Be Loud, Be Proud, We're Here....Get Over It! Get Out Of The PE Closet!!

I have been out of the closet for a few years. My wife loves my cock and it is so nice to be able to exercise and do my thing without worrying about someone walking in on me. She knows exactly what I do and she loves my post workout pump filling her pussy!
 
Great so all day my sister and my mom have been teasing me. They dont come right out and say anything but my sister keeps saying in a really high voice when I walk by "d"d"d"d"d"d"d" or some variation of annoying sounds everytime shes been seeing me. I told her to stop like 3 or 4 times. When I told my mom she wouldnt stop she said that she cant walk on egg shells while Im around and she doesnt have to stop.

Im trying to just laugh it off. But its every time we pass each other and she never leaves the goddamn couch shes such a fat lazy fuck! What did I expect by telling them? They arent kind people I dont know what I was thinking. Im sitting here actually crying right now. And you know what Ive been having such a good past few days and now Im going to have to LIVE with this shit.
 
Ok so my mom and I just had a task of talking about this. I got up from here and walked in here room. I said everything I wrote down here. And I was still being emotional. So she said to sit on here bed and I almost walked out but I sat and she told me how mentally ill my sister is. And I know that, shes not the only one in my family. But what my mom also told me was that my dick was "thick" already. I know that it WASNT thick but that now I am confident that I can say thick and I told her I "made it thicker". She told me she thought it was really cool that I used a penis pump, and she told me all these days Ive been working out locked in my room that my sisters actually the one telling her Im doing "something" important.

So maybe my sister is a little mentally ill. Im doing everything I can to get some space from her and I felt better after talking with my mom and I think Ill be able to laugh it off a lot easier tomorrow. Sorry for the trouble homies.
 
Turnover, I think Stillwantmore kind of ment coming out of the Penis Enlargement closet to your gf/wife/friends etc. I'm not so sure it was the best idea to discuss it with your mom and sister lol
 
And please don't flash your mother and sister your wanker... if anything use the picture proof section lol
 
They'll get more used to it over time. It takes a while for something to become normal. Just make it like it's no big deal and eventually they'll either quit talking about it or it'll become no big deal to talk about.
 
Eyeknot;392692 said:
Turnover, I think Stillwantmore kind of ment coming out of the Penis Enlargement closet to your gf/wife/friends etc. I'm not so sure it was the best idea to discuss it with your mom and sister lol
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I know it really happen as a discussion one day I didnt do it because of SWM2 thread. Its a little awkward but HIGHERONE is exactly right and I was outta weed so some of it was just being agitated but Im glad I posted because it inspired me to go get it taken care of right after I did.
 
Turnover;392719 said:
I know it really happen as a discussion one day I didnt do it because of SWM2 thread. Its a little awkward but HIGHERONE is exactly right and I was outta weed so some of it was just being agitated but Im glad I posted because it inspired me to go get it taken care of right after I did.
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The benefits of them knowing are 1. you don't have to hide shit/sneak around now, 2. you can't get "busted" or "caught" because they already know, 3. you are being authentic, the true you. Penis Enlargement is part of what makes you who you are and who cares. If other people have hang ups about it, those are THEIR issues, not yours.
 
higherone;392732 said:
The benefits of them knowing are 1. you don't have to hide shit/sneak around now, 2. you can't get "busted" or "caught" because they already know, 3. you are being authentic, the true you. Penis Enlargement is part of what makes you who you are and who cares. If other people have hang ups about it, those are THEIR issues, not yours.
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Like a breath of fresh air :):)
 
higherone;392732 said:
The benefits of them knowing are 1. you don't have to hide shit/sneak around now, 2. you can't get "busted" or "caught" because they already know, 3. you are being authentic, the true you. Penis Enlargement is part of what makes you who you are and who cares. If other people have hang ups about it, those are THEIR issues, not yours.
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Not to mention, now everyone THEY know knows. ;)
 
And they'll tell two friends, and so on, and so on..... lol

I think there's something to male shame about it. I mean, women getting breast enlargement has become a part of our culture that it's no big deal. I'll venture to guess there was a time when it wasn't talked about and done 'in the closet'.

I think it may have something to do with how the penis is attached to a man's value as a man. It's programmed culturally. So to tell people you are growing your unit it implies you aren't man enough already. I know this is erroneous thinking on society's part but I believe it exists. The other thing is, we are doing something which society claims as 'impossible' so it sets us outside the bubble of 'norm'.

Last year I wouldn't say anything to anyone, but this year I've been working on transparency and putting my authentic self out there, that I no longer give a shit what people think about me. I'm perfectly fine the way I am and have no problem standing up and owning myself and the things I do. It's my life and people have a problem with it, it's their problem.

I think if you present it without any 'shame' and no need to defend yourself and hold the mindset it's no big deal, then it will become no big deal to those you tell.
 
Steady;392833 said:
And they'll tell two friends, and so on, and so on..... lol

I think there's something to male shame about it. I mean, women getting breast enlargement has become a part of our culture that it's no big deal. I'll venture to guess there was a time when it wasn't talked about and done 'in the closet'.

I think it may have something to do with how the penis is attached to a man's value as a man. It's programmed culturally. So to tell people you are growing your unit it implies you aren't man enough already. I know this is erroneous thinking on society's part but I believe it exists. The other thing is, we are doing something which society claims as 'impossible' so it sets us outside the bubble of 'norm'.

Last year I wouldn't say anything to anyone, but this year I've been working on transparency and putting my authentic self out there, that I no longer give a shit what people think about me. I'm perfectly fine the way I am and have no problem standing up and owning myself and the things I do. It's my life and people have a problem with it, it's their problem.

I think if you present it without any 'shame' and no need to defend yourself and hold the mindset it's no big deal, then it will become no big deal to those you tell.
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What is in BOLD is SO fucking true man. That is what has been happening but last night I did not give a fuck because I hope they tell everyone and I can get some good pussy cuz this shit really is BIGGER- maybe not huge, but definitely an improved version of what I had and a little phrase I like singing is- No OnEs GoNnA sToP Me nOwWw
 
Let's also not forget in our Western society, most people view the penis as ''taboo'' and ''icky'' or something to poke fun at. Women speak openly about their bodies, vaginal odors and issues and have an open mic per se when it comes to these things. Men, are still on the opposite side of the spectrum, sadly. I'm glad I have a penis, I'm not ashamed of it, and no man should be.
 
Guys - I have had enough of sneaking around - my wife already knows I am exercising to prevent EDS but tonight, once the kids are asleep I will tell her exactly what I am doing and that I want to wear the pump or extender when we are watching TV etc so that I can kill two birds with one stone. Lets hope I dont chicken out!
 
shavenasian;393009 said:
Guys - I have had enough of sneaking around - my wife already knows I am exercising to prevent EDS but tonight, once the kids are asleep I will tell her exactly what I am doing and that I want to wear the pump or extender when we are watching TV etc so that I can kill two birds with one stone. Lets hope I dont chicken out!
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Good luck!
 
shavenasian;393009 said:
Guys - I have had enough of sneaking around - my wife already knows I am exercising to prevent EDS but tonight, once the kids are asleep I will tell her exactly what I am doing and that I want to wear the pump or extender when we are watching TV etc so that I can kill two birds with one stone. Lets hope I dont chicken out!
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Dude go for it! I remember being in your shoes a few years ago and when I told my wife, she was a little apprehensive/curious about it. She was just concerned about me injuring myself. But once I explained to her what I was doing and showed her some of the exercises, she was fine with it. It is SOOO much nicer to be able to just go and workout without worrying about being caught. I just tell her, 'I'm taking a bath', and she knows what that means. lol! She accepted it and I bet your mate will, too. Plus she loves the larger, thicker size too. hehe!! Do let us know how it goes.
 
Steady;392833 said:
And they'll tell two friends, and so on, and so on..... lol

I think there's something to male shame about it. I mean, women getting breast enlargement has become a part of our culture that it's no big deal. I'll venture to guess there was a time when it wasn't talked about and done 'in the closet'.

I think it may have something to do with how the penis is attached to a man's value as a man. It's programmed culturally. So to tell people you are growing your unit it implies you aren't man enough already. I know this is erroneous thinking on society's part but I believe it exists. The other thing is, we are doing something which society claims as 'impossible' so it sets us outside the bubble of 'norm'.

Last year I wouldn't say anything to anyone, but this year I've been working on transparency and putting my authentic self out there, that I no longer give a shit what people think about me. I'm perfectly fine the way I am and have no problem standing up and owning myself and the things I do. It's my life and people have a problem with it, it's their problem.

I think if you present it without any 'shame' and no need to defend yourself and hold the mindset it's no big deal, then it will become no big deal to those you tell.
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I agree! I'm in the same boat as you. I'm trying to present the true me out there now and my authentic self. Only when you quit worrying what other people think can you truly be free to live without limitations. It's hard at first because we've conditioned ourselves to hold back things we worry people will judge us for. Once you realize those who like you and love you will continue to do so, and the haters will continue to hate, you understand that being honest about yourself liberates you to not care and just be yourself.
 
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