Would you keep PE a secret from your GF or significant other?

CreampieLover89 · Mar 26, 2015

Hello Guys,

My question for you guys is would you keep PE a secret from your GF or significant other? Please give me honest responses!

My dilemma is that I am in a long distance relationship and I haven't seen her since I started PE a month ago, and I want to tell her when she notices a big difference in a few months! The problem is I told her I got a bathmate x30 back in January 2015 because I wanted to make my penis thicker so I could fill her up and stretch her out more. Well that didn't go to well and she said it was weird, creepy, and that it turned her off.

Thanks

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stillwantmore · Mar 26, 2015

I wish men would just be men and tell people they're in a relationship with about their PE. It's your penis. If you want to make it bigger, you don't need her approval.

tef1 · Mar 27, 2015

People usually don't have a problem with a guy wanting to lift weights and build up his muscles but because it is the penis they think it is weird or wrong to want to make it bigger. I agree, if you want to make your penis bigger then do it.

givemegirth · Mar 27, 2015

Girls love a big cock, they just don't like insecurity. Be happy and confident with what you have, and make it bigger. I am doing this for me, my wife gets the bonus. She does not know, but I am tired of hearing "You are perfect the way you are." Then I hit the bathmate right before sex and her eyes go crossed. Ha yeah right dear.

User182811 · Mar 27, 2015

Yeah, that probably wasn't the best course of action as I'm sure you now realize. Girls are REALLY stupid about shit (most of them anyway) and don't understand things like pe. If a girl notices you're bigger and asks about it then that's a different story but just volunteering that information out of the blue will turn off most girls.

I have been in a relationship with the same woman for 3 years and I've been doing pe for about 6 months and she doesn't know know but she totally knows something is up. She LOVES my dick after a bathmate session. She refers to it as big and fat and that it's "her dick" and all that good stuff but I don't know how she'd feel if she knew it was from pe. If she ever asks me for real or catches me in the act I'll tell her but otherwise I want to keep it my secret. Because GIRLS WILL ABSOLUTELY TELL EVERYONE YOU DO PE when you break up. That's just how they are.

Bacheelor · Mar 27, 2015

tb007;640301 said:
Yeah, that probably wasn't the best course of action as I'm sure you now realize. Girls are REALLY stupid about shit (most of them anyway) and don't understand things like pe. If a girl notices you're bigger and asks about it then that's a different story but just volunteering that information out of the blue will turn off most girls.

I have been in a relationship with the same woman for 3 years and I've been doing pe for about 6 months and she doesn't know know but she totally knows something is up. She LOVES my dick after a bathmate session. She refers to it as big and fat and that it's "her dick" and all that good stuff but I don't know how she'd feel if she knew it was from pe. If she ever asks me for real or catches me in the act I'll tell her but otherwise I want to keep it my secret. Because girls WILL ABSOLUTELY TELL EVERYONE YOU DO PE when you break up. That's just how they are.

Thank you for me bringing me todays first real laughter, yep they´re really emotionally stupid like no others, well maybe 3-5 yr old children

Off topic and on a side note about women. My best friend his ex gf has told people that my friend held her at home. The thing is she is passive, submissive and not as crazy & unique personality that she in her universe beliefs. So instead of owning up/admitting, she´s emotionally blaming him however she could have left anytime she wanted to go outside more, meet friends etc etc. The danger, the danger, can you see in front of you when she has said that to 5 - 6 different people? Since it´s slightly altered from ear to ear he´s now the neighborhoods Josef Fritzl who kept her against her will in the basement yada yada.

Conclusion: If you break up she will definitely tell EVERYONE that you´re doing PE, EVERYONE

Edit:

Women cant live with them cant live without them.

LONGERDICK7+ · Mar 27, 2015

The ladies wouldnt even know how to explain this to her friends,and very few guys will be able to keep pace whit this PE stuff,i have been exercising for years using my hands only i have had dissapointments,frustrations,downers,evenso i think about PE and i want to get bigger,I remember D words when i let him know about my gains when i started whit this 5.2incher to 7+bpel he was like wtf

Now i want to get way bigger took me years to get 7, i have had breaks,and didnt have enough understanding of how to have a good routine,its been trial and error,besides most of my routines were quite simple and still they are IMO,women how would they explain what is this PE stuff,They have no clue..We do this because we want to impress them we want them to enjoy a bigger dick,but if i had a lady and she tries to hurt me by letting her friend or whatevr know about PE,nothing could happen because PE is not that simple..its not only grabbing your penis and pulling forward until you get elongated because thats the way they understand it ......

LONGERDICK7+ · Mar 27, 2015

Yeah, that probably wasn't the best course of action as I'm sure you now realize. Girls are REALLY stupid about shit (most of them anyway) and don't understand things like pe. If a girl notices you're bigger and asks about it then that's a different story but just volunteering that information out of the blue will turn off most girls. True........

acromegaly · Mar 27, 2015

I have seen threads asking this same question a few times... it seems like the general consensus is don't rub PE in their face because it is not attractive, but if you are in a long term relationship you shouldn't be hiding things either. Basically its YOUR body do what YOU want, but don't look for the females approval its for YOU.

LONGERDICK7+ · Mar 27, 2015

yep i think they woudnt be able to understand that..if they dont want that.ok id continue anyway i think

Threak-X · Mar 27, 2015

PE is a Personal Endeavor for Personal Enhancement which will eventually affect others you are involved with intimately.

Two of the most common reasons that people keep secrets from their spouse or significant other is fear of losing or hurting their partner(s); or both. I don't think that's the case with your dilemma. You might want to think about your motivation for giving full-disclosure of doing PE before revealing your secret endeavor.

Aimingforthetop · Mar 28, 2015

It's generally not advised to attempt education a chip munk in rocket science.

On a serious note. They don't have a cock. They don't know how and why we do what we do.

And to admit that she wants a bigger penis is a betrayal of you. I have never had a girl who said she wasnt happy with my size. But i never heard complains about my size increase either.

I never had a girl who told me to workout more. But when i took a period of 3 mobth with hardcore training and dieting the most hippie girl with all these "i don't care about looks" statements. Started to get really freaky with me.

So ye don't tell them what you do. And when they notice it has grown just sot back smile and tell her it is happy to see her (chicks love that

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Aimingforthetop · Mar 28, 2015

Besides look up a female magazine:

"How do you make him want you more?"

"These exercises makes you tight as a virgin"

"How to make your boobs look 2 sizes bigger"

"How to get a flat tommy"

"Does he know you are cheating on him?"

Most articles for women is about sex temptation around sex or preparation to sex.

And yet they not understanding our need for improvement?

But then again. I don't wanna know the girls make up secrets. Why should i tell them mine

LONGERDICK7+ · Mar 28, 2015

Most articles for women is about sex temptation around sex or preparation to sex.

And yet they not understanding our need for improvement?

But then again. I don't wanna know the girls make up secrets. Why should i tell them mine

yep I love PE even at the end of the day im depleted stressed ntired i need some Exercise sometimes i have energy for 25 mins only and i cant say no...If the ladies r getting mad because we are getting bigger screw them (literally)LOL

stillwantmore · Mar 28, 2015

If they hid the fact they modified their body from you, would you be upset? If they wanted breast implants, but you didn't think they needed it, would you protest ?

owmaballs · Mar 28, 2015

stillwantmore2;640370 said:
If they hid the fact they modified their body from you, would you be upset? If they wanted breast implants, but you didn't think they needed it, would you protest ?

Yeah, but that's not quite equivalent. No one is looking to spend big on a cock 'enlargement' operation, or to get a cock-implant.

Now if my woman was spending hours making her boobs larger. Up to her. And two, that would be great... if it wasn't a move to get other sexual partners...
mmm...
that may be what is causing disquiet in the minds of a lot of partners when their man starts doing PE. What is he planning with this new cock?...

And on that point their concerns may yet prove valid.

acromegaly · Mar 28, 2015

women can do kegels and squats to get more powerful pelvic muscles, not much of a difference from what were doing

DLD · Mar 28, 2015

Personally I would keep it completely secretive. The last relationship I was in ended largely because of PE. In the beginning she loved it but eventually she became completely jealous and resentful and the woman I loved left me for good.

stillwantmore · Mar 28, 2015

owmaballs;640376 said:
Yeah, but that's not quite equivalent. No one is looking to spend big ona cock op, or to get a cock-implant.

Now if my woman was spending hours making her boobs larger. Up to her. And two, that would be great... if it wasn't a move to get other sexual partners...
mmm...
that may be what is causing disquiet in the minds of a lot of partners when their man starts doing PE. What is he planning with this new cock?...

And on that point their concerns may yet prove valid.

Actually many men spend $8,000-+$20,000 on plalloplasty including implants.

What is she planning with the new boobs, facelift, tummy tuck, etc? Moot argument, really.

owmaballs · Mar 28, 2015

stillwantmore2;640413 said:
Actually many men spend $8,000-+$20,000 on plalloplasty including implants.

What is she planning with the new boobs, facelift, tummy tuck, etc? Moot argument, really.

Plastic surgery in both genders is on the rise, but we are discussing a guy doing PE revealing it to his partner.

You agreeing that if a woman is getting work done she's maintaining her viability to get more lovers? She could be doing it to defend her position against younger or in better shape potential lovers of her man.

Would you keep PE a secret from your GF or significant other?

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