&?#$ my wife says. The insider's guide to female sexuality.

anth1225;496448 said:

I've got a couple things to say: first @ Lobbs is why does your wife bother with mr. insensitive? Talk about frustration and not even worth it.

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They actually hadn't hooked up in about six weeks. Things had wound down and she hadn't bothered to invite him over. So he called last night and she took a flyer on him and got the same results. I really wouldn't expect her to bother with him much more.

anth1225;496448 said:

I've got a couple things to say: first @ Lobbs is why does your wife bother with mr. insensitive? Talk about frustration and not even worth it.

2nd @ Mikeschlort: Bottom line dude we are all selfish. But you are young and I believe many young women have no idea how to be a woman. Society encourages their focus on themselves and they are selfish babies.

Having said that there is nothing more unselfish than a mothers love. Being a dad, maturing into the role as I was just a brain dead kid with no clue at the start either, no one taught me to be a man either, I've watched my wife mature also.

You can't change anyone but yourself; but you can also help along someone you love and mature together helping each other along. It won't be easy for both of you but remember: Love is a feeling but it's more than that: it's a decision

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I have to disagree with you.

In this case, she isn't young. He said they have been married about 12 years, which would likely make them in their 30s. 30s is not young. So that voids your first point.

Second, I believe tons of people have children for selfish reasons - mainly an easy way to find meaning and fulfillment in life. It's a lot easier to breed than to spend years finding out what you are meant to do and working towards that. I've seen enough garbage parents in my time to know this as fact.

Good read!

Yeah, I'm 33 and my wife will be 30 here in a few months. We were just young, dumb kids when we got married. We have four children and love them and each other deeply. I'd take a bullet for her and I'd put one in anybody that hurt her. We matured together. We are at a point where we trust each other to explore our urges and desires in a secure environment.

LOBBS;496607 said:

Yeah, I'm 33 and my wife will be 30 here in a few months. We were just young, dumb kids when we got married. We have four children and love them and each other deeply. I'd take a bullet for her and I'd put one in anybody that hurt her. We matured together. We are at a point where we trust each other to explore our urges and desires in a secure environment.

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Very good to know you guys can do this, shows extreme maturity and confidence.

hepcat;496602 said:

Maybe the first post I agree with!:blush:

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You agree with everything I say hep, you just don't want to admit it Don't worry, you're not the only one

MikeShlort;496643 said:

You agree with everything I say hep, you just don't want to admit it Don't worry, you're not the only one

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yeah, so do I

OP, do you have a big dick?

Gravik;496748 said:

OP, do you have a big dick?

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Not huge but nothing to be ashamed of either. 7.25" BPenis EnlargementL x 5.25" MSEG. My goal through Penis Enlargement is a true 8" by 6". As I stated in my introductory post somewhere on the site, I'm also in the process of losing some weight and by eliminating as much of my fat pad as possible I'll attain most of my length goals. I'm focusing mainly on packing on girth. I originally looked into Penis Enlargement because my wife has had four kids. It hasn't wrecked our sex life by any stretch of the imagination but at times she gets self-conscious that she may not be as tight as she was when we first got together. I figured I could help her out by growing a bit to compensate. It also wouldn't hurt my feelings any to have a bit more of the "wow" factor since I am allowed to go out and play.

LOBBS;496758 said:

Not huge but nothing to be ashamed of either. 7.25" BPenis EnlargementL x 5.25" MSEG. My goal through Penis Enlargement is a true 8" by 6". As I stated in my introductory post somewhere on the site, I'm also in the process of losing some weight and by eliminating as much of my fat pad as possible I'll attain most of my length goals. I'm focusing mainly on packing on girth. I originally looked into Penis Enlargement because my wife has had four kids. It hasn't wrecked our sex life by any stretch of the imagination but at times she gets self-conscious that she may not be as tight as she was when we first got together. I figured I could help her out by growing a bit to compensate. It also wouldn't hurt my feelings any to have a bit more of the "wow" factor since I am allowed to go out and play.

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I have a good Bathmate routine I can give you, I'll hunt it down I have it posted on one of these threads. Two routines actually.

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wtf? ^

Heres those routines LOBBS

Here's the routines that gave me that 1.5" girth pump and gave me about a .4" permanent girth gain from 2.5 months of doing these routines.

*****The most important reason why I had that 1.5" pump is because immediately after my last Bathmate set, I would dry off and tie a bathrobe cord around my balls and penis. Then I'd go to bed. I'd get nighttime erections all night while I was tied off (i imagine you can clamp off or use a cock ring) and the girth stayed all night until I took off the cord. Even after I took off the cord, it slowly decreased back to around 6" girth (my size when I was pumping regularly) but was still fat for a couple hours.*******

I've just cut and pasted form another forum where i posted these exercises to help a newb. I can't take credit for the last one, it's Dan Clizers routine. He gained 1.5" permanent girth in 10 months of pumping with X-40.

first routine: I suggest doing this routine for two months, or until you stop noticing gains. But you should continue to notice gains if you keep upping the intensity.
- Start off with a warm up
- Do 200 regular jelqs
- Pump for 5 minutes - start off low pressure but throughout the 5 minutes, keep pumping to add pressure. Don't go fast, do what you can handle. If you pump too much too quickly, you'll just be wasting your time and making your dick hurt the next day, which fucks up your next workout. I would say don't get to full pressure on the pump until a week into this routine
- Do 100 slow jelqs
- Do 150 jelqs at various angles (down, to the side, up etc) and various speeds
- Pump for 5 minutes
- Do 100 regular jelqs

** Make sure you are 95%-100% erect when jelqing and when you're sliding into the Bathmate and pumping.

Now here is the most important part of this routine:
Each night, Add this to the routine:
- 10 more regular jelqs
- 15 seconds more of time in the pump
- 5 more slow jelqs
- 5 more jelqs at various angles
- 15 seconds more time in the pump
- 10 more regular jelqs

In time, this routine will take long. After a few weeks, you could add a third set of pumping at the end, after the regular jelqs. Just stay in the pump for whatever time you happen to be at after the 15 second increments. (Should be around 8.5 minutes after two weeks)

I'd do this routine until you're at 15-20 minutes at a time in the pump. You can add more reps/minutes in pump as you see fit once you get the hang of it and your body clues (your penis telling you that it can handle more and will gain from it)

Second routine:

This is after you've stopped gaining with that routine - and give the first routine a fair go. Do it proper and stick to it.

300 jelqs
6 minutes in pump, followed by 1 minute out of the pump, then back into the pump again for 6 minutes. Do 6 sets of 6.
At the end, do 600 jelqs (or more if you feel you can handle it and won't be over training).
You can mix it up by doing some jelqs in between sets if you want. Note that the pump in your penis will go down during this time, but it's still good to get in jelqs between sets then back into the pump.
You can add more time to the 6 minute sets, or add more sets, in time
You can do this routine twice a day, or three times a day, in time. IF your body can take it. Over training is worse than under training.

These are pretty basic pumping/jelqing routines.
A user here put it best (stillwantmore2):
"Pumping is what should be done after all the real girth work has been done"
After time, you can get into clamping
Check out all the other advanced manual girth exercises. There is more than just jelqing. But this is with time.

WHY NOT MILK GAINING WITH SIMPLE ROUTINES AND EXERCISES WHILE YOU CAN?? NO SENSE JUMPING INTO ADVANCED STUFF WHEN YOU CAN GAIN WITH SIMPLE EXERCISES.
This is the most important idea of Penis Enlargement.

Keep in mind to use caution when wearing a cock ring or tieing off for that long. I tied off loosely and still had blood flow, I could still piss and get erections and such, so be careful.
You can do the routine without tying off, you'll have less of a pump and it'll go away quicker, but you'll still gain

Thanks, Mike. I'll give that a try. I've been primarily doing DLD's newbie Bathmate routine.

LOBBS;496830 said:

Thanks, Mike. I'll give that a try. I've been primarily doing DLD's newbie Bathmate routine.

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You can even try switching it up, maybe try this one two days a week and keep DLD's routine the rest of the week. Keep the penis guessing, the more exercises the better.

MikeShlort;496831 said:

You can even try switching it up, maybe try this one two days a week and keep DLD's routine the rest of the week. Keep the penis guessing, the more exercises the better.

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Keeping things fun and interesting is very important to motivation. Having flexibility in the exercises/equipment you use can make a big difference.

MikeShlort;496819 said:

Heres those routines LOBBS

Here's the routines that gave me that 1.5" girth pump and gave me about a .4" permanent girth gain from 2.5 months of doing these routines.

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Nice routines, thanks for posting.

MikeShlort said:

You agree with everything I say hep, you just don't want to admit it Don't worry, you're not the only one

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I agree with you too brother. Women can be very selfish and too needy. Relationships and marriages feel like a full time job. Very draining in my opinion and sometimes not worth it.

huge-girth said:

I agree with you too brother. Women can be very selfish and too needy. Relationships and marriages feel like a full time job. Very draining in my opinion and sometimes not worth it.

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