"MOS Confused Sexuality Syndrome"

swedeguy said:

Aha, so talking with a deep voice, playing football and having a good relationship with your father would make you a heterosexual then? If you really believe what you're saying I suggest that you start thinking about what discussing penises in a forum might do to you.

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No I really don't think you get my point. If you are a "effeminate" male by our societies standards, and you don't have support from your father/family, then you would be more likely to turn to homosexuality, in my opinion, to seek acceptance from a male figure. Maybe I wasn't clear, and this is just my theory.

I am very comfortable with my sexuality and never thought anything of complimenting the guy's dicks here.

I don't play football or watch sports by the way. No interest whatsoever.

kong1971 said:

Some hard facts, as I see it. Let me know if I am wrong:

Gayness cannot be a gene because it would have slowly been bred out of the gene pool bit by bit over the ages.

There are also very few totally heterosexual and totally homosexual people. Most human beings reside in a kind of gray area, but lean more in one direction or another.

Homosexuals can be arroused by women and have intercourse with them.

Heterosexuals can be arroused by men and have intercourse with them.

Homosexuality is not a choice, because I have heard lots of homosexuals say that they wished they were straight. Who would actually want to be in a discriminated minority?

Since it is not a gene, and it is not a choice, then it must be developmental...perhaps in the womb, as someone suggested earlier. I have a gay cousin, and you can see he is gay even in his baby pictures.

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LOL, who doesn't have a gay cousin? Mine says he knew he was gay when he was very little. He knew he liked boys early in grade school. In a way, and I'm definitely not saying anyone here is trying to do this, sometimes we just have a fixed way of thinking, it's funny how us "outsiders" (who even if we understand and don't really care one way or the other and just offer love and care like we would to any friend or family member regardless of anything) try to understand something like homosexuality as if it is a problem. As if we're trying to solve a puzzle in the way we'd solve a problem where a solution is required to put our mind's at ease. I don't get it. I don't really think sexuality is that big of a deal. The prejudices are always going to be there and that is why it is probably more of a problem to deal with being homosexual than it is to be heterosexual. If everyone else worried more about their self then sexuality would become more of what it really is in that of a personal thing. "You do what you do and I'll do what I do and I'll love you no matter what." That's how it should be. BTW, I'm a little tipsy. So my thoughts probably weren't put together as well as I'd liked. Night all

levista said:

No-one needs to worry, Penis Enlargement'ing doesnt make you gay, you just start to look at cocks the way a bodybuilder looks at other guys physiques for comparison, or a car fanatic looks at cars etc etc

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yea exactly

I too started lookin and paying more attention to penises when I started Penis Enlargement.... just make sure you dont tell anyone of your friends about it once you think of it as a normal new behavior because theyll think ur gay

philadelph said:

No I really don't think you get my point. If you are a "effeminate" male by our societies standards, and you don't have support from your father/family, then you would be more likely to turn to homosexuality, in my opinion, to seek acceptance from a male figure. Maybe I wasn't clear, and this is just my theory.

I am very comfortable with my sexuality and never thought anything of complimenting the guy's dicks here.

I don't play football or watch sports by the way. No interest whatsoever.

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I see your point but then what about people like me who aren't like that?
And trust me, the way society is noone would actually seek to be gay.

Maybe we can all look at it like this
If you fancy males than your gay and if you fancy females your stright, fancy both and your Bi.
Does it matter whos who?? or why?? As long you are happy with what YOU ARE I wouldnt give a fuck.
I dont think theres a single reason as to why people end up with there own sex, Its one of those things like everything in life, it happens.

I'd like to clarify a point:

I asked the rhetorical question: who would want to be a member of a hated minority?

This question should not be misconstrued to mean that I wish I were straight. I don't.

Dialogue is good.

BeBobBox said:

I too started lookin and paying more attention to penises when I started Penis Enlargement.... just make sure you dont tell anyone of your friends about it once you think of it as a normal new behavior because theyll think ur gay

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OOooopps! I told all my buddies about Penis Enlargement! I got laughed at a couple times, but then I showed them my before and after pictures here and they wanted to know how to do Penis Enlargement.

kong1971 said:

Since it is not a gene, and it is not a choice, then it must be developmental...perhaps in the womb, as someone suggested earlier. I have a gay cousin, and you can see he is gay even in his baby pictures.

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O_o you could tell he's gay by a baby picture? explain


I don't think Homosexuality is a gene either, noone has it in there genes what they're arroused by, that gets wired into your brain some of it could be from experience, some of it from what u got in the womb, some of it just happened that way for no real reason.

davidwh said:

Dialogue is good.

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David,
I don't know if you read my post, but what do you think about my theory? How did your parents react to your homosexuality?

My idea really comes from an almost "Freudian" concept, so most homosexuals would not be able to actually realize that they are seeking acceptance from other males, it is a sub-conscious urge.

I don't mean to suggest that you can tell all gays by their looks, pimpin, only that he was obvious. There is just something indefinable about his facial features in the picture that makes you know. Another interesting thing I have noticed in my family is that most of his male relatives, myself included, like him and don't mind that he's gay at all...but there are a couple aunts and female cousins that just vehemently hate him for that reason alone. I thought that was a little against the norm.

BeBobBox said:

I too started lookin and paying more attention to penises when I started Penis Enlargement.... just make sure you dont tell anyone of your friends about it once you think of it as a normal new behavior because theyll think ur gay

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lol

True enough.

Actually, I would like to be bisexual, that's like the ultimate sexuality. Too bad I don't see anything sexual about women at all... Ah, well. I guess I better stick to just looking at their boobs without cause.

philadelph: I actually saw an article yesterday that stated that if we don't get close contact, hugs etc from our parents as kids we tend to seek it from others as adults.

This is now stuck

swedeguy said:

philadelph: I actually saw an article yesterday that stated that if we don't get close contact, hugs etc from our parents as kids we tend to seek it from others as adults.

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That is very interesting. Do you have a link?

Hm, no I read it from a magazine somewhere..

swedeguy;86561 said:

philadelph: I actually saw an article yesterday that stated that if we don't get close contact, hugs etc from our parents as kids we tend to seek it from others as adults.

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Ha, this is what my therapist and me are exploring right now We are stating regression therapy next week, I am excited as I have never done this and I really believe this is where my demons may lurk. I do not think it was a lack of affection more than it was abandonment issues. She feels that if we go way back we may find where things went off course. I know for myself most of my youth was spent in lockups due to reasons we now see as psychological issues. Back then it was the child's fault and the best therapy was locking them up or beating them. Things have changed greatly since the 70's but still there is a generation of children, who are now adults, that still suffer the stigma of an ignorant society.

I will make a thread concerning the therapy sessions so others can follow, I think wearing my heart on my sleeve in this way will help others that have similar issues.