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dongers said:

I know that women's preferences on cock size is a topic that has been done over about a zillion times on this site. However we never really get a clear answer.

On the one hand you have the big guys with there 8 x 6.5 cocks telling us that they are giving women orgasms and making women moan in ways simply not possible with a smaller schlong. This may be true but I can't help being a little dubious after all if a big guy has great sex he will more than likely put it down to his size. I am not smal but neither am I huge at around 7"bp and 5.50 EG midshaft and close to 6" EG right at the base and I have given women intense vaginal orgasms and felt like I was filling them up... To the point where I can imagine something a lot bigger would be down right uncomfortable. It's certainly true that there are anecdotal stories of amazing sex from guys of all sizes from small to huge on this site. Can we base too much on anecdotal stories from big guys?

The other evidence we have for optimum size is what women tell us. And this is confusing too. Some women say it matters not at all while others say it is hugely important. The problem is it is such a sensitive, powerful issue that women innevitably end up lying one way or another to suit a variety of ends. As guys we decide whether we think they are being truthful to suit our own paranoid/insecure or arrogant/egotistical tendencies also.

Step in Adult friendfinder. Some of you may be aquainted with this site, most I suspect are not. Essentially it is a dating site without the romance. It is a site specifically geared to hook sexually open individuals up for fun. It's not about finding a life partner or even necessarily someone you particularly get on with. It is primarily about finding someone you can enjoy physical pleasure with. Now this is amazing because you can read a woman's advert and find out exactly what they are looking for in a sexual partner and specifically if penis size factors. Me being a complete psycho stayed up all night reading through 100s of adverts and jotting down the number that made reference to wanting a well endowed man. Guess what... Just 6% of women included a large penis as criteria for a casual lover. In contrast being good looking, in shape and passionate came up again and again... Now these were by and large, experienced women advertising exclusively for sex and penis size was only an issue for a minority. Most profiles were anonamous with a body but no face pick so it was not like they needed to hide their secret size queen tendencies from people they new. Nor was it the case that they did not want to upset people because they were very clear about the criteria that did matter to them 'no fatties' etc.

Makes you wonder how much a woman's physical pleasure is related to penis size... Or rather whether the huge 8" x 6" + is way beyond the optimum for the magority of girls. Maybe the average is 6" x 5" for a reason...
 
I think this is an easy call. I think it may relate to the cut/uncut argument. Let me explain:

If a woman's current BF is uncut--she will most likely say she prefers sex with an uncut man especially if her last boyfriend was cut---and vice versa. I think 6% is right on in women that it actually matters.

I believe there is one thing that is key that you didn't mention. Confidence. Women love that more than anything else. Confidence in bed, at work, at play, anywhere.


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I think that's all good.

I still think I want to grow to about 9-9.5 x 6 - 6.5. I may go for 10+ depending on my flaccid. I'm pretty happy with my 7/7.2 NBPenis EnlargementL right now and surely clearing 9 would make me completely satisfied but I'll go for more as long as the flaccid hang isn't too much trouble.

I get a feeling that 6 inches EG is the sweet spot if not too large for most women. I'm at 5.5 EG on a good day. That's as large as typical toilet roll core and I'll be honest to say that, despite blow jobs seeming fine for the women, I tried to put a toilet paper roll core in my mouth without bending it and it hurt my jaw a bit and and there was less than maybe 1cm or .5cm of room for any more IF that. I guess my jaw/mouth is avg size so maybe 6 inches would be really tough to get too far past the head.

Length can be controlled by choosing depth anyways.

What about those of you who are 6 or even 7+ inches EG? DLD, aren't you about 7 EG? How is oral and vaginal sex with that girth? I know you can control your length so I'm less interested about that.
 
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PenilePersist said:
I think that's all good.

I still think I want to grow to about 9-9.5 x 6 - 6.5. I may go for 10+ depending on my flaccid. I'm pretty happy with my 7/7.2 NBPenis EnlargementL right now and surely clearing 9 would make me completely satisfied but I'll go for more as long as the flaccid hang isn't too much trouble.

I get a feeling that 6 inches EG is the sweet spot if not too large for most women. I'm at 5.5 EG on a good day. That's as large as typical toilet roll core and I'll be honest to say that, despite blow jobs seeming fine for the women, I tried to put a toilet paper roll core in my mouth without bending it and it hurt my jaw a bit and and there was less than maybe 1cm or .5cm of room for any more IF that. I guess my jaw/mouth is avg size so maybe 6 inches would be really tough to get too far past the head.

Length can be controlled by choosing depth anyways.

What about those of you who are 6 or even 7+ inches EG? DLD, aren't you about 7 EG? How is oral and vaginal sex with that girth? I know you can control your length so I'm less interested about that.
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I am closer to 6" than 5.75" right now and vagina and anal sex are still fine. In fact my girlfriend likes anal quite a bit. We generally just go at it with very little lube. Blow jobs, she can get her head down pretty far, but I get scratched all the time, but it doesn't matter much because it's not scratching my head.
 
How many of these women actually had a big cock also? Maybe they don't know what one feels like and they don't know by experienced and are just saying an average cock is fine for them? What would happen if all these women had tried big cocks? Would the stats you came up been the same??:(

How many ever shoved as many fingers into their womans pussy to have her moan and groan and enjoy this? I have many of times and they all enjoyed it very much. The stretching of their pussies made them excited and cum over and over again. I would have to say that women who tried thicker cock would not turn back to a smaller one and would try to stay with that partner and shape him into the man she wanted. Just my own 2 cent here.
 
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I agree wannabbig. I'd rather the deal breaker for a girl be that my cock is too big as opposed to being too small. Its a big difference. One can crush a man and leave him scarred for life, whereas the other one, regardless how you look at it, is a boost to the ego and confidence of a man. If people want to believe the fellow at thunders, or anyone who speaks of that size is not so important, go home to your woman and place a nice long, thick fake cock in her and watch how HARD she cums...
 
PenilePersist said:
I think that's all good.

I still think I want to grow to about 9-9.5 x 6 - 6.5. I may go for 10+ depending on my flaccid. I'm pretty happy with my 7/7.2 NBPenis EnlargementL right now and surely clearing 9 would make me completely satisfied but I'll go for more as long as the flaccid hang isn't too much trouble.

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Lol reality check time.
 
PenilePersist said:
Explain your opinionated statement.
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I am pretty sure he is just joking around. The reality is that getting to the measurements is very hard. It takes time, motivation, desire, mental belief, patience, the list goes on. Someone said that I am a poor example of making the gains I have made and I have to agree. I sacrificed much to get to where I am. Some of the things I had to go through for a bigger penis, in many ways, were not worth it. Not saying that I do not want what I have but it did cost me dearly.


I think it is important for men to know first that 5.5" in length and 4.75" in girth is the norm, it is the average, it is what 90% of the men in the world have. Anything beyond this is impressive to most women (men too). Getting to 7", 8" or even 8.5" with a girth of 5.5" is not only a miracle but a size that will blow most anyone's mind.

Making the decision to go beyond this mark, trying to get to the level of the biggest in the world is an anxiety that can be quieted by the above paragraph. Reality, being everything I have said should ring true to any man. Someone said once (I think his name is DLD:)) "Size Happens Inch by Inch" Try out your size, use it, get feedback, grow and as you get bigger you will know what is good for you.

Mandingo, and men like him, are not reality, they are exceptions, exceptions so exaggerated that they should play no part in our size gains. I have always tried to push 8 x 6 on guys because I believe this to be HUGE and attainable.
 
wannaBbig said:
I would have to say that women who tried thicker cock would not turn back to a smaller one and would try to stay with that partner and shape him into the man she wanted
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That is fucked up. Sadly women really do judge men and choose men based on penis size alone. Women are extremely shallow and materialistic... no feelings for men whatsover. I hate women with a passion. I hate that I'm straight and wish I were gay.


Would I (or you) choose a woman to be with based on how wet her pussy is? No. But it's the same thing. A bigger cock might feel better but that's it. Feels better. Just like a wet pussy feels better than a drier one. Or a tighter pussy feels better than a loose one. But it's not like we judge women or select them based on tightness or wetness of their pussy.

Women = Evil. Women = Stupid. Humanity = stupid.

I hope all humans die soon. WWIII, please come ... nuke us all to hell...
 
This practice of having a big cock came from the eastern countries stories of well endowed men. It was just a matter of time before it caught on here in the east. Women have fantasies about arab men and big cocks. Just from the stories they read and love novels where he pinned her down and she couldn't move and he took her as he wanted, He plunged his huge rod into her wet and ready pussy from his manly control over her.

I found some interesting read for you all. This is where the art of Penis Enlargementing started. Very imformative information for all of us men. I have read every chapter. I just wanted to enlarge the head of my penis when I first came here. I now find myself believing everything I read in the below link and want a couple more inches to my leingth and girth. Enjoy the read. It tells you how to make your cock bigger and what kinds of food to prepare for a rock hard erection and an all night fuck fest.


The Perfumed Garden Index
 
wannaBbig said:
This practice of having a big cock came from the eastern countries stories of well endowed men. It was just a matter of time before it caught on here in the east. Women have fantasies about arab men and big cocks. Just from the stories they read and love novels where he pinned her down and she couldn't move and he took her as he wanted, He plunged his huge rod into her wet and ready pussy from his manly control over her.

I found some interesting read for you all. This is where the art of Penis Enlargementing started. Very imformative information for all of us men. I have read every chapter. I just wanted to enlarge the head of my penis when I first came here. I now find myself believing everything I read in the below link and want a couple more inches to my leingth and girth. Enjoy the read. It tells you how to make your cock bigger and what kinds of food to prepare for a rock hard erection and an all night fuck fest.


The Perfumed Garden Index
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The Perfumed Garden: Chapter 17: Prescriptions for Increasing the Dimensions of Small Members and for Making Them Splendid

That is some very eccentric shit.
 
misterious said:
hey screw you... You don't even have a clue how hard it is to live with a small penis. Byou are lucky and were born with a big one
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Actually my dick is only about .3 inches longer than yours.
 
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misterious said:
That is fucked up. Sadly women really do judge men and choose men based on penis size alone. Women are extremely shallow and materialistic... no feelings for men whatsover. I hate women with a passion. I hate that I'm straight and wish I were gay.


Would I (or you) choose a woman to be with based on how wet her pussy is? No. But it's the same thing. A bigger cock might feel better but that's it. Feels better. Just like a wet pussy feels better than a drier one. Or a tighter pussy feels better than a loose one. But it's not like we judge women or select them based on tightness or wetness of their pussy.

Women = Evil. Women = Stupid. Humanity = stupid.

I hope all humans die soon. WWIII, please come ... nuke us all to hell...
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What is the purpose of this post ^? A polemic against the female sex, and, I must add, a very ignorant one to boot. Your first judgement, concerning females, is that they judge the worth of all men by the size of their genitals. Let me ask you, how old are you? You genuinely believe, vis-a-vis the very restricted existence you have hitherto led, that the female sex, does, as a whole, evaluate the worth of male individuals by the size of their cocks? My friend, they do not. In fact, in your tirade against the fairer sex you fail to address the fact that men, not women, are statistically far more likely to evaluate human individuals (either male or female) solely upon the basis of definable physical characteristics (much like what you are currently doing) neglecting a consideration of all else that might be virtuous about the individual etc. under consideration. Your premise that... humanity=stupid, and your explicit hope that we all perish, horribly, in some nuclear holocaust is indicative of a severe mental disturbance. Youve let your size become an obsession for you to the extent that absolutely everything you experience is tinted by this gross and undue pathology. I wish to let you know, in the most friendly manner in which it is possible, that you should consider psychotherapy.
 
PenilePersist said:
The Perfumed Garden: Chapter 17: Prescriptions for Increasing the Dimensions of Small Members and for Making Them Splendid

That is some very eccentric shit.
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Yes, I have thought about the donkey cock and would think a bulls or animal sim in size might work. I don't know if I want to try that though. I do live in the country and have no neighbors and more than enough room to raise some chickens. Maybe if i got the idea to be okay I would try that one. I am not sure about the leeches though. Mix them with oill and let them sit in the sun then rub on your cock.:O I bet if it said to let a bee sting your cock I know damn well people would be trying that.rofl But I am allergic to bees.rofl
 
jqsderrida said:
What is the purpose of this post ^? A polemic against the female sex, and, I must add, a very ignorant one to boot. Your first judgement, concerning females, is that they judge the worth of all men by the size of their genitals. Let me ask you, how old are you? You genuinely believe, vis-a-vis the very restricted existence you have hitherto led, that the female sex, does, as a whole, evaluate the worth of male individuals by the size of their cocks? My friend, they do not. In fact, in your tirade against the fairer sex you fail to address the fact that men, not women, are statistically far more likely to evaluate human individuals (either male or female) solely upon the basis of definable physical characteristics (much like what you are currently doing) neglecting a consideration of all else that might be virtuous about the individual etc. under consideration. Your premise that... humanity=stupid, and your explicit hope that we all perish, horribly, in some nuclear holocaust is indicative of a severe mental disturbance. Youve let your size become an obsession for you to the extent that absolutely everything you experience is tinted by this gross and undue pathology. I wish to let you know, in the most friendly manner in which it is possible, that you should consider psychotherapy.
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again you have a big cock so it's easy for you to say... you will just never understand...
 
misterious said:
again you have a big cock so it's easy for you to say... you will just never understand...
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My friend, I am actually interested in how it is at all possible that you can believe there is little more to women, or to life, than the size of that thing, down there, in your pants?
 
jqsderrida said:
My friend, I am actually interested in how it is at all possible that you can believe there is little more to women, or to life, than the size of that thing, down there, in your pants?
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because it is... simply put... everything revolves around the male penis. Obelisks, such as the washington monument for instance, are representive of penises, and a big one commands power.

heck.. Just look at the word "manhood". It's been made to describe a man's penis. The penis is who he is... a small one and he's not a man...

because of this, I think humans are very stupid. We are nothing more than monkeys that have slightly evolved. I hope we all die.
 
misterious said:
That is fucked up. Sadly women really do judge men and choose men based on penis size alone. Women are extremely shallow and materialistic... no feelings for men whatsover. I hate women with a passion. I hate that I'm straight and wish I were gay.


Would I (or you) choose a woman to be with based on how wet her pussy is? No. But it's the same thing. A bigger cock might feel better but that's it. Feels better. Just like a wet pussy feels better than a drier one. Or a tighter pussy feels better than a loose one. But it's not like we judge women or select them based on tightness or wetness of their pussy.

Women = Evil. Women = Stupid. Humanity = stupid.

I hope all humans die soon. WWIII, please come ... nuke us all to hell...
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The reason you aren't gaining is because you are the most negative person i've ever come accross in my entire life..When i lost my virginity about 2 years ago my penis was 5.2 inches NBP and like 4.5 inches girth, i remained with that same girl for 2 years in a relationship and i never let size get me down once because if a girl sees you are feeling sorry for yourself she wont respect you one bit.

Play with the cards that you are dealt and make the most of it. If not put more positive thinking into your Penis Enlargement work-out and you will gain 2 inches in the next 6-12 months and then you'll feel really stupid about 95 % of the posts you have made.

Just my 2 cents
 
misterious said:
That is fucked up. Sadly women really do judge men and choose men based on penis size alone. Women are extremely shallow and materialistic... no feelings for men whatsover. I hate women with a passion. I hate that I'm straight and wish I were gay.


Would I (or you) choose a woman to be with based on how wet her pussy is? No. But it's the same thing. A bigger cock might feel better but that's it. Feels better. Just like a wet pussy feels better than a drier one. Or a tighter pussy feels better than a loose one. But it's not like we judge women or select them based on tightness or wetness of their pussy.

Women = Evil. Women = Stupid. Humanity = stupid.

I hope all humans die soon. WWIII, please come ... nuke us all to hell...
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ALthough you become very extreme in your final thoughts, I wholly support what you said in your first paragraph. As men, we fear that a woman will have the same thoughts about us as we have for ourselves. We will have sex with someone and ultimately the thing that stays with us after the fact is the enjoyable parts of the encounter. I can't tell you one, definite specific about any girls pussy I have ever been with...NONE. I have been with MANY, MANY, MANY women. We, as humans, worry so much about what others think that we lose touch with the ultimate episode of something that is meant to be enjoyable.
 
MissionPossible said:
The reason you aren't gaining is because you are the most negative person i've ever come accross in my entire life..When i lost my virginity about 2 years ago my penis was 5.2 inches NBP and like 4.5 inches girth, i remained with that same girl for 2 years in a relationship and i never let size get me down once because if a girl sees you are feeling sorry for yourself she wont respect you one bit.

Play with the cards that you are dealt and make the most of it. If not put more positive thinking into your Penis Enlargement work-out and you will gain 2 inches in the next 6-12 months and then you'll feel really stupid about 95 % of the posts you have made.

Just my 2 cents
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Well I think I hvae gained a little bit in length but that's really not my point. I could have the biggest dick in the world and I would still be pissed off at how much of an object humanity makes the penis to be and how much we glorify it (or not glorify the small ones).

It's just skin and tissue. That's what the penis is. Not some sort of object or symbol that determines our worth. Why can't humans understand this?
 
In terms of the original post, which has been left in the dust, it makes a pretty good point that I think most people actually already understand but often gets forgotten in the obsessive world of Penis Enlargement.

As DLD wisely points out, the average penis is under 6" in length and a little under 5" in girth - and that's actually fine to satisfy most women. Just we select women based on lots of other qualities besides the tightness of their vaginas or the perfection of their breasts, they care about a lot more than just dick size. A lot of guys around here seem to take the approach that if they're a little endowed than average that women will be overawed by them in any scenario, but I promise that if you're an unpersonablbe guy that's terrible in bed, she won't care that you managed to Penis Enlargement your way into an above average size.

Now, the guy's methedology of searching through adult friend finder [words=http://www.phallosan.com/shop/catalog/default.php?z=eNortjIxtVKyL0pNszWxMFcrSSxKTy2JL0hMT7U1UisoykyxtbBQSy4tLsnPjS8uKcrMS7dVsgZcMMpbEbo%2C]ads[/words] is a little bit dumb, although novel in its approach. I would imagine that most women on there aren't going to specify penis sizes in the ad in order to not scare away guys and also to not seem like a size queen, which I would guess generally elicits a lot angry messages and negative reactions from men. The probably know better. That being said, the women who advertise for sex on the internet don't represent the average woman at all, which is what most of us are concerned with.

Women do care about size - especially women with really big vaginas. They'd probablly prefer a bigger guy, but fortunately, they're about as common as big penises, so try no to worry about it. So far as average women, as long as you don't have micro penis or dick that makes sex uncomfortable, the majority aren't going to care much one way or another. 7" may impress them a little the first time around, but it's not going to change how they feel about the rest of you, and 5" isn't going to scare anybody away - both get the job done in most circumstances.
 
misterious said:
because it is... simply put... everything revolves around the male penis. Obelisks, such as the washington monument for instance, are representive of penises, and a big one commands power.

heck.. Just look at the word "manhood". It's been made to describe a man's penis. The penis is who he is... a small one and he's not a man...

because of this, I think humans are very stupid. We are nothing more than monkeys that have slightly evolved. I hope we all die.
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What, are you Sigmund Freud? You take two instances. The Washington monument, and the English term 'manhood'. Let me ask you about the following however and, please, inform me as to whether or not the value of the to-be-mentioned items is inherent in the genitals of its producers:

Beethoven's 9th symphony;
Mozart's 11th piano sonata;
Hamlet;
The Goldberg Variations as recorded by Glenn Gould in 1955;
The voyager spacecraft;
The works of Vermeer;
Homer;
Finnegans Wake... the list, my friend, is almost endless.

All of the above works were created by men, and, I must beg the question: do you think that anyone gives a fuck about what might have been the size of their dicks? Consider, for a moment, that Beethoven had a micropenis. No woman with half-way active nerve cells is going to pass up the opportunity to be with that great man solely due to the aforementioned consideration. Do you think Simone de Bouvoir gave a shit about the size of Sartre's balls? I think, on the other hand, youve been around the wrong crowd and are not evaluating any of things that aremost beautiful and gorgeous in life. Au Contraire, my companero, in the end, it is the dimensions of the soul and not of something so transient as the cock which are important.

bonne soir,
 
stridge said:
A lot of guys around here seem to take the approach that if they're a little endowed than average that women will be overawed by them in any scenario, but I promise that if you're an unpersonablbe guy that's terrible in bed, she won't care that you managed to Penis Enlargement your way into an above average size.
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Of course. I realize not all women care about size that much... but most do. A girl at the store I work has a TERRIBLE boyfriend. He treats her like crap. He's been in jail 7 times. He's actively cheating on her with other women. And yet, she is still with him and supporting him.

Me and all the other guys at work are baffled at why she is still with a guy like that. One guy asked her straight up "Why are you still with him then?" She replied, "because he treats me right and big in the pants."

Right there from a woman's own mouth. Big in the pants. That's all that matters to them. Maybe not all of them ... But most of them. From what I've seen at least.
 
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Of course. I realize not all women care about size that much... but most do. A girl at the store I work has a TERRIBLE boyfriend. He treats her like crap. He's been in jail 7 times. He's actively cheating on her with other women. And yet, she is still with him and supporting him.

Me and all the other guys at work are baffled at why she is still with a guy like that. One guy asked her straight up "Why are you still with him then?" She replied, "because he treats me right and big in the pants."

Right there from a woman's own mouth. Big in the pants. That's all that matters to them. Maybe not all of them ... But most of them. From what I've seen at least.
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Its very possible that your coworker has borderline personality disorder, and that and not the qualities you mentioned above is the reason she persists with her current BF
 
misterious said:
again you have a big cock so it's easy for you to say... you will just never understand...
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The minute you base your life on a body part is the moment you extradite your soul. The body grows old and dies, you will lose everything you have here in this physical world. How big your penis is will be no matter after you die. AttacHydromaxent to physical things binds us.
 
i can understand how misterious feels, when you feel small - it feels like every penis joke or size comment you hear is directed at you, and can really hurt! when i was 5.5 BP i was called small a few times and it does really get you down, and you do think that everyone is concerned about penis size. i suppose i can say im in a similar situation where i think people (esp women) judge u on the size of your thing, and if its not large/huge then your not a real man. im lucky that i have an extremely supportive girlfriend who cant understand why id want to make it any bigger. Misterious, my advice to you is to do what makes you feel comfortable, i know i will only be comfortable with myself when im big (got a while to go), but each to his own. but that doesnt mean im not happy now. you need to look at it from a different perspective, and view your penis size as an EXTRA and not the be-all and end-all of your life. there are women out there that really do not care about the size of your penis, these women want love, respect, commitment, stability and in general a nice guy. unfortunately you will probably meet a few sluts that do care about penis size before you meet your right woman - my advice is to simply get rid of them cos they will make you feel insecure, and play on your insecurities (been there, done that). when you meet a nice girl - you will be happy. so chin up my friend :)
 
jqsderrida said:
What is the purpose of this post ^? A polemic against the female sex, and, I must add, a very ignorant one to boot. Your first judgement, concerning females, is that they judge the worth of all men by the size of their genitals. Let me ask you, how old are you? You genuinely believe, vis-a-vis the very restricted existence you have hitherto led, that the female sex, does, as a whole, evaluate the worth of male individuals by the size of their cocks? My friend, they do not. In fact, in your tirade against the fairer sex you fail to address the fact that men, not women, are statistically far more likely to evaluate human individuals (either male or female) solely upon the basis of definable physical characteristics (much like what you are currently doing) neglecting a consideration of all else that might be virtuous about the individual etc. under consideration. Your premise that... humanity=stupid, and your explicit hope that we all perish, horribly, in some nuclear holocaust is indicative of a severe mental disturbance. Youve let your size become an obsession for you to the extent that absolutely everything you experience is tinted by this gross and undue pathology. I wish to let you know, in the most friendly manner in which it is possible, that you should consider psychotherapy.
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you just gota love this word smith :)

on the flip-side, a beautiful pussy goes along way. its my fetish. having my mouth on a delicious ruby jewel... it gets no better.

dont even get me started on well kept bum holes...

on a more serious note, women are fuckin' great! and pigeon holeing the entirity of the species, big dick or no dick, is a warped evaluation.

here's another video of my band playing a bulldozing set in dense snow :band: we fuckin' love women, and can't get enough of that backstage prestige, get me.


keep pushing
 
misterious said:
Of course. I realize not all women care about size that much... but most do. A girl at the store I work has a TERRIBLE boyfriend. He treats her like crap. He's been in jail 7 times. He's actively cheating on her with other women. And yet, she is still with him and supporting him.

Me and all the other guys at work are baffled at why she is still with a guy like that. One guy asked her straight up "Why are you still with him then?" She replied, "because he treats me right and big in the pants."

Right there from a woman's own mouth. Big in the pants. That's all that matters to them. Maybe not all of them ... But most of them. From what I've seen at least.
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That's pretty anecdotal evidence though. She's not the first nor the last woman to have a rough and tumble boyfriend that treats her like garbage, and generally speaking the type of woman that stays in those situations is doing it for other reasons than sex. Plus, for all you know she's never slept with a guy bigger than 5.5" and her boyfriend is 6" so she considers that size to be big. It's just makes no sense to come to such a sweeping conclusion about women based on observational situations like that.

Men joke about and seemingly covet big tits all the time, but how many guys that you know or even yourself exclusively select and stay with women based on breast size alone? Some men even prefer small breasts are don't care one way or another, but most women are under the impression that it's tremendously important, hence the ever-growing number of boob jobs and such. I think your impression of women's interest in penis size is influenced in the same way; you've heard some women talking about it or heard it mentioned in certain ways, and this lead you to jump to some pretty heavy conclusions about it without stepping back to look at the bigger picture.

As was mentioned, I suppose for some guys it can seem like everything revolves around penis size and you're constantly being subjected to thoughts and comments on the matter, but for most people this really isn't the case. The sooner you get over that impression and approach Penis Enlargement as just a self-improvement tool, the happier you'll be. If you're too focused on that crap all the time you're going to miss out on a lot. Another half inch of girth and length is primarily going to be for your own self-confidence and generally women are going to treat you the same regardless.
 
THE reason women never admit how important dick size is because women are never honest anyway, thats why they have more friends than men and why they make freinds easier. They simply never show their true feeelings and hence never piss anyone off.

Now on tp penis size, why would they ask for a big dick when it could mean they could turn down a really handsome guy for an ugly bastard with a big dick. Its a bit like we would fuck a babe if she never washed and had yellow nails and brown teeth, would we?

we would fuck the ugly bitch with great clean pussy, white teeth etc.

but i bet if a women found two men with the same qualities, ie, good looks, personality, and wealth, they would pick the guy with the bigger dick hands down, its as simple as that.
 
If I can say something here with respect to all. It's really not that big issue for girls, unless you microsize. If you turn on chick properly, and i mean turn on, red hot..she will jump on you. BUT if I can do something with size of my member, if I have that knowledge to improve my self in that area, then i will do whatever is neccesary in order to see positive results, because of desire to improve my self, not because if i dont do that chicks wont want me, that is such a bull. I will say one more thing DLD is inspiration for us all, and we can say whatever we want, but every each one of us would love to have 10 inch cock, including me.
 
Hmm, for the guys that think penis size is such a huge deal to women, here's a scenario. They have a choice between two guys - one has a regular job, is regular looking, they like him a lot, he has our golden fleece of an 8X6 dick - which is bigger than probably 98% of the population. The other guy is wealthy, good looking, awesome personality. He has a 6X5, which is actually slightly above average but a very common size. Which one do you think she's going to take? Great looking and funny guy with cash, or the all-hallowed 8X6 dick?

Women don't even know what the hell an 8X6 dick is, and in the end penis size is pretty damn far down the list in terms of what they use to select men. True, if two exactly equal men are presented to a woman to choose from, she may choose the better endowed guy, but how often does this happen in the real world?

The moral is, Penis Enlargement for your own confidence, don't rely on it as some kind of skeleton key that will unlock any pussy you encounter. Women want to sleep with you and be with you for pretty much all your other qualities besides penis size - that's just an added bonus.
 
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Hmm, for the guys that think penis size is such a huge deal to women, here's a scenario. They have a choice between two guys - one has a regular job, is regular looking, they like him a lot, he has our golden fleece of an 8X6 dick - which is bigger than probably 98% of the population. The other guy is wealthy, good looking, awesome personality. He has a 6X5, which is actually slightly above average but a very common size. Which one do you think she's going to take? Great looking and funny guy with cash, or the all-hallowed 8X6 dick?
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Yeah but that's an 6x5 dick which is slightly above average so of course women will still go for that. Try a 5.5x4.3 dick like mine which is below average, women would take a dirt poor guy over that.

Recently there was a good looking celebrity, I forget his name. Anywway he was spotted nude by a paparazzi photographer and had a "small penis" according to teh tabloids (it looked bigger than mine TBH) and now women don't like him any more and don't consider him a sex object.

Any way you're right, an extremely good looking guy that is extremely rich gererally will have an easier time than an average guy with a big dick in getting women. Problem for me is that I'm not extremely good looking or extremely rich, so I know it doesn't apply to me and 90% of the other average guys with small dicks.

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Women don't even know what the hell an 8X6 dick is, and in the end penis size is pretty damn far down the list in terms of what they use to select men.
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Yeah... looks and money will 'get' the women. But having a big dick will 'keep' them. If I was extremely good looking and rich sure I could get a woman to have sex with me easily, but it's not like she's going to want to do it again when she discovers how small it is.
 
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Yeah but that's an 6x5 dick which is slightly above average so of course women will still go for that. Try a 5.5x4.3 dick like mine which is below average, women would take a dirt poor guy over that.

Recently there was a good looking celebrity, I forget his name. Anywway he was spotted nude by a paparazzi photographer and had a "small penis" according to teh tabloids (it looked bigger than mine TBH) and now women don't like him any more and don't consider him a sex object.

Any way you're right, an extremely good looking guy that is extremely rich gererally will have an easier time than an average guy with a big dick in getting women. Problem for me is that I'm not extremely good looking or extremely rich, so I know it doesn't apply to me and 90% of the other average guys with small dicks.



Yeah... looks and money will 'get' the women. But having a big dick will 'keep' them. If I was extremely good looking and rich sure I could get a woman to have sex with me easily, but it's not like she's going to want to do it again when she discovers how small it is.
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You'll never get any women with that attitude. I know a guy who is smaller than you who has slept with as many women as a adult entertainment star has.

And about the Jude Law photo, he's about 4" soft and all these fuckers in Hollywood were saying "look at that penis, it's like 1 inches long" and shit like that. It's all sensationalism though. Just looking to make some papers. Jude Law has been known to be quite well hung, so he's probably a grower. People are stupid when it comes to flaccid size, especially bitches.

You don't need looks, money, or a big dick to get women. It's all attitude with women dude, that's what it really boils down to. This is how those fat guys who are ugly can still get laid, they're funny as fuck and make girls giggle all the time and are just confident that they are great people, that attracts the ladies. If a broad really leaves you over your penis size, which is still in the AVERAGE range, you wouldn't want to be with her anyway. I have NEVER heard of a girl leaving a guy because of his penis in my year here at a major university. I doubt any girl other than the most heartless, superficial bitch would actually mean it if she said she left a guy over his dick size.
 
My motto after reading this thread ...

" STOP BITCHING AND START Penis Enlargement'ING" rofl

#if u are not happy with ur member

SOLUTION :" STOP BITCHING AND START Penis Enlargement'ING"

#if u think thats all gurls are after

SOLUTION :" STOP BITCHING AND START Penis Enlargement'ING"

#if u become so shallow minded that u will only think ur life is worth living if u have a bigger penis.

SOLUTION :" STOP BITCHING AND START Penis Enlargement'ING"


I rest my case :blush:
 
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Yeah but that's an 6x5 dick which is slightly above average so of course women will still go for that. Try a 5.5x4.3 dick like mine which is below average, women would take a dirt poor guy over that.

Recently there was a good looking celebrity, I forget his name. Anywway he was spotted nude by a paparazzi photographer and had a "small penis" according to teh tabloids (it looked bigger than mine TBH) and now women don't like him any more and don't consider him a sex object.

Any way you're right, an extremely good looking guy that is extremely rich gererally will have an easier time than an average guy with a big dick in getting women. Problem for me is that I'm not extremely good looking or extremely rich, so I know it doesn't apply to me and 90% of the other average guys with small dicks.



Yeah... looks and money will 'get' the women. But having a big dick will 'keep' them. If I was extremely good looking and rich sure I could get a woman to have sex with me easily, but it's not like she's going to want to do it again when she discovers how small it is.
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You're taking my scenario to extremes. The point is, there are many qualities women care way more about than penis size. If they like the rest of you a lot, the dick isn't a big deal. You don't have to be super wealth or incredibly good looking; the point was that if you have other qualities a girl likes, she's going to select you based on those and not dick size.

And so far as the celebrity that you claim women no longer want because of his penis - do you antually think that guy can't get laid anymore?

Clearly you have low self-confidence on this matter and are trying to convince yourself that women don't want to be with you because of your penis. If you want to be happy and enjoy yourself and get laid, then I really suggest that you don't take this approach.

As 10inch mentioned, I've known guys that were much smaller than average that got laid like gangbusters. One guy in particular, who was in my frat in college, was not big at all, and I'd say of all my married friends he has by far and away the hottest wife - she can't go anywhere without men drooling over her and hitting on her. He's not particularly loaded or better looking than the rest of us either, but he's funny as hell and she loves him to death - she actually bitches about the possiblity of him cheating all the time because he's a flirtatious guy.

Alternately there's a guy on my basketball team that's very well hung but he's a fucking weird character. He's also a single guy that constantly bitches about not having any sex despite the fact that he makes a ton of money as a successful software developer. I think you're approaching this wrong anyways - despite what many guys around here seem to assume, women can't automatically tell if you're well endowed in the first place, and that sure as hell doesn't prompt them to want to sleep with any guy who they think might be packing. Honestly, I get the impression from some of your attitudes that you're kind of young or inexperienced with women, but forgive me if I'm wrong.

So, if anecdotal evidence counts for anything, there you go. But seriously, your outlook on this sucks. If a girl wants to be with you she's not going to throw you out of bed because of your size, which is well within the average range by the way. Ignore the shit on this site where every single guy is 7+ inches with a massive girth - it's the internet. According to most medical surveys where men can't measure themselves your size is well average and I doubt women would consider it small. Any woman that says so is probably just an insecure bitch with a bovine vagina. Women are insecure to you know, probably a hell of a lot more than you seem to realize.
 
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Everyone is doing Penis Enlargementing to have a bigger cock. I am satisfied with mine quite a bit.Are we doing this just to keep one women or are we doing this to become male sluts? I am doing this just for myself. I don't know if it can boost my confidence anymore than what it is allready. To me this is like an excercise for my cock. If anyone is doing this just to keep one women? I would have to say your doing this for the wrong reason.There are many cock hounds out there and they are just whores and sluts, Not worth your time to waiste on them.If you want a faithful and honest to be good to you women, Change your ways and go to church. God will provide you with a good women if that is all you are looking for. You won't find a soul mate in a bar. Find one good women and she will change your whole life and make you forget about your ego problem.
 
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Everyone is doing Penis Enlargementing to have a bigger cock. I am satisfied with mine quite a bit.Are we doing this just to keep one women or are we doing this to become male sluts? I am doing this just for myself. I don't know if it can boost my confidence anymore than what it is allready. To me this is like an excercise for my cock. If anyone is doing this just to keep one women? I would have to say your doing this for the wrong reason.There are many cock hounds out there and they are just whores and sluts, Not worth your time to waiste on them.If you want a faithful and honest to be good to you women, Change your ways and go to church. God will provide you with a good women if that is all you are looking for. You won't find a soul mate in a bar. Find one good women and she will change your whole life and make you forget about your ego problem.
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Eh that's my problem I think, I'm a godless athiest with no desire to go to a church or anything, so the only places I go and meet women are where bad women hang out...

I wish there was somewhere good guys could go to meet good women who aren't religious
 
misterious said:
Eh that's my problem I think, I'm a godless athiest with no desire to go to a church or anything, so the only places I go and meet women are where bad women hang out...

I wish there was somewhere good guys could go to meet good women who aren't religious
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I too am an atheist and have had no problem meeting women of excellent character. It is foolishness to suppose that persons of any virture may only be located at some religious institution.
 
Yeah, seriously. There are more types of women in the world than jesus-infused shrews and chain-smoking bar sluts laced with herpes. Go out with your friends, talk to people, join a club, walk your dog in the park - I don't think I've ever met a girl that was good for more than one night when I was out patying. Certainly nobody I've ever really wanted to see again. I hate to pull some Tony Robbins sermonizing because I really hate that shit, but try to be a little more positive and broaden your horizons a little bit. There are plent of people meeting each other all over the place besides bars and churches. Maybe even singles [words=http://www.phallosan.com/shop/catalog/default.php?z=eNortjIxtVKyL0pNszWxMFcrSSxKTy2JL0hMT7U1UisoykyxtbBQSy4tLsnPjS8uKcrMS7dVsgZcMMpbEbo%2C]ads[/words]. I've always been of the opinion that if a woman has to advertise for dates then there's probably something wrong and I'm sure there are plenty of beasts to be found online, but there have to be a few that are just new in town and looking to meet people or just don't have a lot of time or are just shy - the point is, you're bitching about not being able to find anybody but it doesn't seem like you're working that hard at it. Take the energy out the pity and anger and do something better with it. Damn, more Tony Robbins . . .
 
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There is women who just want things done for them. There is women who will give you anything you want just to be a man to them.There is men who will be a man just for a women.You tell a women you will allways be the man you are and you can;t change. she will stay with you.Don;t try to change.

DLD. I will fall inti your trap. Your woman, Is very sexy,beyound a heaven on earth.If you can't push her buttons as you speak of on this site.. I will just by saying,ny breath she takes away for the things she does for you.

Have you ever looked into her eyes? have you ever surrendered to her. have you ever told her how you felt.
This is what I have done so many times to try to keep a piece of ass.
then I realized there is more to her than that. my past has haunted me as it has done most. I would kiss your women as a friend and say,I am not what you need.
 
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This is a Man. I learned this on my own.And many need to do the same.Email, I will give you my number, and I will stand up to you and show you what it is to be a man.I will put the fear of GOD into you just from my voice alone.
 
This is not about my cock. This about being a man. You want to tell them it's about their man hood. I am the worst memory you have in your closet. I am the ultimate fear you have ever had. I will make you my bitch everytime I see you. You will cower your your head you fag. Like I said email me, and you can bring your body guards along and they will drop before they have a chance to stand for you. Hate crime, Not really, Just american I am.
 
I don't drink much, I have not drank in a while. I am just saying, Women want men. It;s not about the size of your cock it's about your attitude,. Trust me you walk into a bar with your women and got my attitude lookin at her and say comments to her as she walks by, Your goanna loose your women to me.
It's called intimadation and women are turned on by it in a heart beat. If she stays by me and talks with me. Don't come to her with an attitude around me.

One thing,Better be able to back your shit up when this happens. Look up big cocks on the net or google, They bring up fags. Whats that telling you brothers?
 
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