To the age old question does penis size matter I feel I may have stumbled on to a partial answer to this question that seems to haunt all men.
As you may or may not know I had penis enlargement surgery. Before surgery I was about 6.5 erect (NBP) and not quite 6 inches girth.
Now according to most studies I was above average and I never had any complaints size wise.
Now after surgery I am almost 7 inches erect and over 7 inches girth and here is what I have found.
Before surgery all of my former girl friends I had dated told me I was crazy didn't need it and so on. My current gf at the time said NO WAY she was afraid it would ruin our great sex life.
After the surgery my GF actualy broke up with me because she felt I did it because of her and for many reasons so I slept around with quite a few of my ex girl friends and girls I met.
One ex said it felt better being bigger and said "it looks better too..." as it turned her on more. The length hurts her when I thrust hard, but she LOVED the girth. She has a shallow vagina but more loose.
Second ex said it hurts but she eventually loosens up, but that it's painful now til she stretches to accomodate it and before it wasn't this bad, but she says her orgasms are no better nor does it truly feel better nor does she have any more, but she too is turned on by looking at it and says I am now HUGE! She also said anal is agonizing pain, but did it for me, although we had never done it before and she wad only the 3rd woman I have ever done that with.
Third ex GF said girth took a while to get used to and was uncomfortable at first. She has never commented one way or another as to her opinions of the new me. She seems to not want to talk about the subject for whatever reason
Fourth a new gf was freaked out about my size when she saw it and it hurt her the whole time and while she had orgasms she said she could never totally relax while we had sex and was always afraid a hard thrust would pound into her even though I tried to be gentle and she said the girth was uncomfortable even as she tried to relax. She didn't know I had surgery I didn't tell her. She said it was too big.
Now this is where my theory comes in. Before, with the 3 ex gf's our sex life had been great, now that I am much bigger sex is still good, but it did take them awhile to adjust.
If they sleep with someone much smaller than me, the chances are they will still have good sex, but knowing they can take bigger and with all the comments about the visual appeal I propose that inside they will wish, to varying degrees of desire, that their new BF is as big as I am now.
I think size does NOT matter "UNLESS" a woman has experienced pleasureable sex with a larger man. They may still have good sex, but that they will miss the size.
If you are the biggest a woman has ever had, even at 5 X 5, I truly think she doesn't desire you to have a bigger penis and I truly beleive she is honest when she says she is happy with your size. However if you are NOT the biggest and the experience with the bigger penis was NOT painful then I think deep down inside she most likely will wish you were bigger.
One of the girls I mentioned actually told me she's afraid I spoiled/ruined her.
As a side note EVERY ex GF who has had the before and after me does NOT want me to get a second surgery. This is the same thing they said before the first surgery.
They all initially had difficulty with the girth, but with the exception of ONE of them, they all handle the bigger girth like they did my smaller girth.
My hunch is if I do have second enlargement that I will have the same results.
Bottom line to my theory is; size matters only if they had pleasureable sex with someone significantly larger (emphasis on significant or noticeably larger) and that their experience was not painful sex as every woman who I have spoken with who has had painful sex, because of the man's size, does NOT want to repeat that event.
Anyone care to comment or add to this I appreciate it.
So if you're the biggest relax, if not much of a difference relax, and even if a lot smaller and she is having multiple orgasms well relax as a bigger dick isn't going to cause her to have more of them.
If he was bigger and the sex was great and you aren't getting the job done then yes size is probably an issue, but you can do something about that.
I also think the fact I had such instant dramatic results lends credence to my theory.
In other words it was the same man looks wise, money, talents, body, character, personality, etc. It was the same ME, except my penis had grown by a bit over 1/2 an inch erect and over 1 inch in girth in a very short time and they could compare the new me with the old and I could assess their reactions..
While not scientific I do see merit in my opinion/theory.
As you may or may not know I had penis enlargement surgery. Before surgery I was about 6.5 erect (NBP) and not quite 6 inches girth.
Now according to most studies I was above average and I never had any complaints size wise.
Now after surgery I am almost 7 inches erect and over 7 inches girth and here is what I have found.
Before surgery all of my former girl friends I had dated told me I was crazy didn't need it and so on. My current gf at the time said NO WAY she was afraid it would ruin our great sex life.
After the surgery my GF actualy broke up with me because she felt I did it because of her and for many reasons so I slept around with quite a few of my ex girl friends and girls I met.
One ex said it felt better being bigger and said "it looks better too..." as it turned her on more. The length hurts her when I thrust hard, but she LOVED the girth. She has a shallow vagina but more loose.
Second ex said it hurts but she eventually loosens up, but that it's painful now til she stretches to accomodate it and before it wasn't this bad, but she says her orgasms are no better nor does it truly feel better nor does she have any more, but she too is turned on by looking at it and says I am now HUGE! She also said anal is agonizing pain, but did it for me, although we had never done it before and she wad only the 3rd woman I have ever done that with.
Third ex GF said girth took a while to get used to and was uncomfortable at first. She has never commented one way or another as to her opinions of the new me. She seems to not want to talk about the subject for whatever reason
Fourth a new gf was freaked out about my size when she saw it and it hurt her the whole time and while she had orgasms she said she could never totally relax while we had sex and was always afraid a hard thrust would pound into her even though I tried to be gentle and she said the girth was uncomfortable even as she tried to relax. She didn't know I had surgery I didn't tell her. She said it was too big.
Now this is where my theory comes in. Before, with the 3 ex gf's our sex life had been great, now that I am much bigger sex is still good, but it did take them awhile to adjust.
If they sleep with someone much smaller than me, the chances are they will still have good sex, but knowing they can take bigger and with all the comments about the visual appeal I propose that inside they will wish, to varying degrees of desire, that their new BF is as big as I am now.
I think size does NOT matter "UNLESS" a woman has experienced pleasureable sex with a larger man. They may still have good sex, but that they will miss the size.
If you are the biggest a woman has ever had, even at 5 X 5, I truly think she doesn't desire you to have a bigger penis and I truly beleive she is honest when she says she is happy with your size. However if you are NOT the biggest and the experience with the bigger penis was NOT painful then I think deep down inside she most likely will wish you were bigger.
One of the girls I mentioned actually told me she's afraid I spoiled/ruined her.
As a side note EVERY ex GF who has had the before and after me does NOT want me to get a second surgery. This is the same thing they said before the first surgery.
They all initially had difficulty with the girth, but with the exception of ONE of them, they all handle the bigger girth like they did my smaller girth.
My hunch is if I do have second enlargement that I will have the same results.
Bottom line to my theory is; size matters only if they had pleasureable sex with someone significantly larger (emphasis on significant or noticeably larger) and that their experience was not painful sex as every woman who I have spoken with who has had painful sex, because of the man's size, does NOT want to repeat that event.
Anyone care to comment or add to this I appreciate it.
So if you're the biggest relax, if not much of a difference relax, and even if a lot smaller and she is having multiple orgasms well relax as a bigger dick isn't going to cause her to have more of them.
If he was bigger and the sex was great and you aren't getting the job done then yes size is probably an issue, but you can do something about that.
I also think the fact I had such instant dramatic results lends credence to my theory.
In other words it was the same man looks wise, money, talents, body, character, personality, etc. It was the same ME, except my penis had grown by a bit over 1/2 an inch erect and over 1 inch in girth in a very short time and they could compare the new me with the old and I could assess their reactions..
While not scientific I do see merit in my opinion/theory.
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