Does anyone know what I can do? I've almost had sex several times but was unable to keep it up. If I do get erect, the second I stop touching myself it starts to "deflate." I do masturbate often. Is that the problem? What should I do? Can the products on here help me?
 
Is that ok for a 20 year old? I don't need a prescription, right? Are the side effects gonna get to me, or are they not that bad? Which Cialis is the best? I'm asking you instead of looking for it online because I see so many different ones. Or are some of these generic versions, and theres only one true cialis?
 
psychotic;302719 said:
Have you been stretching your penis?

No... I'm 5 inches flaccid 7.35 inches hard. Ive got a little bit above average thickness, but my penis has a slight curve to the left. I'm thinking about starting for the summer though. You think I can reach 6 inches flaccid 8 inches hard by the end of the summer?
 
You're only 20 forget the cialis. Can you maintain an erection by yourself? Do you just lose it with a girl?

I'd lay off jerking it for a while if I were you.
 
Damn, I was set on the cialis. By myself I can, but the second I let go, I start to lose it. With a girl, I cant get it hard. I could never get it up with a condom on either. At first I used trojans that come in a green package. Those would squeeze my dick really hard, and veins would start bulging out. It wouldn't stay hard. I then tried magnums. Its a little bit easier to get those on, but I still cant hold an erection easily. I tried jerking off with one on, and it ended up getting scrunched up around the top of my dick.
 
Blathers;302739 said:
Damn, I was set on the cialis. By myself I can, but the second I let go, I start to lose it. With a girl, I cant get it hard. I could never get it up with a condom on either. At first I used trojans that come in a green package. Those would squeeze my dick really hard, and veins would start bulging out. It wouldn't stay hard. I then tried magnums. Its a little bit easier to get those on, but I still cant hold an erection easily. I tried jerking off with one on, and it ended up getting scrunched up around the top of my dick.

it happens man. its all in your head, learn to relax and try not to think about it.
 
Blathers;302742 said:
Relaxing is just what makes it go soft though...

So find a chick that you can be soft with. Do you have any close chick friends that would be willing to help you out? I bet if you could relax for a while with a chick under no pressure you'd probably be cured.
 
I cant maintain one by myself though. The girl I was with the one time I almost did it was really ok with it, but she lives far away. I have numerous close girl friends, some of which I don't think would mind hooking up with me. But all of them think I've been with a girl several times before.
 
Is there really any reason why I shouldn't take Cialis? Doing it a few times with a little help might increase my confidence to do it on my own.
 
Blathers;302748 said:
I cant maintain one by myself though. The girl I was with the one time I almost did it was really ok with it, but she lives far away. I have numerous close girl friends, some of which I don't think would mind hooking up with me. But all of them think I've been with a girl several times before.

stop masterbating so much . do a boatload of kegals, long holds and quick ones, stretch and jelq and in due time you'll be ok.
 
Blathers;302749 said:
Is there really any reason why I shouldn't take Cialis? Doing it a few times with a little help might increase my confidence to do it on my own.

It might or it might make you dependent on it. Not physically but mentally.

It might work very well for you but you're still going to have to go down the healing road at some point. Imagine you take a cialis or viagra and have a great sexual experience. Your dick is never going to get as hard without it. You already have negative thoughts in your head don't create more by having your first sexual experience with a chemical erection. You'll never be able to naturally live up to that experience. Do what you want but I think taking c or v for your first sexual experience at 20 is setting you up for some difficult times down the road.
 
Dude, I am your age, trust me.. it's probably psychological factors, maybe you're worried about performance a bit, or whatever... trust me.. Cialis will do the job. You can order some generic cialis or liquid cialis called liquicia for dirt cheap on the net compared to what you'd pay to get brand name and it's just as good. If you want a link PM me.

Fucking a girl while on Cialis vs Not on Cialis is a huge difference.. and cialis works for like 36 hours in 1 pill, it's an amazing beautiful thing.

I just bought 32 pills, which I can make 64 out of and just take 10mg, for like 64bucks or something.. that will last a long ass time if you take into account a pill lasts approx 36hours.. the erection quality you get is like when you were 12 again. Well worth it.

P.S You think pornstars don't use viagra,cialis,levitra, etc?? lol.... ;)
 
God... I don't know... I know with Ciallis I could get it done easily... I just don't know what to do. I know I have to lose it this summer though.
 
Blathers;302784 said:
My virginity... Its killing me that I haven't at 20 in spite of so many opportunities.

bro go get a prositute , wear a condom and you wont have to worry about being a virgin anymore :O:O
 
Blathers;302784 said:
My virginity... Its killing me that I haven't at 20 in spite of so many opportunities.

Relax man. It'll happen. If you don't want to wait for someone special than ask one of your chick friends to help you out. I bet if you're honest some chick would love to pop your cherry.:)
 
But I cant get it up... I can have sex when ever I want. I'm a good looking guy, I'm muscular, I'm pretty good at talking to girls, I have woman that hit on me... I'm just scared because of the one time it almost happened. Any time I talk to a girl it's like "Shit... if this goes to the bedroom... I'm screwed..."
 
Will the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/mosdvd.htm]DVD[/words] on this site help me with having trouble getting it up, a left curvature, premature ejaculation, length, and girth?
 
I was in your situation a year and a half ago. I was 24 and finally got the girl I've been wanting since 2nd grade. Like you, I had opportunitys and turned them all down. It was definitly worth the long wait. But to the point...

The first time we fooled around, just touching, she put her hands down my pants and I wasn't able to get an erection. Infact it did the the complete opposite. I shrivled as if it was freezing out. I was so embarrased. Since we had known eachother for years, we could easily talk and joke about it a few days afterwards. A few weeks later we had sex for the first time. Being my first time, I was so scared I couldn't get a full erection. Somewhat erect, enough to get in there. A minute later it completely went flacid, and that was that. I didn't come. Good thing to cause we didn't use a condom.
It happened the 2nd time we had sex, a week later. It bothered me to hell, but didn't her. She understood that I was new, and kept telling me it would get better. 3rd time came around, I lasted longer, but didn't come. 4th time...didn't come. 5 time...still hadn't come. Now it was starting to effect our relationship. I didn't want this to happen. One day, I put in my head that 'Tonight, I'm gonna come!' Not a single thought about what if I can't, or not a single thought about the other times. I just set in my mind and nothing else, that I'm gonna come the next time we have sex. We had foreplayed, and we were the most relaxed and comfortable we had ever been. Forgetting everything and just exploring eachothers mind and body. I came that night, and it was great!!! It was just all in my head. And its pretty much expected. Its something new. It took about 10 months for the both of us to finally feel 100% comfortable with eachother, and thats when the best sex of our lives started happening. Its like sport. The more you practice, the better you 2 get. OH! Don't chase the orgasm. It'll come. Hope this helps.
 
AE86;303133 said:
I was in your situation a year and a half ago. I was 24 and finally got the girl I've been wanting since 2nd grade. Like you, I had opportunitys and turned them all down. It was definitly worth the long wait. But to the point...

The first time we fooled around, just touching, she put her hands down my pants and I wasn't able to get an erection. Infact it did the the complete opposite. I shrivled as if it was freezing out. I was so embarrased. Since we had known eachother for years, we could easily talk and joke about it a few days afterwards. A few weeks later we had sex for the first time. Being my first time, I was so scared I couldn't get a full erection. Somewhat erect, enough to get in there. A minute later it completely went flacid, and that was that. I didn't come. Good thing to cause we didn't use a condom.
It happened the 2nd time we had sex, a week later. It bothered me to hell, but didn't her. She understood that I was new, and kept telling me it would get better. 3rd time came around, I lasted longer, but didn't come. 4th time...didn't come. 5 time...still hadn't come. Now it was starting to effect our relationship. I didn't want this to happen. One day, I put in my head that 'Tonight, I'm gonna come!' Not a single thought about what if I can't, or not a single thought about the other times. I just set in my mind and nothing else, that I'm gonna come the next time we have sex. We had foreplayed, and we were the most relaxed and comfortable we had ever been. Forgetting everything and just exploring eachothers mind and body. I came that night, and it was great!!! It was just all in my head. And its pretty much expected. Its something new. It took about 10 months for the both of us to finally feel 100% comfortable with eachother, and thats when the best sex of our lives started happening. Its like sport. The more you practice, the better you 2 get. OH! Don't chase the orgasm. It'll come. Hope this helps.

Awesome Post.
 
Thanks for the story. I trust you'll understand where I'm coming from when I say that... I'm just to embarrassed to try that. I'm thinking about getting this [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/mosdvd.htm]DVD[/words] to help me. Can anyone answer my questions? Will the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/mosdvd.htm]DVD[/words] on this site help me with having trouble getting it up, a left curvature, premature ejaculation, length, and girth? I don't know maybe it cant if this is all in my head.
 
Blathers;303225 said:
Thanks for the story. I trust you'll understand where I'm coming from when I say that... I'm just to embarrassed to try that. I'm thinking about getting this [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/mosdvd.htm]DVD[/words] to help me. Can anyone answer my questions? Will the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/mosdvd.htm]DVD[/words] on this site help me with having trouble getting it up, a left curvature, premature ejaculation, length, and girth? I don't know maybe it cant if this is all in my head.

[words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/mosdvd.htm]DVD[/words] is the same thing as the members section....so idk if you're a member or not.....but yea...DVD or members section.....its gonna help you out....it wouldn't be there if it didn't work right?
 
I'm not a member. Can the videos in the members section be downloaded? Also, I know it works, I'm just asking if it covers certain issues like premature ejaculation, ED, and left curvature in addition to things like length and girth?
 
Blathers;303408 said:
I'm not a member. Can the videos in the members section be downloaded? Also, I know it works, I'm just asking if it covers certain issues like premature ejaculation, ED, and left curvature in addition to things like length and girth?

PC work for ED. PC/Reverse for PreE. Jelq and bends for curve. Don't worry about getting super hard or cumming quick. Just try and have fun. You've got your whole life to perfect the process.
 
Blathers;303408 said:
I'm not a member. Can the videos in the members section be downloaded? Also, I know it works, I'm just asking if it covers certain issues like premature ejaculation, ED, and left curvature in addition to things like length and girth?

hey man i first started pe because i had ed , not to gain size because i was good with my size. i was so nervouse that i couldnt get hard that i convinced myself of it and couldnt perform because of it. i had a very low sex drive too. what cured it for me was jelqing and a shit load of kegals. kegals do wonders for your sex drive, health and gains in general. practise these and whatever else you want and you'll be ok soon enough. i promise you.
 
Blathers;303425 said:
How long? A month? A week? Not for gains, but for sex drive.

it depends how low yours is. there's no way to put a time frame on it, just start doing them and dont stop. dont masterbate either.
 
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