Am I realistic?

looking4more · Jan 11, 2011

Hello all. I've always been insecure about my penis. My wife reassures me "it's fine" or "I'm happy with it the way it is". But I expect her to say that. We were friends before we dated and she had told me that her ex was 7" and the only guy to bring her to orgasm. Now she tells me it feels better with me because she loves me so much more. I feel that if I could be 7" as well and she is telling the truth, then she would get the best of both worlds-7" and a greater love would make her experience all the better. Right? Now I'm 5x4.5 erect. I would love to get to 7x6. I would be so proud to hear her squeal just from sticking it in. All of these measurements are non bone pressed. Since she doesn't measure that way, nor do I when I'm at the gym and the guy across from me gets naked thinking I want to stare at him. Now on the flaccid side I'm 2.5x3.5 I would love to be about 4.5x5 Is Are both my erect and flaccid realistic goals? I want to be that guy at the gym not embarrassed to stand naked. Or get a massage(which I'd never have the courage to now). Do I have to sacrifice one for the sake of the other? What kind of time frame am I looking at? I know everyone is different-but am I looking closer to 6months or 2 years? I have purchased both Bathmate and sizegenetics. Been using both for about a week. 2 hours size genetics with a break at an hour. Followed by 15 minutes straight Bathmate. Last thing is the sizegenetics has to be tightened every few minutes. Do I have it set too long? Anything you guys can help me with is much appreciated. Thanks for this forum having a home DLD.

keepingitbig · Jan 11, 2011

Yes, you are realistic. I think you should go for it. What I suggest after each hour break that you edge your penis for 15 minutes to gain circulation back into the penis.

Riven650 · Jan 11, 2011

I trust you asked your wife about her previous lovers' cock size and whether they made her orgasm, because it would have been cruel of her to just come out with that. But if you pumped her for the information (most of us guys do that) you have to be ready to deal with the truth. Your wife told you that her ex had 7". But did she measure him, or did he tell her he was 7"? (She may have mis-measured. He might have been lying).

Then you say she doesn't measure bone pressed. There can be a big difference between the amount of fat on different guys' pubic bones. So, for instance, if he was skinnier than you, it might be that your cocks are roughly the same size except yours is a bit buried in your fat pad. (If you have excess weight it is worth addressing that problem too because it will improve your overall body image as well as giving you more nbpel.) I think it fair to say that (for the reasons I gave above) most of us in pe think the more reliable/realistic way to measure is bone pressed, so I'd encourage you to post again with your stats and goals in bpel.

JCABRAL5668 · Jan 11, 2011

Just stick with a good routine. Stretches and jelqs. Basics are good.

nopainnogain · Jan 11, 2011

I have a severe tendency to get obsessed with what ever it is I'm doing. And I'm a extremely sexual person. So Penis Enlargement is was no exception. At first, my wife thought it was just another kinky thing I was trying to push on her. During sex she loved the fact that I was bigger but afterwords acted as if she didn't care much. Whenever she got mad at me somehow Penis Enlargement would come out... shed say stuff like... "space heater! Hangers! Etc, etc! Close yourself off in the bathroom for hours at a time! Don't you think your taking it too far!?" I'd plead my case to no end. All awhile I keep pushing it and I'm really finding my groove with this Penis Enlargement thing. Recently we had another awesome sex session and she came over and over again. The whole time screaming over and over again... Stuff like... "O my god I love your big cock!" it's fucking huge!" I can't take it!" "o my god I'm cuming again!" After words she rolled over and enthusiastically said "I love - love - love your new big dick! And I'm sorry Ive been on your case about you stretching your dick. I won't say another word and will for now leave you alone to do your work."

If that's not proof of concept I don't know what is!

DLD · Jan 11, 2011

looking4more;411546 said:
Hello all. I've always been insecure about my penis. My wife reassures me "it's fine" or "I'm happy with it the way it is". But I expect her to say that. We were friends before we dated and she had told me that her ex was 7" and the only guy to bring her to orgasm. Now she tells me it feels better with me because she loves me so much more. I feel that if I could be 7" as well and she is telling the truth, then she would get the best of both worlds-7" and a greater love would make her experience all the better. Right? Now I'm 5x4.5 erect. I would love to get to 7x6. I would be so proud to hear her squeal just from sticking it in. All of these measurements are non bone pressed. Since she doesn't measure that way, nor do I when I'm at the gym and the guy across from me gets naked thinking I want to stare at him. Now on the flaccid side I'm 2.5x3.5 I would love to be about 4.5x5 Is Are both my erect and flaccid realistic goals? I want to be that guy at the gym not embarrassed to stand naked. Or get a massage(which I'd never have the courage to now). Do I have to sacrifice one for the sake of the other? What kind of time frame am I looking at? I know everyone is different-but am I looking closer to 6months or 2 years? I have purchased both Bathmate and sizegenetics. Been using both for about a week. 2 hours size genetics with a break at an hour. Followed by 15 minutes straight Bathmate. Last thing is the sizegenetics has to be tightened every few minutes. Do I have it set too long? Anything you guys can help me with is much appreciated. Thanks for this forum having a home DLD.

First, how are you certain this guy is 7", aside from your wife's memory did she measure and if she did did she measure correctly to make the conclusion he was 7"? I hear this way too much and men get themselves all in a tizzy over something that was most likely concluded with improper methods. With that said, are you measuring bone pressed? That would be a very important measurement.

I would suggest that the fastest way to get started is to jump right into the Newbie Routine and use the Bathmate and SizeGenetics as super-set tools. Have a look at my Total Routine and maybe you could work something like this, scale it down a bit.

girthwise · Jan 14, 2011

Those goals are realistic. You have to stay focused long term however. This is the key. You have to tell yourself that you are going to stick with this for at least a year. The first time I made some initial gains and then slacked off... so just be prepared for the long haul. When we do things for our ladies, we tend to want to see results now.. where the truth is it could take some people 2 years of serious dedication to see 2 inches added on. Again do not get discouraged at this.

To note, I am 7 bpel and about 5.5-6 nbpel due a a fat pat I am working on. I have made plenty of women orgasm and others not so much. A big dick does not mean a guaranteed orgasm. I have good girth 5.75 MS and 6.5-7 base which is natural. I do not know if that plays a part, but it goes to show that all shapes and sizes can accomplish similar goals if you are willing to educate yourself and stay focused.

Medicating · Jan 14, 2011

doublelongdaddy;411567 said:
I would suggest that the fastest way to get started is to jump right into the Newbie Routine and use the Bathmate and SizeGenetics as super-set tools. Have a look at my Total Routine and maybe you could work something like this, scale it down a bit.

Too true. I know the tools may seem expensive or excessive but they are wonderful tools and you'll probably save yourself months and months by using them. I was hesitant about getting them, but now i use them every single day and the gains just keep coming.

You are being realistic and i really hope you achieve that goal. It's very possible, you just need to be dedicated. Your wife will be around your little finger with a 6 inch girth, trust me.

DLD · Jan 15, 2011

Medicating;411967 said:
Too true. I know the tools may seem expensive or excessive but they are wonderful tools and you'll probably save yourself months and months by using them.

Agree totally.

looking4more · Jan 15, 2011

Thanks for all the help guys. I do want to clarify though, we have been married for a few years and she had told me about her ex while she was dating him and i was dating someone else as well. So it wasn't me pressuring her. I know that over the years we have had very good "sessions" also. Just think if I could give her more it would be that much better. And her measurement may have been visual so it could be he was 6" or 7-1/2" I dont know. I think I'll definitely use bone pressed measurement to track my progress(only have about 1/2" fat pad, pretty good shape).

When I wear the SG I have to keep pulling it tighter. Does that mean I'm using too much? I'm going to start the newbie routine today. Hopefully the success you guys have had on here will work for me.

twins172_up · Jan 16, 2011

when you say pulling it tighter..do you mean increase the traction as the hour go by..if that is the case it is normal...the tension tends to weakens throughout the stretch even if you wrap the extender in place...i usually have to mess with the tension bars twice during an 1 1/2 session...but it seems you are on the right track...doing manual work along with extender should result in speedier progress....i try to wear my extender for atleast 8 hrs a day now...i know not everyone can do that due to time and comfortability but the more the better i feel...your goals are doable...2 " in length is possible and wearing the extender and doing manual stretches will aide you in the flaccid gains as well...1.5" in girth is possible as well but might take more work than length (my opinion)...honestly i would say you are looking closer to 2 yrs than 6 months...maybe a year...but you have to be dedicated and find the time to get it done? have you told your wife about pe? I'm only asking because if you have to hide it from her..it might be a little more difficult to find the time...good luck

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