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What does a person who can last a really long time feel like? ( 20mins + )

With Every Stroke, what are..
Your Thoughts?
Your Penis Sensations?
Your PC muscle Sensations?
Your Body Sensations?
 
I used to not last very long until I started taking 10mg Paxil daily to see if it would help. It took about one month, but it has kicked in nicely. The feelings are all the same as they were before, but I feel more relaxed mentally. Other than that, my physical sensations are no different and my thoughts haven't changed very much.

I will say my libido has dropped slightly (which is actually a good thing) and my ejaculation volume has gone down just a little bit, but noticeable for me at least. Orgasms are slightly less climactic, but really not a drastic change. For those very minor side effects, the drug is certainly worth it for me. It has made sex last longer than the 5 minutes it used to be, with most times 15-20 minutes or more.
 
goldmember said:
I used to not last very long until I started taking 10mg Paxil daily to see if it would help. It took about one month, but it has kicked in nicely. The feelings are all the same as they were before, but I feel more relaxed mentally. Other than that, my physical sensations are no different and my thoughts haven't changed very much.

I will say my libido has dropped slightly (which is actually a good thing) and my ejaculation volume has gone down just a little bit, but noticeable for me at least. Orgasms are slightly less climactic, but really not a drastic change. For those very minor side effects, the drug is certainly worth it for me. It has made sex last longer than the 5 minutes it used to be, with most times 15-20 minutes or more.


Hmm. I don't like a lot of what I hear about Paxil and generally hate taking any drug, especially if it messes with the brain or CNS. But you are claiming a 300%-400% gain in stamina and that is impressive.

How are you getting Paxil? How much? You just started taking 10mg eery day for this last month? What about mental and CNS or any other side effects?

Have you tried 5-HTP, the natural equivalent of a lot of these synthetic SSRIs? If so what is your review? If not can I pursuade you to detox from the Paxil and try an equivalent dose of 5-HTP for a month under the same sexual activity and report back?
 
jonniehiem said:
What does a person who can last a really long time feel like? ( 20mins + )

With Every Stroke, what are..
Your Thoughts?
Your Penis Sensations?
Your PC muscle Sensations?
Your Body Sensations?

I don't usually last that long at all - more like 5-10 minutes and sometimes 3-5 minutes if I'm really passionate and anxious, but when I do last towards 20 minutes for some reason I am not as mentally and emotionally involved and I'm not sure if the feeling is different or if I just think it is. I still end up having to reverse and normal kegel the PC muscle at times, but I try to avoid that until I have to do it because I think the kegels manipulate my prostate in a way that makes me feel like squirting sooner and then it is just a game of using PC strength to hold back when in reality I'd be squiting if I just let go and I prove that as soon as I do or when the PC fatigues enough.
 
I was zoloft a few many years back...yes anti-depressants do help very much to relax the body and I did help me to last longer. I know anxiety is one of my problems. When i SMOKE, it helps. When I drink mildly it also helps, too much affects my erection.
I think some pre-ejac problems come from some type of hidden anxiety. Others come from a sensitivity issue. Some mental. Some physical (prostate, Bladder).

This is great info..I would really like to get a professionals take on this, a real ���� star ;). Thanks Everyone!
 
PenilePersist said:
Hmm. I don't like a lot of what I hear about Paxil and generally hate taking any drug, especially if it messes with the brain or CNS. But you are claiming a 300%-400% gain in stamina and that is impressive.

How are you getting Paxil? How much? You just started taking 10mg eery day for this last month? What about mental and CNS or any other side effects?

Have you tried 5-HTP, the natural equivalent of a lot of these synthetic SSRIs? If so what is your review? If not can I pursuade you to detox from the Paxil and try an equivalent dose of 5-HTP for a month under the same sexual activity and report back?
I purchase it online without a prescription. I tried 5-htp, st john's wort, and phenibut but they were marginally effective at best. 10mg paxil is a low dosage so there aren't very many side effects. If anything, it has improved my mood (after a couple weeks of slight decline in mood at first). I do have the tendency to want to sleep longer than I should, but I'm pretty motivated so I usually only hit the snooze button once :)

As far as detox, not now, no thanks. I like the effect, and really don't care if it burdens my liver a little bit. Not like my binge drinking doesn't do that already.
 
I was also on Zoloft a couple of years ago for depression, and noticed as a side effect that I had problems getting off, not that I had ever had a problem with being premature, usually 5+ minutes without thinking of distractions. In the past month I got a new girlfriend, the hottest girl I've ever seen (and I'm not being biased), not to mention she is great in bed and soooo tight. Well, I really had a problem to start with.. like 15 seconds, which really shocked me because I'd always laughed about those kinda problems, but I'm sure it had more to do with anxiety about pleasing a girl so hot, and the stress of trying to convince her to be mine. Anyway, she has been really understanding of it... but after a few times I discovered the fear of it was just creating a cycle of problems.... so back to the Dr's... back on Zoloft (50mg a day)... for the first week, no effect, but now we can go for 20+ minutes and I can stay focused on her the entire time. I love it... no trying to ease off, no distracting thoughts, and no fear.... In fact, I have to really concentrate to be able to get off at all.

Umm my thoughts now not on the drug permanently.. I still just concentrate on her, the facial reactions the body, the thrusting. My PC control is pretty good, so if I feel it coming on I just squeeze the hell out of it for a few seconds and score another 5 minutes of solid action. It feels great the entire time.. and she says she has never known a guy to look so into it before, and to get so much enjoyment out of sex. So end of day I'm happy and don't have problems any more... of course, I keep a stash just in case... or for those special times you want to go all day.
 
aussieuncut said:
I was also on Zoloft a couple of years ago for depression, and noticed as a side effect that I had problems getting off, not that I had ever had a problem with being premature, usually 5+ minutes without thinking of distractions. In the past month I got a new girlfriend, the hottest girl I've ever seen (and I'm not being biased), not to mention she is great in bed and soooo tight. Well, I really had a problem to start with.. like 15 seconds, which really shocked me because I'd always laughed about those kinda problems, but I'm sure it had more to do with anxiety about pleasing a girl so hot, and the stress of trying to convince her to be mine. Anyway, she has been really understanding of it... but after a few times I discovered the fear of it was just creating a cycle of problems.... so back to the Dr's... back on Zoloft (50mg a day)... for the first week, no effect, but now we can go for 20+ minutes and I can stay focused on her the entire time. I love it... no trying to ease off, no distracting thoughts, and no fear.... In fact, I have to really concentrate to be able to get off at all.

Umm my thoughts now not on the drug permanently.. I still just concentrate on her, the facial reactions the body, the thrusting. My PC control is pretty good, so if I feel it coming on I just squeeze the hell out of it for a few seconds and score another 5 minutes of solid action. It feels great the entire time.. and she says she has never known a guy to look so into it before, and to get so much enjoyment out of sex. So end of day I'm happy and don't have problems any more... of course, I keep a stash just in case... or for those special times you want to go all day.

That's pretty fuckin' awesome! I still hate the idea of getting on these drugs though, but shit .... for these multi hundred and multi thousand % stamina increases .... I'm sure as hell thinking about it.

How many times did you blow your load so quick with her before you got on zoloft again? Was it just one 15 second or a few of them or a couple+ 2 min mans etc?

What did you tell the doc? Say you were depressed? I suppose that would be honest as long as you said: depressed because I blew my load too quick. lol

Have you ever tried 5-HTP? What dose?

goldmember,

What dose 5 HTP were you taking?

What website are you getting pax from? PM me if you want.

jonniehiem,

I agree with you about multiple effects. Often if I blow quick I do think it is mostly my sensitive glans .... but when you read stuff like this it makes me think that it is mostly mental and Central Nervous System related ... and that makes sense because it does seem that I blow quicker when I am more stressed when I think about it. Just a theory though, but this thread could turn into a good anecdotal, uncontrolled or semi controlled study.

Maybe we should make another thread on SSRI effects on sexual stamina?
 
Thanks PenilePersist, thats a great idea for the other thread. Ima post it l8ter today or if you beat me to it..w/e. Whats SSRI?

Ive tried 5-htp, as a matter of fact, I still have some, 50mg (also has a few
other natural supplements in it)from herballove.com. Maybe I might try taking them again. I don't remember what kind of effects it had before. What's the claim?..it controls your anxiety? I've been looking for an herbal supplement that can control your anxiety, does any one know of any?

Yes, I remember the feeling of zoloft...a relaxed feeling. Definitely enough to last the extra time. I think I remember it brought me closer to 15-20mins I my prostate contributes to the problem as well.

On another note, last year my health was worst. Everything you can think of has gone wrong and still is but I've improved since, not at 100%, but improved. Almost all the sexual problems you can think of, intestinal, spinal, circulation, head aches, M.S Problems....blah blah blah.
But thank God I discovered micro-current therapy. Its an amazing therapy, but because of the device I have, I don't have full control over the therapy. If you are thinking about mirco-current therapy, your device better cost over 5 grand or go to a professional. You can get some real bad results if you don't know what your doing.
But, thankfully, I've received my erection back,well most of it. I went from almost zero cum to a fuller load, but not as great as it used to be. My back and intestines have slightly improved. All in all I feel 50% better than I used to but still not at 100%.

This is why I'm not such a good specimen. So I'm going to keep on subject. I'm sure I've lost many readers about now, but for those who care...

With Every Stroke,
My thoughts basically concentrating on not cumming by trying to relax, Ironic.
Breathing, everything. For me I don't think its so much mental, my problem is more physical.

My penis has that sensitive sensation especially on the head.

That sensitivity brings about the flexing of my PC muscle with every stroke.

and most of my sexual tension is in my PC muscle and abdominal region.


Note: I use a FleshLight
Now just yesterday, I tried bringing that sexual tension down to my legs. and it worked. I had a tingling sensation through out my legs. It does help to delay my orgasm a bit sum, but that sexual tension builds so high so fast that I must stop or orgasm. Kind of an annoying feeling that just feels sooo good.

I also tried something else. Instead of using my FleshLight, I tried using my hand in a certain way. I formed my hand in the shape of the a-okay position. With my thumb and forefinger making a ring, I stroked my erected head. I built the tension to my legs (and incredible feeling) then it began to feel too much. So then I tried just stroking the underside of the head with penis on stomach, My hand flat and rubbing very lightly. It felt much better, the tension did not build so high. I was able to put out more stokes. Then I went all around the penis the same way, one side at a time. Then I discovered that the left side of my head was the most sensitive. I think this is due to the fact that most of my life I've masturbated with my right hand up until a few years ago when I started switching hands up during my sessions.

So I going to be concentrating on the left side see if it helps much to desensitize it a bit.

But anywayyy...
I am still very interested in hearing from a person whom naturally can last long. There is tons of research on how people feel when they pre-ejact. But its a little bit harder to find research on how the people whom do not have this problem and can naturally last long in bed. SO YOU ���� STARS OUT THERE TELL US IN DETAIL HOW YOU FEEL:D !

THANKS,
JonniE_M
 
PenilePersist said:
What dose 5 HTP were you taking?
I started with 50mg for a few days, then 200mg, then as much as 300mg. I only used it for a month.

The thing about 5-HTP is that your body will down-regulate the carboxylating enzyme required to produce 5-HT when it senses levels are high, so the effects of 5-HTP only last a couple days until you have to increase the dosage.

With SSRI's (selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors) the level of serotonin stays where it was all along, so the body sees no need to adjust anything. SSRI's just make 5-HT more efficient, by preventing reuptake--making sure it gets to the other side of the synapse instead of being taking back.
 
PenilePersist said:
How many times did you blow your load so quick with her before you got on zoloft again? Was it just one 15 second or a few of them or a couple+ 2 min mans etc?

What did you tell the doc? Say you were depressed? I suppose that would be honest as long as you said: depressed because I blew my load too quick. lol

Have you ever tried 5-HTP? What dose?

Well, the first time I had only just put it in, and like 5 seconds later it was all over... freaked me out and kinda shocked her.. but she has always maintained every guy she has ever been with has blown with in the first minute... well, I thought round 2 would be better... but maybe 1 minute max. So put it down to stress that night... about another 3 or 4 times of less than adequate performance 2 minute jobs and I'd had enough, thankfully before she had!

My friend is a Dr, and I'm pretty open about things... so I just told him the situation and mentioned my Zoloft past and that I knew it was sometimes prescribed for my new problem.

5-HTP - Never heard of it... what is it exactly? Maybe not available in Australia?

I will warn about Zoloft though, and it may just be something related directly to me. I have very high testosterone levels, and with Zoloft my mood swings get almost out of control. It makes me feel better about myself, but to others I become an absolute ass hole if I don't get my own way. I didn't stay on it even for the incredible sexual performance abilities because I knew I was just becoming someone else just so I could last abnormally long.
 
aussieuncut said:
Well, the first time I had only just put it in, and like 5 seconds later it was all over... freaked me out and kinda shocked her.. but she has always maintained every guy she has ever been with has blown with in the first minute... well, I thought round 2 would be better... but maybe 1 minute max. So put it down to stress that night... about another 3 or 4 times of less than adequate performance 2 minute jobs and I'd had enough, thankfully before she had!

My friend is a Dr, and I'm pretty open about things... so I just told him the situation and mentioned my Zoloft past and that I knew it was sometimes prescribed for my new problem.

5-HTP - Never heard of it... what is it exactly? Maybe not available in Australia?

I will warn about Zoloft though, and it may just be something related directly to me. I have very high testosterone levels, and with Zoloft my mood swings get almost out of control. It makes me feel better about myself, but to others I become an absolute ass hole if I don't get my own way. I didn't stay on it even for the incredible sexual performance abilities because I knew I was just becoming someone else just so I could last abnormally long.

I see. Info for you: 5-Hydroxytryptophan - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

So, with the Zoloft - what dosage were you taking? Goldmember reprts no negative side efects with Paxil at 10mg per day for 1 month so far. How often were you taking it? You are not on it anymore because of your mood changes causing problems? If you are not on it anymore, how is your sexual stamina now ... and are you still screwing the same hottie? How about cycling - like taking it for 3 days - every other 3 days or for 1 week every other week ... etc ... did you try that?

Thanks.
 
Hi guys I made up a special thread on SSRI's (selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors) so that you may further discuss this topic on that thread. thanx
 
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