Psychology Mental Freedom from Size Complex.

Great Thread Supra,

There were many of these discussions on another site, and so many guys appear way off as to what is important to a woman. It's not the blown out of proportion issue many men often imagine. In a lot of ways a big dick and a $1 will only buy you a cheap cup of coffee with most women And too big is worse than average.

Supra said:

no one is ever going to get as big as how big the �naked people movies�’s make those guys

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This thought encapsulates your entire message...BRAVO!

Gandolf, Did you read this?

Great post. I still feel small at 8+ x 5.75, but I have become more confident since Penis Enlargementing. My final goal is between 9 and 9.5 x 6 and 6.25, and I know it is too big. I go to college in the fall, and I want to be known as THAT GUY ala the monsters of cock guy.

I'm 35 and currently date 3 women. one is 18, 22, and 24. All 3 are what you would call high caliber women. I run with a fairly wealthy group of guys who drive lamborghinis and ferraris and dam if they are not all alone. When they do get chicks they don't get that good of girls and the ones that are hot are gold diggers. Reason is they think all the bullshit themselves. To them if they don't look the best and have the biggest wallet they are worthless, and they also have this warped idea about women.

A good girl wants to be treated right. They don't care about your dick or your money or your car or if you are the best looking. If the girl does care about all this then dump her now. Don't think about it for a second get her the fuck out of your life.

Now if you want to be successful for your woman because it makes you happy to provide that's one thing. If you want to make your dick bigger so you can please her like no other man can then that's your business. Again they don't care. I love sports cars. I still haven't met a girl who cares what I drive.

Back to the original poster...
I don't care what you say I love hitting that cervix like a punching bag. LOL

Good thread, worth a reread

Supra, you are one wise man. I have a lot of respect for you.

outlaw909;288383 said:

get her the fuck out of your life.

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the best would be: fuck her and then dump her out of your life ^^.

when u sleep with woman u should also try this: dont ask about how long anybodys penis size was she slept with before u. I guess the most woman would find this a little strange because we always wanna know such things. But believe me this really shows her how self confident u are . Im now at this point where it dont even bothers me anymore no matter his penis size was. just wait she will point this out sooner or later by herself (mabybe to test how strong u really are). But if u really self confident it wont bother u even. meanwhile i make jokes out of it ^^. just try the same. the girls willl love u like no one else . I talked a lot to woman and the men always ask them about past lovers size.
I would say the more confident u become in yourself the lesser such things will attract ur interests for.
and know what: it really doesnt even matter how big one was. if she is satisfied completely by your cock and how u treat and fuck her thats all that matters.

greetz

gentlegrow;331849 said:

the best would be: fuck her and then dump her out of your life ^^.

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My question is how do you get to fuck them to begin with?

Supra
I was more confident than ever, and I was really not that much bigger than the last time we had sex, but she was going nuts, that is how you have to be, you have to be confident

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You're a man by whats in you heart, not by what is in your pants. Never forget that.

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Agreed completely.

And just to restate -- agreed completely.

...But if what's in your heart is "dammit, my dick is too small" then that will effect your confidence. And a lower confidence will affect all areas of your life.

People build up a toxic shame around what they think and dread and fear. They'll remove themselves from life around them to avoid the dread of it.

A big part of not having toxic shame is of course perspective, -- reinforcement like this --

*That �naked people movies� dicks are not-all-that (and use tiny girls and special camera lenses), etc, on dicks that are usually in the 7 inch range...

*That 8 inches isn't normal, ... or even big, - it's huge and getting towards too huge for some girls.

*That the same goes for girth over ~ 5.6 for some girls.

But with all that being said - if anyone thinks that girl would have gone -as- nuts on you with the same confidence and a 5x4, they're dreaming. For they're forgetting/dismissing the reality that the -present- you is creating.

You're not confident...

You're hung and confident.

With those two things you've made yourself the heighth of masculinity to a woman. That's what she was going nuts on. ... (pardon the pun --> ) The Total Package.

There's a reason why you can have an easy confidence, and it's not 'just because'. Some of it has to do with that Penis Enlargement Museum.

The tenor of just one side of the message is a bit like an olympian holding 500lbs casually above their heads and saying "Be confident, and you'll effect the world the same way I do."

Both sides of the message have to include the road that arrived at the present you. To be a better you .. without that pursuit going too far or changing the core -you- in there on the inside. With the proper perspectives of what sizes really mean, and to set realistic goals. --to first become better, --and then to stop.

SUPRA is an awesome kid. I wish he could be around more, like he used to but I believe he is still in Iraq. I hope he sees his threads get bumped.

doublelongdaddy;331935 said:

My question is how do you get to fuck them to begin with?

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maybe u got this wrong i only played a word game ^^. better written: fuck her for the last time and then dump her. It was more meant like a joke ^^.
but i would say its not the worst way to end a relationship in such a way^^.

greetz

gentlegrow;331971 said:

maybe u got this wrong i only played a word game ^^. better written: fuck her for the last time and then dump her. It was more meant like a joke ^^.
but i would say its not the worst way to end a relationship in such a way^^.

greetz

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I was just playin'

Great thread - Majority of guys here need to read it with some on the CRITICAL list

Man that was outstanding! But I don't understand how you thought 8x6 is small I just looked at ruler and 8x6 is pretty fuckin impresive.

yeh, self confidence its a great work with your brainsTelling the truth, for me to cope by myself with such problem was too hard, I've turned for help to specialist

This thread was a great read but I have yet to conquer the feelings of inadequacy. I'm only 6x5 and I feel absolutely horrible about my size. I think about it every day from morning to night, sometimes it gets so bad that I have emotional breakdowns about it. I've been to a therapist for a year and stopped going because they couldn't help, nor do the antidepressants I'm on.

A big part of it comes from being gay. Most gay men judge you on your size before they take any of your other features into consideration, and I've had more than my fair share of rejections and nasty remarks despite the fact that I'm actually a damn good looking guy. It makes me feel absolutely disgusting and unattractive.

I've opened up about this to a few of my close friends (who I have messed around with) and they have all told me that my size is perfectly fine, I'm not small and that I have nothing to worry about. However I just don't see it. It looks and feels so small to me, I hardly even enjoy jacking off. I've been using the Bathmate since October and have had noticeable gains, and have had a few old fuck-buds comment that I'm definitely bigger. But it does nothing for me inside. I'm in a constant state of misery because of it.

I'm going to continue with Penis Enlargement because I just can't give up, but I just don't know what to do or think anymore. I truly hate what I have between my legs

AT 6 x 5 you are above average and most men would think this was big. You should feel happy about your size.

The only time I've ever been happy with it was when I was rolling on E and it looked and felt huge at the time. But I can't go through life high every day. I don't know DLD, it really eats me alive inside, even just looking at it.

This is a good an motivating thread. Thanks supra