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- Apr 29, 2006
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- 101
When I was doing daily pe, and really working it, I had a softer erection. I don't think the smoking helps, but the soft dick is because the tissues are tired. After a break from pe it will be hard as ever, I'm sure.
Smoking: I started smoking at the age of 14. I tried quitting a few times during my 20s and 30s, but usually went back to smoking after a week or two. THe problem was always that I'd meet friends in the pub, have a few drinks, then I just HAVE to ask someone for a cigarette. It was always most difficult to resist when someone would start rolling one in front of me. I love the smell of the tobacco, the feeling of rolling the thing, the licking of the paper, etc. etc. It's a kind of calming ritual. I KNEW that I was damaging my health, and I didn't even enjoy each cigarette. I finally quit when my wife and I had a baby. I didn't want him to grow up in with smoking parents. He's 15 now and has no intention of even trying a smoke. What made it easy to eventually quit was keeping away from other smokers - that was of course made easy by wanting to be at home with my wife and baby, plus a change at work which meant that I no longer spent all day working alongside other smokers.
If you are single, it's even harder to quit, as you do your socializing in bars, etc. and those are traditionally smoking environments. I don't think you'll find it easy to quit until you change your social habits, but it is not impossible. Nicotine patches can take the chemical carving away. You are then left with the behavior habit to shale off. And people can do that - even when they spend time with other smokers. Keep trying.
I have to say, I like the sound of your red light district girl. I have often thought I should pop over to Amsterdam for the weekend sometime. But I have been put off by worrying about being ripped off. Is it easy enough to get a good experience in the red light district, or do you think you have to be shown how by someone with experience?
Best of luck with the quitting.
Smoking: I started smoking at the age of 14. I tried quitting a few times during my 20s and 30s, but usually went back to smoking after a week or two. THe problem was always that I'd meet friends in the pub, have a few drinks, then I just HAVE to ask someone for a cigarette. It was always most difficult to resist when someone would start rolling one in front of me. I love the smell of the tobacco, the feeling of rolling the thing, the licking of the paper, etc. etc. It's a kind of calming ritual. I KNEW that I was damaging my health, and I didn't even enjoy each cigarette. I finally quit when my wife and I had a baby. I didn't want him to grow up in with smoking parents. He's 15 now and has no intention of even trying a smoke. What made it easy to eventually quit was keeping away from other smokers - that was of course made easy by wanting to be at home with my wife and baby, plus a change at work which meant that I no longer spent all day working alongside other smokers.
If you are single, it's even harder to quit, as you do your socializing in bars, etc. and those are traditionally smoking environments. I don't think you'll find it easy to quit until you change your social habits, but it is not impossible. Nicotine patches can take the chemical carving away. You are then left with the behavior habit to shale off. And people can do that - even when they spend time with other smokers. Keep trying.
I have to say, I like the sound of your red light district girl. I have often thought I should pop over to Amsterdam for the weekend sometime. But I have been put off by worrying about being ripped off. Is it easy enough to get a good experience in the red light district, or do you think you have to be shown how by someone with experience?
Best of luck with the quitting.
