Small Girth Woes

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Hey Y'all,

I'm fine with my 6 inch length... but I'm here to enlarge my penis from my current 4.3 - 4.5 inch girth to edge it closer to 5 inches girth.

The reason why I want to do this is because I'm not sure I feel confident enough with my size to do anything sexually with my new female friend due to condom issues and how she'd react etc. etc.

I'm 19 and haven't had much experience in the bedroom so I suppose it could just be nerves due to inexperience, but how worried should I be!?

Is it typical to have such a girth, should I leave it and see if I grow further? I don't know anyone else who has trouble buying condoms.... <:( My penis must be bloody small!

Everyone says that you shouldn't be worried because if a girl doesn't like you for who you are and just your penis size - they're not worth knowing! But I feel that it's probably not as easy as that.

I'm going to give everything a go here because at least if I give it a go I can't say that I haven't tried!

I suppose I'm looking for other peoples experiences in the bedroom with similar penis size issues or anything that you may have heard from others with a similar penis size.

I apologise if I've just drowned you with questions, thank you for any personal accounts or information.

Ahhhh being a teenager is such a hormonal mess... lol

Thanks for any comments
 
I guess it's a bit of a large post to read on a forum and stay interested lol.

What I really want to know is can you actually satisfy a woman with 4.4 inch Girth!?

How small is too small...

Thanks again
 
According to some women, its not about size but how much feelings they have for the person their with. Some Women say you can be huge and if they don't feel anything for them really the sex aint shit apparently... Which I believe.

But I could see what you mean and feel how you do though. I would want to do the same thing but I'm currently going with what I saw DLD doing with Girth Busters, Bends and [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-forum/12539-slow-squash-jelq-nothing-give-me-better-expansion.html]Slow squash jelq[/words]. The Slow Squash does good for girth i've experienced.
 
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First of all, lose the insecurity. Next, jump into Slow Squash Jelqs and create a NEW security!
 
Yo dude we have about as close a situation as it gets – so I’m about to open up – hope you don’t mind.
So I’m 19, my dick is 6x4.5inches, and I’m inexperienced in fucking because of my insecurities.
The odd thing about my situation is everyone thinks I get laid all the time and knowing/talking to me you would probably think the same. Not to brag, but I’m a pretty popular and good looking guy and girls are into me so I could get laid all the time but my insecurities hold me back. Not only do I feel my dick is undersized but when I do go to fuck a girl she most likely (depending on if I know her) thinks I’m pretty experienced and good in bed, which isn’t the case (experience anyway).
I’ve only fucked one girl, it was one of my exes (we had been broken up for a while) and I was pretty pathetic; I was so nervous I wasn’t fully hard and I only lasted about 4 minutes haha, but I’m not worried about it because that sounds like nearly every dudes first time.
My insecurities have put a damper on every relationship I’ve been in because the girl always wants to fuck and I shy away and they always think something is wrong like I’m not into them – I bet some think I’m gay haha – I’m not just to put that out there ha.
Lately it’s caused problems with this one beautiful girl who I’ve had this thing with since I’ve known her and have never sealed the deal because of my insecurities. We have hooked up a lot and she always really enjoys it (she’s told me this and I can just tell from her reactions) but I’ve only stuck my meat in her a couple times (only for a minute or so) and she’s given me a mouth hug (only for a minute or so) and all these times we were drunk. Every time though I back out because my insecurities get the better of me – what if I don’t last long enough, what if she thinks I’m not big enough or good enough? And I especially don’t want her to think these things because that would be devastating to me because I’m really into her. But in retrospect that was all stupid because she has seen/felt my dick and afterwards at different times still has practically begged me to fuck her and would get upset/think something was wrong with her when I would feed her some bullshit excuse. And she is a real cool and gorgeous blonde who could get any guy she wanted and I say that because it shows that our size is at the least adequate and can get the job done (and please remember we are in the average range).
So, with all that said, my advice to you is to go ahead and fuck this girl you are talking about. Just be honest with her and tell her you are inexperienced. Hell, she might even like that – the fact that you aren’t some womanizer and that she could teach you a couple things/be a memorable part of your life.
Just remember with girls (and guys too – but really only in the confidence/erection aspect and not the pleasure aspect) it’s nearly all mental. The girl has to be into you to enjoy it and you have to be enjoying her and be comfortable for her to enjoy it and be into you. But also remember that girls respond to touching/grabbing/pressing/kissing areas besides their genitalia, like their neck, thighs, etc. a whole hell of a lot more than guys do. So get some of that in and that will up the percentage of her enjoying it – so will being generous in the oral department for her and if you don’t know what you’re doing down there, ask her to guide you or what she likes – she will most likely be more than happy to teach you.
But as far as Penis Enlargement goes – it can’t do anything but good. Hell – we are so similar in size I say you and I compete/share info and ideas to get the best out of this – I only just finished my first week of the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]newbie routine[/words]. Maybe we could do different routines and see which one sees better gains and share it with [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] and that would help everyone out.
But yo it’s also good to keep all this in perspective – We are too dudes worried about our dicks not being big enough when there are children starving on this planet so be thankful for what you got (not saying you aren’t though) and just know it could be a lot worse.
But good luck to you and your penis adventures – hope all this shit I just talked helped.
RighteousDick
 
Hey RighteousDick,

Thanks for your interesting and all revealing account of your troubles.

I feel like I am living with a split personality under the username 'RighteousDick' as you are in practically the same situation that I am in! haha

I have also gone all of my life shying away from sex.

I am also like yourself... You wouldn't know to look at me that I am insecure about anything. I spoke to my best friend and he has also said "There's no way that anyone would guess you're a virgin"!!

If I had grown a penis that I could put a condom on and not worry about it I wouldn't even have been curious about my penis size! If I can get the girth up to hold an average size condom then all of my insecurities will go away. Do you have trouble buying condoms?

Most of my friends think that I'm really picky about which females I go for... but the truth is that I just can't commit because of my penis size issues and inexperience.

I think that I'm going to have to take this new girl out for a drink (or 12 lol) and give myself the confidence to reveal myself and for us to explore each other's bodies. If our relationship survives that I'll assume that she's not really bothered.

This however will not stop my mission to enlarge my penis a bit... if this really does work.

I'm going to start the beginner routine tonight and some of these Slow Squash Jelqs, we shall definitely have to compare results!

Have you started a routine yet? Do you have trouble buying condoms that fit right?

Thanks man!! :)
 
Hey guys. I read your stories, so I thought I really would need to give you some of my wisdom rofl Hope this cheers you up, and you start to having sex.

For me it has always been difficult to be naked with other guys (not to mention girls) around, like in gym's shower, or naked swimming. Army really was a killing place for my self-esteem, as noticed that there is only few guys from a hundred, who has verifiably smaller penis, than mine. I sometimes had very bad panic reactions, felt like suffocating.

However, I've always been lucky with women. I had few drunk-fucking-experiences, when I started my first little longer sexual relationship. I was 16. She always praised me, told me good things about not being some fucking-robot, and with her I started to last longer than 4 minutes rofl She always had an orgasm(s)...after I started to last longer of course. Back then it was a great boost for my self-esteem, because she had much more experience, and she had been with older guys before me.

With my wife, I have always had a good connection. We always talk about anything, including our sexual desires, and that is the key, if you ever want to be satisfied with anyone. You need to tell her what you like, and if you're coming too fast, tell her about that too. Stop for a moment, and kiss her in meanwhile. Don't forget to listen her desires too. Girls like to have a massage and kisses all over their bodies. Some don't like you to lick their clit, or sucking their nipples...I know, it's unbeliveble...still can't believe it :O They don't want to fall in sleep right after having a sex, but they want you to sleek them to the sleep.

I'm pretty sure, that at least in your age, your size is even more irrelevant issue, than it is in mine. And I'm doing way better than fine with my wife, even thou she has gave birth three times (I'm not saying that she is loose because of that, but it affects a little U know).

So, maybe we are all exaggerating this size issue, I know that I am. I just can't help myself, that I won't accept anything average in me.
 
Just realized, that this was still not the answer for finding comdoms that fit. You need to check if there is information on some condom brand's webpage, check your local major brands. I've always used "normal sized" condoms, but others are more tight than others. Those cheap packages, as sold in many sex shops, are usually slightly larger, and they don't glide that well. You may also want to try a cock ring, because it can boost your girth a little.
 
Yeah its weird Cult that our situations are so similar - no wonder we both found our way to [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words]
To answer your questions:
1) The condom question im afraid I can't be much help in because everytime that I have stuck my dick in a girl I wasn't wearing one - either because she was on birth control (as the case with my ex) or the other girl just wasn't worried about it because she was most likely gonna swallow it instead of me cumming inside her (which would have been awesome but I let my fears get the better of me - but she could have been on birth control too). But I have have put a condom on once and I do feel like it wasn't as snug as it should have been, but I also feel like once you have the condom on and then you stick it in the girl and it gets wet it creates a tighter fit. They do make smaller condoms if you would prefer and I know you can order them online if you are still worried about it.
2) And yes I have started the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]newbie routine[/words] - yesterday (sunday, July 20) was my first rest day of my first week so today is the first day of my second week so I'm not that far into it. My routine is as follows:
Morning:
6 minute warm-up
Tennis ball kegels
Stretching
Testicle Health
6 minute warm-down
Evening:
6 minute warm-up
Wally-Wall-Ups
300 wet Jelqs
Testicle Health
6 minute warm&#8212;down
I have split the routine into morning and evening because I had this fluid like build-up under the skin right beneath the left side of my glans and I guess its caused by too much stress to the area so I split the work in half to give it time to heal/rest.
Also I probly will change this routine a little by adding some stronger girth exercises but I am going to wait another week or two so as to give my dick some time to adjust to all this stress.
Lastly, I think you're right in going ahead with this girl because not only will it give you experience but also if you're into her and she's into you then it would be stupid to not pursue it - thats always been my problem and I now understand I can't keep doing that.
But a drink is probably a good idea because it does calm your nerves and loosens the vibe but haha 12 is probably not a good idea because you don't want to be too drunk to where you can't preform and you might catch liquor dick - which is never fun.
But anyway good luck brother
 
Hey there,

I'm in a pretty similar position to you too. I have BPenis EnlargementL 6 and an EG of about 4.7. I've pretty much always been pretty insecure about it.

It's super annoying because like RighteousDick, i'm a pretty popular, good looking guy and i've always had a lot of good friends but i've always had this deep insecurity because of my size.

I've slept with quite a lot of girls and managed to get a fairly ok level of confidence through learning how to please girls through amazing oral sex and manual stimulation, dirty talk, g-spot massage and squirting etc. A number of girls have told me i'm good in bed but despite everything I still am super insecure deep down. I hate peeing in bars and would never skinny dip if there are other guys around. I would love to just not give a fuck.

Also, whenever i'm in a relationship I find myself worrying if the girl is cheating on me or if she's wanting another guy who's bigger.

I mainly have started this to help my insecurities and confidence. It honestly might not make a huge difference to my current girlfriend but I know it will help my life immeasurably.

So anyway, i've been doing this for about four days with a [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]newbie routine[/words] and just bought a membership. Let's see what happens.....
 
Hey Putzaras,

In England they seem to sell Durex everywhere.... these are generally Nominal width 56mm and these are really slack on me!

If I get the 52mm ones which are the Durex Sensitive condoms it is debatable whether they would stay on me properly during intercourse.

I only need a bit more girth and I'll be fine!
 
well i have the sam issue with you , my penis being 15 cm bpel and 11,8-12 cm around. but still it depends you can roll an condom on. if you want a tigther fit here is the trick, put the condom backwards (that is from the other side) on your penis
 
Hello guys! I was just going to shut my computer and go to sleep but then I saw this thread and had to answer shortly. I mean, it`s amazing how similar thoughts you guys seem to have. Check out my thoughts in newbie forum, in thread "Just starting, should I tell her.." I`m pretty good with girls also, I`m mean I have no problems to get their attention, even the hot ones. But I`ve always been so insecure about my size (about 6inch bpel, and 4,5-4,7 eg). And yes, I know the most important thing is to be happy with yourself and the size doesn`t matter so much but how you use it etc..But the feeling is just so deep inside me that it`s damn hard to deal with. AND I have this one problem, and would be interested if you guys have sometimes felt the same: In bed I`m so stressed about my size that I at least want my penis to be rock hard. And when I think "come on, be rock hard, it certainly isn`t. You know, the more you think of it, the more soft it gets. And, being stressed often makes me last pretty short time.

Yeah, I`d like to say a lot more but have to go to sleep now. Talk to you later. And, remember to keep positive! If you really realise that you can`t compeletely accept you`re size, then this is the right place. Take your destiny in your hands and make your penis bigger! cheers:)
 
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I feel you. I really have the same insecurities as you. I just met with my x-girlfriend two times last week. We really are good friends, and talk about everything.

We were together for 2 years, and broke up like a year ago ( I'll be 18 soon ). So, I've grown a bit since I've seen her ( hight etc ). She sees me having more facial hair etc, so she asks me " Have you gotten a big penis? " I'm like, " EHydromax, it has gotten bigger ". And it has, but no much really. So that's why I'm here, hoping to make gains!!
 
Cult you should try those Durex sensitive condoms. I have some and they are a good bit tighter than regular condoms. I bet they would work just fine.
 
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I feel you. I really have the same insecurities as you. I just met with my x-girlfriend two times last week. We really are good friends, and talk about everything.

We were together for 2 years, and broke up like a year ago ( I'll be 18 soon ). So, I've grown a bit since I've seen her ( hight etc ). She sees me having more facial hair etc, so she asks me " Have you gotten a big penis? " I'm like, " EHydromax, it has gotten bigger ". And it has, but no much really. So that's why I'm here, hoping to make gains!!
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Well, at 18 you still have a couple years of natural growth. Helping that along with Penis Enlargement will make it so much more. Remember, a girl at that age, does not mean harm, she is growing (JUST LIKE YOU.)
 
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