Guys iam really freaking out. I had to be circumsized cause of medical reasons on monday, and my penis literally has no more shaft. its like a knob, i just have the forehead. it was a very tigth cut, can it be that if to much skin comes out your penis shrinkes? anaybody knows what to do?
Help!! i got circumsized 3 days ago and my penis got shorter
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They don't cut your penile tissue, they just cut the foreskin off. I was cut when i was very young so i guess i can't really say how it's made a difference to penis size.
May just be the penis reacting to the trauma of the operation.
First off; damn sorry to hear about your situation.
Next, have you gotten ahold of the doctor?
That's the first place I'd start. I don't know what kind of preparation you were afforded before the circ. but it sounds like some very crucial information never made it your way.
Follow whatever advice you were given, but make that damn doctor do his job and get some real healing going in your direction.
Keep us posted with your progress and we'll all give ya whatever help we can.
Good luck
P.S. I deleted one really offensive response, if ya want me to delete YOUR response to his response (just clean up the thread a little) lemme know.
Next, have you gotten ahold of the doctor?
That's the first place I'd start. I don't know what kind of preparation you were afforded before the circ. but it sounds like some very crucial information never made it your way.
Follow whatever advice you were given, but make that damn doctor do his job and get some real healing going in your direction.
Keep us posted with your progress and we'll all give ya whatever help we can.
Good luck
P.S. I deleted one really offensive response, if ya want me to delete YOUR response to his response (just clean up the thread a little) lemme know.
putzaras;421914 said:
i went yeterday to the hospital and a realy young doctor took a look at my penis and said everything seems to be ok. i dont trust that, since they removed all the foreskin )low and tight, there is not enough skin for the penis to fully expand. did anyobdy else experienced something like that. i lost over an inch, from 5.5 inches to 4 inches erect and iam really mad about that
As far as I'm aware, there is no medical reason for circumcision. I fixed both phimosis and frenulum breve through stretches, I assume one of those things was your problem?
I can't help but think that maybe you jumped into surgery without thorough research, evidenced by your mis-spelling of circumcised. There are plenty of horror stories such as yours, just the other day I heard a guy had his testes removed in what was meant to be a circumcision.
I can't help but think that maybe you jumped into surgery without thorough research, evidenced by your mis-spelling of circumcised. There are plenty of horror stories such as yours, just the other day I heard a guy had his testes removed in what was meant to be a circumcision.
Well not everybody on this forum has English as his mother tongue, so the mis-spelling is probably because he's from a non-English speaking country. Also, I think he knows what a circumcision is (damn, what a word) as he also knows the possible mistakes that can happen during this procedure (removal of too much skin).
putzaras I would advise you to wait until the healing process is finished and that you start stretching again. I think it's because of tight skin and with stretching it will get loose after short time. Nonetheless keep on seeking info from your doctor about this, I could also be wrong.
It sounds like the doctor just blew you off. If I were you I'd go jam my foot up his ass and get the doctor who performed the circumcision to give you some advice and some guidance.
Just what was your emergency that made this necessary?
If the doctor told you one thing, then delivered another, you may have grounds for a malpractice suit, or at least an ethics investigation.
In the meantime; heal up. Once that happens you can start stretching the penile skin to regain what you've lost. A picture would be damn helpful; I expect that your "fat-pad" has crept up the shaft of your penis leaving you with much less skin with which to do a bone-pressed measurement.
You may be freaking out, that's certainly normal given the circumstances, but you can overcome this given time and calm, patient dedication.
Just what was your emergency that made this necessary?
If the doctor told you one thing, then delivered another, you may have grounds for a malpractice suit, or at least an ethics investigation.
In the meantime; heal up. Once that happens you can start stretching the penile skin to regain what you've lost. A picture would be damn helpful; I expect that your "fat-pad" has crept up the shaft of your penis leaving you with much less skin with which to do a bone-pressed measurement.
You may be freaking out, that's certainly normal given the circumstances, but you can overcome this given time and calm, patient dedication.
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Sorry to hear about your dilemma man it is only a stepping stone. Given ample time to heal you will probably find the surgery caused a trauma like Med has explained. Once you are feeling healed and completely rested I would follow MAXAMEYES' advice. If not for anybody else you need to reconcile what happen with the doctor for your own respect. I suggest kegels during your time of rest and consider beginning one of the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]Newbie routine[/words] or [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98Â ]Bathmate[/words] when you feel ready. You can have a little more than you started with before the surgery taking that route.
This is a very simple fix and you should not get yourself in a tizzy over it. Yes, your penis will feel tight as this heals, that is normal. Any size you may have lost via the skin tightening will return practically instantly when you start Penis Enlargement again. Stretching the skin is as easy and this will loosen the tightness giving you back your size. Allow for the circumcision to heal and jump into the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]newbie routine[/words], I guaranty you will have you size back in a week.
well it was a medical reason, i posted about this half a year ago, i got lichen sclerosum (google it) which causes a phimoses and spreads over the whole penis if not stopped.
Because of this illnes i gained like 70 pounds over the last 6 months, cause i was thinking iam gonna loose my penis. i tried everything but in the end the doc said i have to cut it so i did 1 week ago . they did a radical circ. they removed everything the outer and inner foreskin.. i will leave my penis for 1 week alone, i wont bath it so the wound doesnt get wet and it can heal faster.
i posted a pic how my penis looked before (also before the illnes) and after it is cut.
Because of this illnes i gained like 70 pounds over the last 6 months, cause i was thinking iam gonna loose my penis. i tried everything but in the end the doc said i have to cut it so i did 1 week ago . they did a radical circ. they removed everything the outer and inner foreskin.. i will leave my penis for 1 week alone, i wont bath it so the wound doesnt get wet and it can heal faster.
i posted a pic how my penis looked before (also before the illnes) and after it is cut.
The circumcision looks good, they did a nice job and that head of yours is massive! Take some time to relax and let it heal and from there we can get you back that length and more. As I said, gaining back the lost size will happen almost instantly.
You have a really good size to begin with. I'm sure after you have more time to heal you will get it back. When the dr.'s cut off foreskin it is only the skin around the tip. The penis is full of tissue and nerves so it is very sensitive and I'm sure it is retracting during the healing process. Give yourself a break and take care of anything you could do to help heal quickly and properly i.e. ice/medicine. Keep us updated on how everything works out for you, you're not alone here and you are in the right place.
putzaras,
I haven't looked up what your condition was quite yet, but it seems as though it really was a medical necessity, just like you said, and that the doc took off what he had to in order to make the whole damn process successful and any more cutting unneccessary.
On a more positive note, your penis looks very healthy and the circ looks like a damn good job, from what little I actually know about the whole process. Some of the horror stories and hack-jobs I've seen on here would curdle yer blood.
For now, like everybody's tellin' ya: focus on healing up. Protect against infection, protect against scarring and , although you might not really feel it's necessary right about now, be thankful your penis is still intact and healthy and you've found [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] to help ya get through this and gain even further.
I haven't looked up what your condition was quite yet, but it seems as though it really was a medical necessity, just like you said, and that the doc took off what he had to in order to make the whole damn process successful and any more cutting unneccessary.
On a more positive note, your penis looks very healthy and the circ looks like a damn good job, from what little I actually know about the whole process. Some of the horror stories and hack-jobs I've seen on here would curdle yer blood.
For now, like everybody's tellin' ya: focus on healing up. Protect against infection, protect against scarring and , although you might not really feel it's necessary right about now, be thankful your penis is still intact and healthy and you've found [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] to help ya get through this and gain even further.
another question to DLD. How the hell did you loose so much weight so fast, I remember reading a thread about that , but cant find it anyomre. I need to loose weigth myself, since the doctor told me yesterday that my penis illnes arised from diabetes which hes currently testing me on. I remember reading you lost like 40 pounds in a month. I need to loose 60 pounds but my docotor tells me i should loose no more than 1 pound the week, thats 60 weeks.
guys, what do you do if your life is totally shit and its going nowhere.
I turned 25 today and i saw coincidantly my ex girl friend (seperated now 4 years) with her new bf looking for an appartment. Her life is great , and since the breakup i became obesed )242 lbs on 5.10), had a penis operation which made my penis shorter, and had no girl since than. Also my dog died yesterday. Sometimes i think iam just really the unluckiest guy on the planet.everything is going wrong. how can one get out of this phase. i mean god damnt its 4 years now that we are separated and the moment i saw her again everything came back, how can this even be....
I turned 25 today and i saw coincidantly my ex girl friend (seperated now 4 years) with her new bf looking for an appartment. Her life is great , and since the breakup i became obesed )242 lbs on 5.10), had a penis operation which made my penis shorter, and had no girl since than. Also my dog died yesterday. Sometimes i think iam just really the unluckiest guy on the planet.everything is going wrong. how can one get out of this phase. i mean god damnt its 4 years now that we are separated and the moment i saw her again everything came back, how can this even be....
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Whatever you want to change, whatever you want to acheive, whatever you want to leave behind you MUST come from deep within yourself. Seeking advice is great, using others as examples for things you'd like to incorporate in yourself is fine and a little comparison is natural.
But you, and you alone, have got to decide what and who you want to be.
Sounds like you've been through a shitload lately, and getting down about it is completely understandable, but never forget:
EVERYTHING IS TEMPORARY.
Your circumstances WILL change, it's inevitable. What you gotta decide is: Which direction do you want this change to go? Define yourself to yourself and then bust your ass to acheive and become just what you envisioned for yourself.
There are infinite paths from "Where you are now" to "Where you want to be"; find the one that works best for you, alter it only when it furthers your journey and let nothing external distract you from your goals.
Best of luck & keep fighting!
But you, and you alone, have got to decide what and who you want to be.
Sounds like you've been through a shitload lately, and getting down about it is completely understandable, but never forget:
EVERYTHING IS TEMPORARY.
Your circumstances WILL change, it's inevitable. What you gotta decide is: Which direction do you want this change to go? Define yourself to yourself and then bust your ass to acheive and become just what you envisioned for yourself.
There are infinite paths from "Where you are now" to "Where you want to be"; find the one that works best for you, alter it only when it furthers your journey and let nothing external distract you from your goals.
Best of luck & keep fighting!
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I also wrote this earlier. You are just going through depression it happens to the best of us. A man's penis can make or break his confidence. With your recent events you would certainly be on the lower side. The other night my sister was out drinking with one her male friends who is 26. He was sobbing because he felt so useless and ugly and like no girl would ever want him. My mom was telling me this story and she made a very good point. She said it was not that he was ugly, useless, or undesirable as a man- it is because he has no job, he lives with his mom, he hangs out with younger kids and gets high and drunk and that's all he has to offer and that's why he feels alone. You're young and life is just starting. Get things moving forward in your life. Getting in shape is not impossible its all about how much you want it. You begin to change things in yourself and other people will begin to see it too. A very good quote someone just said in another thread is:
Apply that to your situation. You're sure not the unluckiest guy on earth/maybe it feels that way this moment but you need to count your blessings. I'm sure people in Japan would love to be in your shoes right now. MAXAMEYES gave some of the best advice I've ever read him give someone so you should really feel special.Mr._Clark;423428 said:
putzaras;423867 said:
Do you see what you have just wrote?
putzaras;423867 said:
We get exactly what we ask for but I will not harp on that if you do not want to hear it. But you need to realize that much of what we do here at [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] is visualization, is attraction, is believing in something that has not happened yet...we are a group that respects and believes in these great rules of attraction but I know that until someone is ready for it they will not take it. Stick around and hopefully we will ware off on you
Penis Enlargement will help you with all of your personal, physical issues and you will get your size back.
You have permission to be a loser. Look buddy, I will be 50 this year. I am 5'11" and weigh 240 lbs. I can get pussy when I want it. My wife's friends would pay her for a night with me (it has been offered). You are what you project. Period. You can see my specs, no giant horse cock here. Long ago I adopted the mindset that ANY woman would be blessed to be deemed worthy of my attention. It has become reality, women at work seek me out as a confidant and friend. It is all up to you. Your ex can read your eyes and she enjoys the fact that you allow yourself to be emasculated. My ex wife is on her 4th husband trying to find someone that measures up to MY FUCKING STANDARD.
so i went to an other urologist today because after 3 weeks after the operation my penis is still alot shorter. he told me that it seems the other doctor did a bad job and to much skin (all of it) was removed and the place where the fatpad is moved forward, making the penis actually shorter.
Now i dont know how to fix it, i mean they really messed the operation up, even stiched it up wrong. I was told i should wait a week after the operation but now 3 weeks have passed and the size is still vanished.
Now i dont know how to fix it, i mean they really messed the operation up, even stiched it up wrong. I was told i should wait a week after the operation but now 3 weeks have passed and the size is still vanished.
i dont know what to say about your penis, but on other things.. I been jobless for a few years, mid 20s and still live at home broke while watching all the girls i wanted end up with jerks.. my cars engine blew and im out of money to fix it, so im saving up while looking for work in this crap economy while i got a good resume behind it. What I did was change my mind set around, from being depressed. Look in the mirror and see what you want to change. Late last year I bought a bicycle and fixed it up *made it fixed gear so always pedaling and thats the new trend* I had friends who are into bikes but they dont live near me. I would ride my bike around the block every day, I mapped out that if i do a few loops, it is 6 miles, i rode that every day for a while since i had nothing to do.
I cut out sodas, junkfood and fast food *because i cant afford it*, I shred alot of weight. I wasnt a fat guy but i wasnt happy. I bought some cheap suppliments *you can find good whey protein and creatine monohydrate on the cheap* , take vitamins, and do work outs around the house with dumb bells and home equipment.
I may not be the wealthiest man out there or got everything going for myself, but I feel confident that I am getting in the best shape of my life, and Penis Enlargement is also helping my confidence.
What also helps is take a before picture of your body, and every so often after working out, take a picture, so you can always reference where you where, and where you are at, and where you are going. Great motivator! I through my webcam on just to record me lifting or so, then i look at the video and am amazed at the muscle growth or to see what areas I can approve on.
Another thing that keeps me positive is pick up artist material, read the book The Game, its actually pretty good, guys who didnt have much going on for them changing their life around.
I cut out sodas, junkfood and fast food *because i cant afford it*, I shred alot of weight. I wasnt a fat guy but i wasnt happy. I bought some cheap suppliments *you can find good whey protein and creatine monohydrate on the cheap* , take vitamins, and do work outs around the house with dumb bells and home equipment.
I may not be the wealthiest man out there or got everything going for myself, but I feel confident that I am getting in the best shape of my life, and Penis Enlargement is also helping my confidence.
What also helps is take a before picture of your body, and every so often after working out, take a picture, so you can always reference where you where, and where you are at, and where you are going. Great motivator! I through my webcam on just to record me lifting or so, then i look at the video and am amazed at the muscle growth or to see what areas I can approve on.
Another thing that keeps me positive is pick up artist material, read the book The Game, its actually pretty good, guys who didnt have much going on for them changing their life around.
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i dont want to sue, i just want to get well again. i cant think about anything else and i have my final master exams next week. its so fucked up i just measured again over an inch is just missing, i doesnt get erect how it was before.
i attaced a picture how it looks now erect and how it looked before
http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/attachment.php?attachmentid=23537&d=1301296889
i attaced a picture how it looks now erect and how it looked before
http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/attachment.php?attachmentid=23537&d=1301296889
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so i measured again today, to see if the effect is gone, nothing changed. Beofre the circ it was 5.5 inch, now its 4 inch erect. I went to another doctor and he told me he doesnt understand how the erect size can get shorter through a circ and then i showed him the comaprison pictures and he still didnt believe me.
Look, the only way you could have lost actual erection size is if you had lost actual erectile tissue. A huge and delicate operation. If your penis was not actually cut in half and a segment removed and then those two remaining segments surgically rejoined you have NOT lost actual penis size.
What you have lost is penile measurement.
By your pictures, you can no longer measure fully bone pressed.
AS your skin stretches, post-circumcision, you will rapidly regain that lost measurement.
What you have lost is penile measurement.
By your pictures, you can no longer measure fully bone pressed.
AS your skin stretches, post-circumcision, you will rapidly regain that lost measurement.
putzaras;424614 said:
here in germany people dont sue. Also iam moving end of may to boston to do my phd at harvard stem cell. so i need to have fully healed and the right size back or i cant go to boston, since i did the operation here and i think the healthcare system is to expensve for an international student in boston. i hope maxameyes is right with the stretching, it really destroys my psyche to see my penis like that
dude just go to one, and bring pics, if he sees a case he will direct you to his doctor!
He will do the rest just have faith and do not be embarrassed!
What happens if in two years time you have no proof but you cannot do Penis Enlargement or even worse you get worse at getting hard?
This is critical every day you stall you destroy your chances go and do it now!
He will do the rest just have faith and do not be embarrassed!
What happens if in two years time you have no proof but you cannot do Penis Enlargement or even worse you get worse at getting hard?
This is critical every day you stall you destroy your chances go and do it now!
belive me to sue costs a lot of money and time and i dont have none of that. You just have to pay moeny to visit the lawayer and the its very ahrd to sue medical dotors here. If DLD says that after i start Penis Enlargement everything will come back very fast than i hope its really like that