Tl;dr getting back into PE after a 4 year relationship

The story:

I first logged into [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] sometime in '09 as a sex-obsessed freshman in college. I was dedicated to my practice, never finished when masturbating, went through the basic routine, got a cable clamp, [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words] and other fun toys. I ended up making some decent progress getting up to ~5.5ish girth and 7.625 in BPEL. At the time I was stupid confident around women and my sexual ability. I had girls tell me I was the only guy to make them cum in years. I heard about exes singing my praises and caught come hither eyes from their friends at the bar. I had a girl once tell me I seemed like I walked around like I had always just gotten out of some great sex earlier. It was like I had a magnet in my pants.

Then I met my ex. The first year of my last year of uni, we started dating. She was a great girl but took me off my game. She had trouble taking my length, so I stopped with that. I got lazy with my [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words] and she threw it away during a move. I discovered that she was one of the 40% of girls who can't have an orgasm from penetration alone so sex became heavily focused on clit stimulation. I had no need for [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] because there was no point. Her sex drive was lower than mine so over the course of 4 years I neutered myself with adult entertainment and masturbation and dropped to her level.

We broke up just over a month ago, and to be honest I was relieved. I always thought about how far I had fallen and what it would be like to be single again, and now I'm here. And I want that destroyer-of-worlds boner confidence back.

Main goals:

1. Get my [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] back
2. Get back to my initial 7.625"x5.5ish stats
3. Push through for my final goal of 8.5" x 6"

To that end I'm focusing on the following techniques

1. Edging with a cock ring (manual for now, just ordered a [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]fleshlight[/words] [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]STU[/words])
2. DLD's [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words] routine (rebuying an [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]X40[/words] in the next week or so)
3. [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?44-Ace-Strapped-Jims-Joint]Ace bandage[/words] wrapping (new development since I was last here)
4. Daily kegel work
5. Fancy pants clamping/girth exercises down the line

I have some restrictions on time with a roommate and being busy as hell running a business and dating in NYC, so wherever possible I'm taking an 80/20 approach. Also, I quit adult entertainment and masturbating to completion the day of the breakup and intend to keep it that way. A big question here is whether "muscle memory" exists in the penis to get me back to my old max.

STARTING STATS
Flaccid hang: 4.75"
NBPEL: 6.75
BPEL: 7.25"
MSEG: 5"
BG: 5.5

GOAL 1 (w/in 3 months)
BPEL: 7.625"
MSEG: 5.5"

GOAL 2 (w/in 12 months)
BPEL: 8"
NBPEL: 7.5"
MSEG: 6"

FINAL BOSS (whenever)
9" BPEL OR 7" MSEG so I can message a girl on OKCupid called SizeQueen9plus to reward myself for all this hard work
 
Sometimes it take the wrong person to set us in the direction of the right one. God works in mysterious ways and we need to trust in this and that we will be just fine. I am happy you have ended a toxic relationship and stopped wasting time on an investment that will never come to fruition. With that said, there is absolutely no reason to rush into a new relationship, take some time to get to know ourself better and start working on those goals.

Your lost gains will return immediately so have no fear there, going beyond this? Check out [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words], the biggest thing in PE since PE was invented. It is the best possible workout and the thread will give you great direction in all parts of "modern" pe. Even if you forego the actual [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] workout you still should study to learn some very important practices that should be used in every workout. Have a look through and give me your feedback. From there I can help you rework this routine to be more gainful.

DLD
 
True that sometimes the wrong bloody people can help you to get to a right direction,they may never get nowhere but helps to understand that we are valuable people.

D you have grown a thick skin and you have gone beyond,most men and women would dream of....

Even when i have been very flimsy and undisciplined,you are always helping us all.
 
Thanks for the words of support guys, I really appreciate it.

DLD - I read through the first post in the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] thread and it sounds awesome! I'm going to probably work up to something similar, focusing on edging, wrapping and [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words] routine to get the [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] and girth gains first. Quick question - do you know what the packaging looks like on the bonus items for ordering the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]x40[/words] through the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] link? I'm ready to pull the trigger but I have a female roommate that would be super weirded out if she ever found this stuff.

Journal stuff:

So I ended up jumping into the deep end with some DLD blasters on Monday and my red dots turned into blood blisters. The kegels fill me up and there is way too much head pressure! I have been off the stretching since then until they go away which I'm hoping is by next week. Will probably focus on BTC stretching once they calm down

I've been hitting a good 15-20 minute edging session before bed the last few nights. I'm getting a pretty good hang which has always been a challenge for me.

Should be getting my [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]fleshlight[/words] [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]STU[/words] unit any day now. Need to come up with a good way to hide it and clean it. Her room is right next to the kitchen and bathroom sinks and we don't have a dishwasher (gotta love NYC apartments). Time wise I usually do this at night before bed so I'm thinking about getting a bucket/container to hide under my bed with soapy water and changing it out in the morning when she leaves for work in the AM.
 
Round2;694464 said:
Thanks for the words of support guys, I really appreciate it.

DLD - I read through the first post in the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] thread and it sounds awesome! I'm going to probably work up to something similar, focusing on edging, wrapping and [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words] routine to get the [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] and girth gains first. Quick question - do you know what the packaging looks like on the bonus items for ordering the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]x40[/words] through the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] link? I'm ready to pull the trigger but I have a female roommate that would be super weirded out if she ever found this stuff.

Thanks for reading and I hope you got a great education to the newest and greatest!
 
Never let a woman derail you from any dream/goal that you set your mind to. The vast majority, (when they see their man making improvements) are so desperately insecure that they'll sabotage you to the point that you just give in/up and succumb to their level. The problem is, the very thing that attracts them is our male-ness and that's the first thing they attack once you're committed.
 
Alright guys bit of an issue.

My red dots have subsided but I tried to do a super basic stretch for 30s in the shower. Blood ended up collecting in my glans and some of the red spots came back. How do you guys avoid this?

It's a big problem for me during rotary stretches in particular, but generally as things continue I tend to get a bit of blood in there and I'm in trouble.
 
Fleshlight [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]STU[/words] just came in the mail and FUCK ME is that thing tight. Did a ~10 minute edging session and it was just about all I could do not to bust in 3 strokes when I reached the PONR.

Don't know whether it was from the lube drying out or getting over sensation by coming close a few times, but about 5 minutes in I got desensitized and got some pounding in. It was mega tight, I feel like if nothing else I'm going to desensitize the nerves a bit which should do well for [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words].

Back in my heyday I used to have something similar. If I could get close a few times, I would lose a bunch of sensation and would be fucking to keep my erection, not backing away from the edge. If I can practice this on the daily I should be back up to my potential in no time. Watch out women of New York.
 
Round2;694644 said:
Fleshlight [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]STU[/words] just came in the mail and FUCK ME is that thing tight. Did a ~10 minute edging session and it was just about all I could do not to bust in 3 strokes when I reached the PONR.

Don't know whether it was from the lube drying out or getting over sensation by coming close a few times, but about 5 minutes in I got desensitized and got some pounding in. It was mega tight, I feel like if nothing else I'm going to desensitize the nerves a bit which should do well for [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words].

Back in my heyday I used to have something similar. If I could get close a few times, I would lose a bunch of sensation and would be fucking to keep my erection, not backing away from the edge. If I can practice this on the daily I should be back up to my potential in no time. Watch out women of New York.

The best thing to practice longevity on is the [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]FleshLight[/words]. If practice is done regularly you will last as long as you like in bed!
 
New [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]hydromax[/words] came in the mail on Friday. I'm still trying to figure out how to work it in without my roommate catching me but I've gotten a few sessions in and my hang is already starting to feel thicker. Not measuring until the end of the month but I'm excited to see what it says

I went ahead and got an [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?44-Ace-Strapped-Jims-Joint]ACE bandage[/words]. Tried to do [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?44-Ace-Strapped-Jims-Joint]Uncle Jim[/words]'s wrap after a session with the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]x40[/words] and I don't really know if I was doing it right. I used the whole thing and it looked like I had a goddamn avocado in my pants. There's NO WAY I'll be able to leave the house with that. Am I doing something wrong?

Continuing to edge with the [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]fleshlight[/words]. It was a bit much to do it clamped but now that I have the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]x40[/words] I think I'm going to ease up on that as my main method of girth training. [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]Stamina[/words] is getting way better in the [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]STU[/words], haven't had sex since I've gotten it so I can't really comment on performance but I've got a bunch of dates lined up so hopefully I can show this thing to one of them haha.
 
Running into some trouble with the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]x40[/words]. I was able to get one good 5m session in but I was having trouble getting it to stay on for the second one and gave up. Air seems to be getting in through the rubber seal. The [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]comfort pad[/words] is new to me, the manual references a short version which I didn't receive. I'm probably going to order a vacuvin on amazon.

Anyway, rounded off that session with 100 jelqs at 90-100%. The hang was awesome, I felt like I owed it to myself to do a wrap which I'm going to leave on before I leave the house. I work in a coworking space with friends so I still have to figure out a way to keep the wrap on while not looking like I'm crotch stuffing. I might have to change my style up lol - I wear jeans for the most part but I might have to switch to something baggier like those sweatpants that everyone is wearing these days (https://www.g-star.com/en_us/produc...55.W034.6260?gclid=COK-vIam8MwCFQ1ahgodplYChQ)
 
Round2;695043 said:
Running into some trouble with the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]x40[/words]. I was able to get one good 5m session in but I was having trouble getting it to stay on for the second one and gave up. Air seems to be getting in through the rubber seal. The [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]comfort pad[/words] is new to me, the manual references a short version which I didn't receive. I'm probably going to order a vacuvin on amazon.

Anyway, rounded off that session with 100 jelqs at 90-100%. The hang was awesome, I felt like I owed it to myself to do a wrap which I'm going to leave on before I leave the house. I work in a coworking space with friends so I still have to figure out a way to keep the wrap on while not looking like I'm crotch stuffing. I might have to change my style up lol - I wear jeans for the most part but I might have to switch to something baggier like those sweatpants that everyone is wearing these days (https://www.g-star.com/en_us/produc...55.W034.6260?gclid=COK-vIam8MwCFQ1ahgodplYChQ)

The Wine-Vac is a must unless you get the X-Treme. It changes the whole pumping game 100%
 
Round2;695028 said:
I went ahead and got an [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?44-Ace-Strapped-Jims-Joint]ACE bandage[/words]. Tried to do [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?44-Ace-Strapped-Jims-Joint]Uncle Jim[/words]'s wrap after a session with the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]x40[/words] and I don't really know if I was doing it right. I used the whole thing and it looked like I had a goddamn avocado in my pants. There's NO WAY I'll be able to leave the house with that. Am I doing something wrong?

I'm usually fine with 1/2-3/4 of an [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?44-Ace-Strapped-Jims-Joint]ace bandage[/words] depending on whether I use it for elongation or wrapping.
 
Munto;695359 said:
I'm usually fine with 1/2-3/4 of an [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?44-Ace-Strapped-Jims-Joint]ace bandage[/words] depending on whether I use it for elongation or wrapping.

Men should know this, when [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?44-Ace-Strapped-Jims-Joint]ACE[/words] comes to you it will be a long roll. You can cut pieces to length for certain applications.
 
Thanks for the tips guys. Vacuvin is in the mail as of a few days ago.

So in the days after my last post the hang was ridiculous. I was strapped for time and didn't train Th-F so I was pretty much coasting and it was still diesel. I am a believer in wrapping now!

Just finished up a girth session (5m [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]BM[/words]/100 jelqs/5m [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]BM[/words]/100 jelqs/5m [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]BM[/words]/ one [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-forum/12539-slow-squash-jelq-nothing-give-me-better-expansion.html]SSJ[/words]) have some observations:
1. The [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]comfort pad[/words] is key to sealing in the water. The rubber seal is just too flexible
2. I was having trouble with air leaking in, so I thought about how to move it and came up with the solution of lying on my back. Huge difference! It was 100% hydrostatic pressure as opposed to 50/50 when there was an air bubble on top

Wrapped the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?44-Ace-Strapped-Jims-Joint]ACE bandage[/words] TIGHT so there is blood going into my head. Roommate is out of town so I'm going to keep it on for a few hours.

Fun PS: ended up taking a date back Wednesday night after my latest girth session so I got to make the most of it! I wish I had one of those moments when her jaw dropped or something but not today. I did get to make some fun jokes like "I wonder if it will fit" plus dirty talking about having a big dick and it felt natural which is really all I wanted out of this. BJ this time but she'll get stretched out next time she comes over.
 
Round2;695461 said:
Fun PS: ended up taking a date back Wednesday night after my latest girth session so I got to make the most of it! I wish I had one of those moments when her jaw dropped or something but not today. I did get to make some fun jokes like "I wonder if it will fit" plus dirty talking about having a big dick and it felt natural which is really all I wanted out of this. BJ this time but she'll get stretched out next time she comes over.

Having girls make 'big' comments is very addictive...such positive reinforcement will give you even more motivation (kind of a compounding effect)
 
Big Schwanz Acht;695463 said:
Having girls make 'big' comments is very addictive...such positive reinforcement will give you even more motivation (kind of a compounding effect)

Definitely need to look for those comments too,but i have to get the girls first hehe any suggestions for me LOL
 
shortdick;695465 said:
Definitely need to look for those comments too,but i have to get the girls first hehe any suggestions for me LOL

I'm afraid they won't make those comments, so I rarely look :/!
 
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