The 90 day 2021 No Masturbation Challenge
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doublelongdaddy;729480 said:
I lost count...it was 2 days after the beginning of this challenge, I think.
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I was going to come and say I slipped but it was all a dream! Oddly, in the dream I was also smoking. Let me explain. I dreamed I was watching ���� and about to masturbate, I knew that if I went through with it I would feel terrible the next day. So as I was sitting there debating this I piked up a cigarette and lit it! I immediately said to myself in the dream, "I quit smoking!" and I put it out. I woke up thinking all this was true. What a gift to know it was a dream. oddly enough I still had some of the the feelings as if it happened and this eventually brought me to a frustrated state. It took a good ten minutes to see that the feelings inside had nothing to do with the things I was getting frustrated with, it was the lurking feelings of falling...even though it did not happen. Now this begs a positive application in the sense of visualization. If I had a dream and believed it to be so, it become so and I felt the corresponding feelings (negative, regretful, etc.) the same applies to the positive, if we can picture what we want to the point of believing it I thing it will come so much faster!
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Big Schwanz Acht;729583 said:
I 'blew' it on 3/30, so it's 27 days and counting...
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It's not exactly an apples-to-apples comparison...I have steady 'outlets' lol. I doubt I go more than 4/5 days between encounters, so having consistent 'releases' definitely make this challenge more attainable
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Big Schwanz Acht;729679 said:
Still, great work.
I am at 12 and on guard, this is about the time I have usually slipped. Having that dry dream last night was a kind of warning to keep my guard up. The second I think I have this mastered I give the enemy much ground and will end up slipping. It is most important, as time progresses, to get that guard up every second of the day because "the adversary, the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour"
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doublelongdaddy;729688 said:
maybe 'slip' inside a pretty girl? I'm sure that'll ease the pressure
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Big Schwanz Acht;729698 said:
All that penis and it's not destroying cervixes and coating them in pudding.
DLD I really hope the right woman comes along. One that'll make you forget about masturbation and the only thought of ���� is "why don't we make our own for ourselves?"
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cladre60;729706 said:All that penis and it's not destroying cervixes and coating them in pudding. QUOTE]
IKR?? All that 'talent' sittin' on the sidelines
Sam Kinison had a bit many years ago about John Holmes passing and he said "I guess we all just moved-up in line"...If Mike gets back into circulation, I guess we'd all move down one place, lol
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Big Schwanz Acht;729698 said:
Not going to happen
But it did sound nice I had another dry dream, this is 2 now and I am on day 13, this is exactly when I messed up last time. I need to really wear tat armor today! tomorrow is 2 weeks, I feel very accomplished in this.
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Big Schwanz Acht;729729 said:cladre60;729706 said:All that penis and it's not destroying cervixes and coating them in pudding. QUOTE]
IKR?? All that 'talent' sittin' on the sidelines
Sam Kinison had a bit many years ago about John Holmes passing and he said "I guess we all just moved-up in line"...If Mike gets back into circulation, I guess we'd all move down one place, lol
Sm was a blast!
Big Schwanz Acht;729729 said:cladre60;729706 said:
IKR?? All that 'talent' sittin' on the sidelines
Sam Kinison had a bit many years ago about John Holmes passing and he said "I guess we all just moved-up in line"...If Mike gets back into circulation, I guess we'd all move down one place, lol
He was something else. I remember when he died there was mixed sentiment because you either loved or hated him.
He had a bit about breast implants and how great they are and then a rampage about breast reduction. He said reduction was the same as a guy going to the doctor and saying "can you just chop the head off? I really wanna piss my wife off. Thanks!"
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prologik;729816 said:
I'd say this would be an admirable goal under a couple of caveats:
Masturbation is inhibiting you from living a full and abundant life and you have an wife/SO/whatever as a healthy outlet.
Mother Nature has designed you to have a regular sexual release and things become problematic when you start to argue w/Her
Just my $0.02
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Day 16. I had many dry dreams last night, I am hoping this comes to a head and I have a wet dream. I am not really feeling any pressure and need, it is only in my dreams I seem to be having issues and it is always the same two things sex and cigarettes! I have been off tobacco for about 8 weeks, at 90 days I should be 100% over it. Masturbation and ����, I have another 74 days (man does that look big!). Keep me in your prayers and help me make this goal!
Tobacco is a tough one. One time I quit I was on the patch for 2 months and was a total of 9 months tobacco free when I slipped. I tried to control it but within 2-3 months I was back to a pack a day.
I've been vaping for over 3 years and quit smoking over 2.5 years ago. It took over a year before I started to dislike the smell of cigarettes. Now it's getting to where I hate it. Still inhaling nicotine but at least I'm not smoking. Getting a handful of chemicals vs over 6k is a lot better.
I've been vaping for over 3 years and quit smoking over 2.5 years ago. It took over a year before I started to dislike the smell of cigarettes. Now it's getting to where I hate it. Still inhaling nicotine but at least I'm not smoking. Getting a handful of chemicals vs over 6k is a lot better.
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