To me- PE is something sacred. We all do PE to improve ourselves- to be better men to our wives, to be able to give more pleasure to our partner(s), because sex is not only about making yourself feel good, it is about giving pleasure to the other half as well. There are many marriges that have been broken just because of something as "insignificant" as bed performance (well it looks like it is not SO insignificant, yea?). I believe it gives pleasure to both men (knowing that they can now pleasure their partners more- and knowing that you can make someone feel good is an AMAZING feeling, you feel USEFUL (yes, there are many people that feel somewhat "useless" and that is their main goal to PE), it is like the joyful feeling you get when you give someone the Christmas present he's been waiting for, it just warms your (my) heart) and women (now there has been A LOT of debate on whether penis size matters, but it actually does. It is true that the way you use it is mroe important, but it is like a tool- if a bad sword is in the hands of a great swordsman- the battle might be victorious, but if both the sword and the swordsman are great- then the outcome is obvious. It is not only size that actually makes women feel more pleasure sometimes- it is the level of "horniness". Women tend to be more turned on (aroused) by CONFIDENT men (and yes, this is the 2nd reason why I believe we all PE). Penis size DOES make us more confident, whatever people say- it is true! Many of the brothers around can confirm that once they have grown- they sure feel like they are the kings of the world (
!). Plus, confidence is NOT only important in bed- it is important outside of bed as well. We live in a world where any boss would pick only the most confident men to hire/promote. In our professional lives, in the bedroom (our private life), out on the street- basically, CONFIDENCE is a factor that is VITAL to one's being).I think you are right and these fall into your categories pretty well. Take a look at this:
Many people would question whether it is normal or not to do PE. We live in a world whereconfidence is really important for us. Confidence is a quality we posses that makes us be sure of ourselves- it means to have no uncertainty about our abilities and not questioning our actions. Once people start questioning their actions- they get unsure on whether they are right or not and therefore are unable to be productive. There is no boss that would hire a worker that he thinks is unproductive and there is no woman that would like the man next to her to be unproductive. This is why confidence is one of the qualities every man must have. Penis size is something men obsess over, just like women obsess over their weight, breast size, looks etc. This is why most men think their penises are not big enough to satisfy their partner or smaller than their friend’s penis they accidentally saw in the changing room which leads to the feeling of insecurity whether they are good enough. So, if penis size is as important to men, what about men, trying to improve their size and make themselves more confident is not normal? There are many women that go through breast enlargement surgeries, but the society does not judge their action as wrong- it is the exact opposite. So why should society put double standards on men?
This is how I feel, others may feel differently.