desperate for help

Hi.

I have some major confidence issues. I haven't had a girlfriend since I was 13 and I never had a serious girlfriend. This has convinced me that I'm ugly and unattractive to women. I just couldn't work out what my problem was. Then just when I was getting to know this girl I really liked, I was kicked out of school. I didn't even do what I was accused of. I didn't see her or any of my friends that I grew up with for 3 years. I had no social life and became very shy and withdrawn. I became very self conscious - I couldn't even answer questions in class sometimes because I was anxious about how my voice would sound. Then I became depressed.

I'm at college so day to day I see so many fucking gorgeous women, I mean absolute 10s. I just can't believe how fine some of them look. I've got so much to give them sexually, if I only had the chance. I have really started to get paranoid about this and convinced myself that i'm ugly. But I'm not, I actually think I'm good looking. But no girls seem to notice me. I think this is because I've got no confidence.

I have a very low opinion of myself and whenever someone compliments me I don't believe them. Some of this low self esteem and lack of confidence is also probably due to not having the biggest dick. I'm addressing the probem with counselling, which has helped alot but I need to tackle it from every angle.

I'm 19 in July. I'm only 2.7" long flaccid, 3.2" girth erect and 4.3" erect length. Please tell me something can be done. I want an 8 incher or more with plenty of girth. I want so much to feel confident around women and able to approach women knowing I could satisfy them. Because I'm still depressed, I've got no motivation to do the exercises and no discipline.

This problem with my dick is so bad I thought about killing myself once. Please suggest some routines to get me past that initial barrier and inspire me to go on. I need to see gains really fast.

Thankyou

Hey annonymous, Have you tried any of the routines or exercises we gave you over at PridePenis.. If not then you need to start them ...nothing is going to happen overnight and the longer you wait to start the longer it is going to take to see any gains.

***In terms of the penis size***

You should get an a routine as soon as you read this. While a big dick will definately not answer all of your problems, it will help to boost confidence once you start seeing gains. Read all the posts here and familiarize yourself with the exercises. I take it that you have not done Penis Enlargement before. You should start with basic stretching and jelqing. They will work your length and girth respectively. Start off by spending maybe 10 minutes with each and work your way up to 20-30 minutes with each. Many see results in as little as 2-4 weeks with this combo. After you master this routine ( a few months), there are more advanced exercises which will take your size to an even greater level. Post again if you have any questions about how these exercises are done.

***In terms of dealing with women***

You are right, your problem is not that you have a smaller than average dick, your looks, intelligence, ect...You have no confidence. Confidence is THE number one trait that attracts girls. I recommend the following site for this topic. I could help you out with specific situations, if you want to send me a PM, but my knowledge with this issue is far to broad to post in a single thread

www.sosuave.com

Good luck, post here often, and keep us updated

-Gandolf

Hi AfterTheShock.

Yea, I immediately checked out the links and tried 7 incher's routine. I've also been exercising my pc muscle throughout the day whenever I think about it. I've been doing this for 3 days now.

Thanks for the link Gandolf, that's a great site.

Hey thats great ,7inchers routine is a good one , he gained an inch in his first month with it .I think you will do good with it ,just hang in there and don't give up ,It will take some time ..you may not gain that quick with it but you will gain .

Hello their.
Glad that you took my advice and came here.

Told ya theirs alot of guys ready to help.

annonymous,

You got to nip this in the bud. I'm almost 40 and I have had the same issues all my life.

In fact enlarging your penis will only shift your perceived weakness to something else. No matter how well I built my body, or groomed myself, enlarged my penis I could always find some excuse why I wasn't good enough to approach a beautiful woman.

You're a lot smarter than me because I was too embarrassed to seek help.

Good luck.

I have had some of these same problems man and i agree with Al100 here.Im 21 and went through a few yrs of isolation and depression.Just gotta find something that makes you feel complete.It can be different for everyone i imagine.Theres alot of people here for motivation and confidence boost :D

Originally posted by annonymous
I'm 19 in July. I'm only 2.7" long flaccid, 3.2" girth erect and 4.3" erect length. Please tell me something can be done. I want an 8 incher or more with plenty of girth. I want so much to feel confident around women and able to approach women knowing I could satisfy them. Because I'm still depressed, I've got no motivation to do the exercises and no discipline.

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anon,
You CAN add size to your unit. I did - something like 63% greater mass now. At 4.3" erect, you may or may not hit 8" - but you surely don't need 8" to drive a woman crazy & have her shout out your name while you're nailing her through the floor.
Aim for short term goals: 5" erect, 5.5", 6", etc. You honestly should be able to get AT LEAST 6.5" - which is a big jump over 4.3 inches. You may get 7, and 8 is certainly not "impossible." But tackle the short-term goals first. And go to that sight that Gandolf recommended.
My honest advice to you is this: There are *NO* absolutes in dating - it's not just a game, it's combat, it's war. The strong shall survive - notice I didn't say the "handsome" or the "hung" - that doesn't really matter. I've seen short, fat ugly guys get beaver (and, "No," they weren't hung like Ron Jeremy - although that would help). But it's all about confidence, attitude, swagger, etc. It's all subjective, not objective - REMEMBER THAT!

Annonymous. All I will say is start with a routine, and don´t give up. Sticking with a routine day after day is hard, but you really should persevere.

For inspiration read YGuy´s progress report at Thunder´s Place or Penis EnlargementForums.net

Anonymous,

I've been Penis Enlargement'ing for a little under a year and I've had decent gains. I joined this site the day it opened, and I've never been more excited about the future of Penis Enlargement. I don't think you could have come to a better site for both inspiration and expertise. It's all how you perceive it in the mind. Believe that you will increase your size and you will. As so many people have said before, "This shit really works!" You have to give it time and make the most out of each session. People are here to help, and DLD is a great mentor to have. I don't have as much experience as some people, but if one has gained 1/8 of an inch, then one has more knowledge than those who haven't. So feel free to give a shout out with any questions you have.

As far as women go...Everyone has their issues. I feel the same way as you. I probably don't project the most confidence although I do believe that I'm a good looking guy. Women are strange creatures and you never know what's on their mind. Don't try to impress anyone. Don't even try to be noticed. Let this come naturally, because anything else will seem too artifical. My advice to you is to start Penis Enlargement'ing as soon as you can, but ease into it. Create attainable goals for yourself. Someone just posted before me that you should set your first goal at 5in, then 5.5, then 6, etc...That's exactly what you should do. This will be much easier for you to mentally accept your achievements.

Lastly, stay focused. Whether it's on Penis Enlargement or whatever. I've been depressed before and I may very well be now. Nothing serious, but I've gone through some crap lately. Honestly, nothing makes me feel worse than thinking about all the hot booty running around with everyone but myself. Forget all that shit, because it will only make things worse. Be in control of everything that you do, and you will never disappoint yourself.

Good luck.

AfterTheShock, I would really appreciate it if you could help me get a routine together. I've finished college until September, so I now have the time to do a routine and stick to it. I don't know much about the routines, all I know is I need to see FAST gains. I'm committed to this. The things that need the most improvement are my flaccid girth, width and length.

Thankyou

P.S. If anyone else has any exercise recommendations for me please post here.

Originally posted by annonymous

I'm 19 in July. I'm only 2.7" long flaccid, 3.2" girth erect and 4.3" erect length. Please tell me something can be done. I want an 8 incher or more with plenty of girth. I want so much to feel confident around women and able to approach women knowing I could satisfy them. Because I'm still depressed, I've got no motivation to do the exercises and no discipline.

Please suggest some routines to get me past that initial barrier and inspire me to go on. I need to see gains really fast.

Thankyou

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You have a negative outlook. I can tell from just reading your post. Where's the optimism? This isn't a short fix. I hope you're prepared to be doing Penis Enlargement for the long term. That depressed feeling should be plenty of motivation for you to do Penis Enlargement consistently. If not, then I don't know what will motivate you. Anyways, I started at 4.5" and currently 8" now. Been doing Penis Enlargement for 3 years.

Originally posted by YGuy
You have a negative outlook. I can tell from just reading your post. Where's the optimism? This isn't a short fix. I hope you're prepared to be doing Penis Enlargement for the long term. That depressed feeling should be plenty of motivation for you to do Penis Enlargement consistently. If not, then I don't know what will motivate you. Anyways, I started at 4.5" and currently 8" now. Been doing Penis Enlargement for 3 years.

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Y-Guy, your story always blows my mind. Nice work!