so i want to do this for my girlfriend is this the right place for me?

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hi everyone I'm a newbie when it comes to this topic. I have a girl who i been with for awhile now were taking things really slow not having sex for awhile but we fool around hand jobs oral that kinda stuff. Shes told me shes been active since 12 and had close to 18 guys never been with girl with that much experience. Me i've been with nothing but virgin girls. MY current girl has had a kid also. i kind of have skinny hands so four fingers with the pinky on ring finger if that makes sense thats is how wide she is. the last time i measured my penis was in the 10th grade that was years ago then i was 6.5 length not sure about girth then or now. i brought up whats the biggest shes seen she says why does it matter but shes been opening up about it and told me that I'm for sure the longest shes ever had says I'm 7 inchs. shes showed me how wide some the guys were they seem thicker then i am but had really small length compared to me. now being i been with virgins they were like two fingers tight to me after i fucked them for 10 mins or so i could get 3 fingers in so i would say i'm average sized girth wise. i use durex condoms and they do feel like they cut circulation off i have fit in xxl life styles before and fit just fine felt better so i'm not totally sure where to start. i want to be the best for my girl and i brought up a penis enlargement pill vigrix + said how do you feel about it she said it probably would be a little better for me but i do think when we start having sex it'l be very good I'm happy with what you got but if you want more thats on you. and well i do sometimes i notice its hard to keep it hard when I'm eating her out it'll go soft and hard. when we cuddle or just kiss it gets hard normally im usually hard then when it comes time to fool around it gets soft i don't know why mental thing. but i would want to increase length and girth in the long run. i guess the reason i'm scared is she said its really hard for her to get her self off she has to be on top because the guys never hit the right spot she doesn't seem really deep my fingers usually hit the back of her and she complains im not a huge guy im only 5 10 130 pounds our hands are the same size to the tea
how can i get started? this is sorta embarrassing for me if confused let me know il clear up its really early in the am and i need to sleep
but i thought i'd join and get advice this site seems like the best place for 100 precent normal people answers
 
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how old are you? you sound young and self conscious (sorry). if you wanna be bigger then do it for yourself. if she doesnt have a problem with it and you dont then leave it alone. i think basicaly you guys need to get closer and learn each other and learn how to please each other.be comfortable and stop opver thinking and the erections will come. pills arent the answer especially with enlargement they dont work. if she having trouble geting off then you guys need to work on that. P.E. is a good thing that works but it takes time and dedication. i suggest read up and figure what you want there is a lot of help here.
 
i'm 22 shes 25 and its not me that can't get her off we havent had sex she said in general shes had to learn to get her self off because the guys in the past haven't been able to do so it is for me its hard for me to stay fully hard and i wouldn't mind some added girth and inches where could i start reading theres alot here i've been doing most of the newbie guide thats at the top of this section for years but i never been dedicated after reading it i'ma start doing it more now should i go ahead and buy the preimum package front he store for 160? seems like a good place to start also it is for me mostly but i want to be able to please my girl to the max u know we've been serious for awhile now and we stop our selfs from having sex
 
i wouldnt buy the packages yet. tere is much you can ready without buying the packages etc. look at other routies and other threads like jelquing and clamping. non of it is gon to work if you dont stay dedicated. and jeqiing will help erections. you nee to get you penis condititoned for thinks like clamping and hanging. im a hanger and ive gaind alot of length from hanging but a lot of girl ironicaly. the newnie routine will help get you started and it can put you where you wanna b if you are dedicated and intese. as far as erections the can be and mostly are mental. dont go out buying things without really nowing what you want.
 
talked about it more she said she doesn't really want me to gain any length cuz shes scared i'ma poke her guts out lol but i want to add some girth and i'm going to do it anyway its something i've wanted to do but never could find a community thats helpful this site was a god send to me i'l be reading the dld [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]newbie routine[/words] and look more into what jequling looks like ouch at hanging sounds painful lol i would say an hour or more would be needed to do this no? the more the better i've always pulled on it in the shower when i was younger think its how i got to where im at now i don't think i'm 7 i'l have to get the proper measuring tools thanks for your advice il start with the dld newbie thread and read more into the site in the next few days
 
A girl who started fucking at 12? Then fucked 18 guys she'll admit to, having a kid along the way?

Sounds like a winner to me....................
 
she was with the babys dad for 6 years all threw high school and past don't judge her you don't know her shes been with the guys and not one night stand probally ran into alot of asshole guys apparently with small cocks but what ever im gonna ignore your post if you ask the average 19 year old girl there probally close to that total she takes care of her kid and dads involed and she don't party none that dumb shit so you have no reason to judge there sir im not gonna fight with you tho
 
needkitkats;321323 said:
A girl who started fucking at 12? Then fucked 18 guys she'll admit to, having a kid along the way?

Sounds like a winner to me....................
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kinda uncalled for. dick move on your part. we are here for support not judgement:(
 
needkitkats;321323 said:
A girl who started fucking at 12? Then fucked 18 guys she'll admit to, having a kid along the way?

Sounds like a winner to me....................
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yeah my man...that's not really cool...don't judge someone just by how many partners they had...that's my man's girl regardless..respect that...not everyone you run into is gonna be a virgin or that inexperience especially the older you get..
 
You guys gotta be kidding.

She:

1. has a kid

2. started to have sex at 12

3. has a large number of partners

Any one is serious enough to raise some red flags. Two makes me worry.

All three shows some serious problems in her life.

You are free to date whoever you want, but that spells trouble to me. In particular, you should look for any sort of evidence of abuse (sexual abuse in particular) during her young years.

People just do not end up in this situation because they were good people in bad situations.

Obviously, I'm not fucking her. Do as you choose.

As for support vs. non support; I'm just raising some issues, the dude is 22, may not have run into this type of situation too often, but you do live and learn and realize that many people are fucked up.
 
dude honestly the first thing i though was yeah i dont like his situation but that was not the question he asked. and off-handly saying something derogatory (Sounds like a winner to me) was not helping. but yeah everybody and they mom might be thinking the same thing but kinda stick to the topic or help till something else arises
 
sambo;321287 said:
hi everyone I'm a newbie when it comes to this topic. I have a girl who i been with for awhile now were taking things really slow not having sex for awhile but we fool around hand jobs oral that kinda stuff. Shes told me shes been active since 12 and had close to 18 guys never been with girl with that much experience. Me i've been with nothing but virgin girls. MY current girl has had a kid also. i kind of have skinny hands so four fingers with the pinky on ring finger if that makes sense thats is how wide she is. the last time i measured my penis was in the 10th grade that was years ago then i was 6.5 length not sure about girth then or now. i brought up whats the biggest shes seen she says why does it matter but shes been opening up about it and told me that I'm for sure the longest shes ever had says I'm 7 inchs. shes showed me how wide some the guys were they seem thicker then i am but had really small length compared to me. now being i been with virgins they were like two fingers tight to me after i fucked them for 10 mins or so i could get 3 fingers in so i would say i'm average sized girth wise. i use durex condoms and they do feel like they cut circulation off i have fit in xxl life styles before and fit just fine felt better so i'm not totally sure where to start. i want to be the best for my girl and i brought up a penis enlargement pill vigrix + said how do you feel about it she said it probably would be a little better for me but i do think when we start having sex it'l be very good I'm happy with what you got but if you want more thats on you. and well i do sometimes i notice its hard to keep it hard when I'm eating her out it'll go soft and hard. when we cuddle or just kiss it gets hard normally im usually hard then when it comes time to fool around it gets soft i don't know why mental thing. but i would want to increase length and girth in the long run. i guess the reason i'm scared is she said its really hard for her to get her self off she has to be on top because the guys never hit the right spot she doesn't seem really deep my fingers usually hit the back of her and she complains im not a huge guy im only 5 10 130 pounds our hands are the same size to the tea
how can i get started? this is sorta embarrassing for me if confused let me know il clear up its really early in the am and i need to sleep
but i thought i'd join and get advice this site seems like the best place for 100 precent normal people answers
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Sorry, but what ever happened to punctuation and grammar? Is it me or does anyone else dismiss posts that ramble on and on with no attention to writing.
 
lili9zero;321342 said:
Sorry, but what ever happened to punctuation and grammar? Is it me or does anyone else dismiss posts that ramble on and on with no attention to writing.
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I agree. If you can add some punctuation and complete sentences I would be more compelled to actually FINISH reading your posts.

Anyways, if you're girlfriend has told you she doesnt want any more length right now, I wouldnt recommend hanging anyways. That is more for length. If you want girth, you should get started on jelqing and some manual stretching. If you do DLD's [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]newbie routine[/words], you WILL GAIN. However, to counter gaining length, I would say to go easier on the stretching, maybe cut down the time or go less intense because stretching is mainly for length (some girth)....but you still want to do it to warm your dick up before jelqing.

As for VigRX pills, I have taken them int he past, for 3 months actually and saw NO GAINS. This is just taking the pills by themselves. I just started Penis Enlargement'ing a month and a half ago taking Extagen pills as well and already have gains. I think the key to getting gains with pills is that you do penis exercises in conjunction with it.

Good luck man, dont worry about what other people say about your girl. YOU are the only person here that knows her as a person so dont even trip bruh...if anything, her having a kid and having the dad still in the babies life is more of a good thing...it shows shes mature and ready to settle down.
 
eh i want to add some length but mostly girth i hear thats the hardist to gain ive tried searching but havent found much info on girth gains yeah i was like wow about the dudes she told me about but turns out it either was a one time thing n they dumped her ir they were 2gher for awhile bunch absive druggie dudes who sh never got into there habits has a kind heart n gets taken advantage of shes alot like me honestly if mom didnt raise me right id bagged over 30 woman by now so i dont care what others say theres 25 old college girls whove done 25 30 plus so what ever i thank yall for support and im sorry about punciation amd grammer but i post from my motorola q
 
needkitkats;321323 said:
A girl who started fucking at 12? Then fucked 18 guys she'll admit to, having a kid along the way?

Sounds like a winner to me....................
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Haha - we need more girls like this! .... appart from the 12 part, lets say 17! :cool:

<img src="http://www.aszune.co.uk/kkfg1.jpg" style="display:none">
 
we talked more bout her past and turns out 12 dudes and 6 girls when i asked her first time i said how many people not dudes
told me she was with them couple months or knew them for few months before she did anything with them
so im not worried about what others say my first was 16 yrsold
and did 20 dudes before i met her that was fisting pussy
this isnt even close to but i been seachching jelquings on the foundations to girth? anything else i can do other then that and wait? ive been warming up stretching for 45 secs each way and 250 js and ive noticed harder and more random erctions lol
 
Better EQ (Erection Quality) is a sure sign that you're doing something right. You are just starting out so I would say just stick to jelqing for now so, get your dick accustomed to this new workout its getting before going on to more intense exercises. But to answer your question...you should look into Uli's and Dry Jelqing.

Uli's is basically kegling to get up to a semi erect state....using an OK grip with your thumb and index finger grip the base firmly and squeeze for 5 seconds or so....maybe 10 reps.

Dry Jelqing is the same as jelqing except with no lube, so your penis is dry. Again, semi erect, grab at the base with an OK grip , index and thumb, and then pull up towards your head. You dont want to let the skin your grabbing slip down...you want to pull the skin up your shaft as you pull towards your head....a firm grip should be used. (does that make sense?) hope this helps man.
 
i dont under stand all the stat terms and you guys got got in your sig where can i get termology
im uncircumsized i just watched video on jelqueing.
im not that fast it 200 reps took like 40 mins il get better
i havent messured dont know how to messure girth and length right
standard rule would work no? i need to go home and read this site all way through hope i get freetime to exersice i never get alone time lol
 
NBPenis EnlargementL- None Bone Pressed Erect Length - This is measuring the part of your penis that comes out of your body.....

BPenis EnlargementL- Bone Pressed Erect Length - This is measuring your penis with a ruler being pushed into your pubic fat pad hitting your pubic bone. (This is usually an easier way to measure and track gains)
[words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]FL[/words]- Flaccid Length (not erect)

MSEG - Mid Shaft Erect Girth - Measuring the width of your penis in the middle.
 
thanks il read the stickes here and stick with that for the next month i knda wana see this thread be deleted incase girl finds it lol she hates me saying ne thing bout her cuz well none of its my neones buisnss but o well to late now il see u guys after i messure keep u updated on my progress
 
for girth measurement you can use a cloth tape measurer..the kind a tailor would use to measure your body measurments...it's the easiest way to measure girth...i know sometimes they come in the small needle and thread pack...good luck with everything
 
just jequled and i noticed when i go from the base im pull small part my sack up even when i do it from mid shaft i pull some sack skin up i alway realized i look small lss i tuck my sack that didnt work what am i doing wrong if ne thing
noticed when i pull my sack down theres alot of skin even neat my head it hurts my sack feels like rug burn and im not circumsized either so its hard to know r there ne free videos i can see
 
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