Official 'How Much Do Women Care' Thread

[stridge]

This has been discussed in a few threads recently, so I thought that perhaps it deserved its own conversation. Here's a few quick links I found googling to start things off:

http://www.askmen.com/love/vanessa/vanessa4.html

http://sexuality.about.com/od/anatomyresponse/a/penissize.htm

http://www.weBathmated.com/content/pages/16/99333.htm

http://menshealth.about.com/od/sexualhealth/a/sex_satisfactio.htm

http://www.couplescompany.com/Jungle/Size/Size3.htm

So, if oyu checked those out, you'll notice that it's mostly anecdotal information, but most of the articles do seem to be written by women, which is useful.

I'm personally on the side that as long as you're within the normal range and the woman isn't a "size queen" (which most of the articles report as something of a rarity), then you're totally fine. That doesn't mean Penis Enlargement is a waste of time -- I look at it like fitness or bodybuilding, it's just an extra plus on your side and helps with self-confidence and overall body image more than actual sexual satisfaction.

And, another point I've considered is that several of the articles mention that women tend to buy the medium and average sized dildos for masturbation. Obviously these sizes are more than adequite for them to get themselves off with, so a man of similar stature should have no trouble doing the same so long as he's pushing the buttons the right way, right? At the very least, women aren't choosing enormous devices for their own pleasure, so there's no reason that they should require it for sex.

As the articles point out, of course size matters to women, but only to a degree, and all women are different. A lot of guys here seem to equate an 8X6 dick with a guarrantee of tremendous female pleasure every time. I think this is totally false and that there's no such thing as a 'skeleton key' penis that every woman is going to be thrilled with.

Any other opinons?

 

[sparky12]

Penis size, in my opinion, is more of a mental fetish. Size talk is by large influenced by society and it is turn on\off due to the values the society has put on it. Physically speaking, even a small cock can do a good job.

 

[spinner2]

They care, but not nearly as much as most people here seem to think. My own gains have had no effect on my interactions with women, other than slightly better sex.

 

[Pandora]

I think that the actually shape of the penis has something to do with the pleasure, that can be giving to a women. For example the shape of __________ and how his internal structures are completely expressed.

 

[BoredLoser]

quite a bit

 

[goinfor11x7]

There are so many ways to pleasure a woman other than with a big penis. Once they're really into it, you can use your tongue and lips and fingers as effectively as a big dick. I have pretty long fingers and I can get her, along with my lips and tongue, to climb the walls and multiple orgasms.

It's all about connection and method. Personally, I like to do it doggy style. She can take it all the way to the hilt. And she knows that's what gets me off the best.

She can also stimulate me manually, then back, off, then repeat it again and again until I"M climbing the wall. That's when I have these orgasms that can last a minute or more.

It all comes with practice and mutual respect. She's tuned in to what I like, and I"m tuned in to what she likes.

But I do miss a good blow job!!!

 

[pest]

A big dick makes the job a hell of a lot easier.

I'm a little over seven by 5.75. Not big.
But every girl I have been with thinks its huge. And that makes my job all the easier, they are so turned on by it.

Also, its way easier to score a chick when she thinks your hung - because that reflects positively on your manliness OR vice versa. I mean, personally I think because I act like Im hung (bravado many girls call it) they just assume I am. Even in college one year I scored a chick and when she saw my cock she goes "so its true", turns out the girls had been guessing at who had the largest cock and they guessed me.

So, I am sure its not the size of the dick but how well you get inside her head. If your big I suppose that process is easier.

As for how much women care? They care enough to boast about their hung boyfriends.

Peace

 

[MissionPossible]

A big dick makes the job a hell of a lot easier.

I'm a little over seven by 5.75. Not big.
But every girl I have been with thinks its huge. And that makes my job all the easier, they are so turned on by it.

Also, its way easier to score a chick when she thinks your hung - because that reflects positively on your manliness OR vice versa. I mean, personally I think because I act like Im hung (bravado many girls call it) they just assume I am. Even in college one year I scored a chick and when she saw my cock she goes "so its true", turns out the girls had been guessing at who had the largest cock and they guessed me.

So, I am sure its not the size of the dick but how well you get inside her head. If your big I suppose that process is easier.

As for how much women care? They care enough to boast about their hung boyfriends.

Peace

That post is 100 % true in my opinion but i will say this


Women dont care much about your size, they're mature

Girls however ''jus wanna have fun''

hahaha But yeah women are more mature!

Also i have heard stories of women avoiding guys who were ''too big''

So i guess the perfect size lies in the 7-8 inch nbp range with like 5.5-6 inch girth

 

[lickmonstr]

women do care about size, but just enough for a man to satisfy her. Most want a man to be more into "her" that "into" her. Yes, that you can fill her up helps, but what's a big dick that's a dick? One of my x gf's did not like my size prior to Penis Enlargement, but I am a good listener, so we were cool.

 

[Bruticus]

A big dick makes the job a hell of a lot easier.

I'm a little over seven by 5.75. Not big.

Dude, that's a BIG cock. Is it a MONSTER cock? No.

Think of it like this

small
average
big
WHAT THE FUCK IS THAT

���� has really warped peoples minds.

 

[Tmember]

They care, trust me on that..ok

 

[REDZULU2003]

I dont think on the whole woman give a shit like we do about cock size ... sure most hope for something 'decent' in size such as average or just over average, not so bad them wanting this as males can be funny with regards to breast size aswell.

Most females I have slept with or have allowed to suck my penis have been shocked at the size because it isnt the norm as I have Penis Enlargement'ed so hence they dont see it everyday or when they drop their knickers!!!!

Some have been shy with it, some kinda not into it and some very into it but my feelings are clear, that you dont need a massive cock for the woman ... get yourselves to average size or just above and your fine cos it really aint that much of an issue for woman as it is to ourselves.

Yes we hear woman talk about cock size but GUESS WHAT ... we talk allot about curves, tits and other shiet but it isnt the gospel fact of the matter ... each person is their own so dont fret.

To me having a bigger cock is great for confidence when your out on the pull cos it's like power to me when I get my pants off ... like I have the big cock and aint anything to be afraid of ... but thats my issue and not the womans, she whoever she is will be judgeing it from her experiences with other cocks, the mags she reads and whatever else is in her head and I can tell you it isnt like we think i.e bigger is better .. only heard a few odd woman say this and they were SLUTS and had twats wider than the channel tunnel and faces like rats ring pieces!!! So yea for whores its a ISSUE but for nice decent girls than its not so much an issue unless she has a pref for it like some men do for more shapely arses, bigger tits, pointy nipples etc etc.

Learn to master sex and how to pleasure a womans body ... how to kiss and touch a woman, plus massage is VERY IMPORTANT ... but most of all how to LICK A PUSSY and finger one ..... learn all these like I have and than master them and you can get any female to scream in ecstasy with or without a fuckin big dick ... take that from me as gospel cos I've not only done it when I was smaller albeit I suppose as the studys suggest above average but seen guys with small dicks do it while in groupies ... to me SEXUAL TECHNIQUE is more important to a woman than cock size and how long you can last ... remember these points ... remember them good cos woman ALWAYS ALWAYS remember the smaller details, and yes when you end things they remember that delicate touch, the way I used to smell their neck before slowly kissing them all over .... learn and master dont worry about being huge, average or above will do unless you want it FOR YOURSELF like me ... confidence.

Shitz I miss posting here

 

[goinfor11x7]

Great post!!! Miss ya.

 

[DLD]

Size is an issue, obviously we spend much of our free time here. Women, on the other hand, have no clue to what size really means (except the few size queens that may exist) A big penis is that of a man with big confidence...6" can seem like 10 with the right ego. The links that were given in this thread are all but manufactured and created to make money for the sites that post them. If you have any doubts about what I say please read the last post in the MOS BLOG. Size is very important to us as men...we are here to more to build confidence than a bigger penis. This is probably a poor post for someone who makes his money from Penis Enlargement but I have never pulled any punches. Women see size on a level that is hard to understand. When they feel as though we lack confidence it is an easy target to attack the penis and belittle us to a level that gives them more control. Size has only become an issue because we, as men, have made it an issue. I have never met a woman that has judged me on the size of my penis and I have been with more than 100 women. The times that I have felt intimidated by the thoughts of a woman were the times I felt most insecure about myself. Size is easy, we do it every day, we, as a group, have added many inches to our manhood and this has been only for our own confidence. Women only become critics of size when they are invited to give their opinion. With more than 95% of the men in this world with an average penis (5-6") I highly doubt many of these women interviewed have ever seen more than that. Their confused opinion lies in the confidence of the men who fucked them...plain and simple.

 

[Pandora]

I dont think on the whole woman give a shit like we do about cock size ... sure most hope for something 'decent' in size such as average or just over average, not so bad them wanting this as males can be funny with regards to breast size aswell.

Most females I have slept with or have allowed to suck my penis have been shocked at the size because it isnt the norm as I have Penis Enlargement'ed so hence they dont see it everyday or when they drop their knickers!!!!

Some have been shy with it, some kinda not into it and some very into it but my feelings are clear, that you dont need a massive cock for the woman ... get yourselves to average size or just above and your fine cos it really aint that much of an issue for woman as it is to ourselves.

Yes we hear woman talk about cock size but GUESS WHAT ... we talk allot about curves, tits and other shiet but it isnt the gospel fact of the matter ... each person is their own so dont fret.

To me having a bigger cock is great for confidence when your out on the pull cos it's like power to me when I get my pants off ... like I have the big cock and aint anything to be afraid of ... but thats my issue and not the womans, she whoever she is will be judgeing it from her experiences with other cocks, the mags she reads and whatever else is in her head and I can tell you it isnt like we think i.e bigger is better .. only heard a few odd woman say this and they were SLUTS and had twats wider than the channel tunnel and faces like rats ring pieces!!! So yea for whores its a ISSUE but for nice decent girls than its not so much an issue unless she has a pref for it like some men do for more shapely arses, bigger tits, pointy nipples etc etc.

Learn to master sex and how to pleasure a womans body ... how to kiss and touch a woman, plus massage is VERY IMPORTANT ... but most of all how to LICK A PUSSY and finger one ..... learn all these like I have and than master them and you can get any female to scream in ecstasy with or without a fuckin big dick ... take that from me as gospel cos I've not only done it when I was smaller albeit I suppose as the studys suggest above average but seen guys with small dicks do it while in groupies ... to me SEXUAL TECHNIQUE is more important to a woman than cock size and how long you can last ... remember these points ... remember them good cos woman ALWAYS ALWAYS remember the smaller details, and yes when you end things they remember that delicate touch, the way I used to smell their neck before slowly kissing them all over .... learn and master dont worry about being huge, average or above will do unless you want it FOR YOURSELF like me ... confidence.

Shitz I miss posting here

You would never go back to your pre Penis Enlargement size tho would you RED.

 

[REDZULU2003]

Exactly right mike, its the confidence in us men and hence thats why I feel much better now with my new size when out on the prowl ... its nothing to do with the woman but myself ... you worded it perfect in your observations that woman attack us in this whole size thing because of this low condifence ... the key is here, you hit the nail on the head with that!

If you want to place the boot on the other foot I suppose we could look at it from a female POV and say the whole issue around breast size and that 'some' woman feel very uneasy about their breast size because they 'think' it gets them more men and/or better attraction from the opposite sex when in fact they dont, only a small populaton of men really only want woman with large tits.

Yes mike, we can use the same observation you made on womans views on size because of our low confidence with the issue with mens views on breast size and womans confidence on that issue .... both sex's are in the sameboat on these issues and its only really now that both are getting hit harder than ever with media being freely available than it was say 50+ years back.

Why do woman spend 1000's of hard earned cash to get larger tits? because they feel the world WANTS THEM ... they feel that men want this more and they will go further with this when infact I dont agree. Its to patch the womans low confidence on the issue of her cup size and that is the SAME AS US MEN with our cocks ... some of us may very well spend in the future or have done 1000's on surgery and why? same reasons as the above ... confidence linked to the opposite sex .... when you ask the most IMPORTANT QUESTION HOWEVER for both parties ..... does size really matter [Cup and cock] the answer is NO IT DOES NOT .... to me average breast size or just above is fine .. if I love her and shes small than it has no bareing to me ... I think woman think the same.

 

[REDZULU2003]

You would never go back to your pre Penis Enlargement size tho would you RED.

No I wouldnt but that's because of my own confidence as I stated in the post and not what woman want from me ... do you understand? now like haveing a larger cock and it makes me feel powerful when pulkling the woman so its great but it doesnt make me more succesful at pulling woman or getting them off when its compared to before because as I said you must know what to do with your tongue, fingers and the sheets!!!

 

[stridge]

Lot's of very good posts here. I really like Red's example of the fact that women only get breast enlargement because they percieve that to be the world's preference, even though many guys don't really give a shit if a woman is extremely busty or not.

DLD also weighs in very importantly on the confidence issue. Size is an issue when men make it an issue through insecurity and a certain mindset.

I think the best thing to take away from it is the general sentiment that you should pursue Penis Enlargement for your own confidence and self-image, not because you think you need it for some physiological or sexual reason. One of the reasons I created this thread is that I was seeing more and more posts where men seemed to feel that a big dick is a universal key to both attracting women and also providing sexual pleasure in any situation. I think after reading this thread most will see that this clearly isn't the case.

And, as Red pointed out, if you're good in the sack and confident, size is probably one of the least important factors. Unless the woman is a whore, has a huge vagina, or is some callous bitch, size is not going to be a significant factor so far as most women are concerned.

 

[dyablo]

Women do care, but they care that you are big enough to satisfy them, so I guess that anything from 6 in and above should do the job with no problems.

 

[newbie54]

A big dick makes the job a hell of a lot easier.

I'm a little over seven by 5.75. Not big.
But every girl I have been with thinks its huge. And that makes my job all the easier, they are so turned on by it.

Also, its way easier to score a chick when she thinks your hung - because that reflects positively on your manliness OR vice versa. I mean, personally I think because I act like Im hung (bravado many girls call it) they just assume I am. Even in college one year I scored a chick and when she saw my cock she goes "so its true", turns out the girls had been guessing at who had the largest cock and they guessed me.

So, I am sure its not the size of the dick but how well you get inside her head. If your big I suppose that process is easier.

As for how much women care? They care enough to boast about their hung boyfriends.

Peace

Good post.