Andrew69 said:The most Ive given my wife is 8 in about 45 minutes.
These days after the first (much longer these days) she rarely has any more. She says she gets too sensitive. Any thoughts?
This is when you go back to oral and do it very gently. She will either cum again from the light stimulation or else the sensitivity will lessen a bit and you can go back to intercourse.
The clit is made of the same tissue as the penis so think if you were to have a fully erect penis about to cum, but you couldn't cum because of some mental block or maybe you just cannot get over the hump mentally to cum again (kinda like it becomes harder and harder to cum over and over again). This I think is what it feels like with some women who basically jump off after cumming and don't want to be touched. In my experience, they can be touched but you have to be ultra-sensitive in your touching and go real slow before going at it again.
Think of it as having a hard-on that just won't go away. Not a comfortable feeling if you ask me. More like a frustrating feeling as you feel like you are on the brink of cumming but you just can't.
Every woman is different, but go slow on going back to the clit with oral or else go back upstairs and do some kissing for a while before you go back downstairs to hit her up for another orgasm. If she has a problem easily cumming more than once, then it just takes a little patience and persistance on hitting her up for the second one and the third, though these kind of women sometimes have problems going for more than three.
Anyways, it depends on what you want out of sex. A lot of guys don't really care how many orgasms they can give their lady unless it is with their penis only. I am not like that, but a lot of guys and in particular black guys seem to be that way. A black ex-girlfriend of mine in fact said black guys just almost never go downtown for whatever reason and she for whatever reason was one of those gals who have lots of problems cumming from intercourse and who respond best to clitoral stimulation. So needless to say, she liked it that I could turn her into an orgasm machine because I knew what I was doing and was not ignorant of the female anatomy like so many poor guys are.