The Double Edged Sword Of PE

robjeremy · Jan 24, 2009

Penis Enlargement has been a Double Edged sword for me. I'm quite a bit bigger now then when I met my wife. As of late I have been bottoming out really good and she just goes crazy like I have never seen before.

It makes me kind of sad because I know that she is not excited by who I naturally was but what I made myself out too be. I'm starting to think that she was a size queen before I knew her. The bigger it gets the more she likes it. Except for anal that is she wont do that anymore>

What are you thoughts on this?

irafreak1 · Jan 24, 2009

What's the big deal? You're her dream now right? Talk to her. You might be surprised.

TRRbogie · Jan 24, 2009

What does her 'going crazy' when you bottom out have to do with her feelings for you now or previously? You've gotten bigger so you're stimulating a different part of her, bringing a different reaction. This is a usually a good thing. Just because it never happened for her with you, doesn't mean it ever happened for her with someone else either. You might try talking to her about it before assuming something based on guesswork and causing harm to your relationship.

As for no anal, once again communication and patience. It's not like you overnight sprouted a 3 inch bigger dick and it's completely new to her, unless anal sex was only a once every six month type of occurrence to begin with. You have to take it slow and let her get used to your growth.

AdmiralLongDong · Jan 24, 2009

Think of it this way. You love your wife as she is.

If your wife lost 40 pounds, assuming she is overweight... Or if she got a boob job, assuming she's small chested. Or whatever might add to what she is already. Would it change anything? You'd just get more of what you like.

My GF does yoga. I am so glad she does it. she has no idea I do Pe, yet she tells me how much she likes how I fuck her. I couldn't have done it with my old dick. A longer dick just gives you so much more to work with even when you aren't going for deep.

I'd say just hit it good and be glad she won't be looking for anything else anywhere else.

longhorns87 · Jan 24, 2009

I wouldn't feel upset by it. That will just give you motivation to keep pe'ing

irafreak1 · Jan 24, 2009

I think men have become paranoid thanks to these companies trying to make money off our insecurities. 99.9% of women seem to want a man and their penis is not the big deciding factor. Like these guys said, your wife is just experiencing something better about you. My wife still loved me when I lost a ton of weight and dropped to almost 110 pounds due to stress and lack of food. She enjoys me even more at a healthy 140. But you have to talk. 9 times out of 10, it's not what we think. Don't dwell on it, discuss it. As I said, you may be surprised.

Alpha Effusion · Jan 24, 2009

AdmiralLongDong;329118 said:
Think of it this way. You love your wife as she is.

If your wife lost 40 pounds, assuming she is overweight... Or if she got a boob job, assuming she's small chested. Or whatever might add to what she is already. Would it change anything? You'd just get more of what you like.

My GF does yoga. I am so glad she does it. she has no idea I do Pe, yet she tells me how much she likes how I fuck her. I couldn't have done it with my old dick. A longer dick just gives you so much more to work with even when you aren't going for deep.

I'd say just hit it good and be glad she won't be looking for anything else anywhere else.

I really like your posts man, you have good perspectives. Sending you some good karma brah.

robjeremy · Jan 25, 2009

Ya I hear what you are saying just sometimes I feel down that only now am I really pleasing her and not as God made me.

Ya the anal thing is only like once or twice a year if I'm lucky, but after last time she said no more my head is too big!

gentlegrow · Jan 25, 2009

@rob what were ur starting stats? and where are you now?

greetz

DLD · Jan 25, 2009

This line of thought will eventually destroy your relationship...listen to what these guys are saying or you may find yourself alone with a big dick.

goinfor11x7 · Jan 25, 2009

Rob,

A good sexual relationship has to do with communication--that's what these guys are telling you. I'm sure with your gains from P.E., you feel much better about yourself. Your wife has surely picked up on that. It's how YOU feel about YOURSELF that makes a difference in a relationship.

Don't look this gift horse in the mouth. Get out of your head and just enjoy it.

robjeremy · Jan 25, 2009

Before Penis Enlargement I never really measured my girth but my length was about 4.5 and I'm guessing girth was about 4.5 as well.

Now I'm 6.35 from the top (I used to measure from the side) my girth is 4.95 to 5 depending on how hot I am and My Head is 5.25.

Pretty big change for myself and her.

She never supported my Penis Enlargement and now I have to do it in secret. I need to get my head strait for sure I don't want to mess up my marriage.

Thanks for the advice

-Rob

Alpha Effusion · Jan 25, 2009

Why doesn't she support your Penis Enlargement?

goinfor11x7 · Jan 25, 2009

I do my P.E. in secret. I do it for myself. But the Mrs. benefits from it. She would be aghast if she new I continue to get a longer, thicker dick from my P.E. effort. I am doing this for myself. Yet she benefits from it. Perhaps some day she will realize it. For now, she thinks that my dick is growing like our noses and ears--from aging. So be it!!

longhorns87 · Jan 25, 2009

hahaha thats great.

I think women see it as a lack of confidence in yourself, and they are typically turned off by that.

Lack of confidence or not, they benefit from it, so they should shut up about it

robjeremy · Jan 25, 2009

Alpha Effusion;329228 said:
Why doesn't she support your Penis Enlargement?

She thinks I'm going to hurt myself so she says but I think the real reason is she thinks I'll be too confident.

Alpha Effusion · Jan 25, 2009

longhorns87;329232 said:
hahaha thats great.

I think women see it as a lack of confidence in yourself, and they are typically turned off by that.

Lack of confidence or not, they benefit from it, so they should shut up about it

I don't know about that, would they see going to the gym as a lack of self confidence?

As to the original question. OP, if you went to the gym and your GF started squeezing your muscles and wanted to fuck more often, would you be insulted? I see no difference in the two!

longhorns87 · Jan 25, 2009

^^ Maybe so.

I bodybuild too (not necessarily competing yearround but I live the lifestyle. Diet/training) and I have been called out on it as being insecure, so perhaps so.

One-eyed Willie · Jan 26, 2009

I know. I miss anal.

robjeremy · Jan 26, 2009

I think it really boils down to the woman's insecurities more than anything else. The think if you make your body better that some other woman might find out and want to fuck you.

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