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dongers said:
I know that women's preferences on cock size is a topic that has been done over about a zillion times on this site. However we never really get a clear answer.
On the one hand you have the big guys with there 8 x 6.5 cocks telling us that they are giving women orgasms and making women moan in ways simply not possible with a smaller schlong. This may be true but I can't help being a little dubious after all if a big guy has great sex he will more than likely put it down to his size. I am not smal but neither am I huge at around 7"bp and 5.50 EG midshaft and close to 6" EG right at the base and I have given women intense vaginal orgasms and felt like I was filling them up... To the point where I can imagine something a lot bigger would be down right uncomfortable. It's certainly true that there are anecdotal stories of amazing sex from guys of all sizes from small to huge on this site. Can we base too much on anecdotal stories from big guys?
The other evidence we have for optimum size is what women tell us. And this is confusing too. Some women say it matters not at all while others say it is hugely important. The problem is it is such a sensitive, powerful issue that women innevitably end up lying one way or another to suit a variety of ends. As guys we decide whether we think they are being truthful to suit our own paranoid/insecure or arrogant/egotistical tendencies also.
Step in Adult friendfinder. Some of you may be aquainted with this site, most I suspect are not. Essentially it is a dating site without the romance. It is a site specifically geared to hook sexually open individuals up for fun. It's not about finding a life partner or even necessarily someone you particularly get on with. It is primarily about finding someone you can enjoy physical pleasure with. Now this is amazing because you can read a woman's advert and find out exactly what they are looking for in a sexual partner and specifically if penis size factors. Me being a complete psycho stayed up all night reading through 100s of adverts and jotting down the number that made reference to wanting a well endowed man. Guess what... Just 6% of women included a large penis as criteria for a casual lover. In contrast being good looking, in shape and passionate came up again and again... Now these were by and large, experienced women advertising exclusively for sex and penis size was only an issue for a minority. Most profiles were anonamous with a body but no face pick so it was not like they needed to hide their secret size queen tendencies from people they new. Nor was it the case that they did not want to upset people because they were very clear about the criteria that did matter to them 'no fatties' etc.
Makes you wonder how much a woman's physical pleasure is related to penis size... Or rather whether the huge 8" x 6" + is way beyond the optimum for the magority of girls. Maybe the average is 6" x 5" for a reason...
I know that women's preferences on cock size is a topic that has been done over about a zillion times on this site. However we never really get a clear answer.
On the one hand you have the big guys with there 8 x 6.5 cocks telling us that they are giving women orgasms and making women moan in ways simply not possible with a smaller schlong. This may be true but I can't help being a little dubious after all if a big guy has great sex he will more than likely put it down to his size. I am not smal but neither am I huge at around 7"bp and 5.50 EG midshaft and close to 6" EG right at the base and I have given women intense vaginal orgasms and felt like I was filling them up... To the point where I can imagine something a lot bigger would be down right uncomfortable. It's certainly true that there are anecdotal stories of amazing sex from guys of all sizes from small to huge on this site. Can we base too much on anecdotal stories from big guys?
The other evidence we have for optimum size is what women tell us. And this is confusing too. Some women say it matters not at all while others say it is hugely important. The problem is it is such a sensitive, powerful issue that women innevitably end up lying one way or another to suit a variety of ends. As guys we decide whether we think they are being truthful to suit our own paranoid/insecure or arrogant/egotistical tendencies also.
Step in Adult friendfinder. Some of you may be aquainted with this site, most I suspect are not. Essentially it is a dating site without the romance. It is a site specifically geared to hook sexually open individuals up for fun. It's not about finding a life partner or even necessarily someone you particularly get on with. It is primarily about finding someone you can enjoy physical pleasure with. Now this is amazing because you can read a woman's advert and find out exactly what they are looking for in a sexual partner and specifically if penis size factors. Me being a complete psycho stayed up all night reading through 100s of adverts and jotting down the number that made reference to wanting a well endowed man. Guess what... Just 6% of women included a large penis as criteria for a casual lover. In contrast being good looking, in shape and passionate came up again and again... Now these were by and large, experienced women advertising exclusively for sex and penis size was only an issue for a minority. Most profiles were anonamous with a body but no face pick so it was not like they needed to hide their secret size queen tendencies from people they new. Nor was it the case that they did not want to upset people because they were very clear about the criteria that did matter to them 'no fatties' etc.
Makes you wonder how much a woman's physical pleasure is related to penis size... Or rather whether the huge 8" x 6" + is way beyond the optimum for the magority of girls. Maybe the average is 6" x 5" for a reason...