NoFap no Pornography Accountability Thread

[DLD]

This is a thread that I am creating for those who are struggling with either pornography or masturbation issues (or both) and want to stop these behaviors. I have spent much time reading ways to stop masturbation and pornography and I have to say, most of these things will never help. I have found some things that do help for me, but much of what I use to deter these issues is based in my deep belief and love for Jesus. But when I look at my methods I do see room for those who do not believe to still use the benefits of such. I will post these in my next post.

So every time you slip up you come to this thread and we will hold each other accountable. Having to admit to one another the struggles we are having will always lead to a quicker recovery. Now, do not get down on yourself, I do not expect anyone to be successful at first, you will fall but we will be there to help you up. So this thread is not so much a challenge than a support group. We have many Brothers who will support this cause and through our collective power this thread will serve to help so many in the future.

 

[DLD]

I will be the first to post my timeline of success. It has been 2 days since I have watched adult entertainment and masturbated. I felt extremely ashamed after and the guilt was so great I ran to the first friend I saw and admitted my fall. The shame was so great that I started to search out ways to refrain from this continuous win/lose situation. My way to stop this is very simple and, in my case, extremely effective. Again, I base everything I do in the Lords eyes so if you are not a believer that is fine but my methods may still help. This is NOT a religious thread, this is a thread to help Brothers become disciplined and accountable to the Family and seek help in the times of failure.

 

[Big Schwanz Acht]

Guilt and Shame are two of the most Toxic emotions that can erode one's self-esteem quicker and with more damage than any other. I've always been a free and positive thinker/believer and do NOT adhere to societal claims that drinking/drugs/adult entertainment/etc. are vices or activities that should be shunned. On the contrary, my tenets allow for any/all behaviors that do no harm to others and don't have a negative impact on your life as positive experiences. Now, once these behaviors begin to have unwanted repercussions, then it's time to evaluate/adjust/eliminate as needed.

Mike's friend made a statement about privilege and I'll take it many steps forward...everything you do is a privilege, once it becomes a problem you no longer get that privilege. This seems very simple on it's face, almost too simple, but extrapolated to encompass your life it becomes a much deeper statement...almost a 'life-map'.

So eliminate guilt and shame from the equation, live fully, make mistakes, apologize quickly and sincerely, learn every day and treat all that you encounter with respect (most importantly yourself)!

BTW, I jerked-off on a girls boobs yesterday...felt great no guilt

 

[orgasmic19]

Just what I needed. Since having two weeks off from PE I reverted back to my old habits of adult entertainment and masturbation. I been trying to beat adult entertainment addiction for sometime now.

 

[LONGERDICK7+]

Guilt and Shame are two of the most Toxic emotions that can erode one's self-esteem quicker and with more damage than any other. I've always been a free and positive thinker/believer and do NOT adhere to societal claims that drinking/drugs/adult entertainment/etc. are vices or activities that should be shunned. On the contrary, my tenets allow for any/all behaviors that do no harm to others and don't have a negative impact on your life as positive experiences. Now, once these behaviors begin to have unwanted repercussions, then it's time to evaluate/adjust/eliminate as needed.

Mike's friend made a statement about privilege and I'll take it many steps forward...everything you do is a privilege, once it becomes a problem you no longer get that privilege. This seems very simple on it's face, almost too simple, but extrapolated to encompass your life it becomes a much deeper statement...almost a 'life-map'.

So eliminate guilt and shame from the equation, live fully, make mistakes, apologize quickly and sincerely, learn every day and treat all that you encounter with respect (most importantly yourself)!

BTW, I jerked-off on a girls boobs yesterday...felt great no guilt

interestin views and they can be a perfect way to let us know when that ""privilege"" is not a privilege anymore, and turns into a harmful situation or habit.

The hard part is being aware and realize when things can get wrong.

 

[Big Schwanz Acht]

The hard part is being aware and realize when things can get wrong.

And that's the trick! Perhaps this thread can be a touching-point for Brothers that feel 'out-of-control' whereby we can reign-in dangerous behavior before it becomes untenable

 

[LONGERDICK7+]

i dont think id be able to stop masturbation completely,i dont have someone to have intimacy whit, and the lack of privacy i have is terrible..

But yeah i have try to decrease the number of days i jerk off..lol

 

[kyomoto]

Just what I needed. Since having two weeks off from PE I reverted back to my old habits of adult entertainment and masturbation. I been trying to beat adult entertainment addiction for sometime now.

A lot of us are. Sometimes when you even do it rarely you get hooked in one session. It's happened to me when I've done monthly masturbation and one time i was really addicted and did it for 4 days straight. I felt really bad but now I'm back to monthly.

 

[Big Schwanz Acht]

i dont think id be able to stop masturbation completely,i dont have someone to have intimacy whit, and the lack of privacy i have is terrible..

But yeah i have try to decrease the number of days i jerk off..lol

Why do you think you need to either stop or slow-down? Is your life negatively impacted by it? Any friends or loved ones harmed because of it? Is it inhibiting you from doing/getting the things you want? Those would be some of the questions I'd ask before walking down the road of shame/guilt.

Sometimes self-acceptance is the hardest part

 

[the boss!]

Why do you think you need to either stop or slow-down? Is your life negatively impacted by it? Any friends or loved ones harmed because of it? Is it inhibiting you from doing/getting the things you want? Those would be some of the questions I'd ask before walking down the road of shame/guilt.

Sometimes self-acceptance is the hardest part

Right ! there's no guilt or shame in it
But let's see it as what it is, addiction/self destructive habbit.

PE definitely helped me with these habbit, my motto of gains is bigger than my addiction.

So that's something I learned! Find your "motivation" your "WHY"
And if your "why" is a stronger motivation than your habbit,you are not gonna fall back again.

So if I stop PE'ing (which is not happening) i know my "why" is hair loss (that's another factor most of us are not aware of)

 

[Commodore]

one very good reason for not masturbate to much is bc you are doing girth exercise all the time. Then its not good to ejaculate every day... unless you are 19 years old.

 

[LONGERDICK7+]

Why do you think you need to either stop or slow-down? Is your life negatively impacted by it? Any friends or loved ones harmed because of it? Is it inhibiting you from doing/getting the things you want? Those would be some of the questions I'd ask before walking down the road of shame/guilt.

Sometimes self-acceptance is the hardest part

mmm yeah good question lol but i dont think id quit completely lol i dont think im having a negative impact maybe the physical part getting tired after a session haha.

no lovd ones either friends have been harmed because of masturbation at all..

The strange thing is that i have never felt guilty because of masturbation..

 

[seven_wants_ten]

Your Brain On adult entertainment

Probably some pseudo-science there, but the principals are sound. Essentially, your brain has not evolved to handle virtually unlimited quantity and variety of sexual stimulation.

 

[huge-girth]

one very good reason for not masturbate to much is bc you are doing girth exercise all the time. Then its not good to ejaculate every day... unless you are 19 years old.

In about two occasions I have read on here on the forum when someone said there are days when you get big temporary expansion from doing girth work and there are other days when you don't get big expansion. It happened to me too but I think it is because we masturbate daily while doing girth work. I will try to do girth work for one week without masturbating and see if my expansions will be the same at all time.

 

[huge-girth]

mmm yeah good question lol but i dont think id quit completely lol i dont think im having a negative impact maybe the physical part getting tired after a session haha.

no lovd ones either friends have been harmed because of masturbation at all..

The strange thing is that i have never felt guilty because of masturbation..

You are guilty. You have not slayed any pussy for more than a year. That's one bad thing with masturbation.

 

[templnite]

Your Brain On adult entertainment

Probably some pseudo-science there, but the principals are sound. Essentially, your brain has not evolved to handle virtually unlimited quantity and variety of sexual stimulation.

Ninety percent adult entertainment consumers are male and even king David sinned because he saw key word a naked bitch. Its the main downfall of males visual stimulation, chiks get turned on in other way that suck because adult entertainment so easy to watch.

 

[LONGERDICK7+]

You are guilty. You have not slayed any pussy for more than a year. That's one bad thing with masturbation.


haha if that was a crime wonder how many men would be in jail...lol but yeah the funny part is that we exercise and we want to get bigger but pussy is away and doesnt give a fuck hahahaha

 

[huge-girth]

You are guilty. You have not slayed any pussy for more than a year. That's one bad thing with masturbation.


haha if that was a crime wonder how many men would be in jail...lol but yeah the funny part is that we exercise and we want to get bigger but pussy is away and doesnt give a fuck hahahaha

I'm guilty too

 

[k80589]

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[k80589]

This is a thread that I am creating for those who are struggling with either pornography or masturbation issues (or both) and want to stop these behaviors. I have spent much time reading ways to stop masturbation and pornography and I have to say, most of these things will never help. I have found some things that do help for me, but much of what I use to deter these issues is based in my deep belief and love for Jesus. But when I look at my methods I do see room for those who do not believe to still use the benefits of such. I will post these in my next post.

So every time you slip up you come to this thread and we will hold each other accountable. Having to admit to one another the struggles we are having will always lead to a quicker recovery. Now, do not get down on yourself, I do not expect anyone to be successful at first, you will fall but we will be there to help you up. So this thread is not so much a challenge than a support group. We have many Brothers who will support this cause and through our collective power this thread will serve to help so many in the future.

Hi DLD, I am a Christian, too, and have been thinking about this for quite some time. Is masturbation wrong? I grew up Catholic, so I'm engrained to feel guilt and shame for many things that aren't even biblical. Not a knock on the Catholic faith, but a truth that I've found exists in the Catholic religion- shame and guilt result from the religion's approach to sin and man's relationship with God.

I have since come to learn more bible-based truths found in the Gospel: Christ's blood covers all sin, nothing can separate us from the love of God, and shame and guilt are never from God but rather are attempts from the devil to cause man to condemn ourselves and never feel worthy of God's love. And this is just a downright lie.

With that, I know that God loves each of us and nothing can ever change that, but I still want to please God and never offend Him. So I struggle with the issue of masturbation. The only biblical reference doesn't really speak to masturbation, but rather a brother's broken covenant with his deceased brother.

Where do you stand on this? Is it possible to do PE without masturbating? Should we try?

Thanks in advance for broaching this subject!

 

[LONGERDICK7+]

PE can lead to masturbation sometimes girth exercises are the ones that could take you there,I have done girth exercises and i havent masturbated.

Sounds simple but just dont do it and the problem is solved youd get used to that...

 

[kyomoto]

PE can lead to masturbation sometimes girth exercises are the ones that could take you there,I have done girth exercises and i havent masturbated.

Sounds simple but just dont do it and the problem is solved youd get used to that...

I feel like im obligated not to masturbate every training session because I mentally trick myself that if i do i will lose gains. Its helped so far.

 

[DLD]

Hi DLD, I am a Christian, too, and have been thinking about this for quite some time. Is masturbation wrong? I grew up Catholic, so I'm engrained to feel guilt and shame for many things that aren't even biblical. Not a knock on the Catholic faith, but a truth that I've found exists in the Catholic religion- shame and guilt result from the religion's approach to sin and man's relationship with God.

I have since come to learn more bible-based truths found in the Gospel: Christ's blood covers all sin, nothing can separate us from the love of God, and shame and guilt are never from God but rather are attempts from the devil to cause man to condemn ourselves and never feel worthy of God's love. And this is just a downright lie.

With that, I know that God loves each of us and nothing can ever change that, but I still want to please God and never offend Him. So I struggle with the issue of masturbation. The only biblical reference doesn't really speak to masturbation, but rather a brother's broken covenant with his deceased brother.

Where do you stand on this? Is it possible to do PE without masturbating? Should we try?

Thanks in advance for broaching this subject!

There is nothing wrong with masturbation where it becomes a sin for Christians is when we start to objectify women to satisfy a carnal desire. There is nothing wrong with appreciating God's wonderful work and even lusting for it. Where things become a sin is when you begin to covet, commit adultery or fornication. The steps from lust to coveting are easy to see after the fact. So are you able to masturbate while thinking on nothing at all? If you have a wife do you think this would be appropriate? Where do you draw the line between innocent lusting and coveting? These are all questions that you will need to answer and be accountable to Jesus with.

I am a Catholic but in a very different way than modern Catholicism. I see Jesus Christ as my Pope, I see the church as the Body of Christ (meaning all members who believe), I say my own masses and when I confess I confess to my friends and Jesus, not to some priest. So for me I do not carry the Catholic guilt and shame, as it is said. I believe in the original bases of the Apostolithic faith. But, it should be understood that after you have sinned God is not putting you in shame or putting you into a place of guilt, that is satan. Jesus wants us to run to Him with our sins, the devil wants to accuse us and keep us in shame so we will not go to Jesus. So when you feel shame or guilt STOP and realize where it is coming from and from there pray to Jesus for forgiveness.

 

[DLD]

Thanks to the many replies on this thread. This is not about religion, it is about accountability to those who want to quit watching adult entertainment or tapper or eliminate masturbation. I have always told men that visual stimulation is important but gain it from the most innocent form you can.

So far for myself it has been 5 days without adult entertainment or masturbation. I am staying to have sexual dreams so I know the temptations are all still there. During the day my strategy of seeing women as family has eliminated most of my lusting. I still notice and appreciate the beauty of women but I do not linger on it. I have a good understanding of myself now, well better than before. I know that full out adult entertainment slavery does not start at that point, it is the tiny steps to that point. As I said, everything in moderation but if you find yourself submerged into hours of adult entertainment and masturbation you need to start practicing discipline. Ultimately adult entertainment will bring men to objectifying women.

 

[k80589]

There is nothing wrong with masturbation where it becomes a sin for Christians is when we start to objectify women to satisfy a carnal desire. There is nothing wrong with appreciating God's wonderful work and even lusting for it. Where things become a sin is when you begin to covet, commit adultery or fornication. The steps from lust to coveting are easy to see after the fact. So are you able to masturbate while thinking on nothing at all? If you have a wife do you think this would be appropriate? Where do you draw the line between innocent lusting and coveting? These are all questions that you will need to answer and be accountable to Jesus with.

I am a Catholic but in a very different way than modern Catholicism. I see Jesus Christ as my Pope, I see the church as the Body of Christ (meaning all members who believe), I say my own masses and when I confess I confess to my friends and Jesus, not to some priest. So for me I do not carry the Catholic guilt and shame, as it is said. I believe in the original bases of the Apostolithic faith. But, it should be understood that after you have sinned God is not putting you in shame or putting you into a place of guilt, that is satan. Jesus wants us to run to Him with our sins, the devil wants to accuse us and keep us in shame so we will not go to Jesus. So when you feel shame or guilt STOP and realize where it is coming from and from there pray to Jesus for forgiveness.

Well said, DLD. Thanks for sharing your perspective!

 

[templnite]

There is nothing wrong with masturbation where it becomes a sin for Christians is when we start to objectify women to satisfy a carnal desire. There is nothing wrong with appreciating God's wonderful work and even lusting for it. Where things become a sin is when you begin to covet, commit adultery or fornication. The steps from lust to coveting are easy to see after the fact. So are you able to masturbate while thinking on nothing at all? If you have a wife do you think this would be appropriate? Where do you draw the line between innocent lusting and coveting? These are all questions that you will need to answer and be accountable to Jesus with.

I am a Catholic but in a very different way than modern Catholicism. I see Jesus Christ as my Pope, I see the church as the Body of Christ (meaning all members who believe), I say my own masses and when I confess I confess to my friends and Jesus, not to some priest. So for me I do not carry the Catholic guilt and shame, as it is said. I believe in the original bases of the Apostolithic faith. But, it should be understood that after you have sinned God is not putting you in shame or putting you into a place of guilt, that is satan. Jesus wants us to run to Him with our sins, the devil wants to accuse us and keep us in shame so we will not go to Jesus. So when you feel shame or guilt STOP and realize where it is coming from and from there pray to Jesus for forgiveness.

Dld please reiterate for kyomoto the part that says GODs work and not hentai animators' work :blush:. We know he's lusting over blues clues and Garfield s ass brah you know he's chinese

 

[kyomoto]

Dld please reiterate for kyomoto the part that says GODs work and not hentai animators' work :blush:. We know he's lusting over blues clues and Garfield s ass brah you know he's chinese

lmaooooooo
garfield got ass bro wym?
But in all seriousness DLD just let yourself live a little, use the [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]fleshlight[/words] with discipline.

 

[templnite]

Thanks to the many replies on this thread. This is not about religion, it is about accountability to those who want to quit watching adult entertainment or tapper or eliminate masturbation. I have always told men that visual stimulation is important but gain it from the most innocent form you can.

So far for myself it has been 5 days without adult entertainment or masturbation. I am staying to have sexual dreams so I know the temptations are all still there. During the day my strategy of seeing women as family has eliminated most of my lusting. I still notice and appreciate the beauty of women but I do not linger on it. I have a good understanding of myself now, well better than before. I know that full out adult entertainment slavery does not start at that point, it is the tiny steps to that point. As I said, everything in moderation but if you find yourself submerged into hours of adult entertainment and masturbation you need to start practicing discipline. Ultimately adult entertainment will bring men to objectifying women.

Damn bro is that a direct quote from the Vatican? Its funy because the only innocent are the little ones and you know there's lots of pedos in the catholic church xD children born in shit for cardinal sin 👺👿👾👹👀.

But as fo r the topic yeah I mastrbated just edging for my training though but I'm getting relly good at retaining ejaculate for several days, I don't even get tense from it anymore ,just a means to an end I guess. I watch random shit like girls wearing sandals or checkered clothes or a bone thru their hair or any random shit that gets me hard. I never get into orgys or gangbangs because its nasty or even mainstream adult entertainment because its so tired and played out

 

[DLD]

lmaooooooo
garfield got ass bro wym?
But in all seriousness DLD just let yourself live a little, use the [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]fleshlight[/words] with discipline.

I do have a [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]FleshLight[/words] and I see absolutely nothing wrong with this as long as there is no coveting going on.

 

[DLD]

Damn bro is that a direct quote from the Vatican? Its funy because the only innocent are the little ones and you know there's lots of pedos in the catholic church xD children born in shit for cardinal sin 👺👿👾👹👀.

But as fo r the topic yeah I mastrbated just edging for my training though but I'm getting relly good at retaining ejaculate for several days, I don't even get tense from it anymore ,just a means to an end I guess. I watch random shit like girls wearing sandals or checkered clothes or a bone thru their hair or any random shit that gets me hard. I never get into orgys or gangbangs because its nasty or even mainstream adult entertainment because its so tired and played out

I consider myself a little one.

 

[DLD]

Well said, DLD. Thanks for sharing your perspective!

Thank you my Brother!

 

[kyomoto]

I do have a [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]FleshLight[/words] and I see absolutely nothing wrong with this as long as there is no coveting going on.

Good on you brother!

 

[Big Schwanz Acht]

Mike, I covet thee [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]Fleshlight[/words] lol

 

[DLD]

Mike, I covet thee [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]Fleshlight[/words] lol

That is fine, you own them! You can not covet something that is yours!

 

[DLD]

'You can do it. You can get over these ludicrous, primal urges that you know will leave you feeling as empty and cold as before. Shut down your computer and walk away from this situation. You are probably surrounded with tissues and lube at this moment. The door is probably locked, lights out with your belt unbuckled, your jeans pulled down to your ankles.

This isn't a fun place to be; a complete contrast to the days, weeks or even months you've engaged in this lifestyle, reaped the rewards of putting fulfilment before pleasure, learnt about yourself, stepped out of your comfort circle and felt yourself growing with each day that passes. Why throw it away? You may have already started edging, that same, tsunami of dopamine flooding into your brain, that pornstar you've been thinking about for weeks if not months is right in front of you, on a screen.

Does this feel good? Does it feel pleasurable knowing that soon as you blow your load you will get rid of everything you've worked for? The very essence of your life and sunlight deposited into a crusty tissue or sock? You know the answer.

I know the answer because a week ago I was in your position. And for the first time since I've started this journey; edging and watching adult entertainment did not end with me throwing it all away. I also felt that drug pumping through my temple. My dopamine receptors getting weaker by the second, the reality of me throwing it all away and saying "Fuck it." But, for the first time, I closed the tabs of online-cocaine, shut down my computer, pulled my pants up and went outside. In the days that followed, I still felt the effects from slipping up and edging, but not nearly as much if I had gone all the way, as I'm sure you're very close to doing. Yesterday I visited a friend, helped him set up his audio system, helped my grandmother with her groceries, went boxing, went for a run, worked on my business before going on a date with an amazing girl. If I didn't walk away from my computer a week ago, my presence, confidence and ultimately the quality of my life would have been compromised for a few fleeting seconds of ejaculative sneeze.
You deserve a life of happiness and prosperity, unhindered by the darkness of carnal pleasures. If, right this instance, you can walk away from the clutches of the adult entertainment industry when it's staring at you straight in the face, when you're an inch away from doing the deed and completely relapsing; you will have developed a level of self-restraint that millions of people around the world can only dream of. An empowerment over your sexual urges that men have perished throughout history without coming close to experiencing.

Every single second starting from now, 30,000 new users around the globe will begin to watch adult entertainment. You don't need to be one of them. If you do this; if you turn off your computer right now and walk away, you will literally be that one in a million who chose to say no to their caveman urges. You will probably have to reset your badge, and most probably have some brain fog as a result of what you've already done, your primal brain outraged, screaming at you to turn the computer back on and finish what you've started. But I know you can ignore it, and deep down you know you have the courage to remove yourself from this situation. Change is scary. A veil of smoke and mist compared to the comforts you've known since the dawning of your adolescence and sexual maturity, but you will never know what's on the other side if you don't take a stand for once and say no to your emotional brain. Go on, go about your life and enjoy the real world outside of your darkened room. The choice is completely in your hands.
You know what needs to be done. Get on with it.'

NoFap

 

[DLD]

I want to confess to my Brothers that I fell into temptation last night and started to look at pornographic material, I did this for about 2 minutes and then the guilt kicked in and I stopped. I never touched myself in this, it was a slight slip up and I hope to avoid this next time. I want to make myself accountable to my Brothers so I will have that support when I do slip up.

 

[Big Schwanz Acht]

'You can do it. You can get over these ludicrous, primal urges that you know will leave you feeling as empty and cold as before. Shut down your computer and walk away from this situation. You are probably surrounded with tissues and lube at this moment. The door is probably locked, lights out with your belt unbuckled, your jeans pulled down to your ankles.

This isn't a fun place to be; a complete contrast to the days, weeks or even months you've engaged in this lifestyle, reaped the rewards of putting fulfilment before pleasure, learnt about yourself, stepped out of your comfort circle and felt yourself growing with each day that passes. Why throw it away? You may have already started edging, that same, tsunami of dopamine flooding into your brain, that pornstar you've been thinking about for weeks if not months is right in front of you, on a screen.

Does this feel good? Does it feel pleasurable knowing that soon as you blow your load you will get rid of everything you've worked for? The very essence of your life and sunlight deposited into a crusty tissue or sock? You know the answer.

I know the answer because a week ago I was in your position. And for the first time since I've started this journey; edging and watching adult entertainment did not end with me throwing it all away. I also felt that drug pumping through my temple. My dopamine receptors getting weaker by the second, the reality of me throwing it all away and saying "Fuck it." But, for the first time, I closed the tabs of online-cocaine, shut down my computer, pulled my pants up and went outside. In the days that followed, I still felt the effects from slipping up and edging, but not nearly as much if I had gone all the way, as I'm sure you're very close to doing. Yesterday I visited a friend, helped him set up his audio system, helped my grandmother with her groceries, went boxing, went for a run, worked on my business before going on a date with an amazing girl. If I didn't walk away from my computer a week ago, my presence, confidence and ultimately the quality of my life would have been compromised for a few fleeting seconds of ejaculative sneeze.
You deserve a life of happiness and prosperity, unhindered by the darkness of carnal pleasures. If, right this instance, you can walk away from the clutches of the adult entertainment industry when it's staring at you straight in the face, when you're an inch away from doing the deed and completely relapsing; you will have developed a level of self-restraint that millions of people around the world can only dream of. An empowerment over your sexual urges that men have perished throughout history without coming close to experiencing.

Every single second starting from now, 30,000 new users around the globe will begin to watch adult entertainment. You don't need to be one of them. If you do this; if you turn off your computer right now and walk away, you will literally be that one in a million who chose to say no to their caveman urges. You will probably have to reset your badge, and most probably have some brain fog as a result of what you've already done, your primal brain outraged, screaming at you to turn the computer back on and finish what you've started. But I know you can ignore it, and deep down you know you have the courage to remove yourself from this situation. Change is scary. A veil of smoke and mist compared to the comforts you've known since the dawning of your adolescence and sexual maturity, but you will never know what's on the other side if you don't take a stand for once and say no to your emotional brain. Go on, go about your life and enjoy the real world outside of your darkened room. The choice is completely in your hands.
You know what needs to be done. Get on with it.'

NoFap

whoa...that's quite the soliloquy, Mike. My thought is that everyone's prism is different and what triggers one doesn't necessarily trigger all. Can a person explore all facets of their sexuality, (including adult entertainment) without it becoming all-consuming? I'm guessing, 'yes', but I do agree that adult entertainment is very much like any other brain-altering drug...unchecked it could remap your pleasure centers and prevent you from experiencing your life fully.

The litmus test that I employ is very simple, 'is what activity I'm engaged-in having a negative impact on my friendships, work, love-life, health?' If yes, then adjust/eliminate

 

[LONGERDICK7+]

Watched one of those tumblr adult entertainment clips and had to knock one of,wish my orgasms could last more than a few secs...

 

[kyomoto]

Watched one of those tumblr adult entertainment clips and had to knock one of,wish my orgasms could last more than a few secs...

the pleasure lasts a few seconds then nothing, crazy right

 

[huge-girth]

whoa...that's quite the soliloquy, Mike. My thought is that everyone's prism is different and what triggers one doesn't necessarily trigger all. Can a person explore all facets of their sexuality, (including adult entertainment) without it becoming all-consuming? I'm guessing, 'yes', but I do agree that adult entertainment is very much like any other brain-altering drug...unchecked it could remap your pleasure centers and prevent you from experiencing your life fully.

The litmus test that I employ is very simple, 'is what activity I'm engaged-in having a negative impact on my friendships, work, love-life, health?' If yes, then adjust/eliminate

Constant masturbation stops you from chasing women. A lot of us are guilty of this.

 

[DLD]

whoa...that's quite the soliloquy, Mike. My thought is that everyone's prism is different and what triggers one doesn't necessarily trigger all. Can a person explore all facets of their sexuality, (including adult entertainment) without it becoming all-consuming? I'm guessing, 'yes', but I do agree that adult entertainment is very much like any other brain-altering drug...unchecked it could remap your pleasure centers and prevent you from experiencing your life fully.

The litmus test that I employ is very simple, 'is what activity I'm engaged-in having a negative impact on my friendships, work, love-life, health?' If yes, then adjust/eliminate

Exactly true, everyone has different triggers and what is amazing to me is that my triggers start out so innocent, almost like the devil is setting a trap. I start to watch a show that, seemingly, is innocent only to find myself back at Pornhub! I hate it! So I now have decided to stop watching any TV or movies that trigger me. Believe me, this is a big struggle, one I never have got through so for the ones who do struggle I now can completely relate. adult entertainment for me is the end result, the issue is the tiny steps from innocence into sexual distortion. Much like one who has quit drinking but starts to hang out with his drunk buddies, he will be triggered and maybe fall and relapse. The same applies here.

Last night I got through the night with no problems. During the day I did catch myself checking out a girl for too long but I corrected that as soon as I realized. So today marks one week with no masturbation.

 

[Big Schwanz Acht]

Congratulations on your one-week adult entertainment sobriety!! You should celebrate by nailing some random girl, lol (just kidding, of course)

 

[kyomoto]

Exactly true, everyone has different triggers and what is amazing to me is that my triggers start out so innocent, almost like the devil is setting a trap. I start to watch a show that, seemingly, is innocent only to find myself back at Pornhub! I hate it! So I now have decided to stop watching any TV or movies that trigger me. Believe me, this is a big struggle, one I never have got through so for the ones who do struggle I now can completely relate. adult entertainment for me is the end result, the issue is the tiny steps from innocence into sexual distortion. Much like one who has quit drinking but starts to hang out with his drunk buddies, he will be triggered and maybe fall and relapse. The same applies here.

Last night I got through the night with no problems. During the day I did catch myself checking out a girl for too long but I corrected that as soon as I realized. So today marks one week with no masturbation.

I know you can do a month

 

[templnite]

I know you can do a month

Nah its better to give up that way you dont have to fail. Sometimes I wish I could just flip a switch and get erect for x minutes without stimulation, would make pe so much more easy, unless you love adult entertainment that much.

Im more of a romantic than a feverish horny G.O.A.T. believe it or not.

 

[kyomoto]

Nah its better to give up that way you dont have to fail. Sometimes I wish I could just flip a switch and get erect for x minutes without stimulation, would make pe so much more easy, unless you love adult entertainment that much.

Im more of a romantic than a feverish horny G.O.A.T. believe it or not.

Damn don't think DLD got the discipline to do a month?

 

[DLD]

I know you can do a month

I will make a month with help of Jesus and the accountability to the Brotherhood.

Accountability: Last night I has the first wet-dream I have had in many years. No guilt there!

 

[Big Schwanz Acht]

Last night I has the first wet-dream I have had in many years. No guilt there!

Uh...that sounds fun (hope you tipped your maid, lol)

 

[huge-girth]

Yesterday I masturbated 4 times. I was so horny. This thing is very difficult to stop, pornhub is my witness. I think it is really hard to be doing girth work and stay away from masturbation when you don't have a girlfriend.

 

[templnite]

"Pornhub is my witness" xD someone give him a wankie hankie plz

 

[acromegaly]

DLD Im glad you are getting more self control back, but personally I think the idea of not giving yourself any release when you dont have a woman at the moment is kinda ludicrous? i mean thats not healthy either just limit yourself IMO. anyways you sound happy just sometimes you sound like youre punishing yourself...