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Chaoskampf;762815 said:
You need some pussy so bad
Morning wood. Yes or no?
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You need some pussy so bad
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dmoney101;762920 said:
I can smoke marijuana daily but I rarely drink alcohol.
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dmoney101;762920 said:
Back to Jelqing and back on the Forums! 2 things that will do great good! So glad to hear you have stopped drinking, that is one of the worse things someone can get hooked on. It took me years to quit but when I did I did not have to completely quit. I was drinking 1.75 l bottles every night. My kids were living with me at the time and the night before they went on vacation I was throwing up all over the place. They had friends over and I made a fool of myself. When they went the next morning on vacation I knew I need to do something. I got on my knees and I begged God to help me, whatever it was I should do I was wiling to do it. The Spirit said, "drink Red Wine in the memory of Jesus and you will no longer have this problem again" I was confused at first as I thought how can I quit drinking by drinking??? I soon found out. I fist had a deep appreciation for the red wine as it does remind of the blood of Christ. I also noticed that after one or two glasses I am falling asleep. From that day to today, being 6 years, I have never touched vodka again and I have never gone past 2 glasses of wine in a day. This works so much better for me than quitting, quitting becomes a rule "Thou shall not drink" this does not work with me. I need to have no rules or laws to be successful. Laws only make me think more about the think I desire to stop.
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doublelongdaddy;762951 said:
You must have battled with various forms of addictions in the past. You are very lucky to have survived all this
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doublelongdaddy;763150 said:
When you said you do not need AA what exactly do you mean?
[MENTION=162352]huge-girth[/MENTION] it's a program to work towards sobriety. The most common is AA but there's variations for drugs, gambling, etc. Group support can be extremely helpful. There's people to call you on your BS if you screw up or are lying to yourself. You can find people who are 2 days or 20 years sober.
It certainly works for those who work at it. Maintaining sobriety isn't an easy thing for some people and they need that structured support in their lives.
The Anonymous part is simply to state that what happens in a meeting STAYS in a meeting. You don't leave and go tell people you saw this police officer or judge or even your neighbor in a meeting. You don't tell their stories to people with names or ways that can identify the person. You can open up and be free to say what you need to say with the knowledge that it won't be used against you.
It certainly works for those who work at it. Maintaining sobriety isn't an easy thing for some people and they need that structured support in their lives.
The Anonymous part is simply to state that what happens in a meeting STAYS in a meeting. You don't leave and go tell people you saw this police officer or judge or even your neighbor in a meeting. You don't tell their stories to people with names or ways that can identify the person. You can open up and be free to say what you need to say with the knowledge that it won't be used against you.
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cladre60;763681 said:
Thanks for the well detailed explanation Cladred60. I'm learning some English
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huge-girth;763745 said:Thanks for the well detailed explanation Cladred60. I'm learning some English
AA for me did nothing but make me want to drink more. They spend their meetings digging up the past, who wants to remember the past! I found my sobriety on my knees.
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cladre60;763682 said:
Good, having a realistic vision is so much better than an overzealous dream.
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doublelongdaddy;763797 said:
Heaven knows I don't want to have anything to do with my past. The past should be left where it belongs.
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huge-girth;763841 said:
So agree. That is why AA people are always relapsing, all they do is dig up the past. They also feel a need to make 'amends' for their past, which I think is a highly selfish thing to do. Most people I fucked over when I was a drunk never want to hear from me again. Like you said, leave the past where it belongs.
doublelongdaddy;763951 said:
When I was forced to go 3x a week for a year it seemed like a mix of some people digging up the past and others just focusing on 1 day at a time and being positive. Guess it's a matter of finding good meetings and good people.
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doublelongdaddy;763951 said:
In the past, when I get drug and misbehave, I start regretting my actions the following day but I also forget about it. I have a friend who always hold on to the past. he will never let go. He keeps regretting some of the good things he did for people in the past. I see him as a wicked person though.
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doublelongdaddy;764113 said:I woke with a boner....first thing for everything
I guess it's been a long time.
