to the concept that average is somehow substandard. On the other hand, nobody wants to be average, we all want to be exceptional, so the idea is to look forward to that, but realize that what you're working with is probably just fine.

I also agree that the original poster was letting loose with a little ego tripping, but that's pretty common around these parts. He may also want to consider that his experiences might be a little slanted in one direction, i.e. of course he hasn't heard any comments about length, as his length is probably something most women have encountered before and not nearly as novel as his girth, which would be in the top <1% of all men. Maybe the guy with 5.5" girth but 9" NBP in length gets a similarly enthusiastic response from whomever he's fucking? As we've painstakingly established many times over, all women are different, and so are their vaginas and sexual tastes.

Nothing wrong with tooting your own horn every now and then. The majority of guys who visit this forum are in some way insecure, so this kind of talk is something to be encouraged, rather than being called dumb or bullshit. So he's proud of his thick dick? Get over it. I've heard plenty of you long dongs bragging about your 8" NBP dicks, so maybe you should live with us bragging about our equally above average girths. By your own admission, half the women in that survey like a stout cock over a pencil dick anyway. Finally, this isn't a debate, it's just a discussion about the negative connotation of "average" around here, and about girth. Don't be so defensive. We know you have a big long dong. We're just saying that length aint everything. Maybe it's a moot point to us longtime vets, but the subject is going to come up again and again as newbies discover this site and join in the conversation. If it bores or frustrates you to hear the same thing over and over maybe it is time to move on or just skip the threads you've seen before.

Who said anything about my dick? What the fuck are you talking about? I know it's not a debate, I just offered my take on it. I didn't even chastise him for bragging if you actually READ the post, I just agreed that he was crowing a little bit.

"By your own admission, half the women in that survey like a stout cock over a pencil dick anyway"

By my own admission? That was my whole point fella. Different women like different things, some like length, some like girth, most probably like both. What the hell is your point with this? In what way am I bragging about myself, or even talking about myself?

Once again, it seems that you have posted just to try and start some stupid bullshit with me rather than to contribute to the thread. What does your post demonstrate? Show me how any of your comments are pertinent to my points that women prefer different things and that I agree with the thread's original point. C'mon guy, you're a moderator, don't you have better stuff to do then try and rile me up? Let's not hijack this thread with personal crap.

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Kong, nice job on taking the high road there. There are no winners in an argument and it will only sap a person's energy. We all should have enough self respect and self assuredness that we don't need to argue with someone just to prove a point.

Dan

THICKEST ONE said:

As for contradicting myself, let me put it to you this way. I have had many blow jobs in my life, I liked them ALL, but some women knocked my socks off with their skill and technique. They literally blew me away (pun intended).

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Yea, that makes a lot of sense and has a lot of revalance as to you contradicting yourself. More shameless self gloating. I have no probably with you bragging man. By all means you worked hard for your gains I'm sure. Boast all you want about your big dick, but don't try and make a thread about something with the underlining intention of you talking about your big dick and how many women youve been with.

kong1971 said:

Maybe it's a moot point to us longtime vets, but the subject is going to come up again and again as newbies discover this site and join in the conversation. If it bores or frustrates you to hear the same thing over and over maybe it is time to move on or just skip the threads you've seen before.

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I guess thats somewhat true. That's my whole problem with this thread. How many threads do I see a week about peopel saying average isn't that bad and we all just have bad self images etc. Then this guy decides to post another with maybe 1/4th of the post being about average size and the other bragging about how many women hes been with and his big dick. But in the same token there is a SEARCH function that I'd think most average minded people know how to use if they wanted to find some threads on this topic, and it's not like there's not tons of them. Next time just post a thread saying. My dick is big and I fuck a lot of women.

"In short, these debates are dumb. "

Yeah, seriously, whatever, that's totally out of context. My point was there is no point in trying to pin down if women really dig length or girth, because they dig both and they're all different. Nobody was debating, I was offering my perspective. Last time I checked that's what forums were pretty much designed for.

Your post was all about me and not at all about the thread, I called you on it, end of story. I don't expect to have anymore of these incidents where every time I chip in an opinion I get some personally motivated bullshit from you. If you've got a problem with a post I make you can send a PM, otherwise I'll thank you to quit trying to pick fights like a little kid.

What are you guys talking about? Personal beefs, misunderstandings, flame wars and arguments are what makes posting on this forum and other forums interesting and fun!!

Especially when you've been a member for a few years... how many "Which is more important? Length or girth?" threads can you read before you get bored? Sometimes a forum needs a few fuck you's thrown in to liven things up.

franchise, you made me laugh with that last part. "Next time just post a thread saying. My dick is big and I fuck a lot of women." Actually, if you named a thread that I would DEFINITELY read it. :D Too funny! I'm glad you see my point about the way these old subjects cycle through over and over, tho. They're newbs. Don't dicksmack them too hard. We actually need a veteran's spot where we can discuss such enlightened subjects as... um, dick size and... um, fucking women.

swank, many of your contributions here are borderline trolling, no matter how intelligent and well-spoken you are. You are often guilty of being negative, argumentative and egotistical. You often accuse other members of being dishonest, dumb or some such thing. Get over yourself. As I have said to you time and time again, MOS is about sharing Penis Enlargement tips and experiences and supporting one another. Although your first post in this thread had some interesting points, you also tried to make this thread seem trivial and dumb. I just have to ask, Why the negativity? I have noticed in the past that you become hostile and defensive if anyone tries to say something positive about themselves. I think you have some major insecuirty issues you salve with this professor swank, former jock super cock facade of yours.

Godsize said:

What are you guys talking about? Personal beefs, misunderstandings, flame wars and arguments are what makes posting on this forum and other forums interesting and fun!!

Especially when you've been a member for a few years... how many "Which is more important? Length or girth?" threads can you read before you get bored? Sometimes a forum needs a few fuck you's thrown in to liven things up.

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I agree. To be honest, although I respect swank's intelligence, I effing hate him and his smug I'm better than you attitude. He's a prick. Nothing personal. Just a personal observation. I can't stand snobs.

PS-- My post count is also WAY BIGGER than his! His post count is so small its PATHETIC.

P.S. My dick is smaller than all of yours, but I can beat the hell out of all of you with relative ease.