I was just wondering what causes premature ejaculation. I used to be able to last however i wanted, but now I bust after like 5 minutes in a pussy. I can last forever getting head, but as soon as i start stroking in a pussy i start to lose it even if i go slow. I edge and do kegels, but still it doesn't change. Could it be from high blood pressure? I recently got my blood pressure taken and it's super high and my heartbeat is kinda high too, even though i'm only 20 and not even remotely overweight (pretty sure it's from stress)
Causes of Premature Ejaculation?
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From what I know, high blood pressure can cause this kind of thing to happen. Associated with stress this only makes the problem worse. If you can lower your stress somehow and get your blood pressure down this should help you get back to the old way of being able to last as long as you want to.
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Causes are mainly psychological, we fear or expect that we will have an issue an it manifests itself due to the thought process. The reasons are not as important as the solution. There are several ways youc an approach this. On the Matters of Size Member Site I have a few exercises that are based in a cognitive environment that will help you train you mind to think differently. These exercises will also help go for as long as you like, but you will need to master them. I personally can have sex for as long as I like and I fully control when I come. I accomplished this through the exercises I have on the members site. My gift to you is those exercises
Pre-Mature Ejaculation
Pre-Mature Ejaculation is something many men suffer with. I have found many different ideas in helping with this that I have included below. I do want to say that this problem will fade from simply doing my program. When most men, myself included, got familiar with manual penis enlargement exercise the problem just seems to fade. The reason this problem does go away is the constant stimulation of the exercises. This constant stimulus trains the penis to last longer and longer. Also mastering the thought process and changing the way we see things, or our perspective, you will be able to go for ever! In the mean time here are some great techniques.:
Becoming in touch with your orgasm
There is a very fine line between cuming and about to cum. making this distinction is the first step in having more staying power.
Identify your brink of orgasm
You will want to identify the fine line that separates cuming from about to cum. During this period pay special attention to what brings you almost to orgasm. What are your thoughts? How long does it take to get there? Keep Track of this information for future reference. The goal here is to paint a mental picture of your orgasm and identify just what brings you to this brink and what you can do to stop it.
Breathing to Reduce Excitement
Simply taking a deep breath at the brink of orgasm is a very effective way to reduce your excitement level and reset your orgasm. It does not work for everyone but it is worth trying.
Breathing to Reset Orgasm
When you feel that you are getting too close to orgasm, just completely stop and take a deep breath. Give yourself a minute or two to reset your mental orgasm. Once you feel that you have reset this mental orgasm continue with the confidence that the physical orgasm is far off. You will find with practice this process will give you longer and longer periods of staying power. Eventually this mental reset will happen automatically with no pause.
The Squeeze Techniques
When you feel close to your orgasm completely stop, pull out, take a deep breath and apply one of these two squeezing methods. One method usually works better for men than the other so try them both.
BASE SQUEEZE: at the brink of orgasm stop, take a deep breath. Using the OK grip squeeze the base of your penis and squeeze until the urge has faded.
UP SQUEEZE: at the brink of orgasm stop, take a deep breath. Using the forefinger and thumb squeeze the top and bottom of your penis just below the glans until the urge to orgasm has faded.
DLD Push
The DLD Push is a technique to prolong orgasm and remain erect after orgasm. This method involved a hard reverse kegel right at the brink of orgasm. It takes some practice but once it is mastered 4-5 orgasms are possible.
Reverse Psychology
A great technique that seems to work very well for me is the Reverse Psychology method. Previously to having sex I convince myself that I am going to have problems ejaculation.
Pre-Mature Ejaculation
Pre-Mature Ejaculation is something many men suffer with. I have found many different ideas in helping with this that I have included below. I do want to say that this problem will fade from simply doing my program. When most men, myself included, got familiar with manual penis enlargement exercise the problem just seems to fade. The reason this problem does go away is the constant stimulation of the exercises. This constant stimulus trains the penis to last longer and longer. Also mastering the thought process and changing the way we see things, or our perspective, you will be able to go for ever! In the mean time here are some great techniques.:
Becoming in touch with your orgasm
There is a very fine line between cuming and about to cum. making this distinction is the first step in having more staying power.
Identify your brink of orgasm
You will want to identify the fine line that separates cuming from about to cum. During this period pay special attention to what brings you almost to orgasm. What are your thoughts? How long does it take to get there? Keep Track of this information for future reference. The goal here is to paint a mental picture of your orgasm and identify just what brings you to this brink and what you can do to stop it.
Breathing to Reduce Excitement
Simply taking a deep breath at the brink of orgasm is a very effective way to reduce your excitement level and reset your orgasm. It does not work for everyone but it is worth trying.
Breathing to Reset Orgasm
When you feel that you are getting too close to orgasm, just completely stop and take a deep breath. Give yourself a minute or two to reset your mental orgasm. Once you feel that you have reset this mental orgasm continue with the confidence that the physical orgasm is far off. You will find with practice this process will give you longer and longer periods of staying power. Eventually this mental reset will happen automatically with no pause.
The Squeeze Techniques
When you feel close to your orgasm completely stop, pull out, take a deep breath and apply one of these two squeezing methods. One method usually works better for men than the other so try them both.
BASE SQUEEZE: at the brink of orgasm stop, take a deep breath. Using the OK grip squeeze the base of your penis and squeeze until the urge has faded.
UP SQUEEZE: at the brink of orgasm stop, take a deep breath. Using the forefinger and thumb squeeze the top and bottom of your penis just below the glans until the urge to orgasm has faded.
DLD Push
The DLD Push is a technique to prolong orgasm and remain erect after orgasm. This method involved a hard reverse kegel right at the brink of orgasm. It takes some practice but once it is mastered 4-5 orgasms are possible.
Reverse Psychology
A great technique that seems to work very well for me is the Reverse Psychology method. Previously to having sex I convince myself that I am going to have problems ejaculation.
doublelongdaddy;466082 said:Causes are mainly psychological, we fear or expect that we will have an issue an it manifests itself due to the thought process. The reasons are not as important as the solution. There are several ways youc an approach this. On the Matters of Size Member Site I have a few exercises that are based in a cognitive environment that will help you train you mind to think differently. These exercises will also help go for as long as you like, but you will need to master them. I personally can have sex for as long as I like and I fully control when I come. I accomplished this through the exercises I have on the members site. My gift to you is those exercises
Pre-Mature Ejaculation
Pre-Mature Ejaculation is something many men suffer with. I have found many different ideas in helping with this that I have included below. I do want to say that this problem will fade from simply doing my program. When most men, myself included, got familiar with manual penis enlargement exercise the problem just seems to fade. The reason this problem does go away is the constant stimulation of the exercises. This constant stimulus trains the penis to last longer and longer. Also mastering the thought process and changing the way we see things, or our perspective, you will be able to go for ever! In the mean time here are some great techniques.:
Becoming in touch with your orgasm
There is a very fine line between cuming and about to cum. making this distinction is the first step in having more staying power.
Identify your brink of orgasm
You will want to identify the fine line that separates cuming from about to cum. During this period pay special attention to what brings you almost to orgasm. What are your thoughts? How long does it take to get there? Keep Track of this information for future reference. The goal here is to paint a mental picture of your orgasm and identify just what brings you to this brink and what you can do to stop it.
Breathing to Reduce Excitement
Simply taking a deep breath at the brink of orgasm is a very effective way to reduce your excitement level and reset your orgasm. It does not work for everyone but it is worth trying.
Breathing to Reset Orgasm
When you feel that you are getting too close to orgasm, just completely stop and take a deep breath. Give yourself a minute or two to reset your mental orgasm. Once you feel that you have reset this mental orgasm continue with the confidence that the physical orgasm is far off. You will find with practice this process will give you longer and longer periods of staying power. Eventually this mental reset will happen automatically with no pause.
The Squeeze Techniques
When you feel close to your orgasm completely stop, pull out, take a deep breath and apply one of these two squeezing methods. One method usually works better for men than the other so try them both.
BASE SQUEEZE: at the brink of orgasm stop, take a deep breath. Using the OK grip squeeze the base of your penis and squeeze until the urge has faded.
UP SQUEEZE: at the brink of orgasm stop, take a deep breath. Using the forefinger and thumb squeeze the top and bottom of your penis just below the glans until the urge to orgasm has faded.
DLD Push
The DLD Push is a technique to prolong orgasm and remain erect after orgasm. This method involved a hard reverse kegel right at the brink of orgasm. It takes some practice but once it is mastered 4-5 orgasms are possible.
Reverse Psychology
A great technique that seems to work very well for me is the Reverse Psychology method. Previously to having sex I convince myself that I am going to have problems ejaculation.
i do all the breathing exercises already. i've been using those since i learned about it from reading the Sex God Method (really good book). i'm gonna try the reverse kegel next time i'm with my girl. as it is, i already know when i'm about to bust. i edge so i'm used to the feelings. it's just that once i get to a certain point i really can't stop. plus, i hate having to stop after every 10-20 strokes just to get it back down
i started doing Wendi Friesen's hypnosis for premature ejaculation and thought it was working. last weekend me and my girl got a little drunk and i fucked the shit out of her for an hour and some change but couldn't nut myself. i guess it was the drunk because we fucked today sober and it happened again! her pussy is so fucking tight and gets wetter than anything i've ever seen, so after just a few strokes i'm ready to blow. i think i might need to see a therapist haha
weak PC muscle...train it...
to much mastrubation in puberty? kegel and don't ask anymore.
Wonder what are the top causes of premature ejaculation?
Erectile dysfunction: This is the most common reason why men suffer from the causes premature ejaculation. It is where you struggle to get or maintain an erection, and it vastly contributes to premature ejaculation, too.
Sexual Dysfunction: Unlike erectile dysfunction, and not to be confused with it, is sexual dysfunction. This is defined in medical dictionaries as “The inability to fully enjoy sexual intercourse. Specifically, sexual dysfunctions are disorders that interfere with a full sexual response cycle. These disorders make it difficult for a person to enjoy or to have sexual intercourse. While sexual dysfunction rarely threatens physical health, it can take a heavy psychological toll, bringing on depression, anxiety, and debilitating feelings of inadequacy.”
Low libido: Depending upon age, some men may just have a very low sex drive. This can be due to the aging process, lack of hormonal production and even mindset. At the end of the day, however, it generally is one of the cause of premature ejaculation.
Poor sex drive: Some men just have a very low sex drive. This also can be one of the causes of premature ejaculation, as low sex drive generally means less hormones that your body is creating, which means you don’t last as long in bed.
Lack of sex: When you don’t have sex for long periods of time, it’s like not playing an instrument for years upon end. If you put down something that you once were really good at doing, chances are you will be a bit rusty when you pick it back up again. The same is true with sex and the causes of premature ejaculation.
Erectile dysfunction: This is the most common reason why men suffer from the causes premature ejaculation. It is where you struggle to get or maintain an erection, and it vastly contributes to premature ejaculation, too.
Sexual Dysfunction: Unlike erectile dysfunction, and not to be confused with it, is sexual dysfunction. This is defined in medical dictionaries as “The inability to fully enjoy sexual intercourse. Specifically, sexual dysfunctions are disorders that interfere with a full sexual response cycle. These disorders make it difficult for a person to enjoy or to have sexual intercourse. While sexual dysfunction rarely threatens physical health, it can take a heavy psychological toll, bringing on depression, anxiety, and debilitating feelings of inadequacy.”
Low libido: Depending upon age, some men may just have a very low sex drive. This can be due to the aging process, lack of hormonal production and even mindset. At the end of the day, however, it generally is one of the cause of premature ejaculation.
Poor sex drive: Some men just have a very low sex drive. This also can be one of the causes of premature ejaculation, as low sex drive generally means less hormones that your body is creating, which means you don’t last as long in bed.
Lack of sex: When you don’t have sex for long periods of time, it’s like not playing an instrument for years upon end. If you put down something that you once were really good at doing, chances are you will be a bit rusty when you pick it back up again. The same is true with sex and the causes of premature ejaculation.
Anxiety, Depression, Stress are the main causes. Other causes are thyroid disorders, a prostate or urethra infection, abnormal ejaculatory system reflex activity, nervous system damage from surgery or trauma or abnormal hormone or brain chemical levels. I recommend to do mental training to get rid of stress and to gain confidence and physical training like PC muscle, Kegel exercise to be able to control muscles before and during ejaculation.
Wouldn't a reverse kegel cause you to cum faster though, after all you are doing reverse kegels when you force out your pee. So if reverse kegels force out your piss shouldn't they force out your cum as well when you are about to bust a load.
AcidWitch420;567480 said:
Not in every case and it is a very delicate movement that is needed to make Reverse Kegels a formidable method of lasting longer and stopping the orgasm process. For me it is gentle kegel, kegel, kegel, then a reverse Kegel, in pulses...over and over. In this pulsing exercise between the two I find the ability to last forever. It did take practice of rhytHydromax and mantras to the positive like; "I can last forever" or "I am super man in the bed" Etc.
Here is a post in PEGym that talks about all possible causes of Pre E.
https://www.pegym.com/forums/premat...gnosing-cause-your-premature-ejaculation.html
https://www.pegym.com/forums/premat...gnosing-cause-your-premature-ejaculation.html
I know there are a lot of potential causes for premature ejaculation, as written in the article posted, but one that I don't see much about is on the acquired premature ejaculation front, specifically post SSRI.
SSRIs are typically used for treatment of major depressive disorder and anxiety disorders; however, they can be prescribed for premature ejaculation. As most guys who have been on an SSRI can tell you, they can delay ejaculation for hours at a time (sometimes to the point of not being able to ejaculate). This may sound good but it can become a problem all its on. A potential issue with these drugs can come from discontinued use in the form of acquired premature ejaculation. Think of it as an overcompensation to ejaculate while on the SSRI resulting in an increase in sensitivity and/or other stimulation needed to reach the PONR (this is not looking at any chemical changes to receptors or neurotransmitters). When use of an SSRI is discontinued, this overcompensation is not needed but can still be there (physically, mentally, or chemically) potentially causing acquired premature ejaculation.
My question for you guys: has anyone experienced acquired premature ejaculation from discontinuing SSRIs (or other drugs)?
SSRIs are typically used for treatment of major depressive disorder and anxiety disorders; however, they can be prescribed for premature ejaculation. As most guys who have been on an SSRI can tell you, they can delay ejaculation for hours at a time (sometimes to the point of not being able to ejaculate). This may sound good but it can become a problem all its on. A potential issue with these drugs can come from discontinued use in the form of acquired premature ejaculation. Think of it as an overcompensation to ejaculate while on the SSRI resulting in an increase in sensitivity and/or other stimulation needed to reach the PONR (this is not looking at any chemical changes to receptors or neurotransmitters). When use of an SSRI is discontinued, this overcompensation is not needed but can still be there (physically, mentally, or chemically) potentially causing acquired premature ejaculation.
My question for you guys: has anyone experienced acquired premature ejaculation from discontinuing SSRIs (or other drugs)?
chargains;724815 said:
The best to take is Wellbutrin. I have taken every possible SSRI and every one gave either libido or ejaculation issues. Wellbutrin causes none of this. It also has other benefits like weight loss and it also helps people quit smoking. I am on the best cocktail of medication I have even had and I have no issues or side effects.
Here is what I take:
Welburtin as an antidepressant
Serequel as an antipsychotic and sleep med
Lamictal as a mood stabilizer
Klonopin to help slow me down
These have literally saved my life. I was in hell with every other combination and I was hospitalized every year (for 14 years) I have been on this cocktail for 2 years and I have not been to the hospital in 2 years. Look into this as for me it has renewed my life!
doublelongdaddy;724997 said:
Its great that you found a drug combo that's working great for you. It can take years for people to find the right medications to help them, as you are a living testament to this fact.
Personally, during some of my darker days (mentally and emotionally) I felt like the walking dead with some of the meds I was on. I was able to get off of them for the most part, not without any post drug side effects though. Tapering off can only help so much with some of these. Glad to say that I have almost reached my first year med free and slowly recovering everyday.
chargains;725019 said:
Good for you! No one here or in the entire world wants me to go off my meds
Without these meds I am out of commission 6 months out off the year! I would never, ever think of stopping. I missed a few days and I started to feel like the old me and it sucked! It was great to experience this as it has kept my resolve strong with medication and counseling.
derekparle
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Here are some possible factors that can contribute to premature ejaculation:
- Psychological factors: Stress, anxiety, performance anxiety, relationship issues, or depression can all play a role in premature ejaculation. These factors can affect your sexual performance and contribute to a shorter duration of intercourse.
- Physiological factors: Certain physiological conditions may contribute to premature ejaculation. High blood pressure, as you mentioned, could potentially be a contributing factor. Other conditions such as hormonal imbalances, prostate problems, thyroid issues, or abnormal levels of neurotransmitters in the brain may also play a role.
- Sexual habits and conditioning: Rapid or infrequent sexual activity, as well as specific masturbation techniques, can inadvertently condition your body to ejaculate quickly. If you regularly rush through sexual experiences, your body may become accustomed to reaching climax quickly.
- Inexperience: Lack of sexual experience or inadequate knowledge about your own sexual responses may contribute to premature ejaculation. With time and practice, you may be able to improve your control.
- Genetics: Some evidence suggests that genetics may play a role in premature ejaculation. If it runs in your family, you may have a higher likelihood of experiencing it.
This is a pretty strange claim.
How do you even know if it runs in the family?
Excellent post! Thanks