Be Loud, Be Proud, We're Here....Get Over It! Get Out Of The PE Closet!!

Seriously though. Too many of us are ''in the closet'' about our Penis Enlargement. It's sad, really. Men all around the world who are Penis Enlargement practitioners. Most of us do this for ourselves first, and foremost to satisfy a desire of some sort. Our partners, spouses, or lovers come next. I have seen many men over the years who keep their Penis Enlargement ''secret'' for whatever the reason...sometimes letting it be known ONLY after making gains. While I do in fact understand somewhat the mentality of this ''toe in the water'' with Penis Enlargement approach, I don't get hiding it from people you care about. This is after all, YOUR body. If you were gauging out your earlobes, or getting a tattoo or changing something surgically about your body, you would let people know, right?

I have dated women in the past who were ''iffy'' about Penis Enlargement. Yes, I always told them up front...usually within a few weeks at longest of us beginning to be 'physical' in our relationships that I in fact was working at making my Penis EnlargementNIS bigger. Some chuckled and shrugged it off, sometimes I would get something like ''....really...making it BIGGER?''. Eventually though, the women I dated for more than a few months got used to the idea. They knew I was serious. If they called or came over and I was (for example) hanging weights, they knew that I was going to finish that FIRST and then we would do whatever. My last girl would come and go as I was hanging weights or clamping pretty frequently. Point is, they have to be shown that Penis Enlargement IS important to you. It does not have to be an all consuming thing though which takes away from your relationship. I feel like if that point is also proven to your significant other, then you have nothing else to worry about really. Let it be known it's your penis, its a part of your body. It's nothing you're ashamed of, and Penis Enlargement is serious as well. Penis Enlargement is also something you are committed to. Once they realize you are committed to your Penis Enlargement just like you would be, with working out for example, I've found (in my cases anyway) they ease off and let you carry about.

My wife who I met 5 years ago also knew about my Penis Enlargement pretty much from ''day one''. I didn't bring it up in first date 'small talk', but after the first time we had sex, I did. We were laying in bed actually from what I recall. Reflecting on how great both of us felt, how great the sex had just been and so on. She was fondling me and happened to comment about my ''tan''. Many men have a ''farmers'' tan from wearing short sleeved shirts in the summer time. She likened the coloring of my penis when flaccid to that. I laughed and then proceeded to tell her WHY it was colored the way it is. She responded in a predictable manner. Wide eyes, then the ''really?....but it's so nice already....'' comments. She's seen me hang the equivalent of a case of beer from my penis, squeeze it in all ways, make a few ''how to'' videos for the community, and clamp. I use my Bathmate in front of her when we shower as well. I even occasionally clamp as part of foreplay. 5 years later, we're as strong as we have ever been and my Penis Enlargement is something she accepts just like everything else about me.

Be proud of what you are doing here gents. Not every man has the privilege of knowing about Penis Enlargement. I'm not advocating that every one of you go out and tell everyone you know about Penis Enlargement and your efforts, but for goodness sake, quit hiding it from those you are involved with in long term sexual relationships.

Bravo....but I am still a chickenshit as I haven't told my wife although to be fair I only started in May this year. She is already feeling the benefits and has made comments as to why I am in the shower for such a long time - she thinks I am jerking off. But I will be telling her - probably today - and I expect I will approach it from the point of wanting to keep my cock healthy and large, as well as the fact that now that I am I of an age where I need to stay on top of my health (40 last birthday!) penis health is part of my mental and physical health. This is all true but I will put less emphasis on wanting to keep a huge weapon in my boxers! The odd thing is, We are both very very close, and even after 10 years being together, we are very much in love and very happy - we can talk about anything - so why I haven't told her is odd!

I respect your view point and one day, I will have my own Penis Enlargement community online paid for with my own money, however Penis Enlargement is still a sensitive matter for many men. Any kind of change that will alter someone's life should be met with encouragement along with patience. It's great your wife understands this aspect about your life, but there are a lot of women who will not fully accept what Penis Enlargement is. That's being real. I think the first thing is a man's commitment to this change; yes Penis Enlargement is a life changing situation. Some men lapse or relapse during. Much like weight loss or drugs. Both still have a societal taboo label. I wish any man well throughout his Penis Enlargement journey. Please have patience and expect to lapse or relapse, but you can get focused again, and continue making a positive change in your life. Have patience that others will also see this change as needed for you and if they cannot initially, continue anyway.

I really like this thread.
I totally agree with stillwantmore, on telling your partner that you're doing this to yourself, as something for you, not for someone else, since your lovers and partners may come and go, but your penis is here to stay. I had a roommate in college last year who I told about it, and who came to accept it and actually started doing some of the exercises himself after he saw what it could do. It laughed so hard, because my roommate was black, and we had discussed all about genetics referring to penis size and such. He is a little bit shorter than I am (I'm 6'4"), and he told me he was 7" nbpel. From what he knew of genetics, his father is one of the few people I have to look up to, and I'm guessing he's about 6'10"ish, and my roommate had seen his fathers dick once, and was terrified from the size of it. After I did a session, and showed my roommate what you could do with Penis Enlargement, he exclaimed, "holy shit, that looks like my dads dick." Granted, I didnt take it as a potentially weird comment at the time, I just took it in stride and was ridiculously proud of myself.
However, as in telling my current partner/girlfriend, I think I'm just going to let it speak for itself. She already says that she thinks I'm too big, where I think otherwise on that. I think, if I was going to tell my girlfriend about what I do, I would want to get her off JUST ONCE with my cock, and not my hand. Shes got a stupid tight vag, and shes utterly hot, so I can barely last 30 seconds with her :/

bluetard117;391896 said:

I really like this thread.
I totally agree with stillwantmore, on telling your partner that you're doing this to yourself, as something for you, not for someone else, since your lovers and partners may come and go, but your penis is here to stay. I had a roommate in college last year who I told about it, and who came to accept it and actually started doing some of the exercises himself after he saw what it could do. It laughed so hard, because my roommate was black, and we had discussed all about genetics referring to penis size and such. He is a little bit shorter than I am (I'm 6'4"), and he told me he was 7" nbpel. From what he knew of genetics, his father is one of the few people I have to look up to, and I'm guessing he's about 6'10"ish, and my roommate had seen his fathers dick once, and was terrified from the size of it. After I did a session, and showed my roommate what you could do with Penis Enlargement, he exclaimed, "holy shit, that looks like my dads dick." Granted, I didnt take it as a potentially weird comment at the time, I just took it in stride and was ridiculously proud of myself.
However, as in telling my current partner/girlfriend, I think I'm just going to let it speak for itself. She already says that she thinks I'm too big, where I think otherwise on that. I think, if I was going to tell my girlfriend about what I do, I would want to get her off JUST ONCE with my cock, and not my hand. Shes got a stupid tight vag, and shes utterly hot, so I can barely last 30 seconds with her :/

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Well, something else to consider is the un-predictable part of life. I mean, we never know what will happen to us one day to the next. I'd rather I for example, died with my wife knowing all about myself vs for her to find me dead one day with a hanger and 20lbs hanging from my penis and wonder what the hell I had going on in my life behind her back. Just to put that out there as an example. ''Local man found dead by wife with 20 pounds hanging from his penis....family mourns and wonders WTF??'' Hey, it could happen.

I say, if you want to tell the other half that's fine and if not than that's fine. Decide yourself what's the best choice for YOU .. not her or anyone else. Its not weak or stupid keeping it secret. I've known guys who Penis Enlargement and its the one-time true time they get to themselves outside of very hectic schedules, children and the life sentence with the wife haha j/k

stillwantmore2;391898 said:

Well, something else to consider is the un-predictable part of life. I mean, we never know what will happen to us one day to the next. I'd rather I for example, died with my wife knowing all about myself vs for her to find me dead one day with a hanger and 20lbs hanging from my penis and wonder what the hell I had going on in my life behind her back. Just to put that out there as an example. ''Local man found dead by wife with 20 pounds hanging from his penis....family mourns and wonders WTF??'' Hey, it could happen.

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Probably think you were one kinky dirty bastard. I've known of cases where plenty horny fuckers asphyxiated themselves hanging from the ceiling while wanking, a rather popular fetish I'm lead to believe. They often slip and well .... you know what the ''crime scene'' will look like haha Fuck what others think as well. When your dead they will remember you for the other stuff not the 20ls weights.

The whole world knows I do Penis Enlargement. Most are all accepting, some feel uncomfortable. When I tell men about my business always hear the same thing "Oh, I'm all set in that department" but sneakily try to find out where the site it.

Sneakily, **snicker**snacker**

I want to laugh that I think if I spend hours a day stretching and edging/jelqing in my room for a year or 2, to gain just 1" or 2", but I understand that all the effort is worth it in the lonnnng runnn, but somebody that I tell may not be as understanding.

It might be important to tell someone in other cases. If you cant tell your partner you watch ���� but not to jack off, just to "Penis Enlargement", that may be the healthy thing for your relationship. I know some days I spend the majority of my day locked away in my room doing Penis Enlargement and my family has no contact with me for those periods of time so it would be a relief to tell them and be honest that Im locked in my room doing that and not some strange perv naked voodoo in my room ? :blush:

Turnover;392003 said:

Sneakily, **snicker**snacker**

I want to laugh that I think if I spend hours a day stretching and edging/jelqing in my room for a year or 2, to gain just 1" or 2", but I understand that all the effort is worth it in the lonnnng runnn, but somebody that I tell may not be as understanding.

It might be important to tell someone in other cases. If you cant tell your partner you watch ���� but not to jack off, just to "Penis Enlargement", that may be the healthy thing for your relationship. I know some days I spend the majority of my day locked away in my room doing Penis Enlargement and my family has no contact with me for those periods of time so it would be a relief to tell them and be honest that Im locked in my room doing that and not some strange perv naked voodoo in my room ? :blush:

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You could just tell them you do Yoga and prefer to do so nude to connect better with your inner karma and the universe.

Hahah in the beginning thats exactly what I told them I was DOING!!! LOL

lol

I think I just popped my fam's Penis Enlargement bubble: Heres how it went down. I was sitting here typing on another post just a min ago. My mom and sis were in here saying blah blah blah.... right something like there should be a "womens penis museum" , so there would be penis' all different sizes (small and skinny!!! hardy hawr hawr) blah blah blah.... then I said there probably is and googled not finding much. Then I said some are like flat and wide and some have smaller heads than the shaft but thats from surgery. My sis said how do YOU know, and my mom said they cant make it bigger!! I said they have pumps that can make the head bigger. No theres no such thing! I said Yes they can you think in all the history of man all the billions of men in existence havent figured out how to make a pump that pumps their dick bigger over time? NO WAY my mom said. So I just tore it off like a bandaid, I said I HAVE a pump and use it daily and Ill even show you it makes my dick huge! SILENCE

Played a song online and we started singing lol

I feel a little awkward right now, but I jsut got off work so Im going to my room to toke a bowl and forget this just happpen!!

I'd rather keep it private. Just my opinion. Unless someone sees me doing it, I guess I'll tell them. Somethings are left kept secret

They were talking about a penis museum??

All types of penis talk of ALL penis' in one place-- "and not a shrine of dildos".

And you guys wondered why I want to flash them once I get all stretched out, they are practically ripping my pants off to see if its true! GROSS!

Guess they've never heard of the infamous Cynthia ''Plaster Caster''. http://www.plastercaster.com/reviews.html

True story, KISS even did a song about her.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hP7o3e_37Gc

I had a dream last night that I was checking out shirts and I saw a MOS t-shirt, nothing blatant or exagerrated just a cool looking colored picture with a red MOS and purple and red flowers around it.

I thought to myself, "This is cool. If I buy it the only ones who would know I Penis Enlargement are other guys doing it."

stillwantmore2;392476 said:

Guess they've never heard of the infamous Cynthia ''Plaster Caster''. http://www.plastercaster.com/reviews.html

True story, KISS even did a song about her.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hP7o3e_37Gc

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Wow what the heck it that!!?

anth1225;392485 said:

I had a dream last night that I was checking out shirts and I saw a MOS t-shirt, nothing blatant or exagerrated just a cool looking colored picture with a red MOS and purple and red flowers around it.

I thought to myself, "This is cool. If I buy it the only ones who would know I Penis Enlargement are other guys doing it."

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Hahaha I want to get an MoS tattoo on my left shoulder but then I thought it would be a too similar to DLDs

Love that KISS cover, awesome art!