Tl;dr getting back into PE after a 4 year relationship

The story:

I first logged into [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] sometime in '09 as a sex-obsessed freshman in college. I was dedicated to my practice, never finished when masturbating, went through the basic routine, got a cable clamp, [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words] and other fun toys. I ended up making some decent progress getting up to ~5.5ish girth and 7.625 in BPEL. At the time I was stupid confident around women and my sexual ability. I had girls tell me I was the only guy to make them cum in years. I heard about exes singing my praises and caught come hither eyes from their friends at the bar. I had a girl once tell me I seemed like I walked around like I had always just gotten out of some great sex earlier. It was like I had a magnet in my pants.

Then I met my ex. The first year of my last year of uni, we started dating. She was a great girl but took me off my game. She had trouble taking my length, so I stopped with that. I got lazy with my [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words] and she threw it away during a move. I discovered that she was one of the 40% of girls who can't have an orgasm from penetration alone so sex became heavily focused on clit stimulation. I had no need for [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] because there was no point. Her sex drive was lower than mine so over the course of 4 years I neutered myself with adult entertainment and masturbation and dropped to her level.

We broke up just over a month ago, and to be honest I was relieved. I always thought about how far I had fallen and what it would be like to be single again, and now I'm here. And I want that destroyer-of-worlds boner confidence back.

Main goals:

1. Get my [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] back
2. Get back to my initial 7.625"x5.5ish stats
3. Push through for my final goal of 8.5" x 6"

To that end I'm focusing on the following techniques

1. Edging with a cock ring (manual for now, just ordered a [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]fleshlight[/words] [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]STU[/words])
2. DLD's [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words] routine (rebuying an [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]X40[/words] in the next week or so)
3. [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?44-Ace-Strapped-Jims-Joint]Ace bandage[/words] wrapping (new development since I was last here)
4. Daily kegel work
5. Fancy pants clamping/girth exercises down the line

I have some restrictions on time with a roommate and being busy as hell running a business and dating in NYC, so wherever possible I'm taking an 80/20 approach. Also, I quit adult entertainment and masturbating to completion the day of the breakup and intend to keep it that way. A big question here is whether "muscle memory" exists in the penis to get me back to my old max.

STARTING STATS
Flaccid hang: 4.75"
NBPEL: 6.75
BPEL: 7.25"
MSEG: 5"
BG: 5.5

GOAL 1 (w/in 3 months)
BPEL: 7.625"
MSEG: 5.5"

GOAL 2 (w/in 12 months)
BPEL: 8"
NBPEL: 7.5"
MSEG: 6"

FINAL BOSS (whenever)
9" BPEL OR 7" MSEG so I can message a girl on OKCupid called SizeQueen9plus to reward myself for all this hard work
 
Sometimes it take the wrong person to set us in the direction of the right one. God works in mysterious ways and we need to trust in this and that we will be just fine. I am happy you have ended a toxic relationship and stopped wasting time on an investment that will never come to fruition. With that said, there is absolutely no reason to rush into a new relationship, take some time to get to know ourself better and start working on those goals.

Your lost gains will return immediately so have no fear there, going beyond this? Check out [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words], the biggest thing in PE since PE was invented. It is the best possible workout and the thread will give you great direction in all parts of "modern" pe. Even if you forego the actual [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] workout you still should study to learn some very important practices that should be used in every workout. Have a look through and give me your feedback. From there I can help you rework this routine to be more gainful.

DLD
 
True that sometimes the wrong bloody people can help you to get to a right direction,they may never get nowhere but helps to understand that we are valuable people.

D you have grown a thick skin and you have gone beyond,most men and women would dream of....

Even when i have been very flimsy and undisciplined,you are always helping us all.
 
Thanks for the words of support guys, I really appreciate it.

DLD - I read through the first post in the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] thread and it sounds awesome! I'm going to probably work up to something similar, focusing on edging, wrapping and [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words] routine to get the [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] and girth gains first. Quick question - do you know what the packaging looks like on the bonus items for ordering the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]x40[/words] through the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] link? I'm ready to pull the trigger but I have a female roommate that would be super weirded out if she ever found this stuff.

Journal stuff:

So I ended up jumping into the deep end with some DLD blasters on Monday and my red dots turned into blood blisters. The kegels fill me up and there is way too much head pressure! I have been off the stretching since then until they go away which I'm hoping is by next week. Will probably focus on BTC stretching once they calm down

I've been hitting a good 15-20 minute edging session before bed the last few nights. I'm getting a pretty good hang which has always been a challenge for me.

Should be getting my [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]fleshlight[/words] [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]STU[/words] unit any day now. Need to come up with a good way to hide it and clean it. Her room is right next to the kitchen and bathroom sinks and we don't have a dishwasher (gotta love NYC apartments). Time wise I usually do this at night before bed so I'm thinking about getting a bucket/container to hide under my bed with soapy water and changing it out in the morning when she leaves for work in the AM.
 
Round2;694464 said:
Thanks for the words of support guys, I really appreciate it.

DLD - I read through the first post in the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] thread and it sounds awesome! I'm going to probably work up to something similar, focusing on edging, wrapping and [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words] routine to get the [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] and girth gains first. Quick question - do you know what the packaging looks like on the bonus items for ordering the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]x40[/words] through the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] link? I'm ready to pull the trigger but I have a female roommate that would be super weirded out if she ever found this stuff.

Thanks for reading and I hope you got a great education to the newest and greatest!
 
Never let a woman derail you from any dream/goal that you set your mind to. The vast majority, (when they see their man making improvements) are so desperately insecure that they'll sabotage you to the point that you just give in/up and succumb to their level. The problem is, the very thing that attracts them is our male-ness and that's the first thing they attack once you're committed.
 
Alright guys bit of an issue.

My red dots have subsided but I tried to do a super basic stretch for 30s in the shower. Blood ended up collecting in my glans and some of the red spots came back. How do you guys avoid this?

It's a big problem for me during rotary stretches in particular, but generally as things continue I tend to get a bit of blood in there and I'm in trouble.
 
Fleshlight [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]STU[/words] just came in the mail and FUCK ME is that thing tight. Did a ~10 minute edging session and it was just about all I could do not to bust in 3 strokes when I reached the PONR.

Don't know whether it was from the lube drying out or getting over sensation by coming close a few times, but about 5 minutes in I got desensitized and got some pounding in. It was mega tight, I feel like if nothing else I'm going to desensitize the nerves a bit which should do well for [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words].

Back in my heyday I used to have something similar. If I could get close a few times, I would lose a bunch of sensation and would be fucking to keep my erection, not backing away from the edge. If I can practice this on the daily I should be back up to my potential in no time. Watch out women of New York.
 
Round2;694644 said:
Fleshlight [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]STU[/words] just came in the mail and FUCK ME is that thing tight. Did a ~10 minute edging session and it was just about all I could do not to bust in 3 strokes when I reached the PONR.

Don't know whether it was from the lube drying out or getting over sensation by coming close a few times, but about 5 minutes in I got desensitized and got some pounding in. It was mega tight, I feel like if nothing else I'm going to desensitize the nerves a bit which should do well for [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words].

Back in my heyday I used to have something similar. If I could get close a few times, I would lose a bunch of sensation and would be fucking to keep my erection, not backing away from the edge. If I can practice this on the daily I should be back up to my potential in no time. Watch out women of New York.

The best thing to practice longevity on is the [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]FleshLight[/words]. If practice is done regularly you will last as long as you like in bed!
 
New [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]hydromax[/words] came in the mail on Friday. I'm still trying to figure out how to work it in without my roommate catching me but I've gotten a few sessions in and my hang is already starting to feel thicker. Not measuring until the end of the month but I'm excited to see what it says

I went ahead and got an [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?44-Ace-Strapped-Jims-Joint]ACE bandage[/words]. Tried to do [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?44-Ace-Strapped-Jims-Joint]Uncle Jim[/words]'s wrap after a session with the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]x40[/words] and I don't really know if I was doing it right. I used the whole thing and it looked like I had a goddamn avocado in my pants. There's NO WAY I'll be able to leave the house with that. Am I doing something wrong?

Continuing to edge with the [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]fleshlight[/words]. It was a bit much to do it clamped but now that I have the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]x40[/words] I think I'm going to ease up on that as my main method of girth training. [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]Stamina[/words] is getting way better in the [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]STU[/words], haven't had sex since I've gotten it so I can't really comment on performance but I've got a bunch of dates lined up so hopefully I can show this thing to one of them haha.
 
Running into some trouble with the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]x40[/words]. I was able to get one good 5m session in but I was having trouble getting it to stay on for the second one and gave up. Air seems to be getting in through the rubber seal. The [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]comfort pad[/words] is new to me, the manual references a short version which I didn't receive. I'm probably going to order a vacuvin on amazon.

Anyway, rounded off that session with 100 jelqs at 90-100%. The hang was awesome, I felt like I owed it to myself to do a wrap which I'm going to leave on before I leave the house. I work in a coworking space with friends so I still have to figure out a way to keep the wrap on while not looking like I'm crotch stuffing. I might have to change my style up lol - I wear jeans for the most part but I might have to switch to something baggier like those sweatpants that everyone is wearing these days (https://www.g-star.com/en_us/produc...55.W034.6260?gclid=COK-vIam8MwCFQ1ahgodplYChQ)
 
Round2;695043 said:
Running into some trouble with the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]x40[/words]. I was able to get one good 5m session in but I was having trouble getting it to stay on for the second one and gave up. Air seems to be getting in through the rubber seal. The [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]comfort pad[/words] is new to me, the manual references a short version which I didn't receive. I'm probably going to order a vacuvin on amazon.

Anyway, rounded off that session with 100 jelqs at 90-100%. The hang was awesome, I felt like I owed it to myself to do a wrap which I'm going to leave on before I leave the house. I work in a coworking space with friends so I still have to figure out a way to keep the wrap on while not looking like I'm crotch stuffing. I might have to change my style up lol - I wear jeans for the most part but I might have to switch to something baggier like those sweatpants that everyone is wearing these days (https://www.g-star.com/en_us/produc...55.W034.6260?gclid=COK-vIam8MwCFQ1ahgodplYChQ)

The Wine-Vac is a must unless you get the X-Treme. It changes the whole pumping game 100%
 
Round2;695028 said:
I went ahead and got an [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?44-Ace-Strapped-Jims-Joint]ACE bandage[/words]. Tried to do [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?44-Ace-Strapped-Jims-Joint]Uncle Jim[/words]'s wrap after a session with the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]x40[/words] and I don't really know if I was doing it right. I used the whole thing and it looked like I had a goddamn avocado in my pants. There's NO WAY I'll be able to leave the house with that. Am I doing something wrong?

I'm usually fine with 1/2-3/4 of an [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?44-Ace-Strapped-Jims-Joint]ace bandage[/words] depending on whether I use it for elongation or wrapping.
 
Munto;695359 said:
I'm usually fine with 1/2-3/4 of an [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?44-Ace-Strapped-Jims-Joint]ace bandage[/words] depending on whether I use it for elongation or wrapping.

Men should know this, when [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?44-Ace-Strapped-Jims-Joint]ACE[/words] comes to you it will be a long roll. You can cut pieces to length for certain applications.
 
Thanks for the tips guys. Vacuvin is in the mail as of a few days ago.

So in the days after my last post the hang was ridiculous. I was strapped for time and didn't train Th-F so I was pretty much coasting and it was still diesel. I am a believer in wrapping now!

Just finished up a girth session (5m [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]BM[/words]/100 jelqs/5m [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]BM[/words]/100 jelqs/5m [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]BM[/words]/ one [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-forum/12539-slow-squash-jelq-nothing-give-me-better-expansion.html]SSJ[/words]) have some observations:
1. The [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]comfort pad[/words] is key to sealing in the water. The rubber seal is just too flexible
2. I was having trouble with air leaking in, so I thought about how to move it and came up with the solution of lying on my back. Huge difference! It was 100% hydrostatic pressure as opposed to 50/50 when there was an air bubble on top

Wrapped the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?44-Ace-Strapped-Jims-Joint]ACE bandage[/words] TIGHT so there is blood going into my head. Roommate is out of town so I'm going to keep it on for a few hours.

Fun PS: ended up taking a date back Wednesday night after my latest girth session so I got to make the most of it! I wish I had one of those moments when her jaw dropped or something but not today. I did get to make some fun jokes like "I wonder if it will fit" plus dirty talking about having a big dick and it felt natural which is really all I wanted out of this. BJ this time but she'll get stretched out next time she comes over.
 
Round2;695461 said:
Fun PS: ended up taking a date back Wednesday night after my latest girth session so I got to make the most of it! I wish I had one of those moments when her jaw dropped or something but not today. I did get to make some fun jokes like "I wonder if it will fit" plus dirty talking about having a big dick and it felt natural which is really all I wanted out of this. BJ this time but she'll get stretched out next time she comes over.

Having girls make 'big' comments is very addictive...such positive reinforcement will give you even more motivation (kind of a compounding effect)
 
Big Schwanz Acht;695463 said:
Having girls make 'big' comments is very addictive...such positive reinforcement will give you even more motivation (kind of a compounding effect)

Definitely need to look for those comments too,but i have to get the girls first hehe any suggestions for me LOL
 
shortdick;695465 said:
Definitely need to look for those comments too,but i have to get the girls first hehe any suggestions for me LOL

I'm afraid they won't make those comments, so I rarely look :/!
 
Big Schwanz Acht;695495 said:
I'm certain you've had a few mention that you're 'large'

Well, no woman ever told me I was small, so that's at least something :)
edit: or at least directly at my cock
 
So I sort of fucked myself up on the no adult entertainment thing yesterday. I've been seeing a really cute girl who is a bit of a tease and was able to get her into bed Saturday night. We didn't have sex and she ended up going home but I was DYING for release and ended up throwing some adult entertainment on and letting loose like Mt. Vesuvius.

Having fallen off the bandwagon I woke up the next morning and binge watched for like an hour and finished which prevented me from doing any productive girth work. Felt pretty shit about myself afterwards but hey I needed to get it out of my system. Back on the no-adult entertainment train for me.

Today's log:
3x30s + rotary cranks down
5x3 [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words] with 100 jelqs, 100 jelqs and [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-forum/12539-slow-squash-jelq-nothing-give-me-better-expansion.html]SSJ[/words] after
Edging/STU 20 minutes
 
Munto;695511 said:
Well, no woman ever told me I was small, so that's at least something :)
edit: or at least directly at my cock

good news all of these years working the penis out needs a reward..Dont you think:cool:
 
Round2;695552 said:
So I sort of fucked myself up on the no adult entertainment thing yesterday. I've been seeing a really cute girl who is a bit of a tease and was able to get her into bed Saturday night. We didn't have sex and she ended up going home but I was DYING for release and ended up throwing some adult entertainment on and letting loose like Mt. Vesuvius.

Having fallen off the bandwagon I woke up the next morning and binge watched for like an hour and finished which prevented me from doing any productive girth work. Felt pretty shit about myself afterwards but hey I needed to get it out of my system. Back on the no-adult entertainment train for me.

Today's log:
3x30s + rotary cranks down
5x3 [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words] with 100 jelqs, 100 jelqs and [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-forum/12539-slow-squash-jelq-nothing-give-me-better-expansion.html]SSJ[/words] after
Edging/STU 20 minutes

You could've done some length work after masturbating :)!
 
That train always ends up wrecking. I think it is smarter and safer to have a disciplined release at least once per week.
 
WOOOOOF sorry for the delay guys it's been a weird month or so. Things have really been getting crazy with the business and it's really tough to justify PE when there are clients that need me.

Thankfully I'm getting through some of that with the hiring of an account manager plus I've figured out my roommate's patterns so I don't accidentally get caught with a [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words] wrapped around my cock.

It's been a pretty good month from a sex perspective, have ended up sleeping with 3 new girls since my last post. One of which was the tease from last time! One was pretty obsessed with the d, said it was big and really orgasmic which was cool. 'The tease' was coming out of a relationship with a guy who was like 6'8 and I think had a pretty big piece. I asked her straight up because I'm a masochist like that and she said his was bigger. Not gutted or anything (I'm better at using mine apparently) but looks like there's always something to shoot for. Third was a one night stand who I'm trying to convert but it might take a while. Struck out with a pokemon go date this past Sunday lol.

I'm still trying to hit the core 5x3 [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words] routine from [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] plus basic stretching as often as I can which is probably working up to 3-5x per week. I haven't gotten base measurements yet but now have prime so I'll get a cloth measure. I'm clocking in around 7-7.25 in the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words] length wise but girth is really what I'm after at this point. When I have time at night I've been working in some edging with the [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]fleshlight[/words] [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]STU[/words] but overall [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] hasn't been a concern.
 
Hey guys. Been doing pretty well with the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words] routine, probably settling in at 3-5x per week depending on my schedule. It ends up taking me at least 30m to do and I have to do it during 'productive time' during the workday so it's been easy for me to avoid but I am doing when I can.

Have been thinking about jumping back on the DLD Blasters. I always felt pretty good about my length but was having a frank discussion with a girl I've been seeing who said I was average >:(

Not that I let a woman's feedback determine what I feel about myself but knowing I can get to the point where it isn't a question would be better.
 
Round2;700520 said:
Hey guys. Been doing pretty well with the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words] routine, probably settling in at 3-5x per week depending on my schedule. It ends up taking me at least 30m to do and I have to do it during 'productive time' during the workday so it's been easy for me to avoid but I am doing when I can.

Have been thinking about jumping back on the DLD Blasters. I always felt pretty good about my length but was having a frank discussion with a girl I've been seeing who said I was average >:(

Not that I let a woman's feedback determine what I feel about myself but knowing I can get to the point where it isn't a question would be better.

Round2 I am excited to see you here with a plan and I am very happy you have taken to [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?64036-My-Best-Work-Ever-Penis-Enlargement-will-Be-Changed-Forever-gt-gt-Gain%20inches%20with%20SRT-Theory-and-Routine]SRT[/words] so well. what is your final goal?
 
So my main goal was originally 6" girth x 7.5" nbpel. I have been downplaying length because I'm much closer to that goal and had issues with going too deep on my ex.

Now that I'm in the single life I'm realizing that she was the odd one and if I overshoot my goals on length it shouldn't be a problem. So I'll probably reach that quicker (was close to 7.5" in the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bath mate[/words] today) but screw it!

Side note: my red dots are back after doing only 10 dld blasters. Any tips on stopping this? I have a lot of blood in my head from the kegels I think
 
Ok guys finally got a cloth measure. Been about a week since I have gotten to any girth work so this is zero fluid retention.

NBPEL: 6.75"
BPEL: 7.25"
MSEG: 5.0"
BG: 6.0"

Definitely bummed about the girth numbers considering the time I've been putting in. My inner pessimist wonders if it's all just fluid retention at the end of the day and it'll drop back to whatever I started at within a week if I ever stop. Length stuff has been keeping up too - was around 7.5" in the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words] today. I wonder if I'm just a natural gainer for length.

At any rate I want to expand my girth work. Wearing a cock ring right now post session, should be able to do this pretty much any time except for girth work directly before bed. I got back into edging with the cock ring last week which gave some good hang so I'm going to look into do that more often. Also going to do some research into advanced clamping stuff Ă  la red zulu. Don't want to go TOO nuts and hurt myself but maybe upping to two \-a-days a few times per week.

Another thing is consistency. This was after about a week of no [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]BM[/words] due to travel so good opportunity but not something I want to keep up. I have been hitting 3-5x per week for the weeks leading up to this and want to keep it up, and in addition try to go no more than one day off. This was a major key for me in BJJ and a big consequence is hitting one weekend day which should keep me on the wagon.
 
When using your [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]BathMate[/words] what is the routine you were doing?
 
doublelongdaddy;701182 said:
When using your [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]BathMate[/words] what is the routine you were doing?

3x5 with [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-forum/12539-slow-squash-jelq-nothing-give-me-better-expansion.html]ssj[/words] in between. I was actually going to ask, what do you think about [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-forum/12539-slow-squash-jelq-nothing-give-me-better-expansion.html]ssj[/words] vs jelqs in between for girth gains?

Also going to order a vacuvin and sea clamo right now
 
Round2;701478 said:
3x5 with [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-forum/12539-slow-squash-jelq-nothing-give-me-better-expansion.html]ssj[/words] in between. I was actually going to ask, what do you think about [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-forum/12539-slow-squash-jelq-nothing-give-me-better-expansion.html]ssj[/words] vs jelqs in between for girth gains?

Also going to order a vacuvin and sea clamo right now

Jelqs are just fine but you will need to massage the retention out after your session. Jelqs, being an open end exercise will not encapsulate the expansion in one place as with [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-forum/12539-slow-squash-jelq-nothing-give-me-better-expansion.html]SSJ[/words] so it will not work too well with retention. So if you are using the kjelq be sure to massage after. The Wine-Vac is a very smart, cheap investment. It makes the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]BathMate[/words] a beast!
 
Hey guys sorry for the delay. I ended up going on an extended trip which forced me out of PE. I have been on an absolute tear as far as picking up girls and am throwing HEAT in the sheets. Will post some texts later that should get you guys motivated.

Anyhoo, I'm going for a pretty basic routine lately that has been easy to comply with. I shoot for this every day I'm not having sex. Basically I'm edging with a clamp on for 20-40 minutes and doing forward and lateral bends. If I'm going to jerk off anyway, I might as well get some expansion!

I haven't done a proper measurement in some time but will get some soon. By the way my cock feels in my hand I've gotten some good gains midshaft, and I think the bends are filling up the upper shaft in a way I haven't really gotten before. Going to reap as many gains as I can from this before it stops. Nothing crazy yet as I've probably been consistent for a few weeks but I can pretty much continue this indefinitely as it's really easy to stick to.
[words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]Bathmate[/words] hasn't been getting much use but I'm expecting to go there once the clamping stops working. Still tough figuring out with the roommate and my own schedule, this is easy to do in my room so I don't have to sweat it too much. Also could probably be working the length a bit more but I'm not suuuuper concerned about that anyway.
 
Glad to have you back my Brother! Has clamping been working for you? Also, get that [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]BathMate[/words] out and jump on the 5x5x3 routine...expansiion and girth gains are amazing!
 
Going pretty well man! I'm shooting to do it every day and don't beat myself up too bad if I miss one. I'm not dropping jaws yet when I end up pulling it out but I usually get a comment on being sizeable from the girls.

I definitely need to get back on the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words]. After I figured out how to keep the pressure going by lying on my back in the shower, it was feeling really strong. I always remember the flaccid hang was great too.

One last thing in the spirit of NYE - I'm trying to wean myself off of adult entertainment again. For this routine I've been getting like half an hour in before bed. Great for EQ but I've had a few situations where I've been soft during foreplay recently. I always get it up for the main event so I'm not concerned about ED but I would feel like I was a better lay if I was hard from the jump.

I've been here before and I know it reverses itself within a few weeks of dialing it back and/or not finishing. So cold turkey for a bit and then settling into a controlled release situation. Edging was my big rationalization for getting back into it so if I can get that sorted I should be fine.
 
Also just for funzies - this is the kind of stuff that keeps me going! She was a cam girl I met on tinder who was in town for a few days, went across the country and still texts me like every other day. TOO MUCH POWER

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Good thing I can't see the attachment because I feel like its porno and I would do good to stay non pornographic as much as possible
 
templnite;720090 said:
Good thing I can't see the attachment because I feel like its porno and I would do good to stay non pornographic as much as possible

I can not see it either.
 
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like this:
 
Eh no worries it wasn't that cool - just a screencap from some girl talking about the d.

So I finally got the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words] out and have worked a bit of stretching into my AM routine. Right now I have a hard time doing more than 30s down/right/left plus 30 rotary cranks each without getting blood blisters on my head. DLD blasters used to be a favorite but those hit me the worse. After about a week though I'm seeing a difference. I haven't measured length but visually I think I already have the first .25 back just from loosening up the tendon.

Major update for this post is the effect of no adult entertainment. I was pretty busy and didn't go on any dates so it was a week since I had finished so I was feeling like a caged animal when I finally got some action last night. My EQ was mega strong and I had way more sensation. Overall really glad on the decision so far.

A side effect of clamping without adult entertainment is that I'm less concerned about what's going on my tablet and more concerned with the task at hand. I've taken this time to focus on doing bends and SSJs. Hit about 30 minutes just now. Did get a [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]BM[/words] session in last week but am still trying to figure it out. I think if I'm going harder in my session with the bends it'll be tough to sustain every night anyway so if I miss a few because I'm drinking or with a girl it doesn't kill me. Also at this point I notice a pretty good hang they day after I have sex so I almost count that as a session lol. Maybe only with the tight girls...
 
Big Schwanz Acht;721861 said:
PE has completely transformed the way my brain works while having sex...I consider it an 'edging session' now, lol

lol, that is a good one but, since it is the truth, it is even funnier!
 
Guys finally got some measurements in. This is ~48 hours from any girth work and no stretching today so relatively 'clean'

NBPEL 6.375"
BPEL 7.25"
MSEG: 5"
BG: 5.5"

Having second thoughts about my length goals. 8.5" is pretty badass on paper but I'm already a bit inconvenienced at 7ish BPEL and can't go all the way in on some girls because of hitting the cervix. Not that I've ever had a coke can but physiologically I think the average girl is less likely to be hurt by a thicker cock and would enjoy it more than length.

Sucks because length has come relatively easily to me and I have to fight for girth!
 
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