A girls confession on sexual stimulation! Share your stories as well :)

Hey guys! I am back on track again! Recetly I have been writing with this girl on facebook. She seems to be a pretty wild one and sexually active. After some time of chatting we started asking each other intimate questions (like truth or dare with no dare ). So far what she has told me is:


Penis size

She prefers a girthier one. She is a short girl herself so I assume her vagina is not SOO deep. I asked for specific size and she told me that anything more than 14-15 in length does it. When it comes to girth- she likes it more in the 14-15 range. The issue she had was that she couldnt even feel getting fucked while she has had sex with less girthy penises.


Stimulation preference

She said she likes oral THE MOST! If she had to classify them it would be like- 1-Oral, 2-Hands, 3-Sexual intercourse. The only orgasm she has ever had is the clitoral one and it is her favorite (such a surprise, huh ). She claims G spot stimulation fingering does not work for her very well.


Lover technique

She likes having her clit stimulated by tongue. The best should could rate was the 3 finger technique- 2 finger her while 3rd one is out and rubs her clit. If you add a tongue to all of this- it is KING to her. Whenever she gets her clit stimulated- what she hates the most is when the other one (cause she has had sex with many girls as well) stops clitoral stimulation before she has achieved orgasm.


Sexual seduction and stimulation

What turns her on the MOST of all is when she knows she can't have a man. If someone says her "NO"- she starts chasing after him and begging him to fuck her. Once they get to the fucking part- "I have never been SO wet in my life before".
She likes her boobs stimulated- it is what gets her wet the fastest way! Ass stimulation comes second when it comes to this.


We chatted a lot and there are lots of things I am missing out to say right now, but if it comes in my head and it is important- I will add it here. I opened this thread for guys to see what A GIRL loves, but not all girls. I believe it would be GREAT for the entire community if we all put some info here and see what works for different girls. That way we will all improve in and out of bed (confidence-wise). Please add your knowledge and experience as well, if not the community- I will be VERY thankful to see and read what you have shared! All the best, Zam

Boring over here, me, myself and my Fleshlight

doublelongdaddy;581198 said:

Boring over here, me, myself and my Fleshlight

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!!! By the way- I don't wanna go offtopic, but please tell me what you use for lube? I got my STU (Stamina Training Unit) and the lube was gone after the first two uses. I need some lube (homemade since theirs is too expensive- plus it is a shipping charged), can you recommend something that doesn't give negative output on the sleeve? Thanks DLD!

!!!! Not in any way being exclusionary, but not only don't we do Metric over here (unless it's a soda cola) we kinda actually despise it

.. so for just a moment when you said ..

she told me that anything more than 14-15 in length does it

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.. us being normally in Inches ..

I was like .. Yeah .. ya reckon??? :cool:

Asanon;581221 said:

!!!! Not in any way being exclusionary, but not only don't we do Metric over here (unless it's a soda cola) we kinda actually despise it

.. so for just a moment when you said ..



.. us being normally in Inches ..

I was like .. Yeah .. ya reckon??? :cool:

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Ahahhahah! Nah mate! It is cm! ! U have anything to share btw?

most women i have talked to say girth is important, your first thought as a man is "shane diesel, shorty mac __________!" but when i asked, they said if its the same as a toilet paper roll its perfect( 5.5 inches I think)

Zambrodom3;581211 said:

!!! By the way- I don't wanna go offtopic, but please tell me what you use for lube? I got my STU (Stamina Training Unit) and the lube was gone after the first two uses. I need some lube (homemade since theirs is too expensive- plus it is a shipping charged), can you recommend something that doesn't give negative output on the sleeve? Thanks DLD!

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Spit!

doublelongdaddy;581250 said:

Spit!

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I actually used that last time !

oned44;581246 said:

most women i have talked to say girth is important, your first thought as a man is "shane diesel, shorty mac __________!" but when i asked, they said if its the same as a toilet paper roll its perfect( 5.5 inches I think)

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Hmm, and I get the feeling A LOT of women are so! I am hanging now and have been strongly advised to leave all girth work behind while hanging (which is just awful!!!). But I think we would all enjoy some more girth!

TP rolls vary in size from around 5.1 to 5.5 inches, so actually measure the one you're using if you want to gauge it as bencHydromaxark to make sure.

U have anything to share btw?

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More than I could ever type starting back to when I was twelve..

What occurred to me to share though was based on the statements of the chick you'd written about ..

"The only orgasm she has ever had is the clitoral one and it is her favorite (such a surprise, huh ). She claims G spot stimulation fingering does not work for her very well."

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and ..

"The issue she had was that she couldnt even feel getting fucked while she has had sex with (penises under 15cm girth)."

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.. which for us here that's essentially 6 inches .. (she characterizes it as she 'can't feel' penises under 6" girth, Wow! .. This alone could explain her predilection for girl/girl relationships if she can't feel dudes with normal penises, which is most dudes .. )

So anyway she's demonstrating classic issues with body unfamiliarity and with (very) poor vaginal tone ..

The concentrated erectile tissue of the clit is really the same nerve complex as the labia, the introitus, the G-spot and some of the A-spot are all the -same- complex. A chick not having a currently developed erotic response to their G-spot is extremely common, but fixable by (1) deconstructing how much force they expect to be used on their lady bits and (2) strengthening their vaginal tone with exercises better than 'Kegels'.

(As an analogy of Kegels, you could flex your biceps without weight in a static position, and by doing that they would be superior in tone and strength to someone say unconscious in a Coma for ten years doing nothing at all .. but you'll never get 48 cm arms by 'flexing them' .. that takes weights, some range of motion, and some dedication. The vaginal walls are no different. Kegels are better than nothing .. but not much better, and incapable of fixing more extreme issues of poor tone.)

For the G-spot sensitivity, first she needs to go backwards from it for a while back to her clitoris and have a friend do 'the Doing Method' on her. Someone (a university actually) figured out that .. from the perspective looking at someone else's clitoris .. what would be the upper right-hand quadrant (about 1pm on a clock) is the most sensitive area of the clitoris, and that if you 'lift' the clitoral hood and very-barely 'massage' that exact spot ... by barely I mean the amount of force you'd use if you were messing with a sleeping person by tickling the tip of their nose ... Barely ... but keep doing that for like fifteen minutes, that tiny almost-ignorable amount of stimulation slowly builds up into Massive erotic response where .. at first she might not directly orgasm from it, although squirming and moaning most of the time, .. but she'll kinda feel like she orgasmed .. and afterwards watch out cos she'll be looking to dry-hump anything that will sit still. This is causing a higher awareness in her erotic response of what actually constitutes 'stimulation'. A Sybian or Hitachi Wand is Fail. A light puff of air whispered from someone's lips is Win. This all makes a better biofeedback circuit that improves erotic sensitivity, and ability to orgasm, thought to be from actual higher enervation of the complex. The system is to do this same fifteen minute 'Doing' process for five days in a row, if she orgasms .. that's fine ... if she doesn't .. that's not the point of it and that's fine too. Try -not- to have sex afterwards. Sex is a blunt force compared to the Doing method. Hold off on sex for a few days and let the higher enervation do its thing. (Unless it seems like she's going to go bang some stranger, if so obviously take care of business.)

Doing's effect of -radically- lowering her assumptions about erotic force and thresholds will then aid her ability to connect to her G-sot as well (for fingering or upward angle insertion sex) and even her A-spot and 'Deep Spot' (for deep penetration insertion sex) ... with this next bit to help ..

Actual Vaginal Tone --

There's no excuse short of paraplegia for not being able to feel an average penis. -- "Moar's Law" applies, .. more = better ... and I wouldn't be a (not even sure) thirteen year (?) PE vet if I thought differently, but the worse the vaginal tone .. the more difficult it is to feel inserted objects and also (if they don't care about anything else they should care about this) the more difficult it is to have an orgasm of any kind .. and the weaker that orgasm will be.

If a chick builds up her vaginal musculature then she'll be radically tighter, more aware of anything inside her, her orgasms will be more powerful/enjoyable, she won't need clitoral stimulation to orgasm during sex, and at the higher end of success she'll be able to manipulate the actual sections of the musculature individually .. rather than 'just' clamp them all down at once. Being able to manipulate them individually is like a Belly Dancer individually undulating the sections of her abs ... and so then the chick can actually 'milk' a penis without otherwise moving at all and also make small workout object such as 'jade eggs' etc not only remain inside of her .. instead of falling right out .. but actually make the objects go up and down within the vagina. This is the kung fu master vagina. It's going to be able to feel what's inside it .. even tiny workout objects .. and kick their butt, it's going to orgasm radically harder and more pleasurably .. from less stimulation, there will be a far higher tie to the G-spot, and by itself or with some additional work a radically higher ability to squirt orgasm.

Like I said, ... doing Kegels can't get a chick there, it's not enough resistance, and what little resistance it is only occurs when actively flexed. Weighted workout objects rely instead on gravity, and gravity doesn't lose its attention span in a minute or two.

A very few chicks are strong like that naturally, but if someone is not a natural - and most are not - then they'll need the weighted workout objects. Check out Lelo mini Luna beads [link]. (Make sure the Minis. The minis are similar weight to the larger ones .. but smaller so they make a more difficult workout .. and also seem less intimidating at first so she'll be more likely to get into it without needing to overconvince like reading entire internet twice or the guy having to gripe at her. Or actual Jade Eggs, (eggs carved out of Jade) just google for that. Anything used should have a built-in string for retrieval and for adding additional resistance if the chick gets that strong.

Quick how-to video (from web, not familiar with the company that made it). Thousands of 'things like it' out there, but the mini Lelo's are pretty baddass. The chick you're talking about, at first these are going to fall straight out. On second thought maybe begin with something also great but larger and so easier to hold in .. the Ami by Je Joue.

Video on a chick that got to where she could do a jade egg with 31 extra pounds attached. OMG! [link] Think what that'd do to you ..

Decent video primer on the Doing method [Link] , they call it something else .. and orient from the chick's perspective. Just remember that, you looking at it, it'd be at "1 o'clock". Also it's asinine to use your weak hand. Don't do that. Use your dominant hand, you have more fine motor control over it. Just figure out how to sit the other way. The thumb of the other hand goes over, but not inside, the opening .. that's something they don't quite explain right. It's part of it though, so do it .. but don't press it on inside.

Hope all that made sense. Gotta be elsewhere, if I mistyped or misspoke anything I'll do an edit or followup later.

Asanon;581307 said:

If a chick builds up her vaginal musculature then she'll be radically tighter, more aware of anything inside her, her orgasms will be more powerful/enjoyable, she won't need clitoral stimulation to orgasm during sex, and at the higher end of success she'll be able to manipulate the actual sections of the musculature individually .. rather than 'just' clamp them all down at once. Being able to manipulate them individually is like a Belly Dancer individually undulating the sections of her abs ... and so then the chick can actually 'milk' a penis without otherwise moving at all and also make small workout object such as 'jade eggs' etc not only remain inside of her .. instead of falling right out .. but actually make the objects go up and down within the vagina. This is the kung fu master vagina. It's going to be able to feel what's inside it .. even tiny workout objects .. and kick their butt, it's going to orgasm radically harder and more pleasurably .. from less stimulation, there will be a far higher tie to the G-spot, and by itself or with some additional work a radically higher ability to squirt orgasm.

Like I said, ... doing Kegels can't get a chick there, it's not enough resistance, and what little resistance it is only occurs when actively flexed. Weighted workout objects rely instead on gravity, and gravity doesn't lose its attention span in a minute or two.

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There is a lot to be said about this. Perhaps significant others need to get on board and whilst we are PEing they should be flexing and strengthening vaginal musculature meeting somewhere in the middle with spectacular orgasmic pleasure.

Well Asan- that was a very good and informative post! Thank you for it! You seem to be QUITE knowledge-able on all of this

concur with that. Incredible knowledge, Asa. Problem is that this subject seems to be even more of a social taboo or at least terra incognita than PE is. I've never met a woman that was able to masterly control her vaginal muscle complex as you describe it. Luckily I've almost never had problems to have them orgasmed within a few minutes due to a decent girth to begin with (5,5, now 6,1 and counting thanks to this PE shit). My "current" gf (been a decade now, so go figure) can at least squeeze my dick very fiercely if she wants. Nevertheless she almost never does it. I wonder why. But after reading this thread I'm going to bring that matter to the fore again.

Jedi75;581313 said:

There is a lot to be said about this. Perhaps significant others need to get on board and whilst we are PEing they should be flexing and strengthening vaginal musculature meeting somewhere in the middle with spectacular orgasmic pleasure.

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I can say that every muscle in the body deserves the attention to know how it works and what it is capable of doing. There are many muscles in the body that go unused or parts of the body that do not realize their full range of motion. In the SRT Book we cover every muscle and look at the way every muscle works and the different ways it can be used. The same goes for women, especially in their sexual system. Just like we do kegels to strengthen our pelvic floor muscles for harder, thicker erections a woman can do the same to tighten and find the full range of her sexual anatomy.

It is a known fact that majority of women prefer a girthy penis than a long one. If you have a solid 8 inches, you are long enough. Compliment it with 6.5 inches of girth. You are good to go.

Zambrodom3 said:

Sexual seduction and stimulation

What turns her on the MOST of all is when she knows she can't have a man. If someone says her "NO"- she starts chasing after him and begging him to fuck her.

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You should never chase a woman as a man.

squirt_inducer_man said:

You should never chase a woman as a man.

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When you are asking a woman out and she is hesitant to comply and she is asking you to give her some time, is it best to just walk away or give her the needed time?

huge-girth said:

When you are asking a woman out and she is hesitant to comply and she is asking you to give her some time, is it best to just walk away or give her the needed time?

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Can't give you a defenetive answer. But if she's into you I feel like she would say yes immediately, or at least try to plan something with you. She can also be shy! But even a shy woman I feel, would say yes if she's into you. She can also be needing more time...the question is why?

But I would suggest to not pressure her. Let her come to you, you have made your wants/intentions clear. If she's interested, she will want to keep talking to you without you chasing her. Maybe she are into you, but wants to take it slow due to past relationships and being hurt.

It can also be that she wants to be nice, and not reject you directly. These are all the thoughts about this I could come up with.

I hope this is helpful brother.

squirt_inducer_man said:

Can't give you a defenetive answer. But if she's into you I feel like she would say yes immediately, or at least try to plan something with you. She can also be shy! But even a shy woman I feel, would say yes if she's into you. She can also be needing more time...the question is why?

But I would suggest to not pressure her. Let her come to you, you have made your wants/intentions clear. If she's interested, she will want to keep talking to you without you chasing her. Maybe she are into you, but wants to take it slow due to past relationships and being hurt.

It can also be that she wants to be nice, and not reject you directly. These are all the thoughts about this I could come up with.

I hope this is helpful brother.

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I already deleted her phone number so I won't be the one to call her again. If she doesn't keep in touch game over.

huge-girth said:

I already deleted her phone number so I won't be the one to call her again. If she doesn't keep in touch game over.

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That's a good strategy.