Marrying a Virign

Hey Guys,

I need some very important life long advice, please advise...

Like the title says, I'm marrying a virgin in roughly 10 months; I am also a virgin and don't know much about having sex. She is very petite, 5'4" 110 pounds. I want to make sure I please her in bed so we have a very long and healthy love life. I also want her to be head over heals in love with me and turned on by penis when she sees it.

I'd like to add a little more length maybe up to 6.5-7 inches, but I am afraid I will hurt my girl if she is very tight. I am about 5.7" long with a 5.6" girth. I have a very hard and high (points to the sky) errection which can last all day if I want (lucky girl huh? =]).

The girl is already very scared of the pain of breaking her hymen. She would probably cut it off if I try and stretch it out after marriage, she is very very very conservative, plus I want her to think it is natural. I think my dick is going to scare her no matter what anyway, I am happy with it's size and behaviour too so this is just really for her to be able to give her multiple orgasims and hit her g-spot, will it at this length or do I need more?

My other main concerns after her being to tight is getting stretch marks and other deformations to my penis with DLD's newbie routine.

What do you guys think, should I add some length and risk her being too tight and/or messing up my penis, or should I just use what I got and rock her world with my 5.7'er without the G-spot stuff?

Thanks this is really important to me.

Why not get married first, and then decide on whether you should do Penis Enlargement?

She is very very conservative. She would get very angry at even the suggestion. I also want her to think that my penis was bigger naturally that way, and I didn't stretch it out myself.

if she is that conservative then she wont care about the size of your penis. my ex wife was the most consevative person eve. i had to tell her what a blow job was. (lol) they biggest thing especially conservative is the love part of sex. m ost are not pornstar curious like guys are. she will awan tto learn and grow wit you. the worst thing that happend with my sex life with the ex was that i had been with many women and knew what i like. very freaky and she knew it and the hardest part was her trying to live up to something she couldnt. take that in mind if your a ���� watcher and she isnt and you want to try things tha t she might not be open to

rock her world with 5.7 ? haha sounds funny

If she is that conservative she probably hasn't seen any other guys and yours will be plenty enough for her. Don't worry about the Penis Enlargement and worry more about teaching each other and pleasing each other the way you both like it.

abcd3;286795 said:

rock her world with 5.7 ? haha sounds funny

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:s Exactly my thoughts . I'm near the 7" mark now, but rock her world !!! ? i wouldn't even dream of a thought like that until i hit atleast 8"....

kracjac;286825 said:

:s Exactly my thoughts . I'm near the 7" mark now, but rock her world !!! ? i wouldn't even dream of a thought like that until i hit atleast 8"....

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You'll be depressed when you hit 8". I have a pretty large penis but still must work hard at turning a girl on if I want to "rock her world." Bigger doesn't mean better sex by any means. If anything, the bigger you get, the longer and harder you have to work to turn her on.

atlyroc;286785 said:

if she is that conservative then she wont care about the size of your penis. my ex wife was the most consevative person eve. i had to tell her what a blow job was. (lol) they biggest thing especially conservative is the love part of sex. m ost are not pornstar curious like guys are. she will awan tto learn and grow wit you. the worst thing that happend with my sex life with the ex was that i had been with many women and knew what i like. very freaky and she knew it and the hardest part was her trying to live up to something she couldnt. take that in mind if your a ���� watcher and she isnt and you want to try things tha t she might not be open to

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I think I would be quite conservative too, at least for a while. Thanks for your advice, this has helped me a lot. I really appreciate it.

neondrvr;286819 said:

If she is that conservative she probably hasn't seen any other guys and yours will be plenty enough for her. Don't worry about the Penis Enlargement and worry more about teaching each other and pleasing each other the way you both like it.

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So far everyone has advised me to not Penis Enlargement since I am happy with I got. I am leaning towards this more now. Thanks you guys, lets hope she is also happy with what I got. =] I am still pretty interested to learn more about it though. I probably don't have the dedication to do the daily routines anyway, that is very comendable by you guys.

Why do you Penis Enlargement? Is it more to pleasure your wifes or for confidence, or some other reason? Hehe maybe you guys will convince me to do it for some other reason.

10inchadvantage;286859 said:

You'll be depressed when you hit 8". I have a pretty large penis but still must work hard at turning a girl on if I want to "rock her world." Bigger doesn't mean better sex by any means. If anything, the bigger you get, the longer and harder you have to work to turn her on.

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Hey 10inch, Yes yes ofcourse I understand what you're saying.
Better sex is a combination of a whole lot of things.
But what I said was only leaning towards a penis size, after all size does matter to some extent, doesn't it. It would be incredibly naive to say it doesn't....

By the way, sorry I didn't quite get what you meant by saying, that if you got bigger u gotta work longer and harder to turn her on !!!

kracjac;286904 said:

Hey 10inch, Yes yes ofcourse I understand what you're saying.
Better sex is a combination of a whole lot of things.
But what I said was only leaning towards a penis size, after all size does matter to some extent, doesn't it. It would be incredibly naive to say it doesn't....

By the way, sorry I didn't quite get what you meant by saying, that if you got bigger u gotta work longer and harder to turn her on !!!

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Yeah I feel you. The thing is I'm not all that into foreplay, so that attitude + a big cock can bring about a lot of problems. I'm one of those guys who just wants to straight up get to the fucking. Foreplay doesn't really turn me on. I just see it as unnecessary work.

10inchadvantage;287030 said:

Yeah I feel you. The thing is I'm not all that into foreplay, so that attitude + a big cock can bring about a lot of problems. I'm one of those guys who just wants to straight up get to the fucking. Foreplay doesn't really turn me on. I just see it as unnecessary work.

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Dude, foreplay is the best part; the building blocks of sexual gratification. Unnecessary work is pe man. On another note, I was bored the other day, so I called a hooker up. She cost me $175 an hour, but that hour was worth it. She was super tight; almost as tight as a virgin, I only had 1 or 2 girls as tight. I could only fit 2 fingers in her; she must do kegel exersizes.

Kal-el;287118 said:

Dude, foreplay is the best part; the building blocks of sexual gratification. Unnecessary work is pe man. On another note, I was bored the other day, so I called a hooker up. She cost me $175 an hour, but that hour was worth it. She was super tight; almost as tight as a virgin, I only had 1 or 2 girls as tight. I could only fit 2 fingers in her; she must do kegel exersizes.

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How'd you fit your cock in her then?

Kal-el;287118 said:

I could only fit 2 fingers in her; she must do kegel exersizes.

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:s Good deduction....

10inchadvantage;287140 said:

How'd you fit your cock in her then?

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She was soaking wet; believe me if she was dry ther'd be no penetrating that. When she got up there was a puddle the size of a bowling ball on my bed.

kracjac;287168 said:

:s Good deduction....

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Yea how 'bout it. Anyway, thanks for the input señor smartass.

Thanks for hijacking my thread you guys... any more relavent info for me, thanks.

If she is a virgin, then the size is probably not going to be big issue in terms of comparison. You're not so large that you'll tear her up or anything. Yet, some women are uncomfortable with ever average size cocks at first. Go slow and she'll adjust in time, if needed.

Being afraid of a womans' reaction to something so beneficial as Penis Enlargement?? Sure you want to marry someone so "very very very conservative"??? :s:s