One wife's opinion (sorry for long post)

deedee · Mar 1, 2006

I am recently unemployed so you might say I am a "bored housewife". With not much to do during the day or night, I have been visiting various websites to pass the time. I know that my husband visits here often, because I see him and he also from time to time wants me to see some of the pictures that guys post here.
Anyway, the last week I have been going through a lot of the present posts as well as archives, and I would like to give My opinion on penis size, if you don't mind.
I know that my husband is going to read this anyways and I am going to tell him that I am posting this. My husband posts as Kcee and is pretty much obsessed with his penis size. We have been married for over 20 years since we were teens. We have what I think is a great marriage and sex life, but I figured out pretty quick that he was obsessed with this subject. I am not real sure why, because he has a nice sized penis. He thinks it is sexy when I measure it, and he measures almost 7 inches long and is over 7 inches around. It is so big around that blow jobs hurt my jaw.
Anyway, he loves to get on the subject of penis size sometimes when we have sex and he loves to fantasize about me having sex with someone with a huge penis. I go along and it's kind of sexy but to tell the truth I could care less.
What I want to tell you guys is what REALLY turns ME on. In truth, I DO like looking at guy's dicks. I always have even when I was a little girl. I enjoy watching �naked people movies� films and looking at guys penises on the internet. But you know what...I like them all regardless of size. What turns me on is a hard on, regardless of size. When a guy gets a hardon, that turns me on.
My fantasy is that he is excited ABOUT ME! Now that is a turnon.
My favorite �naked people movies� movie that we ever rented started out in an alley where about 6 guys were masturbating (sp?) around this one beautiful girl. They were stroking their penises and slapping it on her butt. It turned me on so much. The rest of the movie was boring, but I LOVED that scene. It was all I needed to get hot. Now these guys had pretty big penises, but that wasn't what made it sexy to me. It was me putting myself in the place of that woman knowing that those guys were turned on by ME.
We both are somewhat of flirts when we go out. I wear sexy clothes to show off my body, and he dresses to impress as well. I also like it when a guy is in shape. My husband is a bodybuilder and I love to see his butt in jeans and to see his chest. He thinks that it is important to have a big bulge in his jeans, but that is not important to me...give me that butt!
I guess you can see that I don't have much to do with the long post and all, but I really would like to get the point across guys...don't stress about your dicks so much! I am writing this for my hubby as much as you guys (although there's not much hope that he will change on this subject).
I don't expect to post again here, but this does seem to be a pretty cool site in spite of the anxiety.

XXXXXDeeDee

ps I do admit sometimes when I am around my girlfriends that we talk about the subject! LOL

sasquatch · Mar 1, 2006

Thank's for the female insight.

Ya, quite a few of us are obsessed with our penis's and it has caused problems with my relationships. I try to keep my "interest" in Penis Enlargement under control but I can't stop coming back to MOS

Dick_Tracy · Mar 1, 2006

deedee said:
I am recently unemployed so you might say I am a "bored housewife". With not much to do during the day or night, I have been visiting various websites to pass the time. I know that my husband visits here often, because I see him and he also from time to time wants me to see some of the pictures that guys post here.
Anyway, the last week I have been going through a lot of the present posts as well as archives, and I would like to give My opinion on penis size, if you don't mind.
I know that my husband is going to read this anyways and I am going to tell him that I am posting this. My husband posts as Kcee and is pretty much obsessed with his penis size. We have been married for over 20 years since we were teens. We have what I think is a great marriage and sex life, but I figured out pretty quick that he was obsessed with this subject. I am not real sure why, because he has a nice sized penis. He thinks it is sexy when I measure it, and he measures almost 7 inches long and is over 7 inches around. It is so big around that blow jobs hurt my jaw.
Anyway, he loves to get on the subject of penis size sometimes when we have sex and he loves to fantasize about me having sex with someone with a huge penis. I go along and it's kind of sexy but to tell the truth I could care less.
What I want to tell you guys is what REALLY turns ME on. In truth, I DO like looking at guy's dicks. I always have even when I was a little girl. I enjoy watching �naked people movies� films and looking at guys penises on the internet. But you know what...I like them all regardless of size. What turns me on is a hard on, regardless of size. When a guy gets a hardon, that turns me on.
My fantasy is that he is excited ABOUT ME! Now that is a turnon.
My favorite �naked people movies� movie that we ever rented started out in an alley where about 6 guys were masturbating (sp?) around this one beautiful girl. They were stroking their penises and slapping it on her butt. It turned me on so much. The rest of the movie was boring, but I LOVED that scene. It was all I needed to get hot. Now these guys had pretty big penises, but that wasn't what made it sexy to me. It was me putting myself in the place of that woman knowing that those guys were turned on by ME.
We both are somewhat of flirts when we go out. I wear sexy clothes to show off my body, and he dresses to impress as well. I also like it when a guy is in shape. My husband is a bodybuilder and I love to see his butt in jeans and to see his chest. He thinks that it is important to have a big bulge in his jeans, but that is not important to me...give me that butt!
I guess you can see that I don't have much to do with the long post and all, but I really would like to get the point across guys...don't stress about your dicks so much! I am writing this for my hubby as much as you guys (although there's not much hope that he will change on this subject).
I don't expect to post again here, but this does seem to be a pretty cool site in spite of the anxiety.

XXXXXDeeDee

ps I do admit sometimes when I am around my girlfriends that we talk about the subject! LOL

Hey, welcome to the forum! I have been reading Kcee's posts for years here and I believe a few other places. You say you don't care about size much but do you think it might be an issue if your husband wasn't as thick as he is? It is easy to say you don't have a problem with his size but his girth is in the top .1%. Perhaps if he had an average or small size it might become an issue? What all is discussed amongst your girlfriends and how does it get brought up?

sasquatch · Mar 1, 2006

btw, has your husband (Kcee) always had big girth or did you start to notice it growing over time??

deedee · Mar 1, 2006

I said I wouldn't do this, but here I am. I will stay with this as long as this stays alive.
A very good question. I have not made love to that many men, but I have had a few. Size was really not an issue, because it is really not the intercourse that gives me the orgasm alone. I need plenty of stimulation, and then I like to be "finished off" with intercourse. If a guy knows how to give me the right stimulation, his penis will get the job done, if you know what I mean.
Kcee was not always as big around as he is now. I don't really know what happed the last few years, but he has gotten much bigger around. Truthfully, I ALWAYS liked the sex. I like to "mindfucked' as much as anything, (excuse the unladylike word!). I can't honestly say for sure if it brings me that much more pleasure physically.
This is bad, but the pleasure I get from his fat penis more than anything is showing pictures to my girlfriends. That's pretty bad isn't it? Oh, well, I told you I'm a a tease and a flirt.

DeeDee

sasquatch · Mar 1, 2006

I wish my dick was so fat that my gf showed of pics to her friends.

You are right that big size is'nt necessary for a fulfilling sexual relationship. The "mindfuck" remark is so true is'nt it.

sasquatch · Mar 1, 2006

So...Kcee wasn't always that thick around.

Looks like he's gonna have some explaining to do

thefranchise · Mar 1, 2006

Yea being 7x7 he's bigger than MOST �naked people movies� stars. Theres not too many �naked people movies� stars running around with 7 inch girth. So I can see how its not a concern of yours. Plus DeeDee is proving that most girls are infact attention whores (no offense). I've always said though majority of girls get off more dancing on tables at a club while everyones watching, than they do having sex.

Dick_Tracy · Mar 1, 2006

One question,

As a woman who has fucked a truly humongous girth, do you think this has stretched you out permanently? If you were able to enjoy an average ~5 inch girth penis before your husband do you think your ability to have a tight fit with said penis nowadays would be jeopardized?

spinner2 · Mar 1, 2006

Nice size? Wants to see you with huge ones?

7X7 is huge. Maybe the length would look small if he were a bodybuilder, but it's definitely NOT.

penguinsfan · Mar 1, 2006

Sounds like you enjoy the site of erections (so much for women aren't stimulated visually) because of the aspect of you love a man being turned on by you. Sounds like you have a good marriage and sex life, so enjoy it. Kcee's size is far above average, so again enjoy it.

joey_styles · Mar 1, 2006

sasquatch said:
Thank's for the female insight.

Ya, quite a few of us are obsessed with our penis's and it has caused problems with my relationships. I try to keep my "interest" in Penis Enlargement under control but I can't stop coming back to MOS

Me eather bro. I Been to manny diffrent sites but I always wide up back here.
I don't bleave we are the only ones obsessed with penis size, woman are very obsessed also if you don't belive me google up "size Queens" many woman are looking for the big one, "And.. it has to be ME.."

deedee · Mar 1, 2006

Wow. It looks like I started something here. Sorry it has taken me so long to get back to this, but I have been out job hunting. I will try to answer some of your questions, which I find interesting. I am really trying to understand this whole penis size thing with guys.

1) No, I don't think that I am permanently stretched out from kcee. Reason? I have to be VERY well lubricated now just to take him in. Does it feel better than with the thinner guys that I have had? I can't say for sure.
Blowjobs for sure aren't as much fun. I used to be able to get almost all of him in my mouth, now just the head. He has to be soft to get it in.

2) Franchise: I LOVED your comment about girl's would rather dance on the table. NO DOUBT ABOUT THAT! I am a HUGE flirt. Nothing turns me on more than dressing in a low cut dress and going clubbing. At my age, it turns me on seeing young guys give me glances.

3) Penguinsfan: You know, I think that I really do enjoy the site of a man's erection, regardless of size. That, and that alone, is the sign that a man is turned on, and what can be sexier than that?

4) In closing, your comments about kcee being bigger than average is nice. But the only reasone that I think that is because I really wish that HE COULD BELIEVE THAT. I maybe think that part of it is that when he doesn't have an erection, it looks very average. He won't even let me see him sometimes when he is soft. Is that a laugh?

5) The last comment about us having a good relationship is SO TRUE. We love each other so much and have never been with anyone else in over 20 years. We have a tremendously exciting and fulfilling sex life. We may flirt and fantasize a bit, but in the end, it's just us. I wish the same for each and every one of you great guys.

DeeDee XXXXXX

ps kcee hasn't said anything yet. I haven't told him about this. I am probably in BIG TROUBLE!

thenewguy · Mar 1, 2006

my girlfriend tells me that penis size is not important. i held up my pinky and said "what about this?", and she said she would love it. i believe her, but with all the hype about big d's i get frustrated thinking about it. i know she wouldn't lie to me, but i know that there are girls out there that say things to the one's they love so they won't hurt they're feelings.

luckily, i am 5.5"x4.5", now i know its not above average, but she loves it. we spent about an hour and 15 minutes "doin' the nasty"

the other night and i know she loved it. i took my time and really showed her that i love her and everything i have is for her, and i know that adds to what she gets out of it.

it seems though that after a while it wasn't hard to get in and that to me makes me wonder about my girth. would she like it better if i where 5" or 5.5" in girth? she may, but the fact is, she probably doesn't care.

after telling her about pe and hearing her ask me "why do you care so much about it? it is fine!", i know that if she ever wanted any more mass inside of her she could come to me about it. so, i'm really not worried about her going behind my back because she knows it is something that i can change if i work hard at it.

i wish i could say that all girls like their boyfriends or husbands penises just because it is theirs, but that's probably not true. however, probably a lot more girls than we guys think love it just the way it is. there are other factors that get girls going rather than just the numbers.

kcee · Mar 1, 2006

Okay. DeeDee is so busted!

kcee

penguinsfan · Mar 2, 2006

kcee said:
Okay. DeeDee is so busted!

kcee

Punish her with 7 inches! lol

bIgjOe · Mar 2, 2006

thenewguy said:
my girlfriend tells me that penis size is not important. i held up my pinky and said "what about this?", and she said she would love it. i believe her, but with all the hype about big d's i get frustrated thinking about it. i know she wouldn't lie to me, but i know that there are girls out there that say things to the one's they love so they won't hurt they're feelings.

luckily, i am 5.5"x4.5", now i know its not above average, but she loves it. we spent about an hour and 15 minutes "doin' the nasty" the other night and i know she loved it. i took my time and really showed her that i love her and everything i have is for her, and i know that adds to what she gets out of it.

it seems though that after a while it wasn't hard to get in and that to me makes me wonder about my girth. would she like it better if i where 5" or 5.5" in girth? she may, but the fact is, she probably doesn't care.

after telling her about pe and hearing her ask me "why do you care so much about it? it is fine!", i know that if she ever wanted any more mass inside of her she could come to me about it. so, i'm really not worried about her going behind my back because she knows it is something that i can change if i work hard at it.

i wish i could say that all girls like their boyfriends or husbands penises just because it is theirs, but that's probably not true. however, probably a lot more girls than we guys think love it just the way it is. there are other factors that get girls going rather than just the numbers.

Congrats on the great girl man.
A thought occurred to me while reading your post that I want to voice before I forget. I keep hearing stories of girls who genuinely don't seem to care about penis size. Then there are guys on here who are here because of the hurtful remarks girls have said about penis size. I know this difference could be debated to death on who the majority is, but my point is our society has a knack for focusing on the negative. You know the old saying that when a hurricane hits the South they never interview a Southern doctor or Lawyer, they always manage to find the fat lady wearing a mu-mu with curlers in her hair and sponge rollers in her hand. Therefore the South is portrayed as a bunch of illitereate yahoos. Perhaps thats where alot of this is coming from. Like that song, I think it was Lil' Kim who had it in her lyrics: "under 7 inches...sorry". The problem with this kind of thinking in our media is that it is poisoning the minds of younger girls who try to live up to their MTV idols. I believe someone actually posted here a long time ago about his 12 year old daughter soliciting sex on the internet, but only with someone with a penis of 7 inches or more. Wow if that isn't a startling clue as to the mentality thats being stirred around the hallways of freakin' MIDDLE SCHOOLS then I don't know what is. So while logic would dictate to most rational women that penis size doesn't really matter, the negative element is making itself better known, and making girls who would otherwise be rational women believe that it is the normal way to be. Take from all of that what you will. I decided some time ago that I'm doing this for myself, and not any woman, and I will go on with it with or without anyone's approval.

deedee · Mar 3, 2006

I'm back for another round. Couldn't find a job so I have insomnia. I saw kcee's post about being "so busted". Yeah, right!
Anyway, the last post is just what I was thinking about in relation to this thread. I believe that our society believes whatever it hears or reads without thinking too much.
For whatever reason you hear so much about "size matters" in commercials, tv shows, etc. now where you never did years ago. It conditions everyone to think that, when in reality, there is no real evidence behind it.
I have always heard that if you believe something is so, it is. So I believe that some people for whatever meansprited reason try to perpetuate it.
I challenge anyone to prove that a girl can feel anything that much different if there's an inch more of flesh. I'm sorry. I don't believe it.
But like some guys are the same way, they feel if a girl isn't built a certain way, she is not desirable. Come on, there's got to be more to life than that!
One wife's opinion.

DeeDee

indysoccer16 · Mar 3, 2006

well size does matter is the guys version of girls have to look like super models in order to be sexy. I am doing Penis Enlargement for myself and recently told my girl and she was kind of wierded out, well not kind of more like really. She was like its not wierd you want a bigger one, its just wierd that you are that obsessed with it.

deedee · Mar 3, 2006

I understand how she feels because I have one at home that is the same way. It seems that no amount of reassurance will ever let him forget about it.

DeeDee

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