Originally posted by WaxN
jpenis,
I'd like to just make a few points. First off, I agree that having an ever-bigger cock does not increase one's happiness in life. Also, I sure don't want an 11" penis! I'd honestly be quite content with 8.5" or so (which is only about 1.25" more for me).
But it's funny how something depends upon from which angle we're looking. While you might say we obsess, from insecurity, I can just as easily say that you are struggling to convince yourself that it doesn't matter, from insecurity.
But I do think you're way off the mark in some of your comments. First off, Lex Steele is not a social outcast. Far from it. A lot of women would LOVE to screw him. The way you attempt to dismiss him shows how intimidated you feel about his huge stovepipe.
I remember hearing college-educated women at the office speak with almost reverence about John Holmes. Women DO admire a man with a big dick.
I don't mean to sound condescending, but I suspect you're a rather young fellow (I'm 38, BTW). But if you've been around WOMEN enough - as opposed to young gals - you'd know that women DO genuinely love the feel of writhing upon a big love muscle (especially when they're all expanded & wet, and a smaller penis would feel like a Q-Tip inside them).
Looks, grooming, clothes, etc., etc. are all fine. But they don't drive women to shattering orgasms. And when women claim that size doesn't matter, they're either lying to you OR they've never experienced the thrills of a biggie.
For the record:
1) I do NOT want an 11" penis.
2) I KNOW that women love big cocks.
3) I know that I don't change reality just by kidding myself.
Furthermore, I know that my wife enjoys my larger cock far more than when I was more average. I plumped up with about 70% more total mass to my unit, and my wife of 17 years wants sex more than ever now.
I think I've said too much already. Think what you like... SIR.
(Yeah, you're older than I am.
But for the record, I'm not a baby, nor a teen.) But I really don't feel intimidated by Lexington Steele. Lex has a monster dick, and I think he's a pretty good looking guy. Not model-fine but not heinous either. He may get somewhere if he decides to freak a very horny slut in a club, but in a non-pick up environment I don't think he'll do so well.
Jesus Christ... I come from a very upper-middle (almost upper class) class background, I know a lot of women who definately would fantasize about big dicks like Lex, but unless that dick was attached to a successful man with social standing (And NO - adult entertainment generally isn't considered mainstream-successful... face it.), they wouldn't really want him. Maybe for a fuck or two - if they can do it under the radar - but not in public. I also find your claim that Lexington Steele is some sort of mainstream celebrity a bit far-fetched. Male pornstars, like male fashion models, take a back seat to their female counterparts because with the exception of sports, any line of work which involves the physical/looks realm are dominated by the women. That's just the stigma society places on both genders - society celebrates achievements more in men, and beauty more in women.
Thus Jenna Jameson (the MOST famous pornstar ever) was able to make a barely-decent stab at a mainstream career, but even her star-power wasn't enough for her to become a household name. She had a handful of b-list appearances, and that was it. The social stigma against adult entertainment is still VERY strong, but you make it sound like a adult entertainment star can become the next Halle Berry or Britney Spears or Tom Cruise or something. LOL!! And yes, Lex has a large penis, we all know that. And yes, women fantasize about large penises. But are you saying that that's *all* they think about? Hardly. Maybe the above-average libido girl or the avid adult entertainment watching female or the bored housewife, but most women do not even know the names of male pornstars. With all due respect - give me a break.
And I never said that penis size doesn't matter. WTF - of COURSE it does!
I'm just saying that it isn't the only thing women go for. If one denies that, he's WAY mis-led. My point is that most women with some breeding, while they definately wouldn't complain about a nice big dick, wouldn't place ALL their bets on just a penis. Think about it - it's just a stupid bodypart! I'm sure more women than not would think about other things like I mentioned.
As DLD's intro to the member-site says, this program is a nice was to ENHANCE your life. Not make the sole focus of one's life. That's all I'm saying.
And finally, women who are older like your wife probably have looser pussies (sorry that came out kinda crass, but you know what I mean
. No disrespect intended.). This is probably from having babies and also a greater number of lovers than young girls. So I think it makes sense that they might feel more satisfied by a larger dick, but generally only as time goes on, as they age.
Women during earlier stages of life are more concerned about making money, getting a career, finding a suitable mate, etc. It's only when one is older and there is less of life to explore (set, steady lives that quickly become boring) that people focus more on sex for entertainment. I think this is probably why most swingers are rarely under their early 30s, and not single (especially the women). Of course I am not talking about size-queens in this case (of any age).
Anyway, why the heck are you so riled up over this? Big deal dude. Er, I mean Sir. :s
I'm just stating my opinion. I've always been raised to speak my mind. And ultimately, it ain't that deep.
cheers,
J.
PS: if I was so threatened by penises larger than mine I probably wouldn't have listed my size as 5.5 inches. I probably would have lied to protect my ego. But I didn't.
So like I said, I'm okay with it. Insecurirty generally isn't a large part of my life.
