premature ejacualtion advice or mentor?

Hey guys, I'm new to the site and looking for some help with curing premature ejaculation. I've got it bad, I usually last about 30 sec - 1 min. I'm trying different stuff to fix it, but does anyone have tips on dealing with it in the meantime? Or would anyone who has the same problem be willing to discuss/mentor?

tripp22;643700 said:

Hey guys, I'm new to the site and looking for some help with curing premature ejaculation. I've got it bad, I usually last about 30 sec - 1 min. I'm trying different stuff to fix it, but does anyone have tips on dealing with it in the meantime? Or would anyone who has the same problem be willing to discuss/mentor?

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Hello Tripp and welcome to the Brotherhood! Here are some great techniques to practice from our pay site:

Becoming in touch with your orgasm
There is a very fine line between cuming and about to cum. making this distinction is the first step in having more staying power.

Identify your brink of orgasm
You will want to identify the fine line that separates cuming from about to cum. During this period pay special attention to what brings you almost to orgasm. What are your thoughts? How long does it take to get there? Keep Track of this information for future reference. The goal here is to paint a mental picture of your orgasm and identify just what brings you to this brink and what you can do to stop it.

Breathing to Reduce Excitement
Simply taking a deep breath at the brink of orgasm is a very effective way to reduce your excitement level and reset your orgasm. It does not work for everyone but it is worth trying.

Breathing to Reset Orgasm
When you feel that you are getting too close to orgasm, just completely stop and take a deep breath. Give yourself a minute or two to reset your mental orgasm. Once you feel that you have reset this mental orgasm continue with the confidence that the physical orgasm is far off. You will find with practice this process will give you longer and longer periods of staying power. Eventually this mental reset will happen automatically with no pause.

The Squeeze Techniques
When you feel close to your orgasm completely stop, pull out, take a deep breath and apply one of these two squeezing methods. One method usually works better for men than the other so try them both.

BASE SQUEEZE: at the brink of orgasm stop, take a deep breath. Using the OK grip squeeze the base of your penis and squeeze until the urge has faded.

UP SQUEEZE: at the brink of orgasm stop, take a deep breath. Using the forefinger and thumb squeeze the top and bottom of your penis just below the glans until the urge to orgasm has faded.

DLD Push
The DLD Push is a technique to prolong orgasm and remain erect after orgasm. This method involved a hard reverse kegel right at the brink of orgasm. It takes some practice but once it is mastered 4-5 orgasms are possible.

Reverse Psychology
A great technique that seems to work very well for me is the Reverse Psychology method. Previously to having sex I convince myself that I am going to have problems ejaculation.

tripp22;643700 said:

Hey guys, I'm new to the site and looking for some help with curing premature ejaculation. I've got it bad, I usually last about 30 sec - 1 min. I'm trying different stuff to fix it, but does anyone have tips on dealing with it in the meantime? Or would anyone who has the same problem be willing to discuss/mentor?

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I think you need to find out what cause your preE first. Do you always have preE or just have it recently? I have chronical preE, meaning I have it all my life. I ejaculated at the moment of insertion. All the physical exercises did not work for me. I recently find out that I have neurotransmitter imbalance. I started to take one of the serotonin supplement. Now I can last more than 9 mins. You might be in different cases. If you have some physical causes, the exercises mentioned by DLD above should be able to help you.

eage2005;643773 said:

I think you need to find out what cause your preE first. Do you always have preE or just have it recently? I have chronical preE, meaning I have it all my life. I ejaculated at the moment of insertion. All the physical exercises did not work for me. I recently find out that I have neurotransmitter imbalance. I started to take one of the serotonin supplement. Now I can last more than 9 mins. You might be in different cases. If you have some physical causes, the exercises mentioned by DLD above should be able to help you.

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Yah it's all in the brain. Some people can over come it with their own brain but drugs will always be the easier route. I take zoloft daily and it works great. If I want a marathon session I'll add some dapoxetine also

Some people complain that supplements and ssri don't work for them. Their preE is probably related to physical problems. Others complain that physical exercises don't work for them. They are likely having brain issues. PreE has many different causes. You need to find out the correct one before you can overcome it.

what are ssri ??
one of the reasons i felt was the excitement level.......if ur very excited all the time then u will come quickly.....if there is control and excitement then its different

Zoloft and dapoxetine, ssri

Jdcsd;643902 said:

Yah it's all in the brain. Some people can over come it with their own brain but drugs will always be the easier route. I take zoloft daily and it works great. If I want a marathon session I'll add some dapoxetine also

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Zoloft had completely terrible sexual side effect for me. I could not get fully hard, it was next to impossible to climax, just too much for me. I switched to Wellbutrin and this has completely reversed these side effects.

Supplements work well for me and I am happy. Don't want to touch prescription drug if not necessary.

doublelongdaddy;644171 said:

Zoloft had completely terrible sexual side effect for me. I could not get fully hard, it was next to impossible to climax, just too much for me. I switched to Wellbutrin and this has completely reversed these side effects.

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they are all different in different people. Gotta find what works for you. Zoloft is great for me. I tried lexapro and that did nothing for me. Only time I haven't been able to climax was from too much dapoxetine. Finding proper dosage of ssri is critacle also. Not enough doesn't do anything and too much can cause limp dick and difficulty orgasming

Jdcsd;644228 said:

they are all different in different people. Gotta find what works for you. Zoloft is great for me. I tried lexapro and that did nothing for me. Only time I haven't been able to climax was from too much dapoxetine. Finding proper dosage of ssri is critacle also. Not enough doesn't do anything and too much can cause limp dick and difficulty orgasming

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You are very right because many people have no sexual side effects from Zoloft, I was a different case, I could barely get erect and I could not climax...It was very frustrating....The first couple days off Zoloft and on Wellbutrin everything turned around. Just to test it I got off 3 times in one night with a wicked hard erection

doublelongdaddy;644820 said:

You are very right because many people have no sexual side effects from Zoloft, I was a different case, I could barely get erect and I could not climax...It was very frustrating....The first couple days off Zoloft and on Wellbutrin everything turned around. Just to test it I got off 3 times in one night with a wicked hard erection

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Do you ejaculate more volume with Wellbutrin? I've heard this from some guys and that part always sounded interesting to me

Jdcsd;644935 said:

Do you ejaculate more volume with Wellbutrin? I've heard this from some guys and that part always sounded interesting to me

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Have not noticed this yet, but definitely a huge change in libido, erection quality and the ability to cum. On the Zoloft I lacked all this.