Loss of EQ, can't get 100% hard, NEED HELP!!!

Hi guys! here's my story. I used to have random rock hard erections all day long, but after taking antidepressor for 3 months, I can't get 100% hard anymore and have EQ problems. So like I said, I used to have rock hard erections, but I took an antidepressor from september to december 2017 and since then, things got worst. The first month after stopping medication, I couldn't get an erection. It was as if my penis was dead, not even able to do a kegel. On top of that, I had premature ejaculation. I couldn't hold myself even before the PONR. I started masturbating and way before the PONR, I just came without even feeling it, it was weird. Now, I can do a kegel but can't hold it for more than 2-3 secs. I do get random erections like I used to have, but I'm not 100% hard. When I kegel, It feels hard but when I touch it, it's like 80% hard. Even when I have sex, I only get 100% hard for like 10-20 secs and then its around 80% and I can bent my penis which is not good. I don't have premature ejaculation anymore, I can fuck for as long as I want, but during a 20-30 minutes session, I can't stay hard. I goes from 100% to 80, then back to 100% and so on. It's not cool and I can't stop thinking about it during sex . What can I do to get back to 100% and stay erect longer like I used to be? I did some stretching, kegels and jelquing but it doesn't help.

thanks a lot guys.

Have you had your hormone levels checked? What other symptoms are you displaying which might indicate an imbalance- like fatigue, increased anxiety, lowered libido, etc.?

I think you should keep doing the kegel and give yourself some time. Also see a doctor.

Big Al;764388 said:

Have you had your hormone levels checked? What other symptoms are you displaying which might indicate an imbalance- like fatigue, increased anxiety, lowered libido, etc.?

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well.... I was on steroids from march to july and I did a blood test and my hormones are debalanced but the problem was way before march so I know it's not the steroids who did that.

huge-girth;764450 said:

I think you should keep doing the kegel and give yourself some time. Also see a doctor.

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should I do quick kegels or hold it for as long as I can. Also do you do your kegels while erect or soft, because it's easier to do it while erect. I don't feel it while im soft.

split98;764457 said:

should I do quick kegels or hold it for as long as I can. Also do you do your kegels while erect or soft, because it's easier to do it while erect. I don't feel it while im soft.

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Doing it erect or soft doesn't matter but hold it as long as possible.

huge-girth;764570 said:

Doing it erect or soft doesn't matter but hold it as long as possible.

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Makes absolutely no difference. The only thing that would increase the intensity of Kegels is doing weighted Kegels where you become erect and drape a wet cloth over your penis so the is weight and then do Kegels from there.

split98;764456 said:

well.... I was on steroids from march to july and I did a blood test and my hormones are debalanced but the problem was way before march so I know it's not the steroids who did that.

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What were your hormone levels like before?

That may be the case- though the steroid use may not have helped manners if you didn't follow up with hormonal restorative measures. IMO you should seek out the assistance of an endocrinologist at your earliest convenience.

doublelongdaddy;764600 said:

Makes absolutely no difference. The only thing that would increase the intensity of Kegels is doing weighted Kegels where you become erect and drape a wet cloth over your penis so the is weight and then do Kegels from there.

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What type of benefit can one get from this type of Kegel?

huge-girth;764652 said:

What type of benefit can one get from this type of Kegel?

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A weighted Kegel will increase the strength of your pelvic floor muscles much more than without. Some use a small book draped over their penis. Anything that adds weight increases strength.

doublelongdaddy;764716 said:

A weighted Kegel will increase the strength of your pelvic floor muscles much more than without. Some use a small book draped over their penis. Anything that adds weight increases strength.

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Noted.

Big Al;764609 said:

What were your hormone levels like before?

That may be the case- though the steroid use may not have helped manners if you didn't follow up with hormonal restorative measures. IMO you should seek out the assistance of an endocrinologist at your earliest convenience.

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Same Question for Split

Big Al;764609 said:

What were your hormone levels like before?

That may be the case- though the steroid use may not have helped manners if you didn't follow up with hormonal restorative measures. IMO you should seek out the assistance of an endocrinologist at your earliest convenience.

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I did a blood test and my estrogen is very high. I read that high estrogen can cause ED so it might be the cause. Also, when I get hard, I can't keep an erection for more than a minute ou two and I'm not 100% hard. When I do kegels, I can't hold it for more than 2-3 secs too. What can I do to stay erect longer and get rock hard erections?

I have another question for you guys. I have a problem with penis sensitivity. When I fuck, I don't feel anything. Same with a blowjob, can't really tell that my gf is giving me a blowjob if my eyes are closed. what can I do to retrive sensitivity?

I'd talk to an endocrinologist. Rather than a standard MD. If your estrogen is too high, there's not much PE can do.

Why does estrogen have anything to do with it? I’ve never heard this, do you have an article Still?

That's what I've always heard. Low testosterone and high estrogen equals poor erections.

split98;765078 said:

I did a blood test and my estrogen is very high. I read that high estrogen can cause ED so it might be the cause. Also, when I get hard, I can't keep an erection for more than a minute ou two and I'm not 100% hard. When I do kegels, I can't hold it for more than 2-3 secs too. What can I do to stay erect longer and get rock hard erections?

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You're going to need to get the estrogen issue resolved. Once you obtain a cause and begin to reverse the issue, you can work towards restoring your potency with stamina specific exercises- like Erect Kegels and edging (Stop and Starts).

stillwantmore2;765106 said:

That's what I've always heard. Low testosterone and high estrogen equals poor erections.

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This is like a negative double whammy against potency, muscle mass, assertiveness, and other masculine traits.

split98;765079 said:

I have another question for you guys. I have a problem with penis sensitivity. When I fuck, I don't feel anything. Same with a blowjob, can't really tell that my gf is giving me a blowjob if my eyes are closed. what can I do to retrive sensitivity?

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This is very strange to me. I suggest you take the advice given to you here.