How am I supposed to abstain from ejaculation? I can't go one day without masturbating. How do you guys do it?
How to abstain from masturbation?
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The Draven said:
Simple don't abstain.
Get a girlfriend, and instead of jacking off, fuck her.
Make that a goal.
When you want to make a drastic change in any area of your life, you need to raise your standards.
Go on a mission to get a girl, whether you want a relationship, or a girl to fuck, whatever.
If you have a gf and still feel like jacking off everyday, it's ok, thats normal, but this time, just bite your lip, suck it up, and don't do it. It's better, you'll feel better, be more motivated to do things, and more horny/sexual and more talkative etc.
EDIT: btw I think a good medium is jacking off every 7 days.. don't completely abstain.. overkill is just as bad.
Make that a goal.
When you want to make a drastic change in any area of your life, you need to raise your standards.
Go on a mission to get a girl, whether you want a relationship, or a girl to fuck, whatever.
If you have a gf and still feel like jacking off everyday, it's ok, thats normal, but this time, just bite your lip, suck it up, and don't do it. It's better, you'll feel better, be more motivated to do things, and more horny/sexual and more talkative etc.
EDIT: btw I think a good medium is jacking off every 7 days.. don't completely abstain.. overkill is just as bad.
umm what does a gf have to do with anything? i can fuck any bitch i want anytime i want. i'm just asking how to abstain for Penis Enlargement.
when i do Penis Enlargement, i have to masturbate.
keep yourself occupied.... i masterbate at least once daily unless theres something better to do 
ive gone wihout for like a month in the summer and recently went a week cuz i was occupied and having fun elsewhere
ive gone wihout for like a month in the summer and recently went a week cuz i was occupied and having fun elsewhereThe Draven said:
Haha sure you can.
Alright then, here's my advice to you.. Just stop, grow up a little, don't you have any will power? You need to stop being a little baby looking for a "magic pill" because there is none. Grow up and stop masturbating, it's really not hard AT ALL and just shows how mentally weak you are. (at least right now)
if id ont masturabate for a three to five days i become more aggresive and i am dangerous...really not kiddin...its because that testosterone levels are quite high due to the lack of masturabation and i know this for sure cause i check my blood
after three ejaculations the previous days and after 9 days without any masturabation masturbation at all.my testosterone levels were 55% greater...needless to say that i was ready to kill the doctor and to fuck the nurse..i got home after that to masturbate like a crazy monkey!!!!
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think about something else.dont watch porno and have a full day to be preocupied and dont stay a lot at home.masturbate once a week.thats the key for great gains.
after three ejaculations the previous days and after 9 days without any masturabation masturbation at all.my testosterone levels were 55% greater...needless to say that i was ready to kill the doctor and to fuck the nurse..i got home after that to masturbate like a crazy monkey!!!!
Pthink about something else.dont watch porno and have a full day to be preocupied and dont stay a lot at home.masturbate once a week.thats the key for great gains.
My wife love to fuck when I am done with my Penis Enlargement workouts (stretching, jelqing, pumping). She says my cock is much thicker and longer. She love it in her asshole at this time - especially when done pumping - its alot thicker for her asshole.
I fuck all the time after Penis Enlargement workouts !
I fuck all the time after Penis Enlargement workouts !
velimirovich said:
I think this man is exactly right. It's just a matter of will power bro, and I find that if you are trying to abstain the most difficult part is breaking that first day. Once you have gone one day it's almost like breaking the habit, and only when you start getting really horny again does it become difficult.
Try staying occupied as well. It only happens when you're bored and have nothing better to do with your time. Also, just try to keep your mind off of sexual things. This is easier said than done, because it's everywhere in society, but that's one of the key concepts behind abstinence in general.
wow how does your ego feel now asshole? i never asked for a god damn pill you fuck face cunt whore.velimirovich said:Haha sure you can.
Alright then, here's my advice to you.. Just stop, grow up a little, don't you have any will power? You need to stop being a little baby looking for a "magic pill" because there is none. Grow up and stop masturbating, it's really not hard AT ALL and just shows how mentally weak you are. (at least right now)
and the rest of you, thanks for hijacking my thread.
yeah but that makes me too horny. it makes me wanna ejaculate.Pandora said:
Guys, guys, stop the fightin'.
Let him jack off if he wants ? Du, the more ya jack off, the less you willl get the urge to throw your load. Also, start a strict regime of "kegel training" - this will help ya out a little - it helped me ?
I jack off all the time and fuck my wife daily, multiple times, at times. I love fucken her ass, cause its soooooo damn tight and she knows how to use her asshole muscles (PC/BC).
Good luck du,
Let him jack off if he wants ? Du, the more ya jack off, the less you willl get the urge to throw your load. Also, start a strict regime of "kegel training" - this will help ya out a little - it helped me ?
I jack off all the time and fuck my wife daily, multiple times, at times. I love fucken her ass, cause its soooooo damn tight and she knows how to use her asshole muscles (PC/BC).
Good luck du,
i keep trying to abstain but i keep caving man, idk wtf to do.
ejaculationxerexes said:
w/e helps you sleep at night bro, boost ur own ego. i get plenty of women and can have a gf when ever. just because someone has a gf doesn't mean they aren't going to masturbate. get ur head out of your ass and join real world little boyithiel said:
The Draven said:
Just like someone else said in this thread don't masterbate, only get off when you have sex with your GF, set a goal. If you can't do that then try not to do it as much, if you do it every day try to set a goal to do it once just every other day then every other 2 days etc... Really you got to have the will power and treat it like any other addiction and help yourself, if you can't do that than your pretty much hopeless.
the "real word" is mothafuckin trials and tribulations. aint nuthin funny bout 26 year old (no name necessary) slangin eights of crack to put food on the table. He dont do it to get rich or put on a fresh pair of airs. youse been blessed by God himself for a prosperous enviroment and shit. No disrespect to anyone, because I'm a person of Christ, but you dont know what the real world is like. I seen (and had) sentences given out for just the mere struggle. 
Fortunately God let me get through it and shine the light on the right path. Honestly, in the real world aint no money. You know what the money is? Fuckin crack, disiel, cane whatever you wanna call it. Living and dying by it fam. The media and shit overlook the war going down here man. Man i don't condone it but realize THIS IS the way the fucking world turns. I dont care how much incarceration time is given out, or what roadblocks is set up, the real word GOT TO EAT. And I aint had the worst life but man walk in my shoes for a while youll see what the real world is about. Mothers crying because their son will NEVER come home man. Sometimes I ask God why people who been handed shit on a silver platter take it for granted...
Open your eyes because you don't know what the real world is man. its about trying to eat more then oodles-and-noodles for dinner.
God bless....
Fortunately God let me get through it and shine the light on the right path. Honestly, in the real world aint no money. You know what the money is? Fuckin crack, disiel, cane whatever you wanna call it. Living and dying by it fam. The media and shit overlook the war going down here man. Man i don't condone it but realize THIS IS the way the fucking world turns. I dont care how much incarceration time is given out, or what roadblocks is set up, the real word GOT TO EAT. And I aint had the worst life but man walk in my shoes for a while youll see what the real world is about. Mothers crying because their son will NEVER come home man. Sometimes I ask God why people who been handed shit on a silver platter take it for granted...
Open your eyes because you don't know what the real world is man. its about trying to eat more then oodles-and-noodles for dinner.
God bless....
I have gone eight months without beating off before. What happens is after a month it's no problem, you rarely get any more urges. However, the reason this is is because your nuts sort of "turn off" because they are not in use regularly. Your body puts the proteins to build other things. I guess it has to do with biological mating seasons. If you're not mating, you need the energy to be doing other things.
Here's a tip: you can jack off, just jelq and/or jack off with a clamp on, that way, you'll be getting yourself off and you'll gain!
You can use a pump for that, too. Jacking the tube is AMAZING.
Here's a tip: you can jack off, just jelq and/or jack off with a clamp on, that way, you'll be getting yourself off and you'll gain!
You can use a pump for that, too. Jacking the tube is AMAZING.
groc said:
It's not only [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words].. but it's more of a certain drive and motivation it brings to you. More aggressive with men, and more sexual with women.
After about a month you turn into more of a bitch. It's like your testosterone production shuts off because you aren't using it.
I'd say jack off at least once a month, if not once a week. When I jack off once a week my testosterone drive is usually at its peak.
I'd say jack off at least once a month, if not once a week. When I jack off once a week my testosterone drive is usually at its peak.
ithiel said:the "real word" is mothafuckin trials and tribulations. aint nuthin funny bout 26 year old (no name necessary) slangin eights of crack to put food on the table. He dont do it to get rich or put on a fresh pair of airs. youse been blessed by God himself for a prosperous enviroment and shit. No disrespect to anyone, because I'm a person of Christ, but you dont know what the real world is like. I seen (and had) sentences given out for just the mere struggle.
Fortunately God let me get through it and shine the light on the right path. Honestly, in the real world aint no money. You know what the money is? Fuckin crack, disiel, cane whatever you wanna call it. Living and dying by it fam. The media and shit overlook the war going down here man. Man i don't condone it but realize THIS IS the way the fucking world turns. I dont care how much incarceration time is given out, or what roadblocks is set up, the real word GOT TO EAT. And I aint had the worst life but man walk in my shoes for a while youll see what the real world is about. Mothers crying because their son will NEVER come home man. Sometimes I ask God why people who been handed shit on a silver platter take it for granted...
Open your eyes because you don't know what the real world is man. its about trying to eat more then oodles-and-noodles for dinner.
God bless....
actually the real worlds about overcoming all those obstacles, becoming educated in the hell hole of poverty and urban life, even with opression on your back. thats teh real world jack. Not falling victim to every fucking pot hole you see coming and know thats its there. use your brain. so much MORE legit money out there than any street grind. believe that. what you make enough to put food on the table stash some money for a rainy day? theres legit people black white, hispanic, that make a million a month in some sectors. they rose above it. rise about the pit of poverty. NO one is forced to do ANYTHING no matter what color or status, not in this country. Too many people are in their OWN prision, mental bondage. you put yourself in there, the choice is yours. My close friend locked up for murder 25 years at 24 years old with a baby and wife all cause hes slanging some rock and shit went wrong. My cuzin 13 years in elmira and Sing Sing, 13 years bro!!! in the hole for 7 months straight! like an animal. just becuase he couldn't rise above.
so if you think thats hard? that aint hard, theres nothing hard about selling drugs. whats hard is being legit and making it work. selling drugs thats dumb. Hard is making a difference with your life. Hard really is robert dinero in a bronx tale.
Don't cry when you goto jail cause thats the road you chose to ride. A child can pull a trigger and sell drugs a MAN can make the world change. the problem is we should all str8 up and make our mothers proud not cry. thats the REAL REAL. you don't like something in this life, simply put you take action to change it. Just like you don't like the size of your dick, you take action to change it. belief will get you there, if there is no belief theres no hope and no hope means one is forever lost.
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The Draven said:
I don't and neither should you. The inclusion of masturbation and ejaculation a a large part of my newest exercise: http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/...omething-incredible-happening-my-orgasms.html
ithiel said:
Reality is Pacino at the end of the movie.
8 months without an orgasm or was that 8 months without self masterbation?
if thats 8 months without orgasm,then i dont get it.
if you are comfortable goin 8 months without orgasm,surely that means that ur sex drive is not there,whats the point in making ur cock bigger?
did u edge in this time,then just stop b4 ejaculation,or not even edge?
im not having a go at anyone(cnt remmember who said this)im just wondering why anyone wud want to go that long,an in aid of what?
sorry im just intrigued.
oh yeah,and i agree with DLD,i see masterbation as a key part,as i find it especially helps to stretch,masterbate then stretch again for extra pliability(dunno if thats a real word lol), or to build up [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] for when real sex comes around.
if thats 8 months without orgasm,then i dont get it.
if you are comfortable goin 8 months without orgasm,surely that means that ur sex drive is not there,whats the point in making ur cock bigger?
did u edge in this time,then just stop b4 ejaculation,or not even edge?
im not having a go at anyone(cnt remmember who said this)im just wondering why anyone wud want to go that long,an in aid of what?
sorry im just intrigued.
oh yeah,and i agree with DLD,i see masterbation as a key part,as i find it especially helps to stretch,masterbate then stretch again for extra pliability(dunno if thats a real word lol), or to build up [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] for when real sex comes around.
hooray4boobies said:
I orgasmed in my sleep sometimes. I did not ejaculate when I played with myself for over 8 months. I actually sort of forgot how to jack off when I got back into it.
Dude, your sex drive really drops off after a month of not beating off, it's like it shuts down to go to other areas of the body. I was also 14 at the time I believe, and I was not working out or doing anything to raise my testosterone levels other than simply growing.
And even if I didn't have the drive, I'd still enlarge my penis as I do it for me, and not really for someone else.
I agree with DLD. Make masturbation and ejaculation a part of your routine. Reward yourself after a good P.E. session. I don't see a problem here.
there was a post a while back I just recalled. Like 10 minutes before I start stretches I jack off then do a hot wrap warm up, stretch, then just throw on a lil adult entertainment to help during jelq's. My dick feels relaxed and stretching gets a lot easier and I don't have trouble getting some blood flow a lil later.