Psychology The Mental Stages You Go Through With PE
I like the purpose of the thread, but I say just keep it stupid simple. The process works... DO IT. That's it. No reason to question it, no reason to doubt it, no reason to whine. It makes me think of those people that say you have to get the workout in no matter what and the people that say stuff like how bad they didn't want to do it, but they did it anyway.
So why should you do this if you want enlargement?
(A) Because it works
(B) Because this forum wouldn't be here if it didn't work enough for people to be interested.
(C) What more reason do you need?
So why should you do this if you want enlargement?
(A) Because it works
(B) Because this forum wouldn't be here if it didn't work enough for people to be interested.
(C) What more reason do you need?
LONGERDICK7+
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yeah sometimes overthinking can screw things up lol
LONGERDICK7+
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Im just about to get rid of the old n fat bastard (aka my dumb state of mind) that has been giving me a hard time all of these years
LONGERDICK7+
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Getting a bigger, fatter,thicker dong larger is our bussiness...PE is our thing
LONGERDICK7+
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Stuck between 8 and 9 myself right now...Was really hoping to break the 8" barrier for 2016 but that just wasn't in the cards (no gains since about mid summer, and maybe a little bit of loss).
doublelongdaddy;679314 said:
To be honest not much...just stretching as it seemed to be working at first. I don't remember all the official names, but pretty much stretching straight down, up, and to the sides, holding for 30 seconds and doing about 5 sets each. Also stretching by pulling one way at the base and the other way at the glans (30 seconds), and using one finger as a fulcrum and stretching up or down (again 30 seconds, 5 sets) to work the shaft.
Over the last bit I have also started using my [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]Bathmate[/words] again to see if it can jumpstart things again. I also have a [words=http://www.phallosan.com/shop/catalog/default.php?z=eNortjIxtVKyL0pNszWxMFcrSSxKTy2JL0hMT7U1UisoykyxtbBQSy4tLsnPjS8uKcrMS7dVsgZcMMpbEbo%2C]Phallosan[/words] I haven't started using yet, mainly because of trying to find the time to put in all the hours required.
Current size is 7.5-7.75" BPEL (varies a little on EQ) and 5.2 MEG. Hoping to see 8.5"x5.5" in 2016 (so 0.75-1" and 0.3"), with an end-goal of around 10" BPEL x 6.5" (2.5" and 1.3") although I know that's a size I might/probably will never hit.
Phoenix7672;679525 said:
I would say the lack of gains is due to a lack of training. Training needs to be consistent, daily if able. The best place to start is always with The [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]Newbie Routine[/words] and taking cues from [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words]. [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] is where you will see amazing growth but the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]Newbie Routine[/words] will build a massive foundation to work upon. You are starting at a much bigger size than me and I made your major goal so it is very possible. How much time do you have to dedicate to this? With the equipment you already have I would start as soon as possible with [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words]. Maybe a week or two in the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]Newbie Routine[/words] and then jump into the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] routine.
doublelongdaddy;679832 said:
Well I have been fairly consistent so far, as I do the above 5 days a week and take rest days over the weekends. Only times I didn't commit to 5 days was the odd time due to life, or because I went too hard and did something that needed a day or two rest. I did manage to gain 1"x0.2" thus far, but things did stop growing around the 6-9 month mark.
Will look into those posts, and glad to hear my goals might be possible. Like I mentioned too, I'm trying to use my [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]Bathmate[/words] more to shake things up (plus I do want/need more girth), and want to give the [words=http://www.phallosan.com/shop/catalog/default.php?z=eNortjIxtVKyL0pNszWxMFcrSSxKTy2JL0hMT7U1UisoykyxtbBQSy4tLsnPjS8uKcrMS7dVsgZcMMpbEbo%2C]Phallosan[/words] a go too. Also thinking of hanging, but I'm trying to do this without spending more money for now. I do agree I probably do need to put more time into this, as I've probably exhausted all easier gains already, so going further will take more time and more dedication.
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templnite
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Shaking things up is a good way to jolt the cock into breaking a plateau, sometimes it has to do with hitting things differently. Also progressive increments need to be included to maximize potential because it ain't easy fighting for these gains man
Phoenix7672;679887 said:
Great gains so far and getting deeper into the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] experience you will do better and better. The [words=http://www.phallosan.com/shop/catalog/default.php?z=eNortjIxtVKyL0pNszWxMFcrSSxKTy2JL0hMT7U1UisoykyxtbBQSy4tLsnPjS8uKcrMS7dVsgZcMMpbEbo%2C]Phallosan[/words] is a great device in two ways, one is it's ability to bring intense stretching to cause new gains and two, using at a lighter setting to cement new gains. The more dedication you give to this the more you will get!
templnite;679921 said:
Very good addition.
LONGERDICK7+
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templnite;679921 said:
yeah gains are hard to get,specially if we are hard gainers lol
Getbiglonger7
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9 years since I started this PE shit im fucking small still...9 years can you guys believe it my mind beat me again. I should reconsider what is wrong whit me...
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Lord Arctik
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I think iam on #9 but iam keep going.
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Lord Arctik
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I think iam on #9 but iam keep going though.
Years?
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Lord Arctik
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no a brother here had a list im on number 9,not really good at posting things lol ill get used to it.
That’s OK you’ll get better and better as all of us have.
LONGERDICK7+
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I'm in the mental state i need no sex at all got no sex drive nothing,why would I care about PE then what a sad thing, I'm a young fella but im tired as fuck i got really stressed today being at the hospital is disgusting..
This will pass to my Brother
Remember that in tough times you can work on your patience and long-suffering. This world is a mess and we need to learn to be patient or will all be basket cases. I’m praying for you right now my brother, as I always do. Please try to see the value in your suffering!
LONGERDICK7+
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You will see some wonderful gains, I'm sure of it.
Thanks brother!
I’m trying to change my mindset when it comes to my routine and PE in general to a much happier state. It’s just in the beginning when I first started hanging I had that fire and I couldn’t stop now it seems to have died down a bit and I’m trying to bring it back.
@orgasmic19 keep pushing bro! The common thread amongst successful multi-inch gainers is consistency /discipline ..I have been stuck at a plateau for months now but I seem to have even more fire! Mind you-my initial gains were very easy( so u can imagine what this has done to my psyche) anyway this is where a ruler comes into play, as well as before/after pics..to break that “doubt”, even when we KNOW we’ve gained.. another thing I’ve experienced is after the pink cloud of gaining ends, after a while it’s like u never even gained anymore.. I look down and it looks the same.... anyway my point is our minds play tricks on us all the time..keep pushing forward and whenever u feel the doubt just look at the ruler.. Congrats on the gains bro !
I went from 5.5 nbp to 6.2 nbp and have been on a plateau ever since…(I don’t measure bone-pressed so I have no idea) I’ve tried just about everything except consistency.. my current routine is 3 hrs extending and 6 x20 min LM sessions all bundled! I only do length bc through my journey I’ve learned that I can acquire girth on demand (like 20 min manual clamping) ..so why not just focus on length u know..I just started this routine about 5 days ago and my only goal is 2 hrs LM a day for 6 months..extending all depends on “if “ I can..then I will measure against this 8 inch paper towel roll that I have been saving..I love extending but it’s been too much of a hassle so now I’m getting my hands dirty and puttin in the work..Thank you so much
How much did you gain and what’s your current routine?
No problems brother.
What is this fire you are talking about?
Lack of motivation compared when I started - Fire. Fire = Motivation to keep going.
Here comes some hard truths from Jocko Willink.
View attachment Discipline Eats Motivation For Breakfast - Jocko Willink (1).mp4
You don't need MOTIVATION brother.
This is the key to accomplish anything in life.
The lengthmaster will change your entire game
LONGERDICK7+
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I can't even imagine the day you come up whit a new device
Abdiel Bull Berg
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Love Jocko and Goggins, got both their books. If you ever want to read something exciting and useful their books are it.
Abdiel Bull Berg
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You’ve just gotta put even more firewood(good thoughts) in that fire and blow on it until it’s big, bright and warm.
Hope you manage to rediscover that passion again, brother, and believe me I know how hard it is especially when you’ve hit a plateau like I have. But no choice other than to keep on truckin.
If you don't follow your discipline you will feel like crap afterwards. Procrastination at it's finest.
I have a master degree in procrastination.
It's about prioritize in your life. What is most important to you. This is why social media is so dangerous. It strips us from energy to follow our dicipline.
Abdiel Bull Berg
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Haha, yeah used to be a big procrastinator before, but after starting ADHD meds it has gotten a bit better.
And yes, social media is an energy drainer, almost never use it ever, got a FB that I maybe check out every second to third month. And that’s it. I’m even tired of YT these days, as that too can be a waste of time.
If we remove all the time wasting tasks in life...imagine where you would be. I need to focus on this. Studying and doing PE isn't easy.
What are you taking?