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The 90 day 2021 No Masturbation Challenge
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8 days! 1 week down another 11 to go.
Update: Have you ever had a dream that was so real when you woke you truly believed it to be a reality? Well this happened to me 2 evenings ago. I had a dream that I watched �naked people movies� and masturbated. The dream was so vivid that I was thinking, in the dream, that I need to go confess in the 90 day challenge! After I woke up and the fog cleared I realized it was only a dream! I was so overjoyed, so happy, so incredibly appreciative that it was a dream. I also love that I got to feel those terrible feelings of the fall again as it only made my resolve that much stronger!
Update: Have you ever had a dream that was so real when you woke you truly believed it to be a reality? Well this happened to me 2 evenings ago. I had a dream that I watched �naked people movies� and masturbated. The dream was so vivid that I was thinking, in the dream, that I need to go confess in the 90 day challenge! After I woke up and the fog cleared I realized it was only a dream! I was so overjoyed, so happy, so incredibly appreciative that it was a dream. I also love that I got to feel those terrible feelings of the fall again as it only made my resolve that much stronger!
I don't think I could do this unless I was having sex 3-4x a week every week. In the last year or so I've found out that once I get somewhere around day 9 or 10 without ejaculating I start getting very uncomfortable. It's not the mental sexual tension/frustration (I do get that but I can ignore it), it's an actual physical uncomfortable. Its like I can tell when my prostate needs to be emptied.
At 19 I went to boot camp so there was no masturbation for 90 days. I had 4 or 5 wet dreams but that was it. The day after graduation I was back home and hooked up with a girl. I was laying on top of her and she reached into my pants. As soon as she wrapped her hand around my throbbing erection and got about half a stroke I exploded the largest and one of the most intense loads of my life. It was all over her hand, belly, arm, and me.
We laughed about it once I caught my breath. She was very understanding which was pretty cool on her part.
At 19 I went to boot camp so there was no masturbation for 90 days. I had 4 or 5 wet dreams but that was it. The day after graduation I was back home and hooked up with a girl. I was laying on top of her and she reached into my pants. As soon as she wrapped her hand around my throbbing erection and got about half a stroke I exploded the largest and one of the most intense loads of my life. It was all over her hand, belly, arm, and me.
We laughed about it once I caught my breath. She was very understanding which was pretty cool on her part.
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growth?;727515 said:
Questions for me?
1. Why: Because I feel �naked people movies� is wrong. Masturbation, for me, is not possible without subjugating a woman in �naked people movies�.
2. LOL: Laughing out loud only makes my resolve stronger
3. IMHO, having sex has nothing to do with this, if you are having sex there is no need for masturbation and if you are loyal to your mate you would not watch �naked people movies�.
4. Edging is fine in this challenge, just no ejaculation or �naked people movies�.
doublelongdaddy;727537 said:
If you can't masturbate without �naked people movies� then yes, you certainly need a break from masturbation for a while.
Personally I don't think there's anything wrong with masturbating even if you're having sex regularly as long as it doesn't interfere with your sexual relationship with your partner. There have been times where I was having great sex every other day and thinking about my wife got me turned on to the point that I decided to masturbate. I was still able to perform with her when she wanted and there were no issues. To me that's more than okay because it was the thought of her that sparked everything in my head.
When you choose �naked people movies� and masturbation over sex with your partner there's a problem.
At least that's my opinion on masturbation when in a relationship. As for the �naked people movies� industry and what happens off camera, well, that's an entirely different discussion.
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cladre60;727565 said:
do tell
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cladre60;727565 said:
Very Important!
When you choose �naked people movies� and masturbation over sex with your partner there's a problem.
This thread is for those looking to stop watching �naked people movies� and stop masturbation. What others feel is right or wrong makes no difference in my mind as far as my own situation goes, everyone has their own reasons for stopping one or the other or both. For me, �naked people movies�, I feel is wrong and masturbation always leads to �naked people movies� or visa versa. Like I have said before, if you don't want to get screwed by the whore stay away from the corner!
9 days down!
Big Schwanz Acht;727566 said:do tell
Hardy har har. I'm talking about the bad parts of the industry.
doublelongdaddy;727568 said:
The part I like about this the most is how you say it's how YOU feel. You're not preaching and you're not demanding everyone agree with you. Instead you're opening up and allowing others to join you if they feel the same way. You may find someone who has a problem, needs help, and you're able to give them some moral support and someone to talk to.
And for that my hat is off to you. Sorry if I interrupted this thread and took it in a different direction.
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doublelongdaddy;727644 said:
I'm 2 days behind you...
doublelongdaddy;727643 said:
I need to start going to church again and talking to God more. Twice in the past year I asked for him to just show me which direction I need to go, I'll do the work and to get there but I felt like I was spinning and couldn't stop. The first time he answered me I didn't realize he had. A few months later I asked again and this time I realized he was showing me, in his way, what I need to do.
Have I done it yet? No, but I'm trying to get all the parts of it lined up so I can. It'll be a huge change in my life and a lot of struggles but should get me where I want to be in life.
Other than that I just try to live as a decent person. I know quite a few "good Christians" who are actually horrible people. Spiteful, vengeful, miserable people who wouldn't hesitate to step on your throat if it had a benefit to them. People like that kept me away from God for a long time because I was looking at things wrong. I'm glad I got that straightened out for myself. I've been happier ever since.
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cladre60;727701 said:
Jesus loves you so much and when you come to Him He always answers, you only need to recognize it. I suggest staying away from church and start to study the Gospels and Scriptures on your own allowing the Holy Spirit to direct you. Anything that is GOD's that man touches (religion) turns to evil. The ineffable words of God will always be truth. I would say that most Christians do not practice Christianity, they practice some convoluted version of a man's knowledge, not the knowledge of the Spirit of Truth. What I suggest is to take an hour, heck even a half hour in a private, comfortable place and quite your mind and your body and ask Jesus to come to you and just listen. He will speak to you and when you recognize this your life will change completely. I spend hours with Jesus everyday! What time I am not here, in the Brotherhood, I am praying and doing good works. The best reward is when I say something and it brings a response from the Lord to the one who needs it most! I will pray for you and that the Spirit of the Risen God come upon you and bless you with His adorable love.
doublelongdaddy;727808 said:
I was raised Catholic and it pushed me away from religion very hard. A few years ago I started going to a Christian church and changed my mind about things. I don't mind going to church. The one I was going to has a good pastor who makes sense to me. That alone makes a huge difference.
I do need to spend some time meditating on God so I can clear my mind and allow him to put in what I need.
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