Hotwife? who has one?

I'm not talking about a Wife that is hot but a Hotwife who has sex with other men while you watch and or she comes home and tells you about it.

I find my self strangely attracted to this idea. My wife really gets off on it when we fantasize about it but says she would never do it.

Come on lets discuss.

How would that not make you jealous?

gainstocome;360166 said:

How would that not make you jealous?

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I little bit of Jealousy is part of the turn on.

Forget about that!!!!! Sorry not my thing!

crazyed27;360596 said:

Forget about that!!!!! Sorry not my thing!

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I know it's not everyone's thing, I'm looking for guy's that are into it.

That idea would be WAY too utterly painful for me. It breaks vows and promises, and is the ultimate betrayal in my eyes. Well, aside from, y'know, actually killing them. If you arrange it beforehand and there is 100% perfect mutual agreement I guess it's morally alright. But for those who are just guys who are pressured into doing it by their wives or given an ultimatum like "If you don't let me do it we're getting a divorce!" that's sick.
I suppose the logic behind it is like that of making yourself really thirsty so you can enjoy drinking something all the better but I couldn't do that. It's much more understandable when it's done mutually like "Hey honey I had sex with this woman and it was great" "That's pretty cool, I had sex with this guy and it was great". Though as a means of torture, it's worse than physical torture if you ask me.

Tell me I don't belong in the topic but it's so strange to me that I want to know how it works so that I don't feel so frustrated. Then again maybe I don't want to know the answer.

I think all of us, both sexes thought about bringing in another to spice things up. There are just so many issues on so many levels that you could have to deal with. For example, if you had a 3 way and brought in another man, you run the risk of your wife getting to like sex with other men. Believe it or not I have read quite a few articles in mens magazines over the years and they all say the same thing. I have also had friends that had highly sexual wives that they thought they could "tame" and they are all divorced now....The articles reported that you run a 50 % chance of your woman enjoying, (the newness, the attraction, the excitement, the sex.... ) of another guy and she could leave you or end up fucking other guys for fun and you just stay home and pay the bills and get a pity fuck every once in a while....

Or at the very least betray you when you are at work, etc. It happens on both sides of the equation, for men and women. So depending on how solid your relationship is with your woman, you might consider the real risk she might like this new fellow too much and then your paying her back by screwing another woman, the the relationship goes toxic and now you might be single.

I love my wife too much to take that risk, although the situation was broached many moons ago and I chose caution after weighing all the what if's, since I am almost married 20 years I might be out of tune with todays world. . You can go and have a 3 way and go down that road and maybe have a fun and exciting experience but the what if's and the possible consequences would out weight the benefits at least in my view...... its all how well you know your wife and if you are willing to take the risks. But just my opinion from a somewhat conservative viewpoint. And I am not making any judgments here. Live life to the fullest !

Keep us posted.

I would just hate my wife for it. Even if it is arranged etc.

Yeah, that type of shit is only going to cause some drama and heartache

Man, my girl tried to do that to me, and I accepted just to get that prick in my hands, he came to her lace and I was there to "watch" - Moment after he came to us, he was facing my fists on his mouth and legs on hisstomach, that's ultimate betrayal and I hate being betrayed.

Perestroyka;621945 said:

Man, my girl tried to do that to me, and I accepted just to get that prick in my hands, he came to her lace and I was there to "watch" - Moment after he came to us, he was facing my fists on his mouth and legs on hisstomach, that's ultimate betrayal and I hate being betrayed.

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So, I assume you're not with her anymore, right?

pradox;621948 said:

So, I assume you're not with her anymore, right?

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AHAHHAH! Really, you think so? Why would you think so!?!? !

Zambrodom3;621966 said:

AHAHHAH! Really, you think so? Why would you think so!?!? !

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LOL! I don't know,man! The way troyka described her; the way she tricked him into this, and he only blames the SOB and not her? makes you think she may be with him to this day. The thread is sugestive too....so idk, was just curious.

pradox;621978 said:

LOL! I don't know,man! The way troyka described her; the way she tricked him into this, and he only blames the SOB and not her? makes you think she may be with him to this day. The thread is sugestive too....so idk, was just curious.

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! I mean it might have been her that wanted them to split, cause she must've been afraid of him! I can only imagine he destroyed the other guy! AHAHHAH!

Zambrodom3;621981 said:

! I mean it might have been her that wanted them to split, cause she must've been afraid of him! I can only imagine he destroyed the other guy! AHAHHAH!

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yeah...this is just plain wrong. if one of them didn't want to do that, they might had canceled the whole thing! In his case, HE totally didn't and she ( in his on words) went for it without a shade of guilt.

pradox;621982 said:

yeah...this is just plain wrong. if one of them didn't want to do that, they might had canceled the whole thing! In his case, HE totally didn't and she ( in his on words) went for it without a shade of gilt.

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He deserves better I believe!

I had a hot wife but she turned cold and left me lukewarm

doublelongdaddy;621986 said:

I had a hot wife but she turned cold and left me lukewarm

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She might have been hot, but maybe not warm enough on the inside to appreciate you!

doublelongdaddy;621986 said:

I had a hot wife but she turned cold and left me lukewarm

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We are super humans DLD we need no whor...i meant women hahaha

pradox;621948 said:

So, I assume you're not with her anymore, right?

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No, I am not with her, since then I wasn't with any girl, I wasn't fucking any girl since then, that guy was came up with arrogant attitude, I had to crack him man
My (now ex) girl was screaming like I am slaughtering him, entire street could hear her screaming, police came, I got arrested, and released after couple of hours, Ive been on court and I am on 2 year parole for that