How is pussy supposed to feel?

10inchadvantage · Dec 2, 2006

I have made love with my girlfriend three times now. I'm wondering how tight it should be, because it doesn't feel like much at all. Like, my normal jacking off grip is WAY more intense than a pussy, and I don't squeeze(only when jelqing).

Do you have to get used to pussy or something? When I'm thrusting in her I am not really into it because it doesn't feel good. I have a very hard time trying to stay somewhat erect. I have never been able to have a 100% erection, only about 80% max while having sex.

I really have to imagine myself being turned on in order to be aroused when thrusting. And yes, she was a virgin.

The two times I have blown my load in her I was almost completely soft(I wear a Magnum XL, which feels pretty "real"). This is really starting to frustrate me.

This makes me wonder how �naked people movies� stars can be in all of those weird positions and still be able to be 100% hard. I'm in normal missionary and can't stay hard.

blackice · Dec 2, 2006

?

maybe she aint a virgin

Pandora · Dec 2, 2006

Take some Viagra you may have performance anxiety or take something to aid in getting an erection.

Threak · Dec 2, 2006

Fuck her ass ... see if it's any tighter lol
Stop the missionary position with you laying on top. Stand up and hit it like a true �naked people movies� Actor.

All kidding aside, 10inchadvantage is right about the performance anxiety. It usually happens the first few times until you get comfortable with each other.

I had a GF with the same issue. I turned her on to Kegals and it made a huge difference or is it smaller difference ?

. Meanwhile I would hit it from all angles and boy did she love that. She tell me, "You hit spots no other man has done before" And I still use that technique, the women love it.

I had another GF who did Kegals regularly and she could actually grip my cock at will. I didn't even have to thrust with her, it was like getting a Blo-Job from a pussy.

Answer to your question ... "Slippery when wet."

penguinsfan · Dec 3, 2006

I can sort of relate to what you're saying. It doesn't feel at all like wanking. It's just different for different guys. I could probably make myself nut from jacking off in a couple minutes, although I would certainly not climax that fast from intercourse. You can't compare it to an action you're fully working and controlling. For me, a good blowjob will do more, but some guys don't get that much out of them. Give it time and work with it.

10inchadvantage · Dec 3, 2006

The thing that frustrates me the most is that I can't keep a hard on because it doesn't stimulate me. It's not an anxiety issue, I'm not afraid or expecting to live up to something. It's just that I haven't been getting pleasure out of it.

prince Albert · Dec 3, 2006

Probably down to the condoms,i'm uncut and when i used to use blobs a long time ago i could feel very little and would struggle to stay fully erect,i would guess if your cut and using a blob there will be even less sensation.

You could try putting a small amount of condom freindly lube inside the blob,ive read that helps increase sensation.

Try using positions where she can keep her legs together that will increase friction,though depending on your length you my find it hard to stop slipping out.

matts22 · Dec 3, 2006

Dude, I totally know the feeling...

It got to the point in my last relationship where we would fuck but all I really wanted to do was foreplay...I really like fingering girls cause I can get them off so freakin intensely. And I'd just about rather rub up against each other and do that kind of stuff than to actually have intercourse. It just doesn't stimulate me the right way a lot of the time. Maybe if the girl would kegel or something...but for me at least, it got to the point where I wouldn't ever get fully hard...even beforehand, just because I knew what was coming. Viagra helped some, as I would be really hard...but then it just took like 9 hours to get off...

One thing that did help some was to get thin condoms. If you go to www.condomania.com you can look at different ones and they give the thickness (of the latex)...getting thin latex lets you feel a lot more.

10inchadvantage · Dec 3, 2006

The best erection I have had in her was when I didn't wear a condom. I was about 80% hard, I think because I had beat off like 8 hours ago and I wasn't fully "in the mood". I did not ejaculate, I stopped after a while. She got off but it still didn't feel as good as jacking off, so I had to really meditate to feel the gripping sensations.

Magnum XLs are already lubed.

As for condomania, I don't know. It's like 2x more than XLs and I'm a poor college student.

psychotic · Dec 3, 2006

Man, stop beating so often because it will fuck your erections up! Be more gentle with it and it will get better

floridabob · Dec 3, 2006

psychotic said:
Man, stop beating so often because it will fuck your erections up! Be more gentle with it and it will get better

DITTO.. Stop spanking your monkey for a few days then fuck her and tell me how it feels.

PS: If she is a virgin she should be REAL tight.

10inchadvantage · Dec 3, 2006

floridabob said:
DITTO.. Stop spanking your monkey for a few days then fuck her and tell me how it feels.

PS: If she is a virgin she should be REAL tight.

We were both virgins so we have nothing to compare to. It's not near as tight as my normal grip.

I popped her cherry, btw.

penguinsfan · Dec 3, 2006

prince Albert said:
Probably down to the condoms,i'm uncut and when i used to use blobs a long time ago i could feel very little and would struggle to stay fully erect,i would guess if your cut and using a blob there will be even less sensation.

I thought of that too. I've never gone bareback with anyone, but I can imagine it makes a substantial difference.

Also, the type of condom makes a difference too. The thinner ones do give some more sensation and the polyurethane ones are absolutely incredible. 10inchadvantage, I urge you to see what might be available in a polyurethane condom. When I last used one at 5.75" girth, the Trojan Supra felt great and I'll never use latex again.

Try using positions where she can keep her legs together that will increase friction,though depending on your length you my find it hard to stop slipping out.

I can definitely affirm that. There are positions I've had an awful frustrating time with, given my mere 5.5" in length (had it up to 6" but did not cement it).

10inchadvantage · Dec 3, 2006

penguinsfan said:
I thought of that too. I've never gone bareback with anyone, but I can imagine it makes a substantial difference.

Also, the type of condom makes a difference too. The thinner ones do give some more sensation and the polyurethane ones are absolutely incredible. 10inchadvantage, I urge you to see what might be available in a polyurethane condom. When I last used one at 5.75" girth, the Trojan Supra felt great and I'll never use latex again.

I can definitely affirm that. There are positions I've had an awful frustrating time with, given my mere 5.5" in length (had it up to 6" but did not cement it).

Aren't Supras like 2x more? Pretty steep. My girlfriend is on the pill too, so that helps. The university gives out free condoms but I think they're just the plain LifeStyles or whatever, which my girlfriend did have, and I did try on, and it only went halfway down my shaft. It also after about 5 minutes start to make the blood flow hurt, like a burning sensation(in a bad way). I can tolerate it but I'd rather not. So much for the "one size fits all" theory of condoms.

Hopefully I'll get something right before this semester is up. It's frustrating, seeing as how most people REALLY enjoy sex yet I am not enjoying it really at all.

penguinsfan · Dec 4, 2006

10inchadvantage said:
My girlfriend is on the pill too, so that helps.

In you're in a healthy committed relationship and you have no STD issues to worry about, then consider no condom.

10inchadvantage · Dec 4, 2006

penguinsfan said:
In you're in a healthy committed relationship and you have no STD issues to worry about, then consider no condom.

We are, and we have talked about this. Personally, it makes me feel better wearing a condom. I figure about $6 for 12 is cheaper than $200k+ for a child.

matts22 · Dec 4, 2006

Dude, wear a condom. I recently had an ex get knocked up by one of my friends and she was on birth control. They only fucked twice without a condom and now she is pregnant at 18 and her big college plans are down the drain.

10inchadvantage · Dec 4, 2006

If that happened, hopefully my girlfriend and her parents would follow through with how they said they would want an abortion.

But yes, this is why I wear a condom. Because sometimes the woman can forget to take her pill, and it just makes the 1/100 chance go to 1/10000 with both a condom and the pill.

aeroth · Dec 4, 2006

Man just relax....you've gotten yourself all worked up expecting this to be awesome. Sex is sex is sex. 100% of men who have had a GOOD blowjob will take head over sex. And probably 90% or so would rather masturbate themselves why she did some foreplay for them. Sex is really more about the connection you make with your partner rather than the feeling. And come on be real man...the only time I've ever had a full erection during sex I came

so being at 80% is a normal thing. You won't get fully hard normally just because if you do it'll be to stimulating and you'll blow your load.

My best advice is to stop thinking of what it should be and enjoy what it is. If you don't feel that great having sex...then don't do it just to do it. Enjoy the other parts of sexual stimulation and you really SHOULD stop wanking it so much

I rarely masturbate anymore and it makes everything feel oh so much better. Also remember you've been doing Penis Enlargement for how long? You are probably less sensitive than an average virgin would be. I don't know what goals you have for Penis Enlargement but I'd say cement then quit once you get them.

robjeremy · Dec 4, 2006

those cheap condoms are horrible I had a bout of going limp while using condoms and it was because of the condom not me, I switched to this brand called "Class Act" and man its been awesome every since. by the way, if you are virgins and are on the pill, go bare back you wont be disappointed. the way I look at it, anyone worth having sex with is worth going bare back with. that does not mean I screw dangerously, i just make sure that they are very clean and really worth any potential consequences.

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